Chapter 266: Changes in the Baby
"Tangtang, what do you see the three of them talking about there? The conversation was so hilarious that my mouth never stopped. ”
"Well, who?"
"Ai Hao, Ai Xin and Sugar Dad."
"Huh? I don't have time to look at it, I'm too busy to lift my head, how can I have the time to look at the three of them, no, it's not three people, it should be four people, our family is not there. ”
"Ouch, he's such a small little brat, he definitely doesn't have his part in chatting, and he can't interject."
"Although he can't speak, he is also a man."
"Well, well, count him in. The four big men have been talking together for a long time, and I have been observing them for a long time, and the three of them have been talking until now since Sugar Dad went out, and they haven't stopped for a moment. ”
"Oh, whatever, let's see how they talk, let's continue to cook our meals, and when our meals are ready, we'll go out and have a good time."
"Hehe, what, are you both tired? When you're tired, go out and rest, just leave it to me alone. ”
"How can it be done, the two of us are learning to cook with you today, we can't give up halfway."
"That's right, the two of us are Sugar Mom's two little assistants today, and the chef hasn't left yet, how can the little assistant run out alone."
"Well, yes, Mom, don't worry about us, let's finish these two dishes and go out."
"I see you two are tired from standing there, and you must be thinking about teasing you too, so I thought you could go out early."
"Oh, sugar mom, it's not like that, I saw the three of them big men, what can they talk about, they talk so happily, and their heads are still poked together, they haven't even raised their heads, I'm just curious."
"Oh, you don't have to be curious, let me tell you, they can sit together and talk so high, it must be Ai Xin who is boasting to Ai Hao about his experience of being a dad again."
"Daddy? Experienced? What experience? ”
"That's right, Tangtang, Ai Xin often works in the company, how can he have so much time to get along with Xiaola, besides, what kind of experience can happen between father and son?"
Tang Ruo heard Tang Tang say this, so he followed Mu Mo and asked Tang Tang Tang lively.
"Oh, Mom, don't you know, Ai Xin often goes to the company in the morning after a morning meeting, and comes back to accompany me and Xiao Shula, sometimes at most he stays in the company for half a day, and he doesn't go to the company in the second half of the day.
"Huh? What the? The dignified president of H Group still has such a delicate mind, let's talk about it quickly, how did our president Ai train my godson to crawl, it must be very funny! ”
"Oh, I really can't see it, Ai Xin, this kid is really very attentive, as a big man, it's really not easy to do this, it's really amazing, it seems that I made the right choice with your father."
"Mom, don't be there to sigh, the current fathers-to-be are more attentive than the mothers, so this change in Ai Xin is really not a big deal."
"Oh, I think you're too dissatisfied."
"Yes, yes, if Ai Xin doesn't care about it, you have to take care of all this alone, think about how tired you are!"
"How can it be, after having a little talk, Ai Xin has changed a lot, before the rebirth of Xiao Shula, Ai Xin bought a few books about parenting knowledge, I basically haven't read those books when I buy them, every time it's Ai Xin, he takes it to read when he gets home from work."
"Oh, this is too unfair, our Ai Dong is so likable at home."
"Hehe, for a while, he was particularly concerned about training the baby's analytical and judgment ability, as well as improving the operation skills and speed of his hands."
"Ah, this will too, this Ai Xin is simply a good husband of the people."
"In order to train the baby, he also went to buy two brightly colored balls, let the baby play with a ball in one hand, and then Ai Xin took a toy and put it in front of the baby, guide the baby to become interested in this toy, and then carefully observe how the baby takes the third toy."
"Tell me quickly, how did my godson get it?"
"At the beginning, the baby must have thrown away two hands, one of the toys, and then went to get the third toy, but Ai Xin just did not give up, he insisted on teasing the baby many times, until the baby can hand one of the toys to the other, and then take the third, but at first the baby may throw away, one of them to take the third, or with one hand to hold two toys in the arms, and then with the hand to get the third, he is like this, slowly continue to guide and train the hand speed of the hand, So now that Xiaoxiao is crawling so fast, it has nothing to do with Ai Xin. ”
"Ah, Tangtang, you're too enviable, you're married to such a good husband, and even the children are brought by his father, hey, think about how happy you are, I envy you so much."
"Oh, what's there to envy, after your baby is born, Ai Hao will definitely be more thoughtful than our Ai Xin."
"Well, I hope so, I hope Ai Xin can train our Ai Hao well today."
"Oh, I don't dare to say it this time, but seeing what they talked about just now, Ai Xin, I must have told Ai Hao about the experience of these things early."
"I really hope that our Ai Hao can have half as good as your Ai Xin."
"Oh, don't say that, everyone has their own advantages, their own shortcomings, but in this world, there is no perfect person, so you, don't ask too much, give Ai Hao freedom and space appropriately, so that Ai can let go, you, sometimes don't take it too seriously, you can get by, after all, Ai Hao is a boy, I can't listen to you everything, besides, Ai Hao is also very good to you, look at Ai Hao like that, wait until you have a baby, Ai Hao will definitely take the initiative to take care of the baby. ”
"That's right, Momo, look at Ai Hao's young man, he is indeed a very good person, and he is very attentive to you, I think you are also very attentive to Ai Hao, so yes, since you both have given this marriage, I hope you can also be like an adult, so that your home is full of love, so that the baby born in the future can also be born with joy."
"That's right, what Mom said is true, only the parents are in harmony, unity and friendship, the baby must be born with special confidence, and the body will exude a unique temperament, which is really impossible for others to imitate."
"Then I have to let our family Ai Hao study well with your family Ai Xin."
"I will definitely let Ai Xin train Ai Hao well, and let Ai Hao take Ai Xin as an example and be a competent and qualified good father."
"That's right, Tangtang, I look at Xiaoxiao, crawling so fast, aren't all children now unable to climb, I have a colleague's sister's child who said that he can't crawl since he was a child, but our Xiaoxiao is really an exception, crawling so fast."
"This is also thanks to my dear husband Ai Xin."
"What? Even the chatty crawling is from Ai Xin's church, hehe, how did he teach it? Shouldn't he be lying on the ground and showing Xiaola? ”
"Oh, go aside, this child's crawling is originally a child's nature, and he won't need an adult to demonstrate, he will crawl, okay."
"That's right, Momo, it's really the nature of children to crawl, like you and the children of Tangtang's age when they were young, one crawled faster than the other, and the grasping speed of hands and feet was also super fast."
"But, but now I hear a lot of parents say that their children can't crawl on their own!"
"It's not that the child himself can't crawl, but the parents don't want to let the child crawl, because in the parents' minds, they feel that there are many bacteria on the ground, and the child crawls on the ground, and is easy to be infected with bacteria, so he has been holding and not giving the child a normal life rule, the child can't crawl, all the parents stop it, every child is born, he has the nature of crawling, but through the influence of the day after tomorrow, the children will forget this nature."
"That's right, now the child can crawl, parents will think he is different, last time I was a little uncomfortable, I went to the hospital for a check-up, the weather was a little cold in those days, just the child's flu epidemic period, many children went to see a cold, and then the doctor gave a summary that the child has no resistance, because the child does not follow the child's own growth law to move, so the resistance will be low, as long as the weather becomes cold, the child is particularly prone to cold, So the doctor suggested that those parents let their children live according to their rules of life, hoping that parents do not disturb the children's rules of life, when the doctor said these words, I listened to a blind, now think about what the doctor said is really reasonable, now parents are afraid that their children are affected, so parents are basically for their children to do everything, it seems that this is really a very powerful approach to the child's growth process. ”
"Yes, I have done so many parenting teachers before, people are very supportive of children to grow up according to the rules of children's lives, some children will not crawl, parents will encourage and support and even demonstrate, so that the baby learns to crawl, when the baby is crawling at the same time, the baby's brain logical thinking and the speed of the hand interact, which is very conducive to the development and training of the baby's brain logical thinking."
"It seems that Ai Xin's behavior is really wise, he really deserves to be Ai Dong of H Group, he even understands these basic parenting knowledge, which makes me admire it so much."
"That's right, in order to let Xiao Sila practice crawling, Ai Xin really spent a lot of effort at home."
"Aren't you involved?"
"I only help out on the side occasionally, but the main force is still Ai Xin."
"Ai Xin is on Xiaoxiaola, but it really took a lot of effort."
"Oh, that's all as it should be, as a father, he must be a father's responsibility, Ai Xin is a good-looking person, he is mainly to be able to make his perfect image rooted in Xiao Shula's heart, so he will show a good image of a perfect father in front of Xiao Shula."
"Gee, I'm just curious how he guided Silly to crawl?"
"Our family is a little talker, even if there is no guide from him, it should be able to climb very well, because a few days before Ai Xin guided Xiao Shula to crawl, Xiao Shula, began to crawl by himself, sometimes he would lie on the ground, with both hands and feet to support the whole body, slowly moving forward, although the movement is very slow, only such a short distance, but he is also trying, probably because the strength in the arms and legs is not enough, so he can only spin in place."
Whenever Tang Tang talked about Xiaoxiaola, Tang Tang's face would unconsciously show a happy smile.
"This child, to a certain time, he will naturally learn this kind of action, and in ordinary life, the baby and adults contact at the same time, he will also learn the pronunciation of adults to learn to speak, will also learn a variety of adult actions, so such a small baby to learn things very fast, parents in the most game with the baby, not only can promote the feelings of parents and babies, more importantly, games can stimulate the baby's interest in exploring the world around him, improve logical thinking ability, and can better promote intellectual development, So in the process of getting along with the baby, not only is there a lot of fun, but there is more, and we will also learn from the baby. ”
"Well, that's true, I did learn a lot from Xiao Shula, this little guy is very comforting, as long as he sees you unhappy, or sad face, the little guy will quickly crawl to you, he will stand up with your arm, and he will hide his whole body in your arms, and will touch your sad face with his fleshy little hands, I am especially afraid of Xiao Shula's comfort to me."
"Why?"
"Because Xiao Shula gave me such comfort, it will make me feel that as a mother, I don't give Xiao Shu a sense of security enough, so he will hide in my arms to comfort me, and even make me feel that Xiao Shu La gives me a sense of security, really, especially at that time, this feeling is particularly obvious, I will feel that I am too incompetent as a mother."
"That's right, you see Xiao Xiaola, although he is small, but he understands everything in his heart, knows everything, but he can't express it in words, he will remember all your expressions in his mind, and even sometimes imitate the tone of your speech, oops, anyway, the child is really amazing, you see he doesn't understand anything, but sometimes he does actions and behaviors that you can't imagine, and often creates a lot of unexpected surprises for you."
"Yes, that's true, do you know, our baby likes to play in the water, and in the process of playing in the water, you will give you a lot of surprises that you don't expect."