Volume 1 The Year of the Bundle of Hair Chapter 65 Whose Bowl Is Served?

"Uncle, why are you here?" Chen Jie went over to say hello.

"I'm running errands with my friends from the insurance company." Jiang Dahai's voice was very brisk, and he sounded in a good mood.

"Insurance companies? Yesterday's events are in sight? Gao Geli was naturally referring to the 800,000 compensation.

Jiang Dahai smiled comfortably and asked back: "Do you know what that grandson is doing?" ”

Seeing the two shaking their heads, Jiang Dahai continued: "I didn't expect it, that grandson is a second-generation demolition, and he has N suites at home!" ”

It's only been one night, and Jiang Dahai has got the details of other people? Chen Jie was puzzled and hurriedly asked, "Uncle, how do you know so clearly?" ”

Jiang Dahai smiled and replied:

"Coincidentally, a friend of mine violated the rules last night, and he happened to be in the traffic police brigade, and today I chatted and said that I met an acquaintance last night, isn't it him when I hear it!"

"My friend usually likes to play two, and the grandson is a mah friend, the two have played a few times, and he thinks your neighbor's gambling is too big, so he didn't play together."

"He also told me about the demolition of the second generation, and my uncle had a good relationship with the insurance company, so he said a lot to wake up, it's okay today, and take them to recognize the door by the way."

"Oh, that's right." Chen Jie muttered, "It's really worth making friends with you, worrying about everything, this is too responsible!" ”

"That's it!" Jiang Dahai looked proud.

Gao Geli likes cars, and he knows a little bit about car insurance, and after listening to Jiang Dahai's rhetoric, he said: "In my impression, the debt collection process takes a long time, yesterday's loss assessment, today's door-to-door, this speed is too fast, right?!" ”

"No, no!" Jiang Dahai sneered, "Do you know how much foreign debt this thing owes?!" If the insurance company doesn't race against time, all other creditors will run away! ”

Gao Geli smiled and gloated: "Dare to love is a loser." ”

Jiang Dahai saw that Chen Jie was sullen again, so he hugged his shoulders and comforted: "Okay, a loser like him can't help him, no matter how many ancestors there are, sooner or later he will be scattered, who is not to give it?" ”

After speaking, he sent the two of them away: "I'm fine here, you can go back." ”

When they all arrived at the door of the house, Chen Jie inevitably asked more: "Uncle, why don't you go up and sit?" ”

Jiang Dahai hurriedly smiled and waved his hand, and replied: "Forget it, let your father know about this, it's strange if you don't scold us two bloody heads!" ”

Chen Jie thought about it, so he said, "Then let's wait until the wind is over...... Uncle, then you are busy, let's go back first. ”

"Well, go ahead, don't worry about me."

The speaker has no intention, but the listener has the intention. Chen Jie's invitation Jiang Dahai was not at ease, but Gao Geli listened to it all.

Gao Geli couldn't hide it, and since he thought of it, he wanted to ask for clarification, and he said, "Hey, isn't your father not hospitable?" I want to go over and obstruct you in every possible way, why didn't Uncle Haizi open his mouth and you took the initiative to invite?! ”

"Yo, wait for me here?" Chen Jie smirked, slightly embarrassed.

Gao Geli pretended to be calm and replied: "It's nothing, just ask." ”

Just ask? Don't be funny! Chen Jie knows that if this issue is not taken seriously, the boat of friendship will be overturned.

If you change someone else, Chen Jie can be perfunctory, his concept is incompatible with his peers, if you meet someone and have to explain it again, wouldn't you be tired to death?

But Gao Geli is different, Chen Jie treats him as a friend, if he doesn't untie the knots in the former's heart, Gao Geli will definitely not be happy.

Chen Jie didn't want his friends to be unhappy, so he was willing to make it clear, and he had to make it clear!

"I can explain this." Chen Jie smiled, just now he was still urging Gao Geli to hurry up, but now he is not in a hurry.

"Listen up." Gao Geli was aggrieved in his heart, and the score was well placed.

"Strictly speaking, Uncle Haizi is my father's friend, so the question just now is my landlord's friendship for his old man." Chen Jie's words changed, "And you are different, you are my friend." ”

The relationship was clear, he thought that Gao Geli could understand, but who knew that the latter was even more confused when he heard it, and his anger became bigger.

Gao Geli had a question mark on his face and replied: "Classmate Chen Jie, I don't care who is whose friend." All I know is that if you're going to chat like that, you're going to have no friends sooner or later! Do I deserve to be inferior because I'm your friend?! ”

"Oops, it's split, it's split...... Blame me for not making it clear. Chen Jie hurriedly waved his hand, "Have you heard that sentence?" Whose bowl is served, whose pipe is served. ”

Gao Geli was unhappy, but he never let go of his own work, he asked, "So what?" What are you trying to express? ”

Chen Jie took a deep breath and replied:

"It seems raw to say this, but it is a fact, this family is run and run by my father. To put it mildly, I'm under the fence, but this person happens to be my father. To put it bluntly, what I serve now is my father's bowl, and all my needs for survival are due to his old man. ”

"So what?"

Thinking that father and son have depended on each other for more than ten years, Chen Jie was a little emotional, he said:

"My dad isn't very controlling, but I still have to obey him."

"Because he is my father, in addition to obeying his control, I have to think more for him, just like you have to think about your father, I also have to think about his body."

"My dad has a nervous breakdown and doesn't sleep very well, so he doesn't like to move. In order to lighten his burden, I basically did not bring my classmates to my home. ”

"You've seen my state in junior high school, you should know that I didn't lie to you, I was alone at the time, and there was a reason for this. But when I have a home of my own, you are more than welcome. ”

At this point, Gao Geli's knot has changed from a dead knot to a slipknot, but it is not completely untied.

"That's understandable...... "Hey, no, if that's the case, then you have to treat everyone equally!" Uncle Haizi, didn't you invite you the same? ”

When people talk about their feelings, they will always seem mature, Chen Jie smiled at the moment, like a person who came over, he said:

"Uncle Haizi seems to love to mess around, but in fact, he knows how to behave in the world."

"He and my dad are old acquaintances, and they know that my dad has a nervous breakdown, except for visiting him during the New Year's holidays, there is usually no urgency, and he will not come to the door easily. So I know that even if I invite him today, there is a high probability that he will not come. ”

Gao Geli seemed to grab his pigtails, and teased with a sneer: "Oh~~~~, you call it fake politeness!" ”

Knowing that Chen Jie was not sincerely invited, Gao Geli's grievances were completely smoothed out and disappeared......

Fake polite hat, Chen Jie did not agree, explained:

"I can't say that, we can only say that we all know the result in our hearts, but we still have to express our hearts."

"Actually, my dad is like me, he doesn't have many friends, but I know that he treats Uncle Haizi as a friend, so my invitation represents my dad, and it is sincere."

"And Uncle Haizi's refusal is not only for me, but also for my father."

"In the same way, my previous refusal of you to visit the door was for my father's consideration, but if he meets you on the street, even if he doesn't like to make a fuss, but from my point of view, he will definitely invite you into the house to sit, a reason."

Hearing this, Gao Geli realized: "This is the so-called so-called sophistication of human feelings......

What should be said, what should not be said is not said, human feelings are only one thing, and the second is that Chen Jie didn't say it - he needs to be alone.

At an age when he doesn't have to think about interests, Chen Jie doesn't need to expand his relationships to achieve personal goals, his life is very fulfilling, and he doesn't need to call friends to relieve loneliness, and his social needs are not strong.

At the age of 15, as long as he has books to read, he can live a good life.

Unlike socializing, solitude is the life that Chen Jie really enjoys, and if this little pleasure is deprived, life will be boring.

Everyone has a Pure Land that needs to be guarded.

Chen Jie's Pure Land is home!

If you want to be kind to others, you must first be kind to yourself, the only pleasure, Chen Jie is unwilling to sacrifice, friends want to do it for a long time, and the bottom line of each other is better to know as soon as possible.

Wronging oneself to fulfill others, you can do it occasionally in special periods, but it is not sustainable after a long time. In the world, one should neither wronged oneself nor others, this is not what is said in books, but what Chen Jie observed.

Asking for something to do things in the wine field, you must always show sincerity, even if you can't drink enough, you must also drink out the momentum of seeing death as home, only sincerity arrives, others are willing to do things, the more you drink and vomit blood, the more you drink into the hospital, the more happy the other party is, the more willing to make you a friend.

On the surface, it seems that the people who do things are not close to people, but you must also know that most of the things that ask for people on this occasion violate principles, and you want me to make an exception, how can I do it without suffering a little? !

Seeking an exception through self-harm, is the friend really long-lasting in exchange for this way? In Chen Jie's view, this kind of friend is just an exchange of interests, the wine is dry, the business is done, and the relationship is slowly fading.

Friends, if you want to last a long time, the friendship between gentlemen is as light as water.

Chen Jie said a lot today, because he cared about his friends, and he didn't want Gao Geli to be wronged in his heart. But in the same way, Chen Jie also has his own insistence, and solitude is his bottom line.

The favor is in the mouth, the truth is in the heart, Chen Jie knows that the need to be alone cannot be said explicitly, because Gao Geli's age cannot be understood.

The language is sometimes pale, and sometimes heavy. One sentence is enough to make everyday friends drift apart, and the more Chen Jie cares, the more he can't let this kind of thing happen.

Chen Jie is willing to explain, but he doesn't like to lie, so finding a set of statements that are not hurtful and sincere is too brain-killing.

He can stand one friend, if there are a few more, Chen Jie will also collapse.

Lu Guoping said that many friends and many ways Chen Jie did not agree, he felt that since he made friends, he naturally had to treat others with sincerity, the more friends the better, but it depends on everyone's mental strength, with Chen Jie's mental strength, there is no need for more confidants, one, enough!

The conversation began, and the two friends were talking and laughing as before, and they were going back together to completely solve the matter of the cabinet.

To say that Chen Jie's two neighbors may really have a bad year, and the recent bad luck has happened one after another, but in the final analysis, character determines fate, and if you don't die, you won't die, who made you do that in the first place?

Chen Jie wanted to make friends with Gao Geli because the latter was righteous. Gao Geli wants to make friends with Chen Jie, because there is always a drama to watch. No, as soon as I entered the 7th floor, the show began again......