Volume 1 The Year of Hair Binding Chapter 84 The Disadvantage of Being a Teacher (I)
"This ......" Hearing this, Chen Jie was slightly embarrassed, he was unfortunately said by Gao Geli, he really didn't recognize it.
Chen Jie laughed dryly a few times and stopped talking.
The lively farewell scene is not only Chen Jie, but even the old horse is also in his eyes. Because Ma Tianlai was beaten, his first impression of Feng Shinan was average, but after understanding the reason, Lao Ma knew in his heart that she was not to blame for this.
After a period of observation, Lao Ma is more certain, Feng Shinan has a collective concept, she has a good starting point, but her experience is still shallow, and her grasp of the degree is a little lacking.
Recently, Lao Ma is planning to elect a class leader.
In his heart, Chen Jieyuan was the best candidate, but seeing today's scene, Lao Ma found that Feng Shinan's mass foundation was very good, and if this squad leader let her be, it would not be bad.
Chen Jie, Feng Shinan, who is more suitable? For a while, the old horse really couldn't decide.
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The last sun of September had set, there was no training class, and Chen Jie's school time was restored to 6:40 p.m.
Because he was going to travel tomorrow, just after dinner, Chen Jie packed his luggage in the room. In the process of cleaning, he always felt that there was something missing in the box, so he walked out of the house and looked around the house, looking for a long time, but he had no impression.
It wasn't until he entered the kitchen and saw Chen Guogang who was washing dishes that he reacted and stepped forward to ask, "Dad, won't you give my mother a gift when I go over this time?" ”
Chen Jie asked his father last night that he wanted to go out for a walk with the latter, but Chen Guogang politely refused.
Chen Guogang felt that the distance between him and Lu Guoping was just right now, and he usually used the phone to keep in touch.
Chen Jingxin said, if people don't go, forget it, if you don't give a little gift, the relationship between these two of you will be cold, right?
Chen Guogang's answer was super simple, two words: "No." ”
Chen Jie didn't expect his father's answer to be so refreshing, and at the same time, he persuaded with a wry smile: "You two haven't seen each other for a few days, so don't you plan to send something to enhance your relationship?" ”
Chen Guogang smiled, played a word game, and replied:
"Who said it wasn't delivered? Dad's gift is called 'Out of Sight, Out of Mind'. It's okay not to send it before, but once she sends it, she always has to pick and choose, so why should I bother to be thankless? Now she doesn't give anything, and she doesn't have to lose her temper when she sees things, which is good for her body and mind. ”
I don't blame Chen Guogang for this, Lu Guoping's personality is really tangled.
Don't bring gifts, Lu Guoping thinks that Chen Guogang doesn't have her in his heart, but if he wants to bring it, he has to find fault every time.
It's cheap, she thinks Chen Guogang has no ability, it's expensive, and she wants to say that he spends money indiscriminately. bought skin care products, said that Chen Guogang thought she was old, bought cosmetics, and said that Chen Guogang thought she was ugly.
Chen Guogang was about to go crazy......
When he first got married, Chen Guogang could barely follow her, but after a long time, he discovered the problem: Lu Guoping lived in an ethereal prince charming in his heart.
Live and live, how many of their generation have not been poisoned by Western romance fairy tales? But Lu Guoping couldn't see it clearly, so he wanted to use the shadow in his mind to benchmark with Chen Guogang, but Chen Guogang really didn't move, so he simply didn't wait.
Chen Guogang thinks that the normal run-in between husband and wife is acceptable, but if you use a character who is out of touch with reality, put me on the construction according to the drawings, then who can stand it? !
Just because the Prince Charming in your head is blue-eyed and white-skinned, I have to do a skin graft on your will, right?! You don't call it a princess dream, it's called a neuropathy!
After all, fairy tales are a product of the West, and the characters in them, whether good or bad, are all Western faces, and it is natural to fantasize about a white and pure Prince Charming.
The Chinese ancestors are different, and the ancients appreciated Zengzi's seeking truth from facts more and did not like to deceive children, so they couldn't write fairy tales from the bottom of their hearts.
People always pursue truth, goodness and beauty. In the eyes of the business nation, desire is demand, as long as there is a market, someone to see, there is money to make, regardless of whether the demand is in line with natural principles, it can be satisfied.
Lu Guoping has high requirements for the quality of life, and people like her are more likely to yearn for fairy tales when they see them. The cloak of fairy tales is full of truth, goodness and beauty, and it is indeed seductive, but taking off the coat is just a lie.
In the process of the integration of Eastern and Western civilizations, Orientals often have the illusion that they will put the qualities of Zengzi on the heads of commercial peoples.
Credulity, hence the creation.
When Oriental people plant such a seed in their childhood, especially women, once the seed takes root and sprouts, the poison is endless! As long as you accept the psychological hints in the fairy tale, the back is continuous.
But Lu Guoping's seeds have been deeply rooted in his heart, and Chen Guogang can't help it, he can only congratulate his friends in the West, their cultural colonization is very successful, and they have successfully led their daughter-in-law astray!
If it weren't for knowing that Lu Guoping's essence was not bad, this marriage Chen Guogang would have left early!
Chen Guogang is waiting, as long as the unrealistic Prince Charming in Lu Guoping's heart can be dissipated, their family can always get back on track, right?
Chen Guogang understands that Lu Guoping is created by the times, and their generation is all experimental, it is not her fault, Chen Guogang does not blame her.
But he didn't want the next generation to continue to repeat the mistakes of the past, so he kept a close eye on Chen Jie, and even went to school for a fairy tale and quarreled with the teacher.
What about Lu Guoping? In fact, she is also very annoying, because of the existence of illusions in her mind, she just can't get over this hurdle in her heart.
has been separated for many years and has not separated, because she also knows that Chen Guogang has a sense of responsibility and takes care of his family, and he can be regarded as a qualified husband. Although there is a little bit of romance, there is no need to worry about living with him, at most it lacks a little vigor.
As she gets older, Lu Guoping's concept is also changing, and she also finds that her previous understanding of life deviates from reality, and ordinary may be the true meaning of life.
But God don't give me this dream, if I don't practice it once, I'm always unwilling!
Don't look at Lu Guoping always picking on Chen Guogang, in fact, she understands in her heart that she can't get along with herself, she wants to practice her dream once, but her conscience tells her that it is too selfish and unrealistic to do so, and she doesn't care about her family? Husband doesn't care? The son doesn't care?
Lu Guoping's tradition and modernity are half open, no one can occupy the top, and she is also struggling.
In other aspects, Lu Guoping's concept is not contradictory, but feelings, hairy when touched, usually fine, as long as she talks to Chen Guogang, this powerlessness that is difficult to change the status quo stimulates her from time to time.
Unlike Chen Guogang's almost harsh moral requirements for himself, Lu Guoping never asks himself to "not be angry and not to be wrong", as long as his temper comes, he will be angry at whoever he wants, and because of this, Chen Guogang has been cannon fodder for many years for no reason.
It's good that two people are living like this, this may be the pain of their generation......
In the whole world, the last thing that wants a husband and wife to have a stiff relationship is the children, seeing that Chen Guogang did not say anything, Chen Jie was secretly anxious in his heart.
In the past, Chen Jie didn't know the crux of his parents' feelings, and he couldn't do anything in a hurry. Now it's different, since the last time Chen Guogang picked out the problem, Chen Jie felt that he should also contribute to family unity.
If you want to change the status quo, you have to understand the status quo, this trip, Chen Jie took the task, he wanted to know what the prince charming was like in his mother's heart.
Dangdangdang......
The father and son were talking in the kitchen, and someone knocked on the door coldly, which is strange, who will be on the big night?
Lao Chen's house has always been a bit of a big hidden taste in the city, knocking on the door has always been a very scarce movement, it is not an exaggeration to describe it as a door, now the meal has passed, the waning moon is empty, who else will come over at this point?
Chen Guogang was still cleaning up the dishes and chopsticks, and the work of answering the door was naturally handed over to Chen Jie.
The upbringing environment has quietly influenced two generations, as can be seen from the habits of the father and son.
Hearing someone knocking on the door, Chen Guogang often opened the door directly without asking who came. Chen Jie is different, he always has to ask who is coming first, and only after confirming that he will open the door.
"Who?"
Hearing Chen Jie's voice, he shouted outside the door: "You Uncle Haizi, open the door!" ”
As soon as he heard that it was him, Chen Jiele was happy, and quickly opened the door and welcomed Jiang Dahai in, without the slightest outlet.
Jiang Dahai has always paid attention to etiquette as a guest, and he has never lacked things in his hands, because he admires Chen Guogang's personality and brings more things, and he will take it full every time he comes to the door. This time, I couldn't even get in the door, and in the end, I had to come in first, and then move the big bags and small bags inside.
As soon as he heard that Jiang Dahai was coming, Chen Guogang quickly dried his hands, walked out of the kitchen, and when he saw that he had taken a bunch of things, he frowned slightly and said:
"I don't listen to every time I say it, come on, don't take so many things next time, there are only me and Chen Jie at home, and I can't eat so much."
Politeness is politeness, and favors are always accumulating. Besides, eating people with a soft mouth and taking people with short hands, Jiang Dahai either doesn't come every time, and something will happen when he comes, even if the relationship is good, if he doesn't have anything in his hand, he is embarrassed to open his mouth, isn't it?
Jiang Dahai didn't answer, he smiled, and put the thing down.
Seeing this posture, there is no need to ask, Jiang Dahai must have something to do, after dealing with him for a long time, Chen Guogang was too lazy to go around the bend, and asked directly: "Say, what happened to me this time?" ”
The two sat down, and Chen Guogang instructed Chen Jie to make tea.
"Big brother, there is a tour capital salon on this National Day, I heard that there are many well-known private equity and tour capital to participate, anyway, there is no need to keep an eye on the National Day, I want to ask your opinion, if you participate, let's have a partner, and I just take you to the field."
Jiang Dahai saw that he often didn't go out of the door, didn't step out of the second door, and was like a little daughter-in-law every day, so he wanted to introduce him to some friends, and by the way, he could also discuss the market outlook.
"What's getting better, it's the same in every city, isn't it just a few houses and roads." Chen Guogang was not interested in city tours and refused directly.
Seeing that he was not interested, Jiang Dahai had no choice but to give up, and then said: "If you don't go, I won't go either, or else, let's go out for a walk together on the three National Day?" Recently, the stock market has fallen so much that I have no idea, so I just happened to talk while turning. ”