Chapter 0115: Teach how to be a man
"Why don't the adults in our village like me?" Wei Yang asked suspiciously, "They always seem to have some prejudice against me, but they are not like that against other children. ”
"Well. The reason is actually very simple," said the young man named Blue Bird, "First of all, they think that you are a deaf and dumb person, and they know that you are not very sensible and understand the royal law, so most of them let you, that is, they try not to provoke you casually, and the most direct way for them to you is to avoid you from afar." ”
"Are you saying they're afraid I'm going to deafen their ears?"
"It's not all because of that," explained the boy named Bluebird, "and most of them think you're like a barbarian, you know?" ”
"I don't understand."
"You've been locked in the yard by your mother for years, so you have seen very little of it, and you've had even fewer opportunities to interact with people, and you haven't even had any contact with people.
And what about your mother? She's too busy with the fields to teach you anything.
Therefore, you are basically like a barbarian, your mind is not yet civilized, your vision is still very narrow, that is to say, your actions, your manners, are inclined to the most primitive animal nature.
And you know, this is a civilized society now, even in the countryside, people basically know how to live a civilized life. ”
Weiyang listened quietly.
His brain's hard drive is running at high speed, storing the words of the bluebird boy in it sentence by sentence, and the words that have been understood and digested are cut and pasted into another partition sentence by sentence, and the original disk will not move if there are no words that are understood.
"Now, then, let's get back to the question," the boy named Bluebird continued, "as you are now, the people in the village think that you are a raw product, that you are as uncivilized as a stubborn stone, and they all know that your voice can deaf people's ears, so they think that your actions are not subject to your brain, in other words, they think that you are like a time bomb now, and you may explode one day." ”
"Uh......"
"Of course, no one wants your time bomb to suddenly detonate on themselves."
"So am I really as scary as you say?"
"Of course not, as long as you study hard and understand some principles of how to behave in the world, then you can better base yourself in Weijia Village, and even, let those adults and children who were once afraid of you respect you and worship you - that's right, the basic condition for people to worship you is that you must first be a sensible and moral person."
"So, what do I do to become a respectable, adored person?"
"First of all, you have to learn to respect others, and you must know that respecting others is the same as respecting yourself; Secondly, you have to have your own merits or specialties, such as the golden voice you have now, as long as you use it to do something meaningful and beneficial to others, then you will naturally be respected and even worshiped by others. ”
"So what do I do now?"
"Start with yourself, from now on, you have to learn to greet people when you meet them, even if you can't speak, but you have to at least use gestures to explain; You have to try to be friendly with other people, and try to be friends with each of them as much as possible. ”
"Okay, I see, thank you for your advice, Bluebird Boy." :,,,