Chen Guogang admits that children have different temperaments, and the time and effort spent on education are also different.

Chen Jie: This type of child is a more worry-free one. He is talented and intelligent, and many problems can be understood at one point, which really makes Chen Guogang worry a lot less, otherwise it will be a bit difficult for him to pull Chen Jie big.

A person's temperament determines his hobbies, career planning and even mate selection criteria, the temperament itself is not good or bad, as long as the positive side of the temperament is played, this education is considered successful, this kind of one-body two-sided view of the idea is still the "Book of Changes" set.

For example, some children are born to like gangs and gangs, as long as this kind of person is well guided, he can enlist in the army to defend the country, but if such a child grows up in a particularly negative environment, it is easy to commit crimes and become a member of the criminal gang.

The so-called Ci is not in charge of the army, Chen Jie's character, there is definitely no chance to join the army.

However, Chen Guogang believes that this child has a good heart, and if he is guided diligently and stimulates his integrity and rigorous style, he should be a good hand at learning and scientific research. But if the guidance is not good, it is likely to become a bad person, and he will be angry, as for how to guide the method, this is the business of my parents.

Since Chen Jie's temperament is like this, Chen Guogang thinks that Lu Guoping's rhetoric will definitely not resonate with Chen Jie, you don't even know what kind of person your son is, and you are still reasoning with people there, it's strange that Chen Jie can listen to it!

And even if Chen Jie is not such a temperament, and you don't educate your children like this, today you can let Chen Jie accept a person who is many years older than him to kneel for him, and tomorrow he can accept you Lu Guoping to kneel for him, according to your education method, then don't blame Chen Jie for stepping into a rebellious period a few years later, the so-called rebellion is what parents are used to.

The parenting concepts of the two people are so different, I really don't know how Chen Guogang and Lu Guoping came together in the first place......

Since Chen Guogang understood Chen Jie's temperament, he naturally would not educate Chen Jie's rhetoric according to Lu Guoping. First of all, he pointed out that Chen Jie's thoughts were caused by the kindness in his bones, which was nothing bad, at least it showed that Chen Jie was a very humane person, a person who could treat strangers as sisters and brothers.

Chen Guogang's affirmation first eliminated the barrier between him and Chen Jie, and the barrier disappeared, and it was easier for Chen Jie to listen to what he said next. After all, "affirmation" is not the most important link in father-son communication, "guidance" is.

Chen Guogang will next analyze the reasons for Chen Jie's psychological feelings, he said:

"Although it's not a big deal to take first class, it's really a bit inappropriate for you to sit at your age, you're still young and don't contribute much to society, so it's shameful to see an older flight attendant on one knee serving you. This shows that your three views are very positive, and you are a person with a sense of social responsibility. ”

Although it is a reaffirmation, it is also a psychological hint, Chen Guogang took this opportunity to quietly deduct the word responsibility to Chen Jie, so that it will not seem blunt to mention the sense of responsibility in the future, because this is your Chen Jie's temperament.

From here, it can be seen that Chen Guogang is actually a very chicken thief, but this kind of chicken thief is positive.

Again, no matter what the method is, there is no difference between good and bad, but it all depends on what kind of mind the person who applies him is, of course, this statement is only applicable to people whose mood has reached the point of Chen Guogang.

It can be said that Chen Jie beat Feng Shinan before because of the pigeon release, and it is just that his father must have his son, but Chen Jie's beating and raking this time is a real chicken thief.

Chen Guogang was about to start his guidance work, and he continued:

"Since you are a responsible person and you can't stand the service of first-class flight attendants, then respect your feelings and fly economy class in the future."

"In this way, you respect yourself and provide a livelihood for the flight attendants. When you reach the age of forty or fifty, the flight attendants at that time are your juniors, and you have also made corresponding contributions to this society, as long as you have this ability, you can take whatever cabin you want to take at that time, and not only you sit yourself, as long as your parents are not too old to walk at that time, they can also follow you to shine. ”

In fact, at that time, whether it was Chen Guogang or Lu Guoping, they could sit in the first-class cabin at any time, because the economic conditions had already been met, and the reason why they ended with the word staining was to call Chen Jie's sense of responsibility in a very warm way, and second, to strengthen the family relationship between family members.

Chen Guogang didn't expect to make Chen Jie have much ambition with a small talk, so he only abstractly pointed out the social contribution, if the discussion was too detailed, then Chen Jie would be confused and even resistant because of the details.

Anyway, this kind of idle talk is frequent, as long as you talk once in a while, after a long time, Chen Jie will naturally understand what he really wants to pursue, and when the time comes, he will not have to force him, he will move towards the goal.

But this small talk still made Chen Jie see himself more clearly, so from this time on, he would only book economy class tickets every time he took a plane again, although such a trivial change would happen to thousands of people every day, but the hidden collision of ideas behind this was very different.

After Chen Jie boarded the plane with the economy class ticket in his hand, he took out the book in his schoolbag and read it. The environment on the plane is naturally much quieter than that of the green car, which is very suitable for diving into reading, so until the plane landed, Chen Jie's eyes were locked on the book in his hand. After the plane landed, Chen Jie finally arrived at the destination of this trip: Baicheng, a first-tier city in China and an international city.

White City was a bit sweltering in early October, and the terminal was full of travelers in summer clothes. Chen Jie stood on the land of Baicheng, and his heart was gradually troubled.

The biggest feature of first-tier cities is that there are many people.

More people means more talents, more people, more liars, more people and more competition, just like a 50-square-meter house squeezed into ten people, no one's mood is much better, so indifference is a consistent label in first-tier cities, especially for Chen Jie, a foreigner.

Traditional first-tier cities are a bit xenophobic, which is something that everyone knows. When there are more people, the competition will be fierce, people's hearts will be complicated, the pressure will be great, and the happiness will decline, so it is understandable that some locals are xenophobic.

But who said that during the reform and opening up, the policy was first tilted towards these big cities?

Economic development is about people, and there is no such thing in this world as a matter of taking advantage of the situation and not suffering losses. Baicheng has hitched a ride on the reform and opening up, with the support of the central government's policies and the resources of the western region, I don't know how many times superior to those poor mountains and ravines and ravines.

It is not difficult for you to solve the problem of employment and drive GDP, right? Pain and happiness are the main theme of this era, maybe this is the pain of the happiness of the people in the first-tier cities, but this kind of pain is more appropriate to call it itchy in the eyes of many people.

In fact, after getting off the plane, Chen Jie can go directly to Lu Guoping's residence by subway, but how could Lu Guoping let Chen Jie suffer this toss again, so every time she came to Baicheng, she would arrange a driver to pick him up and be responsible for all the travel tasks after that.

The driver's surname is Wu, his name is Wu Hanfan, and Chen Jie calls him Uncle Wu, Uncle Wu is about the same age as Jiang Dahai, but Chen Jie's intimacy with him is far inferior to Jiang Dahai. How so? Uncle Wu has a professional temperament in a first-tier city, but it is this professional temperament itself that adds some distance between the two.

I heard Lu Guoping say that there was an old Uncle Wu in the past, and because of his old age, Uncle Wu recommended his son Xiao Wu after resigning, Lu Guoping felt that this person was also very clever, so he asked him to take charge of the pick-up and drop-off task every time Chen Jie arrived.

Although Xiao Wu is the company that Lao Wu asked Lu Guoping to enter, Lu Guoping doesn't care how the people under him get in, as long as he can handle the things he has explained and handle the relationship with other people.

When he arrived at the airport parking lot, Wu Hanfan had already waited there in a suit and leather shoes, although he hadn't seen him for two years, Uncle Wu was still the same, but his hair was less, his cheeks were a little bulging, and he looked plump than before, but the overall was still a little thinner.

Chen Jie waved in the distance and walked towards Wu Hanfan, and as the distance narrowed, Chen Jie suddenly noticed the black car parked next to Wu Hanfan.

Although Chen Jie doesn't understand cars, he has heard Jiang Dahai mention it before, and now people with status have long stopped driving luxury cars, and if they want to drive, they can drive cars that money can't buy, such as individual models of Hongqi.

I don't know the other car logos, but he knows the red flag logo, as long as he has seen a few National Day parades, it is difficult to know this car mark.

And this car seems to be the Hongqi L9 mentioned by Jiang Dahai before, isn't this car impossible to buy even if you have money? The last time he came to see Lu Guoping, Wu Hanfan didn't drive this car, how did he change it this time? With questions, Chen Jie stepped forward and asked, "Uncle Wu, what's going on with this red flag?" ”

This question simply asked Wu Hanfan's heart, since he opened the car, he basically blew every person, it can be said that he never gets tired of blowing, as soon as Chen Jie asked this question, he happily explained: "This is the Baicheng City Government last year specially applied for Mr. Lu, to reward Mr. Lu's contribution to the local economic development." ”

Mr. Lu mentioned by Wu Hanfan is Lu Guoping.

Lv Guoping, a famous entrepreneur in Baicheng, after going to the sea, relying on business agents to make a fortune, is now one of the top two figures in the field of international trade in Baicheng, and the annual tax payment of the enterprises she leads is hundreds of millions, and it is a large taxpayer in Baicheng.