The corridors of Xinmin Garden are full of touch sensor lights, and it is always dark when the lights are not turned on.

Tonight, with the exception, Chen Jie didn't turn on the lights, but the corridor was exceptionally bright, because the door of 704 was wide open. The house was still the same mess, and the hallway still smelled of the familiar rot.

The smell is like unwashed socks that have been worn for a long time, the socks stink to the extreme, they are no longer smelly, but a little sweet, and this is the smell of Chen Jie's neighbor's house.

Sou!

Chen Jie was dizzy from the smoke, and a basin of cold water rushed towards the door in front of him! Fortunately, he was quick and dodged.

"I'll ...... Stainless steel. Chen Jie's drop of cold sweat fell, this is going to be smashed, and if you don't get seven or eight stitches, you won't be able to get out of the hospital.

Chen Jie turned his ears over, it turned out that the two of them were quarreling with 704, and the basin just now should be a long-range weapon.

"Yo, he came back early, and he arrived before me." Hearing the man's voice, Chen Jie muttered.

Chen Jie, who was not interested in other people's housework, confirmed that there were no other secret weapons, and walked quickly to the door of his house. I touched my pocket, but I didn't bring the key......

"Dad, open the door!" Chen Jie knocked for a long time, but no one answered the door.

Chen Guogang is usually there at this point, it is estimated that the neighbors are arguing too loudly, and they can't be heard inside, Chen Jie sighed, then wait for 704 to stop.

But who would have thought that these two were endless......

Standing at the door of his house, Chen Jie not only endured the stimulation from his sense of smell, but also suffered from the destruction of his hearing, although the neighbors were husband and wife, they had no morals when they scolded, and they dared to say anything unpleasant.

I heard the male owner scold: "you, if it weren't for your stinky mouth, Lao Tzu would be so unlucky today?!" ”

Crash! Something was slammed to the ground, and judging by the scattered sounds, it was impossible to fix it.

The hostess's voice was sharp and mixed with anger, and she scolded: "Damn, you don't blame me for this, if you weren't idle all day long, would you be able to do such a disgusting thing?!" I smashed people and cars with a bad temper, and when I came back, I knew that I was angry with women, and you were also a man! The old lady is also blind, marrying you such a wreck! Get lost! Get out! ”

"He's*, Lao Tzu is playing happily, if you don't call endlessly, urging your life, can my anger come up?!" After speaking, the male owner sneered, "Marry me blind? You don't look in the mirror, what man wants to marry a sloppy daughter-in-law like you! ”

"If you don't want to marry, you will leave! The old lady has been with you for a long time, get out! ”

"If you leave, you will leave, as if I am afraid of you! But if you want to roll, you roll, Lao Tzu doesn't roll! ”

……

The two of you are like this, you are a sentence, and I am a sentence, immersed in mutual insults and curses, without noticing that there is anyone outside the door.

If you want to blame it, Chen Jie's sense of existence is too low.

Chen Jie grew up in a family where his parents were separated, and he was already pessimistic about marriage, but now he has observed the scolding war between husband and wife on the spot, and his fear of marriage has been consolidated again.

The older generation always says that they can't understand why the younger generation is afraid of marriage, but in fact, the problem lies with themselves.

The interpretation of the previous generation creates the fear of the next generation.

Listening to the quarrel between the two, Chen Jie fell into deep thought, he didn't want his future to repeat such a mistake, as if he was about to forget his role as the fuse.

There must be a cause for everything, and there must be an effect.

The quarrel between husband and wife, with such vicious words, shows that the contradiction has existed for a long time, not in a day or two.

Because of the man's idleness, Chen Jie initially thought that the family conflict was intensified due to the man's non-work, after all, feelings need bread in addition to hormones.

But as the analysis deepened, this conclusion was quickly overturned by Chen Jie, because the woman seemed to be lazier than the man, and her image was like a housewife, neither of them worked, did she want to drink the northwest wind?

If the man has an income, this matter will have to be discussed in detail, and it is true that the man has a bad character and a big temper, after all, this is Chen Jie's personal experience.

can listen to what the man just meant, the previous two phone calls were made to him by the woman, judging from the man's reaction at the time, the woman's words must not be good.

Since the woman has been married to him, after such a long time, she should know that the man has a bad temper, so why do you want to say those words to stimulate him?

To say that smashing the car is indeed impulsive when the man has a bad temper, but it seems that it is not easy for the woman to clean herself, after all, the man has tried to calm himself down at that time, and smoking is the least proof. If it weren't for that phone call, the car probably wouldn't have been smashed.

But think about it from another perspective, if Chen Jie is a woman, he doesn't want to find a husband who is playful and doesn't care about his family. But the man's words seem to be right, the hostess is indeed sloppy enough, and even Chen Jie can't stand the scene in their home, but the woman can live steadily, and it would be bad enough if Chen Jie took such a sloppy daughter-in-law in the future.

Chen Jie has a headache, no matter how you look at this matter, they are each playing fifty boards, and right and wrong are entangled with each other and cannot be sorted out at all!

No wonder the ancients always said that it is difficult for a Qing official to interrupt family affairs. But if you don't peel back the cocoon, how can you find the thread to solve the problem? How can two people live like this?

Chen Guogang has a good saying: Philosophy is ultimately used to guide behavior, otherwise wouldn't it be empty talk?!

The reason why Chen Jie can't jump out of this dead cycle is because the worldview he is using now is still the system of yin is yin and yang is yang. Chen Jie thought of this and suddenly realized the problem, what if you look at yin and yang as a whole? What if you look at these two as a whole?

With the change of the way of thinking, Chen Jie's thinking suddenly became clear, and then he looked at the little couple again, and couldn't help but sigh in his heart: The man is an old man, and the woman is an old lady, these two are simply a pair made in heaven, a destined husband and wife!

What else would you like to do? Match this man with a fairy? Don't ask, Yue Lao will definitely not agree. And a gentleman for this hostess? Needless to say, the matchmaker will definitely not do it! It has to be the right person, it's not bad, right?

Chen Jie originally hoped to come up with a solution, but in the future, if there is, he will change it, and if he doesn't, he will be encouraged. Now it seems that there is no solution, time, luck, and life! Character determines fate, and if you don't change your character, it's useless to say that it's too big.

At this time, Chen Jie thought of the sentence he had read before: marriage is essentially an economic behavior, and the purpose of combining two people is to play a synergistic effect that one plus one is greater than two.

But look at the couple in front of them, both of them are needle-to-wheat personalities, what else can be left when they meet each other except torture each other? Can this plus one be greater than two? If they had understood this truth a long time ago, would they have made this choice in the first place?

There is a movie that says: Love without bread only exists in the fairy tale world after all. People who have fallen into the trap of fairy tales will be sad when they hear this, but Chen Jie's emotional experience is zero, and he has not suffered from the poison of fairy tales, so he does not have those unrealistic fantasies.

Fantasy is a kind of unrealistic dream, the dream in life is not the same as the dream when you sleep, reality will not let the fantasy wake up gently, only let it be ruthlessly broken, this is not a literary rhetoric, but an objective law.

People who are paranoid about love, once their dreams are broken, often experience a wave of overkill conceptual changes, at which time fantasies will not be revised to pragmatism, but often directly collapse into reality, that is, material, and the more true the faith, the deeper the collapse. So there's a fashionable saying that if you want to be bad, fall in love.

Chen Jie has not experienced the baptism of emotions between men and women, to be honest, he is curious, not only curious, but also full of goodwill, rational goodwill, he wants to take out his best state to meet marriage, but this is not his vision of love, just a traditional Chinese male human nature of the outpouring.

Chen Jie has no unrealistic illusions, he knows that feelings need a foundation, they need material conditions, before that, he has to prepare everything, and then what should happen happens at the age when it should happen.

But after watching the quarrel between the two neighbors tonight, Chen Jie suddenly found that it is not enough to have bread in life, and if you want to have a quality of life, personality, habits, and concepts are also very important things. It is no wonder that Master Confucius has to add so many prerequisites of "Gewu, Zhizhi, sincerity, righteousness, and self-cultivation" in front of the "Qi Family".

But in today's rampant liberalism, the public often does the opposite, does not love the tradition and loves the individuality, does not love the duty and loves the ruffian, does not love the insipid and loves the stimulation, to put it bluntly, it is the pursuit of the alienation of the character, so it is not more and more difficult to find a similar half of the three views and the same temper? ! Chen Jie's original cautious attitude towards love was once again strengthened because of this thinking.

In ancient times, the reason for liking a person was "because you are a good person", and now the reason for rejecting a person is also "because you are a good person".

Hearing the movement of the neighbor's house getting smaller and smaller, Chen Jie's thinking also ended, and then he knocked on the door again, and sure enough, he heard Chen Guogang's answer to the door.

After returning home, Chen Jie just exchanged a few words with his father and returned to his room.

After going through so many things today, Chen Jie first wants to bring himself back to calm. But at this moment, there is a contradiction in his heart that lingers for a long time, Chen Jie understands that if he wants to calm himself, he must first empty this contradiction, but no matter how he struggles, this contradiction is to stay there, not increasing or decreasing, not born or destroyed.

Chen Jie sighed lightly, if you can't let it go, then straighten it out.

The reason for Chen Jie's contradiction is very simple, he and Chen Guogang's personalities are different, although they are both influenced by the way of Confucius and Mencius, but Chen Guogang is more forgiving, while Chen Jie's is more straightforward.

Regarding the fact that the neighbor used the bookcase to disgust him, Chen Guogang felt that he could bear it, but Chen Jie insisted on complaining directly, but Chen Guogang's concept would always affect Chen Jie, so when he saw the neighbor's pitiful appearance tonight, when his code of conduct deviated from his father's, especially when he didn't feel happy because of his anger, he hesitated, and he began to wonder if this choice was really wrong.