In fact, when Lu Guoping first got married, her cooking skills were also okay.

But this kind of thing is to use it in and out, especially after going to the sea, Lu Guoping basically never touched the pots and pans again, and every time he went back to see Chen Jieye, Chen Guogang only treated her as a guest, and the guests naturally had no reason to cook, so Lu Guoping's cooking skills completely lost the opportunity to exercise.

Because I don't cook all year round, it's really hard to master the seasoning ratio when I cook it once in a while, and it's not easy to make this meal delicious.

But mothers always feel that the food outside is not clean, so even if the food is not delicious, as long as they have time, they always want their children to eat at home.

Of course, Lu Guoping knows that the shortcomings of her cooking skills are mainly in the proportion of seasonings, and it is rare for Chen Jie to come once, and she will definitely not let her son's stomach be wronged again.

But she doesn't usually have time to practice her cooking skills, so she can only think of some temporary solutions. She asked people to bring a set of classical-style kitchen measuring utensils from Germany, and then found a few recipes that she didn't think was too difficult, and planned to rely on these things to support the past few days.

The kitchen in Lu Guoping's house is open, next to the living room, and she has just finished washing her hands and is taking out the measuring tools from the cabinet one by one.

Chen Jie followed behind Lu Guoping, and after looking at the things she took out, he felt more and more that this atmosphere was not quite right, and said in his heart, Is this still a kitchen? It's almost the same as a physics laboratory, and there are balances, weight boxes, and measuring cups on the booth......

Chen Jie picked up a weight with tweezers, and said with a shocked face: "Mom, you're too exaggerated......

Lu Guoping saw that he didn't wash his hands and went to touch the weight, quickly patted the back of his hand and said, "It's all something to eat, touch it after washing your hands." ”

Chen Jie put down the tweezers in his hand and said that even if this meal is made, it feels like taking medicine, can a kitchen without any fireworks be called a kitchen?

Chen Jie did not move these measuring tools after washing his hands, but turned around in the kitchen, the overall design style of this kitchen is Western-style, the stove is different from the gas stove in ordinary houses, and the integrated stove is used, which is the kind with an oven below.

Although the refrigerator is a large refrigerator with double doors, there are not many things in it, except for pure water and milk bread, it is the vegetables, fresh meat and eggs that Lu Guoping just bought yesterday.

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In fact, when Chen Jie was about to graduate from elementary school, the father and son came here once, and when Chen Jie saw such a big kitchen for the first time, he was quite envious, and his curiosity was almost overflowing, and on the way back, he complained to Chen Guogang that his kitchen was not foreign at all.

Chen Guogang smiled at that time and explained to Chen Jie:

"Don't just look at the surface, you look at the kitchen is big and clean, it's because your mother doesn't cook at home, if she cooks, she knows that this kind of kitchen is inconvenient. The national conditions in China are different from those in other countries, and the eating habits of ordinary people are very different. ”

One of Chen Guogang's great advantages is that he likes to see the essence of things, he will not be confused by superficial phenomena, so he will not cause his inner inferiority complex because of the luxury of others.

At this time, I heard Chen Guogang continue:

"Chinese cooking fumes are very large, open kitchens are difficult to clean up after a long time, foreign cooking fumes are small, even range hoods do not need to be installed, so the kitchen can be designed to be open."

"If we were to change to an open kitchen like this, I'd be going to die of exhaustion just cleaning up. If you want to change it, I have no opinion, but the oil cleanup after this is your business. ”

Chen Jie had never cleaned up the kitchen grease at that time, so he didn't know how heavy the work was, so he said that he would clean it up, so he still asked Chen Guogang to change the kitchen design.

Chen Guogang's words originally wanted Chen Jie to retreat, but he didn't know that this kid didn't have a backache when he stood and talked, so he promised him: "Otherwise, if you can clean our current kitchen after you go back, how about I arrange someone to change the kitchen style?" ”

Chen Guogang's opinion is actually very clear, he doesn't like to be poor, besides, apartment buildings are different from villas, there is no room for you to change the kitchen, and if you accidentally tear down the load-bearing wall, a good building will become a dangerous house!

In addition, Chen Guogang also saw that Chen Jie is now trying to be fresh, and once the freshness passes, whether he will always be responsible for oil pollution cleaning in the future is two words, after all, Chen Jie was still a primary school student at that time, and the quality of doing what he said had not been trained by Chen Guogang, if he was trained, Chen Jie would not make this guarantee at all.

But since Chen Jie threw this question out, Chen Guogang felt that it would not hurt to take this opportunity to cultivate his empathy, and it also happened to let him understand the difficulty of understanding his father's family.

So Chen Guogang started to be a chicken thief again, he knew that the range hood had always been the most difficult thing to clean in the Chinese kitchen, so he didn't let Chen Jie do more at that time, as long as Chen Jie could clean the range hood.

Chen Jie didn't know that range hoods were generally cleaned from outside, and when he heard that he only needed to wash the range hood, he thought he had picked up a bargain, so he agreed in a daze.

But this promise doesn't matter, he found that it was very difficult to remove the range hood, Chen Guogang was standing next to him and watched the joke, he saw that Chen Jie really couldn't remove it, so he pretended to be a good person and went over to take a hand.

The demolition was removed, but it was even more difficult to wash, Chen Guogang actually knew that Chen Jie was crying when he washed the range hood that day, but Chen Jie was hard at the time, and he had to say that it was sweat.

Chen Guogang also endured and didn't laugh, sweat just sweat, so can we change this kitchen? Chen Jie shook his head desperately, and he didn't change it.

Later, Chen Jie was already sensible, and once it was also a father and son chatting, Chen Guogang mentioned this matter again as a joke, Chen Jie remembered that he could wash the range hood and cry for a while, and then he was very unhappy and complained that Chen Guogang was deceiving people, and the range hood was obviously looking for someone to wash it from outside, why did he arrange such a task for himself?

Of course, Chen Guogang will not accept the hat of a liar, starting from his heart, since the day Chen Jie was born, Chen Guogang has not deceived him, and in this matter, he has never mentioned to Chen Jie that the range hood is usually cleaned by himself, he just arranged such a task for Chen Jie, and Chen Jie also agreed directly because he didn't know the severity, how can it be called a lie?

However, this incident did cultivate Chen Jie's empathy, so much so that to this day, whenever he sees people cleaning range hoods on the street, he sighs in his heart: "This money is not easy to earn......

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Lu Guoping saw that Chen Jie was thinking about things, and asked him, "What do you want?" ”

Chen Jie and his mother didn't need to hide it, so they told the story again.

Although the two of them were laughing together after listening to the story, Lu Guoping's heart was actually very sad, she hadn't been by their side for so many years, and many warm moments of family life were missed by herself, don't laugh at this time, Lu Guoping has the heart to cry.

When the separation was proposed, Chen Guogang and Lu Guoping had a long talk, and it was a very peaceful conversation, without the slightest smell of gunpowder. In that conversation, Chen Guogang stated his and Lu Guoping's personalities, expressed his feelings for Lu Guoping, and also considered Chen Jie's growth environment.

Chen Guogang has feelings for Lu Guoping, in his eyes, Lu Guoping will always be the little girl with a ponytail, but the test of the two of them is too fierce because of marriage, if this kind of collision happens every day, the feelings will be worn out sooner or later, not to mention, it is also not conducive to Chen Jie's growth.

Chen Guogang doesn't need much, he is a traditional Chinese man, he just needs to be respected from his wife, and the rest of everyone can do their part, but this little request is not met. Lu Guoping is a very strong person, every time he becomes strong, he leaves no room for others to speak, which Chen Guogang can't bear.

And Lu Guoping just feels that she is the right party, you don't do it right and don't let others say it, it's so immeasurable, and you're embarrassed to call a man?!

The reason why Lu Guoping is so strong is, in the final analysis, because she is too insecure, and her childhood upbringing makes her doubt human nature, so she needs to firmly control everything around her, including Chen Guogang.

She can only feel safe when she feels that everything around her can be controlled by herself. That's why Chen Guogang's every counterattack against her strong posture caused her to be so uneasy.

To tell the truth, Lu Guoping doesn't care about the right or wrong of her concept at all, she just needs others to follow her train of thought, even if it is wrong, she has to go all the way to the dark, because only in this state can she feel safe, so every time Chen Guogang reasoned with her, she couldn't listen to it at all, because what she needed was not reason, but obedience.

Lu Guoping doesn't care about the right and wrong concepts, but Chen Guogang cares!

In his opinion, many of Lu Guoping's ideas are clever, and some of her practices may be able to benefit herself in a short period of time, but from the perspective of the country's benign development, the harm is great.

Chen Guogang is not as ambitious as Lu Guoping, he thinks that plain and plain is true, a gentleman loves money in a good way, as long as he controls his heart and does not go to random comparisons, take every step steadily, there will be one day, so that the life that has goals and does not miss the roadside scenery is the real life!

Since no one can convince anyone, there is no point in continuing to quarrel, so we have to temporarily separate and calm each other down. However, the education problem of Chen Jie's precepts must be solved, and who to live with is an issue that must be clearly discussed.