Xiaoqi's father, Lao Sheng, sat in the hall with his aunt and his wife for a whole night.

About Xiaoqi's mother, Feng Ying, is a topic that can never be spared.

The three of them looked at each other with tears in their eyes.

Sometimes, life and death are things that have to be faced.

Xiaoqi's mother was only in her 30s when she left, which was very young.

Her life came to a standstill.

Later, I heard from my father that she was originally selected for the Jiangsu Provincial Basketball Team, but her grandmother felt sorry for such a young girl and was reluctant to let her suffer.

Good or bad did not let her go to Nanjing City.

If fate could really choose at that moment, she went to Nanjing City, entered the Jiangsu provincial team, played basketball, retired in a few years, and arranged a job.

What kind of honor it should be to be able to represent the province to play basketball in that era.

It's like a mouthful of osmanthus sugar cake in your mouth for fear of melting, but no matter how careful you are, it will melt.

What you have to face when you grow up is separation.

Either in one way or in another.

The pampering of my grandmother and grandfather did not save my mother's peaceful life.

Even if he was a kiss, his father did not protect his mother.

How weak should human beings be in the face of disease!

The power of fate, people seem to be so weak and ironic for a moment's effort.

Later, when he became a father, his father had another identity, that is, he was his mother's cousin.

At that time, Xiaoqi's grandmother was sick and couldn't go to her relatives or grandmother's house, so she entrusted her father to go to her relatives for her.

When my father rocked the boat to my mother's village, my mother came to greet me.

With just one glance, her father decided that she was the girl he was looking for in this life.

I met my cousin's father, and my father fell in love with this cousin at first sight.

is not to marry in this life.

This short trip to relatives, my father was even reluctant to leave.

According to his father, Xiaoqi's mother, his cousin is very beautiful, fair and delicate, tall, with a pair of thick black braids, and the gentleness unique to Jiangnan women, like a clear spring, sweet and sweet.

Within a few days, my father returned to his home and told my grandmother what he was thinking.

Grandma heard this, this Fengying, this child, grandma knows, this child is well-cultivated, kind, polite to others, good character, and is her niece, this kissing family, grandma is happy.

After the grandmother recovered, she wrote her father's post and brought the dowry again, and this time she took her father and her matchmaker to her grandmother's house in person.

The bride price of this ship is very deep.

Grandma knows that grandma is coming, how can this kissing affair be bad!

The two families are close to each other.

An eight-lift sedan chair took the mother to her husband's house.

In order to avoid secrecy, he specially took the dry road.

This newlywed life is sweet, but it will not be long before my father is leaving, and he wants to support the construction of the great northwest in response to the call of the country.

Starting a family is a topic that cannot be avoided in life for men.

For New China, my father hoped to make contributions.

However, for the mother, the reality after marriage is cruel, and the father is beaten to the right.

It's gray!

After ten years of separation, one was reformed through labor on the Gobi Desert in the northwest, and the other took care of his grandmother who was getting worse and worse in Jiangnan Province.

For such a state after marriage, if Xiaoqi is even thinking about Feng Ying as a mother again, will she regret it?

The only channel of communication between Xiaoqi and her mother is dreams.

Even in her dreams, she didn't have time to ask her mother's mind.

Of course, I don't know how that is.

Xiaoqi knew that her mother was everyone's young lady, and her family was very good when she was born.

There was an uncle in front of my mother, but on the eve of liberation, when wars were frequent and bandits were infested, the uncle who had just completed the moon was still kidnapped.

The kidnappers have 20,000 oceans in one mouth.

Even though the family is wealthy, 20,000 yuan is not something that can be taken out at once.

My grandfather borrowed money from east to west, and pawned the valuable people in the family, and finally managed to scrape together 20,000 yuan.

By the time he arrived, the uncle was out of breath.

The dispersion of people and money is the final result.

Grandma cried in a trance, I don't know how they survived that year, for a long time, grandma sat on the threshold and looked outside, and when she saw the child, she thought it was her child.

"Let's have another baby." Grandpa said softly to grandma.

Later, he had Kosu's mother.

Grandma loves her very much, and she never leaves.

My grandfather was a man of craftsmanship, and he was a well-known furniture man, with a pure falcon structure.

For those big families, it is essential to buy furniture from the Wang family to buy a family business.

is also not worried about business, and the scattered family wealth has earned the family business in a few years.

The pain in this family seems to be slowly fading.

My grandfather purchased hundreds of acres of land.

This little day seems to be getting better.

The only thing that is lacking in the family is that there are no men.

An eldest sister and a younger daughter survived.

Later, it was liberated, and my grandfather also passed away due to illness, leaving only my grandmother and Xiaoqi's mother alone.

seems to recognize a distant cousin as his son, of course, that cousin, Xiaoqi knows even less.

It's just that after marriage, I have very little contact with Xiaoqi's mother.

The news of these things is through his father's words, and Koqi has a little impression.

And she herself didn't know at all, let alone her aunt.

After sweeping the tomb for his grandmother, the story in front of the grave brought Xiaoqi to the era when his father and mother were together.

Everything in Jiangnan is strange and new to Xiaoqi.

When she returned from the grave, her father took her to another house.

It's my father's brother's house over there, and Xiaoqi should call my uncle.

Uncle, aunt, and three older brothers.

This is the first time in Xiaoqi's memory to see the appearance of the countryside in the south of the Yangtze River, and everything is very novel.

The endless plain rivers are different from the scenery of the northwest, and there are small ponds and rivers everywhere.

There are small fish, small shrimp and small mussels in the river, which is very fun.

What makes Xiaoqi happy is that there are many friends, and these partners seem to be more gentle and polite towards her.

This year, after crossing the Yangtze River, we came to Nanjing.

This is my father's true hometown.

Grandparents are buried here

Naturally, the first thing to do is to go to the grave and sweep the grave.

This is a topic that everyone can't shy away from.

Go to the grave, sweep the grave, send sorrows, and hope that relatives can know their thoughts.

This year, there are many relatives, and one family after another.

There are the uncle's family, the second master's family, the third master's family, the fourth master's family, the fifth master's family, and the sister-in-law's family......

This is only the part of the elders, and the elder brothers and sisters of Xiaoqi's peers alone are afraid that there are almost hundreds of people.

Xiaoqi then realized that her family in Jiangnan was a big family......

This family has gone down, and every day this family eats and goes to that family, this is the year of the legendary big family.

All this is a novelty for Kosu.

One a day. Half a month has passed in the blink of an eye.

The south of the Yangtze River is warm and the mountains are clear, and Wu Nong of Taihu Lake speaks softly.

The beauty of Kosu's hometown that he saw for the first time.

Winters in the south are cold and damp, but there are no biting winds in the north.

This is also the place where Xiaoqi has been fond of the drizzle in the winter in the south of the Yangtze River all his life, and this is the place where Xiaoqi has been haunted by his dreams for the rest of his life.

She is from Jiangnan. No matter where she wanders in this life, even if she has lived elsewhere or in the imperial capital for longer than the time in Jiangnan, she has never felt that she is a northerner, she stubbornly believes that she is a Jiangnan.

It seems that this is the intersection of Xiaoqi's mother to the depths of her soul.

She remembered what her father said, and she vaguely heard Jiangnan's sisters say that her mother had always wanted to return to Jiangnan.

Perhaps this is the blending of mother and daughter.

Perhaps when Xiaoqi was still in his mother's womb, this deep desire of the soul has been rooted in the depths of Xiaoqi's soul.

Maybe this is what is in the blood, this is what is in the bones.

You are a Jiangnan native, and you are the imprint of family inheritance for thousands of years.

At one time, Xiaoqi thought that she lived with her mother's soul and wishes.

Her family is well-informed and humble, and it will not be like the colleagues she met after many years of small work.

The nouveau riche, or the historical opportunity of personal efforts to reach this very high position.

But in his bones, he still talks vulgarly and barbarously, without etiquette or righteousness.

If you do 99/100, you will have 1/100 imperfection.

It will catch this one percent mistake and scold you for a bloody one, and all your hard work and seriousness will no longer exist.

Xiaoqi is too gentle, she is really not suitable for the savagery of this workplace wolf pack, she deserves to be eliminated.

Perhaps with her father's care and the love of the whole family, her growth seems to have slowed down, and she is properly spoiled.

In Jiangnan, in her generation, Xiaoqi is the youngest child.

has no mother, she is a little baby that the whole family cares for, be careful of her liver.

It is said that when Jiangnan arrives for the New Year, every household has rice cakes and snacks.

That osmanthus cake is Kosu's favorite.

In the blink of an eye, Xiaoqi is also six years old, and it is time to study hard.

This good time is always short-lived, and the time of the New Year, day after day, passes very quickly.

It was time for my father to have to return.

The family persuaded his father to leave Xiaoqi in Jiangnan, a big man with such a child, in the northwest where the conditions were difficult, it was not a thing.

It is good for a man to have the motherland in his heart and be determined to do something, but it is really unnecessary for the child to suffer with him at such a young age.

Besides, Xiaoqi's mother also threw her life there after she arrived in the northwest.

Illness is the reason, maybe the conditions in the northwest are too poor, and my mother has been a pampered lady since she was a child, and she can't adapt to it for a while, and she can't tell it.

After this persuasion, my father hesitated again and again.

"You can choose any family for this child, and each of our families will no longer have a problem taking care of Xiaoqi." These are the words of the uncle.

"I have given birth to 7 children, and if there is one more Xiaoqi, Zhisheng, you can rest assured." The aunt hugged Xiaoqi with a reluctant look.

Xiaoqi seems to understand whether she understands or not, but she knows that her aunt loves her.

The fathers in all the places in the south of the Yangtze River took a look at the schools around many relatives.