Chapter Seventy-Seven: Reasoning
When Li Xia and his entourage came back from the hotel, the small courtyard had already returned to tranquility, and for the noon banquet, Mei Fen, who had specially changed shifts with her colleagues, was sitting under the eaves with her three-and-a-half-year-old child.
Half of the time, the child was placed in the street nursery, and when he was not in the nursery, he was placed on his own grandparents' side, not to mention that Li Xia had not seen this child much, and Chen Xinchun saw it less.
When they came back, the child who was squatting on the ground in open crotch pants suddenly ran over, stood in front of Chen Xinchun, patted his chest and said, "The yard, our family's, you are not allowed to live!" ”
Mei Fen was taken aback, after she quarreled with Chen Linxiu, her emotions had calmed down a lot, otherwise she wouldn't be able to stay at home in peace.
But she didn't expect her youngest son to say such a thing, she hurriedly rushed over, picked up the child, thought about it, reached out and slapped the child's mouth, "What nonsense, the old lady beat you to death!" ”
What does a three-and-a-half-year-old child understand, Mei Fen is not light, and immediately cried.
The anger that had just risen in Chen Xinchun's heart turned into helplessness, "Okay, what are you doing with the child, how are the children, not all taught by adults." ”
Mei Fen's face turned white for a while, and she laughed and argued, "Uncle Cousin, we haven't taught our children this, maybe the children have heard other parents talk nonsense." ”
Chen Xinchun waved his hand, too lazy to listen to her explanation, seeing that the three Li Xia sisters and siblings had already returned to the house, they took his wife's hand and went back to the house, ready to take a nap.
Li Xia returned to the room, sat down directly at the large desk, and began to read.
In the end, after being away from junior high school for so many years, those languages and histories that need to be memorized have only left a shallow impression in my mind, and I still need to spend energy to memorize and re-memorize.
"Sister, don't you mind those words next door?" Li Nan also sat and read, but he couldn't read it, and secretly glanced at his sister from time to time, and after enduring it for a long time, he finally couldn't help but ask.
Next to him, Li Yang also stopped his pen and looked at Li Xia with a wink.
Finally asked!
After being looked at by Li Nan's searchlight like a searchlight for so long, Li Xia waited for it, she put down her pen and asked Li Nan, "If I mind, will it change their opinion?" Will they like us because of it? ”
The answer is yes, no.
Li Nan and Li Yang shook their heads at the same time.
"Xiao Nan, Yangyang." Li Xia looked at her younger siblings seriously, "Everyone has likes and dislikes, others have them, and we have them, and prejudice is difficult to change."
We can't change what other people think of us, but we don't care, because they don't know what we really think, but we know it ourselves, don't we?
My sister brought you here, firstly, to give you a stable living environment as soon as possible, and secondly, to take care of your grandparents in their old age, and nothing else
We just stick to what we want in our hearts and work towards our goals. Will you be shaken by their wild speculation? Do you really miss your grandparents' house because of this? ”
The answer to this is also yes, no.
Li Nan and Li Yang shook their heads again, their eyes thoughtful.
"I know it's very uncomfortable to be looked at with prejudice, but that's their mistake, it has nothing to do with us, and my sister also hopes that after you feel this discomfort, you can look at things in the future, and you can look at things from a fair point of view, and don't make decisions about anything." Li Xia looked at her younger siblings seriously, with a gentle smile in her eyes.
Many adults always feel that it is useless to reason, just tell right and wrong directly, either because they feel that they don't understand it when they talk about it, or they think that they will naturally understand it when they are older.
But there are some truths, if you don't teach them, how much suffering the child will have to endure to know.
"But if we don't say anything, will it make them think we're bullying?" Li Nan continued to ask.
Li Xia thought for a while, "It's either silence or bullying, it's because we don't care about it, in that situation just now, of course I can go back directly, but do you think it makes sense?" ”
Li Nan carefully recalled the scene at that time, Chen Jiabao rushed to his grandfather and said it, and before his grandfather could speak, they spoke, and it didn't seem to be very good.
"Chen Jiabao is too young, when he is older, he will talk nonsense, I will beat him!" Li Yang clenched his fists and suddenly spoke.
Lixia, "......? ”
Li Nan, "......! ”
"Fighting won't solve the problem, what if his mother cheats you?" Li Xia laughed, "Chen Jiabao still has two elder brothers, can they watch their younger brothers get beaten?" ”
Li Yang's face suddenly became distressed, "Then I'll beat them together, they hate it anyway, Chen Zheng still asked someone to block my brother!" ”
Li Xia's face suddenly became serious and looked at Li Nan.
"It's fine!" Li Nan secretly glared at Li Yang, and said that she was not allowed to tell her sister, Li Yang shrunk her neck, she was quick for a while.
Li Nan hurriedly explained the situation, "When I was on duty at night, Chen Zheng called a few classmates to block me and warned me to stay away from them. ”
In fact, after two moves, Chen Zheng couldn't beat him, but when he came home, everyone tacitly did not sue, and because of this, Li Nangao glanced at Chen Zheng's brothers.
I look down on that kind of villain the most, and I have to sue my parents if I fight.
Almost immediately, Li Xia thought of Li Nan's death in a fight in his previous life, and a cold sweat immediately broke out on his back.
Teenage boys are most likely to be hot-blooded, unable to control their emotions, and fight small things, and big problems.
But teaching patience is not the right thing to do.
She pondered repeatedly in her heart, and finally gritted her teeth, "Xiao Nan, you can't bear to be bullied, because others bullied you to fight, sister doesn't blame you, but you have to learn to recognize the situation, there are too many people to fight, or they hide weapons, let's admit that we don't suffer." ”
Li Nan nodded, he thought so too.
"Of course, the best solution is to tell teachers and parents, don't think that this is just no righteousness, and if something happens, it doesn't have to be dealt with by adults, don't you say?"
Hearing this, Li Nan directly avoided Li Xia's gaze, so he wouldn't sue!
Li Xia sighed, she didn't hold on to this, she wasn't a big traitor, and she wasn't a big hate, she waited and watched for the time being.
Having said that, Li Nan had no questions, and he didn't dare to ask again, so he hurriedly buried his head in reading the book, and Li Yang also read the book obediently, and he didn't dare to raise his eyes to look at Li Xia.
In the middle, Song Fanfan called Li Nan once, but Li Nan refused, saying that he would finish his homework and prepare before going out.
In terms of studying, Li Nan and Li Yang don't need Li Xia's attention very much.
Li Xia didn't know that this was because she led by example and had a long-term impact, otherwise Li Nan would also want to go out and play.
Song Fanfan was not angry, and when he saw the three of them sitting together reading a book, he felt very interested and followed along for a while.
But soon he couldn't sit still, and asked Li Nan to complete the task to play with him, so he sneaked away.
"Yangyang, where is your sister?" On Tuesday evening, Lin Jing bought a ticket and came over.
Li Yang was jumping rubber bands in the yard with a classmate on a street, and when he heard the words, he pointed to the room, "My sister smokes mosquitoes in the room." ”
Lin Jing pushed the door in, and didn't see Li Xia smoking mosquitoes, but saw Li Xia's deeply bruised waist.