Chapter 545: Loss and Gain

Thinking of this, Yao Siman frowned, and then secretly glanced at Teacher Chen suspiciously, "No, Teacher Chen, isn't it a bit inappropriate for you to not stop your students from falling in love?"

Aren't you afraid that students will delay their studies because of early love? ”

Teacher Chen pondered for a moment and said slowly: "There are some things that are opposed by light, and just stopping them may not be able to stop them.

This teacher, parent, and person who can control the child's heart can't control the child's heart.

If so, how? Is it to separate two people into two classes? Or separate into two schools?

Even if it's really separated into two schools, you children now, but what the hell, if that rebellious energy comes up and refuses to give up, it is estimated that you can continue to sing another Ming Xiu plank road dark Chen Cang......

I remember when I first became a teacher, what I was most afraid of was finding out that my students were in early love.

But I'm afraid of something, there will always be so many students who have early love, and I'm really heartbroken.

But then things got too much, and I suddenly had something else to think about.

If you want to start a look, after all, the attraction of the sexes has been a natural law since ancient times.

It is not too strange for an adolescent child like you to start having a crush on the opposite sex and a longing for the opposite sex, and it is even more difficult to avoid.

Hehe, don't talk about you, let's talk about when I was in junior high school, not only did I secretly have a crush on the class flower in the class next door to us, but I didn't sleep at night, and wrote a love poem overnight.

I think everything is a double-edged sword, no matter how you choose, there are always gains and losses, good and bad.

If you want to say whether early love will definitely delay studying, I have also seen some students who are in early love help each other, but also improve their academic performance.

As for some students, they don't fall in love early, their minds are never on studying.

But if I take 10,000 steps back, even if I really delay my studies, I don't think the sky is going to fall.

Maybe I'm looking at things from a different starting point, right?

Learn about it...... Even if a person really misses the matter of reading at the age of studying, if he has the heart to study, the heart to become a talent, and the firm heart, no matter how old he is, it is not too late.

But the opportunity to meet a person you really like in this life is very rare.

Not to mention the pure and beautiful, even stupid feelings like when I was a student, if I missed the green years, I can't say that there is absolutely nothing, but I almost can't meet it when I grow up.

Xiaoman, you are still young, but the teacher is from here.

It is so difficult for a person to always maintain a pure heart like when he was a child......

This person, once he grows up, has gone through all kinds of ups and downs, and has been baptized by the surrounding environment and social values, he will inevitably become more and more mature, more and more intelligent, know how to care about family background, money, house, who pays more, who pays less, weighs the pros and cons of everything, and understands love more and more, and knows more and more how to love, and begins to slowly become familiar with the skills and methods of managing love.

But this kind of maturity and shrewdness cannot be said to be lucky or unlucky.

Perhaps, now I just don't want to forcibly and domineeringly take away the purest seed of love planted in the hearts of these children.

If that's the only chance you have to meet true love in your life, it's a shame to miss it.

It's best to achieve positive results, and if you end up separating, then at least you will leave a beautiful and precious memory......"

Teacher Chen babbled and said, Yao Siman supported his chin with one hand and listened thoughtfully.

Listening to Mr. Chen's overly calm tone, Yao Siman shuddered inexplicably.

Why is time and growth so common to take away the innocence of youth, as if it is fate, so unaware and unavoidable......

But as he spoke, Mr. Chen's tone gradually became sad, and he suddenly fell silent.

Yao Siman heard that there was no movement in his ears, turned his head slightly, looked at the man beside him, and saw his quiet appearance looking at the blue sky in a daze.

Mr. Chen's eyes seemed to have an unconcealable depression, as if there was a river of sadness flowing backwards, as if he was nostalgic for the past and those who couldn't go back, as well as the self who couldn't go back.

After Mr. Chen quieted down, Yao Siman didn't speak, and quietly sat on the rooftop of the top floor of the junior high school with him, bathing in the warm and charming sunshine and listening to the autumn breeze together.

The atmosphere was silent for a long time, perhaps because of trust, or perhaps because of the special relationship with Yao Siman who is also a teacher and friend, Teacher Chen looked up at the unreachable sky, and suddenly talked to her about his first girlfriend, that is, Yao Yaya's biological mother.

This is the first time he has opened up to others about what he has hidden in his heart for years.

After he said it, Yao Siman knew that the girlfriend he fell in love with when he was in college in another province that Mr. Chen mentioned once before was the next door class flower who secretly asked someone to send her a love poem.

After Mr. Chen remembers the young and romantic love stories about the two of them in the past, he couldn't help but sigh when he mentioned the sad ending of the two of them at the end.

He said that if he could protect her back then, he would not have had a child unexpectedly, since he had a child at that time, if he could be a little more responsible and less frivolous, maybe she would not be so disappointed in him that she would say goodbye, and everything might be different.

He said that he had a lot of self-blame and remorse in his heart, but he was also very glad that he could meet that woman in his life, she gave him such a good child, and she had given him everything she had, and gave him a real flowery youth, which was the best memory he could never forget, and it was also the most colorful stroke in his life.

He said that he hadn't found the same heartwarming feeling in other women over the years, and he had never met a woman who was willing to love him just for love, even if he had a good impression of anyone, he always felt that something was missing, so he never got married......

Listening to Mr. Chen talk about his innocent years and his perception of growth, Yao Siman also stared blankly at the vast sky, as if he was staring at the never-ending time, and his thoughts came like a tide.

She couldn't help but think of the beautiful bits and pieces of her and Tong Minkun's past, and also remembered the sad, ridiculous and pathetic blind date experiences over the years......

After that long conversation, Yao Siman missed Yao Yaya a little, and after the work in the Dream House that day was over, she called Teacher Chen and asked for the address of his home, so she hurried over.

Because she didn't want to trouble Teacher Chen, she rejected his offer to come and pick him up in person.

When Yao Siman found the downstairs of Teacher Chen's house, Yao Yaya and Teacher Chen were already waiting there.

As soon as she saw Yao Siman, Yao Yaya blinked her eyes as clear as water, and ran towards her excitedly, with an extraordinarily bright smile on her face, and a particularly hearty smile.

After coming to Mr. Chen's house, Mr. Chen went to the kitchen to cut fruit, while Yao Yaya took a notebook and a pen with great interest, and began to communicate with Yao Siman in words.

Yao Yaya said that she now has a warm home, has a father who loves her very much, and has also been arranged to attend a school for the deaf and dumb, has learned a lot of sign language, met a lot of men and knowledge, and made a few very good friends, so Yao Siman does not have to worry about her.

Yao Siman saw that Yao Yaya was living happily now, and everything was on the right track, and she was secretly happy for her.

Yao Yaya happily explained her situation, and asked about Yao Siman's recent situation in words.

However, Yao Siman didn't have much to say, only smiled and said that her classmates at school liked her very much, and she had been doing well recently.

Yao Siman was a little curious as to why she was still called Yao Yaya when she caught a glimpse of Yao Yaya's name on the cover of a homework book on the table.

Yao Yaya was about to bow her head and write something, when Teacher Chen walked out of the kitchen with the fruit, probably hearing Yao Siman asking in the living room, and opened his mouth to answer for Yao Yaya.

Teacher Chen said that although he is Yao Yaya's biological father, he has not fulfilled his responsibilities as a father over the years, which has made her suffer too much.

That night, Yao Siman stayed at Teacher Chen's house for a long time, and finally stayed in Yao Yaya's room for the night.

Late at night, Yao Yaya hugged Yao Siman's waist and had already fallen asleep, but Yao Siman opened a pair of eyes brightly, but she was reluctant to sleep.

Smelling the quilt with the scent of the sun, listening to the long breathing in his ears, looking at the dark but not terrible night, everything was so calm and peaceful, Yao Siman really felt an unprecedented warm feeling, and his heart was warm.