Chapter 421: Enlightenment
"It's not your fault."
Almost immediately, he had already seen that Xie Chonglou was depressed, Jin Sinan hugged her, and his expression was serious: "You have indeed changed." ”
"But instead of getting worse as you said, it's getting better, becoming more independent, and working harder, what's wrong with that?"
"What you thought about at the beginning was independence and freedom."
But how many people in this world can be truly independent and free? Mind and body are always bound by inexplicable things, aren't they? ”
Xie Chonglou looked at him with some surprise.
Jin Sinan continued to say seriously: "What I said is not just coaxing you, in fact, what you are doing now is much better than most people." ”
Xie Chonglou did not speak.
She was seriously thinking about what Jin Sinan said.
At this time, Jin Sinan did not interrupt her, but watched her ponder until she wrinkled her brows before she spoke: "Why do you suddenly have such an idea?" ”
In any case, it is always necessary to find the source to solve such a problem.
Otherwise, such a thought is suffocated in my heart, and it is really uncomfortable.
Xie Chonglou didn't dwell on it for long, so he told Jin Sinan: "Today I went to visit the teacher, and when the teacher talked about things on Weibo, he probably meant that he felt that I should manage my fans." ”
"And then?"
If it is just these, it can't make Xie Chonglou confused to this point, there must be other reasons for this.
Xie Chonglou pursed his lips and said slowly: "When I cancelled Weibo, I never thought that I would return to Weibo again, but if I need to manage fans, I want to register 'Xie Chonglou's Weibo, I ......"
At this point, the words had come to an abrupt end.
Jin Sinan probably already understood what was going on with her, and suddenly chuckled helplessly: "So you can't pass this level in your heart, right?" I feel that re-registering Weibo is not my real thought in my heart. ”
"Or rather, I'm worried that something else will happen after I sign up for Weibo."
"For example, when someone came to you and told you about the events of the year, didn't you plan to register on Weibo, why did you register again, and hated to face this kind of questioning."
“……”
Xie Chonglou didn't speak, just looked at him.
It's just that this look already says it all.
In her heart, she really thinks so.
Jin Sinan was distressed and amused, and said slowly: "In the pursuit of freedom and independence, the first thing we should do should be to follow our own path and let others say it." ”
"One kind of rice breeds a hundred kinds of people, and a thousand people have a thousand different Hamlets in their hearts, who can guarantee that they can make everyone like them?"
"No matter what you do, you can't make everyone like it, so why not do what you like? As long as you like it, why care about others? ”
Xie Chonglou seemed to have entered a strange circle.
She understands everything.
But at this time, there was no way to respond to Jin Sinan at all.
Seeing her like this, Jin Sinan directly hugged her and got up.
The sudden movement made Xie Chonglou look slightly stunned, and when he looked up, his lips brushed his jaw, as if there was a feather on each other's hearts, gently brushing.
Xie Chonglou inexplicably felt that something was wrong with his body.
She looked at him: "You ......"
"Since you think differently, let's get some sleep! Sleep and you'll be able to figure it out! The sleep in Jin Sinan's mouth is not an adjective, but a ...... Verb.
When Xie Chonglou was so tired that he was about to faint, and shouted "don't" in a low voice, the man was like a beast that didn't know how to be satisfied, and he would only work harder.
Xie Chonglou didn't have the heart to think about the things that annoyed her.
……
When Xie Chonglou woke up, the sun had already set outside, replaced by the bright lights, and when she opened her eyes, what she saw was a honey-colored chest.
The texture on it is not exaggerated, a thin layer looks very distinct, and how much explosive power it carries is, she has already experienced it herself......
Xie Chonglou's face turned red inexplicably.
"Awake?"
Jin Sinan felt the difference between the people in his arms, his voice was low and magnetic, and he really responded to the sentence "Just listen to the sound, your ears will be pregnant", and Xie Chonglou replied: "Hmm." ”
"Out to dinner?"
"Okay."
When he got up, Xie Chonglou's legs were weak and he knelt straight to the ground.
Obviously, the promise to go out to eat should have been done too quickly......
finally eased up a little, after washing, when he was about to go out, Jin Sinan directly half-hugged her, in his words, that is: I don't worry about her, I'm afraid that she will fall.
Scold!
If it weren't for the fact that he tossed enough, she would have been like this?
Xie Chonglou glanced at him a little sadly, but what he got was a kiss from Jin Sinan who leaned forward and didn't care about the occasion, Xie Chonglou didn't laugh or cry when he boarded.
"Okay, I won't mess with you next!"
Before getting out of the car, Jin Sinan could feel that Xie Chonglou's interest was not high, and with a little grievance in his expression, he hurriedly opened his mouth to reassure.
Actually, he also saw that Xie Chonglou was in a bad mood, so he tried his best to make her have a little motivation or something, so that she would arouse some interest, of course, it was true that he wanted to kiss her.
The two entered the restaurant.
Jin Si Nanding's location is in the hall.
In this restaurant, even in the hall, there is still a screen, and the screens are covered by some ancient paintings or landscapes, which looks like people are passing through.
After the two sat down, a waiter came up and waited for them to order.
Jin Sinan ordered, but did not ask Xie Chonglou, but directly gave the menu to the waiter, so that the waiter also looked at him with some surprise.
It doesn't seem to be understandable that he's a big man, and he doesn't know how to let a lady order, and he doesn't even ask for any opinions, which is completely disrespectful.
However, the waiter didn't dare to say anything, but before leaving, when he looked at Jin Sinan, his expression was still a little confused and even disdainful, as if Jin Sinan's actions were very wrong.
"Did you see that?"
Waiting for the waiter to leave, Jin Sinan looked at Xie Chonglou and asked casually, but without waiting for Xie Chonglou to answer, he had already spoken again: "It's the situation just now, in fact, he doesn't know anything." ”
"Because I don't know anything, I really don't hesitate at all when I criticize others, and even just rely on my own conjectures and brains to discuss and even judge in my heart."
"It's a common problem that everybody has."
But why don't some people? Take you, and I. ”
"Because in this case, we have come to a certain point, and we know very clearly what we want, so in this case, even if we guess, we will not make a conclusion at the first time."
"Seeing is believing, hearing is believing, in fact, what we see is not necessarily true, what we hear is not necessarily the real situation, many things, what we can see, is just a surface."
Jin Sinan looked at Xie Chonglou: "Look, what these people see is the surface, allowing the demons in their hearts to wantonly hurt others, or talk about others, what is there to care about?" ”
"It's like it's the same thing on the Internet."
"What can they know?"
"It's just looking at the cold and stiff text, or relying on a picture, guessing the whole text, and making up speculation in the brain to satisfy your heart."
"If you really care, to them, it's just speculation, and it's true, but if you don't care, then it's nothing."
"Baby."
"You've done a great job!"
"Well done, and excellent! No one can influence your thoughts and actions, as long as you know firmly and clearly what you want. ”
Xie Chonglou listened to Jin Sinan's words and looked stunned.
When I got to the back, it was suddenly enlightened!
Oh, yes!
Why care about what others think?
At the end of the day, a lot of things are mutual!
If others say that she cares about other people's malicious speculations, and she is hurt and sad, it is just her, but if she doesn't care, what can others do with her?
If a person gives up everyone's sincerity because of their dislike or even hatred, then what is the difference between her and those who only open their mouths to misunderstand others, but never care what the other person thinks, and what the truth of the matter is?
Xie Chonglou suddenly realized.
The delicate little face was also relieved, and showed the most dazzling smile towards Jin Sinan.
Jin Sinan's throat rolled slightly.
He suddenly got up.
"How ......"
Xie Chonglou didn't know what was going on, as soon as he spoke, the person had already come to her, and his thin lips fell on her lips, only slightly, very restrained and calm, and sat back in his original position.
Looking at him, as if nothing had happened, Xie Chonglou couldn't cry or laugh, but soon, the corners of his lips were hooked again.
The two looked at each other and smiled.
Everything is in plain sight.
The dishes ordered were quickly served, and the waiter was keenly aware that the atmosphere between the two had become a little sweeter than before, and the air seemed to smell sour of love.
Especially when he saw that he was very disdainful of men before and didn't let ladies order, but every one of them was a lady's favorite dish, he suddenly felt a little embarrassed.
Soon, he covered his face and walked away.
Xie Chonglou and Jin Sinan didn't care about this.
For them, they are just a passerby in life, so why do they really care?
The two of them eat dinner, and from time to time they will pick up dishes for each other, and even send them to each other's mouths, which shows extra affection and warmth!
They are naturally very comfortable.
However, when this scene fell into the hearts of some well-intentioned people, it became unhappy!
Jin Siyu and Song Chenwan came out to eat, but they didn't expect to meet Jin Sinan and Xie Chonglou in the restaurant! The point is, the two are still in love!
They can see their eyes red!