Seeing her obedient and well-behaved daughter, and being trained to be obedient, Duan Zhaodi's parents had an indescribable pride in their hearts.

For their daughters, they have never loved each other.

In the eyes of this pair of parents, this girl is a money-losing product!

Good and decent, why should they love a money-losing goods?

In this ancient world, when children were born, I never thought that when I gave birth to children, I must love them well, protect them, let them live happily for a lifetime, and let them realize their ideals......

They have children for a few simple purposes.

The first is to raise children to prevent old age.

Second, after having children, his status in the family is not the lowest.

Whatever anger you have, what sins you suffer, you can vent it all on your children.

In this place, every word spoken by the elders, the younger generations must obey. Otherwise, they are not filial, ignorant, like to be calculating, and are not generous and decent.

Third, when parents give birth to their children, they should treat them as a labor force. When the child is only a few years old, he can help the family with all kinds of household chores. When the child grows up a little, he can go out to earn money to support the family......

Only when the children become their own parents, then they will have their own exploitation objects.

In this way, the relationship between each family is like this perfect closed loop.

No one can escape.

Some parents like to manipulate their children. Every time I see my children, because of a few simple words of their own, or a certain action, a certain look, they are worried, they can't eat, and they can't sleep well at night......

This kind of feeling that seems to be able to control a person's life and death, a person's honor and disgrace, in the palm of his hand, will make some immature parents very addicted.

After they get some emotional happiness from it, they will continue to suppress their children, consciously or unconsciously.

In their mouths, their own children are worse than shit.

They like to publicize their children's ugliness, or the embarrassing experience of wetting the bed when they were children.

When they get together with their relatives during the Chinese New Year, as long as they are fine, they will tell their relatives all the things about their children.

Seeing their children ashamed, unhappy, and even teased to cry, those of them who were parents felt bursts of happiness in their hearts.

This joy is very secret.

When they see their children, the disdainful glances of their relatives, or the outright jokes, they will laugh along with them.

Some parents just like to take pleasure in their children's suffering.

When the child feels pain, the child feels embarrassed, and the child feels embarrassed, they will become happy and happy.

Sometimes, they will say to their children, "Why are you so small?" ”

"How big of a deal is that? As parents, why can't we say it? ”

"You're our child, and we all say what's wrong with you? …… Don't think too much of yourself, don't think that you are great, just like you, others will just laugh when they hear it! I'm talking to those people about making people happy, what's wrong? If you get angry and have trouble with your parents for this little thing, you won't be able to make a big difference with a person like you......"

Many parents, when they suppress their children, will always be there and say, "How can a person like you compare to anyone?" ……”

"Just like you, no matter how well you read, you're a nerd! It's not going to be a good ......."

“……”

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In fact, a long time ago, Wu Guifang had a very good time with one of her high school classmates.

When she went to their house as a guest, her parents kept counting her down in front of her.

Once, Wu Guifang also heard with her own ears that her friend's mother, she said with a serious face, "Even if my daughter has plastic surgery, it won't be saved!" ”

"Because she's so ugly......"

Seeing the mother say these words, Wu Guifang really didn't know whether she was serious or joking.

At that moment, she suddenly understood why her friend was so inferior.

She is obviously not ugly, she is obviously not fat, although her grades are not too good, but she is in the class, which is also at the middle and upper level.

However, she is quite inferior, and she is inferior to the bones.

She just thinks she's bad. Therefore, when a second-rate child in the class had a very poor character, was ugly, was very picky, and had a relatively poor family, on April 1, April Fool's Day, he took a rotten apple and confessed to her. She even agreed.

Later in the college entrance examination, her grades dropped sharply, and she only took the junior college exam.

Before finishing the junior college, she eloped with the man who graduated from the secondary school.

After eloping, she got a marriage certificate with the man and had a child.

After she gave birth, her husband didn't care. The money she spent on giving birth to several children was slowly saved by herself as a cashier in a supermarket.

Before the age of 30, she gave birth to three children.

Because life is too difficult for her. The man doesn't give a penny, she has to raise three children by herself, her in-laws, and herself, so she looks very old when she is less than 30 years old.

When she laughs, the fine lines at the corners of her eyes are dense.

If you look closely at her hair, you can clearly see that there are a lot of gray hairs growing in her hair.

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Over the years, the three sisters of the Duan family have actually grown up slowly under the pressure of their parents and relatives.

Their parents, their relatives, would always say to them, "Women are inherently weak, and you can't do anything big except do laundry, cooking, and having children." ”

"Whether this woman can live well in the future depends on how you marry......"

In this way, the three sisters of the Duan family have heard a lot. They subconsciously feel that if they want to live well in the rest of their lives and have a stable old age, then they must rely on men.

At home from the father, in marriage from the husband, and after the death of the husband from the son. These are the three obediences and four virtues that women need to follow.

The three sisters of the Duan family have always treated every word said by their parents, their grandfather, and the elders of the family as holy decrees.

If you don't make it clear to them that their parents are farting, then they will all take each other's fart as a holy decree.

They say that what a woman should be...... they think a woman should be.

They are still young, only in their teens, and they have no ideas about some things in the world.