Helan, who woke up the next day according to her usual habits, first blinked her eyes twice, and when she turned her head, she saw Wu Qingzhu staring at herself, her eyes were warm, and she was a little embarrassed to see herself.

Take the quilt to cover your face: "You haven't washed your face yet, what do you see me doing?" ”

"It's good, I want to see it." Wu Qingzhu did not hesitate, and opened his mouth quite cheekily.

Helan turned sideways, her back to Wu Qingzhu, and she didn't intend to go back to this man who suddenly became cheeky.

Wu Qingzhu couldn't see Helan's face, so he stretched out his arm to break Helan's body, but Helan was more energetic, no matter how Wu Qingzhu broke it, he couldn't break it.

The two of them messed around for a while, and then gradually quieted down.

"Lady, is our marriage too demanding?"

"Huh?!

"I thought about it, after all, our family forced you to marry me, and I haven't asked you about your wishes from the beginning to now, so I feel a lot of guilt for you."

"Didn't I say that before? I don't want to or persecute me. ”

"I feel that you are different from others, in front of you, I always unconsciously have a kind of idea that is not worthy of you, always thinking about it, and worrying about the words that I said just to coax me at that time."

In such an era, Helan is indeed an alternative, no matter how she integrates into such an era, she has some differences, such as thoughts and care, different education, different thoughts and ideas.

Most women in this world are married to support their husbands, and their husbands are their own heaven and earth, and they don't even dare to have their own ideas.

But Wu Qingzhu has never felt a little bit in Helan, it is the kind of feeling that treats him as all she has.

Other newlyweds will be happy when they see their husbands returning from a long home, or shy or missing or concerned and worried, although Helan also has an expression, but it is very light, so light that Wu Qingzhu feels that she doesn't care much about herself, and writing how much makes a big man a little frustrated.

After Wu Qingzhu left during this time, Helan also realized this problem, and discussed the problem of emotional outlook with other girls.

For example, one of the girls said: Since you are married, you must abide by the woman's way, whatever the husband says, what the husband hates is what he hates. Serving tea and pouring water, washing and cooking, and waiting for the elders are all as they should be.

"Isn't that the right thing to do when you wait to wash your face and feet? Shouldn't Xianggong be our girl's day? Merging? Don't be kidding, if you are divorced by your husband's family, you should find a lake to jump into, so as not to stain your mother's reputation. ”

"Beaten? This may be that person's fate, who let her not marry a good man, and no good father and brother to be angry for him. I can only endure it in this life, and I only hope that I can find a good family to live a good life in the next life. ”

"How can a woman who can't have children have the face to stay in her in-law's house? It's kindness that her in-laws didn't drive her back, and she deserves to be a waiter for cattle and horses at home. ”

"Alas, this is probably the life of our women, don't marry? How will you survive in the future? ”

Hearing such words, Helan wanted to instill in them the ideas she accepted, women can do a lot of things, why can't women who can men? No matter what era, women do less to do?

But after thinking about it, in this era of men's respect, it is never easy for women to live alone. For example, the widow in the village, such as the young son and daughter of the elder who died.

If you are bullied, your family's property may not be able to be retained, and you will sell you behind someone's back if you encounter someone who is black.

Girls, not only their parents are given the right to buy and sell, but the elders in the village also have rights.

You dare to go out and open the door by yourself, a girl's house, I can't say that there will be a man who climbs over the wall in the middle of the night to enter your house, and the reputation of this life is gone, and it is useless to sue the official if there is really some accident.

Without a certain ability to protect themselves, who dares to survive in such an era?

But Helan has received an ideological education that men and women are equal since she was a child, and women can hold up half the sky. Let her be a fragile flower that clings to people, and she can't do it.

"My grandmother told me that a girl's family should not only rely on others, but also have your own thoughts and lives. You have your fun and he has his life, so it's good, go to a better life together, and the husband and wife work together to make this home better. Others say that a woman's lack of talent is virtue, it is all a lie, and I don't want to think about it, if a woman's family is illiterate and doesn't understand anything, how can she raise her own children? ”

"What Grandmother said seems to have some truth, this statement is very strange, you are telling me about it." It was the first time Wu Qingzhu had heard these words, and he was a good learner who liked to accept new knowledge and new theories, and Helan's words aroused his interest.

"We can talk about this slowly in the future, I just want to tell you, I may be different from other women, but these have been decided, different thoughts, things are different, the only thing that is the same is to identify a person is a lifetime, we passed the paperwork, held a simple wedding, these are all ceremonies, the moment the ceremony is completed, it is stamped for the two of us, I will not regret it, and I hope you will not abandon me in the future, we can live a good life with Hemei."

Helan turned over as she spoke, looking at Wu Qingzhu's eyes very seriously and saying this.

"So you plan to spend the rest of your life with me after the ceremony on the night of your marriage?"

Helan raised his forehead: "Why is this your focus?" ”

"It's good that I was tough at the time, otherwise, alas, ......"

Helan listened to the last sigh of resentment, quite sour, no longer talking to this boring man, sitting up and getting dressed.

"What are you doing so early, let's continue to lie down, it's just dawn now."

"It's not early, I've already heard my father and mother getting up, it's too hot at noon, so I can only take advantage of the cool in the morning to do more work."

"Your men are back, where do you still need to do heavy work?"

"Then get up quickly, yesterday grandpa followed the field, the grain in the field fell a lot because of the rain a few days ago, it was very difficult to cut the wheat, and yesterday I had several bubbles on my hands."

"I'll see." Wu Qingzhu was also nervous when he heard this, and hurriedly pulled Helan's hand in front of him, and when he saw it, there were indeed two blisters that had not gone down.

"Then you should do less, follow the back to pick up the ears of wheat, don't do this kind of work in the future, how can you do this with such a delicate appearance?"

"Huh? You're saying I can't do anything? It's Miss Jiao, you're holding you back? ”

"What's there, you're here, you're ......!" Wu Qingzhu was a little speechless when he heard this, and for the first time he felt that Helan was articulate, and his thinking was too big.

Only here Helan laughed a few times and put on his shoes and walked out, Wu Qingzhuzhu reached out to grab it but didn't catch it, and he didn't get a response when he opened his mouth to call Helan's name. Shaking his head helplessly, he could only get up and get dressed, and finish his meal early to help the family do more work, especially if he couldn't let his little lady suffer hardship.