Don't be surprised, children are just a blank slate, and it is normal for them to have this kind of problem at an age when they don't know right from wrong.

Of course, if you want to ask this question, you can't do without Chen Jie's meticulous observation and innate good memory.

"Man and Nature" is a must-see for him in every issue, although the lions look similar, but he just remembers the name of each lion and the relationship between them.

Chen Jie's cleverness was finished, but Chen Guogang had a problem.

Even if he could answer most of Chen Jie's questions, he was a traditional Chinese man who was deeply influenced by Confucian culture, and he was also frightened by this kind of question.

In the face of this kind of problem, most parents' method is "you will know it naturally when you grow up", and Chen Guogang can also follow suit. In the past, there was really no problem with answering like this, reproduction is the instinct of the species, and it is not taught to itself, and when it comes to adolescence, a spring dream is fully understood, and there is no need to put it on the table at all.

But Chen Guogang understands that this era no longer allows him to be silent, and today's children are exposed to these things at a ridiculously early age, which Chen Guogang deeply understands.

Chen Jie's kindergarten is next to a middle school, and there is a bookstore next to this middle school. Chen Guogang had to pick him up from school every day, and sometimes he would go to the library to pass the time when he came early.

The book house is close to the school, and it is naturally full of books that students are interested in. Once Chen Guogang inadvertently opened a so-called youth literature, and began to blush and heartbeat without reading two pages, even he couldn't stand those explicit descriptions, let alone students? If he doesn't establish a correct concept for Chen Jie now, once he comes into contact with these things before his mind is complete, what will it be?!

But after all, he is not very good at this kind of problem, so he explains it like a rigid old pedant.

He first moved a sentence from the "Tao Te Ching" as an answer: "There are four major domains, the Tao is great, the sky is great, the earth is big, and the people are also big." As the spirit of all things, man must have the appearance of being a man, and the reason why man can be different from animals is because man has ethical and moral requirements. ”

Chen Guogang didn't want to think about it, how could Chen Jie, a 6-year-old child, understand this.

Seeing the question mark on Chen Jie's face, he had to change another explanation, he said:

"Man has a bestial nature, a human nature, and a spiritual nature, and is a complex creature of the Trinity."

This is actually the same as Freud's saying that people have id, ego, and superego, but Chen Guogang said all in the vernacular in order to facilitate Chen Jie's understanding.

"Animals can only show bestiality most of the time, and animality has no moral concept, so you can mate with whomever you want without moral condemnation, but human nature and spirituality will gradually dominate in the process of human growth, which is determined by the nature of the human species, and cannot be escaped."

"Spirituality and bestiality are a pair of contradictions, if bestial behavior occurs, when human nature and spirituality awaken, the first thing will be self-condemnation, and if the condemnation cannot be released, it will lead to self-abandonment, mental abnormality and even self-destruction, and these experiences are all uncomfortable without exception."

Chen Jie didn't understand the other words at the time, he only understood that it was uncomfortable, so he asked, "Dad, what kind of uncomfortable method is it?" ”

Chen Guogang pinched Chen Jie's swollen and purple finger and suddenly said, "It's such an uncomfortable method......"

Ten fingers to the heart!

Chen Guogang's pinch caught Chen Jie off guard, baring his teeth and crying out in pain, tears in his eyes again. Although Chen Guogang is also distressed, for the child, some things are far more effective than telling the truth.

It can be said that Chen Jie's respect for women was pinched out by Chen Guogang, and his sense of self-protection was also pinched out in this way.

……

When he went to primary school, Chen Jie began to receive anti-drug education again, which made him not only aware of the dangers of drugs, but also the fact that people can do anything to make money, and that the life and well-being of the same kind are just tools for profit for some people. At this time, his dislike for the human species began to sprout, and he could better understand why humans needed to be guarded against.

When he arrived in middle school, Chen Jie began to receive anti-fraud education again, and while he knew how not to be deceived, he also knew that there was a group of people who did not even let go of the coffin books of the elderly for their own selfish desires. Only then did he understand that when a person has no faith, he can not talk about right and wrong, but only about interests.

Fortunately, at this time, Chen Jie was also learning traditional culture, and the penetration of the way of loyalty and forgiveness resolved his dislike of human beings, so that he did not go to cynicism, but his focus was basically on the way of direct advice because of the foreshadowing above.

A series of firsts, a series of experiences, made him feel the powerlessness of the way of loyalty and forgiveness in modern society. In this utilitarian and impetuous society, for adults who pay attention to profit, and for those who have not yet awakened spiritually, fear will only really occur when the punishment is far greater than the cost of breaking the law.

It is precisely because of those vivid examples that Chen Jie's straightness has the soil for growth.

But after all, it is someone else's story, unlike those who still love life after suffering setbacks and being reborn in Nirvana, Chen Jie has not suffered any big losses along the way because he has been low-key and has done preventive work in place, so his love for the world is still in the simple stage, and he always hopes that the world can become a better place.

What about Chen Guogang?

His childhood was spent in the countryside, surrounded by a group of simple peasants who rose and sunset, there was no Internet, the news was blocked, and it was an exaggeration to say that if it weren't for the People's Liberation Army to enter the village for land reform, it is estimated that he would have to ask which emperor the Qing Dynasty is now.

It wasn't until Chen Guogang was admitted to university that the radio had just become popular in the village, and listening to a Bangzi opera was the most pleasant pastime at that time.

For thousands of years, the people in the village have been adhering to the moral concept of their ancestors and living with their backs to the loess facing the sky, and the men don't know what humor is, what romance is, and they don't know what to do, and they don't have a pitiful amount of words, and they often can't kick out a fart with three feet.

Women are the same, they don't know what fashion is, what maintenance is, they don't understand what love is, and they don't pay attention to their lives.

But even so, after the men and women in the village got married, they have never heard of anyone who dislikes anyone, let alone the stalk of the old king next door in the city, one is not to understand, the other is not to dare, for the remote villages that follow the patriarchal system, dare to have this kind of thing, although there is no need to dip the pig cage, but it is also the end of the dog's leg break.

Because Chen Guogang's growth environment was too simple, he did not have these complex traps in his childhood, and naturally he did not need this kind of all-round three-dimensional anti-fraud education, of course, no one in the countryside at that time taught this.

So his mind resonates more easily with the way of forgiveness. The truth that people's hearts are sinister and that the heart of defense is indispensable was only understood after he went to college, but at that time, his personality had already been determined, so he would be more tolerant when dealing with others.

The growth environment of the two generations is very different, how can Chen Jie be asked to be like Chen Guogang?!

Although Chen Jie persuaded himself, on the other hand, he and Chen Guogang also had similarities, and he also had his own unbearable feelings.

This mood is like sending Bethune, who is on his mission to save people, to the front line to fight bayonets.

Chen Jie understands that if such a thing happens again, as long as he continues to choose to resist, then his side as an international humanitarian doctor will be very painful, and if he does not resist, his side as a fighter will also be very sad.

This is not a multiple-choice question, Chen Jie understands himself, he will resist, this is his character, it is the result of frequent interaction with the environment in the process of growing up, and it is his own temperament domesticated in the process of interacting with people, this kind of conditioned reflex is very strong, and it can not be changed overnight.

And then again, why change?!