The child became more and more like his biological father.

Sister Qiao looked at Xu Zongpu's face and felt more and more relieved.

Children are born with a blurry mass of soaked flesh, and then they slowly begin to have facial features, their faces are angular, and the traces of their parents are a sleeping face, which is gradually injected with soul.

If you can look at the child's face and cheeks with your loved one and experience his growth, then you will feel that the air is sweet and happiness is beautiful in time.

However, these months are also the time when all couples are most likely to have problems.

Mother's love is at least ten months longer than father's love, and when a mother begins to look at her child's little face, she has often been with the child day and night, almost a year.

But fathers, whether they go out or are busy, it is difficult for them to cultivate such a deep affection with their children early.

When the father sees that the mother is full of attention to the child, it is difficult to be infected by this kind of love, but will disagree, and even resent, many grievances will also erupt three to six months after the birth of the child.

Today's doctors study postpartum depression and find that it is related to hormonal changes and psychological changes.

Sister Qiao is now in this stage of injecting souls into children, on the one hand, the child's small face, small hands, and learning to turn over will bring her great happiness; On the other hand, there is no way to share all these joys with others.

There is only a mute sister-in-law around to help take care of the children, who can Sister Qiao say?

Of course, in ancient legends, the default father was to be absent, or even to be encouraged.

Xue Rengui, a famous general of the Tang Dynasty, went out to fight after his wife became pregnant, and when he came back more than ten years later, Liu Yinhuan dedicated an eldest son, Xue Dingshan, in front of him.

As for how hard a poor woman pulls a son, no one cares, in short, men are making achievements, and that's enough, that's why you don't care about the family.

Xu Yongzhi gave Xu Genealogy a legal identity, and also gave him and Sister Qiao all the expenses for living, a set of small courtyards that were not bad, but there was one thing he really couldn't give.

That's fatherly love.

Xu Yongzhi traveled back and forth between the north and south of the river, busy helping the Zhao official family to dominate the world.

He will bring gifts to this son when he goes home, but he will never give Sister Qiao any tenderness and comfort - because they are not lovers, he will always be polite, like an outsider, to Sister Qiao, seven points like a brother, and three points, like a subordinate.

Duan Meimei said that Xu Zongpu is also her own child, and she has done a good job in this.

She would often come over, play with Xu Genealogy, and bring him and Sister Qiao delicious food.

But let's tell the truth, Duan Meimei is just a patriarchal mother, and Sister Qiao is the blood mother.

This difference is still too big.

If Duan Meimei really took the genealogy away and raised it, maybe she would take good care of this child.

She also had this kind of thought, but Xu Yongzhi refused.

"After all, it's her child, you took him away, what else does she have, she has to go crazy." Xu Yongzhi was reluctant to do so.

Duan Meimei also understood that being afraid of Sister Qiao's collapse was only a reason, and the other most important reason was that Xu Yongzhi was afraid that there would be a mustard between Duan Meimei and him.

If Duan Meimei raised the genealogy, Sister Qiao would definitely go in and out of the house every day, although she and Duan Meimei had shaken hands and made peace, they would never be able to like each other, and Xu Yongzhi would also feel uncomfortable.

That's why we live across a wall, but we also have to live across a wall.

But there is one woman who often comes and goes, and this is Zhenzhen.

Since she recognized Xu Yongzhi's brother and followed Zhang Dejun, she often came to Xu's house to visit Duan Meimei, the new sister-in-law, and she also loved Xu Zongzhi's nephew.

She didn't know Xu Zongpu's life experience, so she could devote herself to her feelings for this nephew, which was different from all those who had a pimple in her heart.

After coming and going, Zhenzhen, the godaunt, became a real aunt, although every time Zhenzhen came to the Xu family, she would go to see Duan Meimei first, but in the end, she would spend a lot of time with Sister Qiao.

"It's so cute." Zhenzhen looked at the Xu genealogy.

"He's going to laugh out loud, and he's pretty good." Sister Qiao said proudly.

"I really envy you," Zhenzhen said to Sister Qiao with a smile.

Zhenzhen is telling the truth, although she is married to Zhang Dejun, but because Zhang Dejun has not yet established the kind of status that can make the official family elevate him, she has never had the identity of a wife.

What she always likes and reveres in her heart is Xu Yongzhi.

Zhenzhen sometimes feels sorry, Master Xu is born well, and he has the ability, why would he marry a concubine like Sister Qiao, is it really like many people on the market say, is she fascinated by Sister Qiao?

By the way, the portrayal of Xu Yongzhi in the market is also very divided, among those who like him and are familiar with him, he is both civil and military, and he is particularly righteous to his friends.

But in some people's mouths, he is a person who is greedy for women and is particularly obsessed with love.

Of course Zhenzhen didn't believe those rumors, she tried it herself, she wanted Xu Yongzhi to be good with him, but Xu Yongzhi refused, and replaced it with brother and sister love, such a man would not be seduced by a woman casually.

So she was full of doubts about Sister Qiao being able to become this brother's concubine, could it really be that she couldn't grasp it for a while?

Zhenzhen looked at this courtyard and felt that the people who could live here were so lucky, it was so good to be able to see Master Xu every day, talk and laugh with him.

But she is also a woman from the Xu family, Duan Meimei is a woman who Zhenzhen is somewhat afraid and respectful, and Zhenzhen's opinion of Sister Qiao is particularly complicated:

I think she's a little stupid, I think she's not worthy of an adult;

I was very envious of her, and felt why I didn't have this kind of opportunity;

But I sincerely wish her, because after all, she gave birth to Lord Xu's first son.

By the way, there is also a little maid named Pity, that girl, Zhenzhen naturally feels disgusted - this girl has purring eyes, not like a good person.

"Like Daddy." Zhenzhen stared at Xu Zongpu's face for a long time.

"Is it~?" Sister Qiao said that she secretly laughed in her heart, thinking "You don't know his father at all."

Sister Qiao felt that Zhenzhen was complimenting herself.

Sister Qiao firmly believes that Zhenzhen is because she feels that she has given birth to a boy and has a stable position in the Xu family, so she comes to slap herself.

She didn't know that Zhenzhen always came here because she really cared about Xu Yongzhi's son.

Zhenzhen looked for traces of Xu Yongzhi on Xu Zongpu's face, and all the good-looking places would be attributed to Lord Xu's appearance, that's it.

In fact, if you have a preconceived idea of who the child's appearance looks like, then you will definitely be able to find all kinds of evidence.

"Xu Yongzhi still thinks he looks like me." Sister Qiao said happily.

Zhenzhen looked at Sister Qiao.

Zhenzhen was beaten in Gou Lang when she was a child, but then she has been working as a maid in a big family, she is smart and sensible, and she attaches great importance to the rules, which is at least a hundred times higher than Sister Qiao.

Hearing Sister Qiao call her husband's name so loudly, Zhenzhen frowned, you are just a concubine, it is too unruly. How did she know that Sister Qiao was called Xu Yongzhi "Xu Jin" just a month ago.

"Like you," Zhenzhen looked at Sister Qiao, "These big eyes look like you." ”

Zhenzhen's words are true, Zhenzhen's eyes are slender, which makes her a delicate and sultry woman, but she has always felt that she does not have a pair of big eyes, which is a little regrettable.

"But this chin, this nose, still looks like a brother." Zhenzhen still couldn't help but think about it, this is Xu Yongzhi's nose and chin.

"How could it be! This chin and nose are much better than his. Sister Qiao couldn't help but be a little impatient.

Two women defend their favorite men against a child, but the more they talk, the more stiff they get!

"How can you say that about your husband!" Zhenzhen finally couldn't help it.

"Although you are older than me, there are some things that you will understand when you become a mother, and the child is the most important thing!" Sister Qiao looked fake and sophisticated.

These words just poked at the sore spot in Zhenzhen's heart.

Zhang Dejun is an internal servant, he and Zhenzhen can be husband and wife and live a life, but Zhenzhen may not have a biological child of her own in this life.

Zhenzhen's face was gloomy, and now Sister Qiao also saw it, and when she said it, she realized that she had lost her words.

At this time, it's actually quite simple, just say "I lost my words, I'm sorry" and it's okay.

In fact, Sister Qiao wants to express this meaning, but when she says it, it's just too annoying.

"Oh, I forgot that Master Zhang is my father-in-law. I'm like this, I'm straightforward, don't mind. ”

People who regard low emotional intelligence as their own merits are simply too hard to associate with her.

Zhenzhen smiled.

"It's getting late, it's time for me to go."

When I said goodbye, I felt that my heart was simply too aggrieved.

He chose to marry Zhang Dejun, and Zhang Dejun was not bad to himself, but when he saw Xu Yongzhi accepting such a concubine, he really felt uneasy.

How can she praise the child she gave birth to and her husband, and she can still boast of her mistakes!

I wanted to go next door to talk to Duan Meimei, but I thought about it.

Duan Meimei's almost cold politeness to that child should be due to Sister Qiao's attitude.

After thinking about it, don't say it, although I have the surname Xu, after all, I am not the aunt and grandmother of the Xu family, and it is not good to get involved in those things, I got on the small sedan chair, let the sedan chair go home, and from the gap in the sedan curtain, I saw Sister Qiao looking at herself at the door, and I felt disgusted for a while, pretending not to see it, and just left.

Sister Qiao walked to the door, and wanted to say a few hot words, but when she saw Xu Zhenzhen getting into the sedan chair and leaving, she didn't say anything, she turned her head to go home, and suddenly heard someone shouting with a castanets:

"Gan Luoyun is too early and too late, who knows the fortune of his life?"

"It depends on the fate of the child, the career of the head of the family, those who believe in me will not take ten thousand dollars!"

This person is far across the street, but every word is clearly sent into Sister Qiao's ears, and it is not simple.

Sister Qiao was taken aback, and when she looked at the person, she found that it was an old Taoist, this old Taoist had a clear appearance, fairy wind and bones, and looked quite Taoist.

What's wrong with calculating, if Xu Yongzhi can be crowned the king of the county, can the genealogy be his son? What is the fortune of their children, what is their fortune, and the woman who is hesitating is easy to be moved by this kind of monk and Taoist.

The rough mother-in-law in the small courtyard was about to close the door, but Sister Qiao stretched out her hand to stop her.

"Master Dao," Sister Qiao shouted, "Little girl here, I want to ask for a hexagram!" ”

What she didn't expect was that with this hexagram, she would have to calculate the disaster.