Chapter 52: Family Influences

No matter what, this person still has to be found, judging from the surveillance screen, his behavior of following Xu Wenrui is obvious, but what is the intention behind this behavior, there is no way to draw a conclusion based on a few surveillance videos.

"Let's go around and see if we can meet that person." This kind of investigation is not a job that one or two people can complete, Kang Ge doesn't mind tossing a few more times, after all, he is also an idle person, "Judging from the surveillance video, that person doesn't look like he followed Xu Wenrui all the way, but it seems that he is quite familiar with the surrounding environment of K University." ”

"Okay, let's go! Anyway, if we can't meet him, we'll go to Wu Beibei, and we won't lose anything! Yan Xue readily agreed.

The two came to the area around K University and parked the car near the place where the man had been captured by surveillance video many times before.

"Lowe and they went to wander around, so let's be lazy and wait here for the rabbit." Kango parked the car, unbuckled his seatbelts, and adjusted his seat to be more comfortable and relaxed.

It is said that it is "waiting for the rabbit", in fact, it is also the same trouble, especially in the vicinity of this kind of university, there are still a lot of people coming and going, from time to time there are groups of people passing by, and there will be some food delivery people and couriers, Kang Ge and Yan Xue Although they sat in the car and did not move, their attention was highly concentrated, paying close attention to the people around them, trying to find them from them.

Fortunately, Yan Xue has several years of work experience and is more familiar with this kind of thing, although Kang Ge said that the time he has been back in the criminal police team is not long, but the basic skills are still there, and he is also at ease, while paying attention to the people around him, he can still chat a few words.

"Do you say that a person's personality is born with a greater influence, or is it more influenced by the family and surrounding environment?" He turned his head to look at Yan Xue and threw a question at her.

Yan Xue sighed, she still felt a lot about this question, when she was a child, she used to be a little girl with a gentle temper, and it wasn't that two bell peppers gave birth to a genetically mutated Chaotian pepper.

"Do you want to discuss the influence between Xu Wenrui's personality and his mother's kind of cultivation in his family?

Let's put it this way, I think Xu Wenrui is particularly concerned about some false names, loves face, likes to be in the limelight, and other personality traits, which definitely have the credit of his mother's indirect guidance and encouragement. Although children's nature has a certain foundation, children, like small animals, are actually growing up to find a way that is more conducive to their own survival.

You may not believe it," Yan Xue laughed self-deprecatingly, "I had a very good temper when I was young, I almost never got angry and lost my temper, especially gentle, my favorite toy is Barbie, and I eat and everything is grinding, which especially gives my parents a headache." ”

"Truth be told, it's a bit hard to imagine." Kango didn't try to hide his surprise.

"Yes, don't say that you think it's unimaginable, even I think it's a little incredible, I can only say that people are born, maybe it's really like a piece of clay, the plasticity is too strong, few people can maintain their original nature from childhood to old age, basically in the process of growing up, in life gradually affected by the surroundings, it changes."

"Who or what prompted you to change your personality pattern?"

"People, after all, no matter what, it's all done by people!"

Yan Xue rarely sighed with others before, although her personality is cheerful, but there is still a faint stubbornness in her bones, the more people who don't understand her temper, the more lazy she is to explain anything to the other party, but it is rare for someone like Kang Ge to appreciate her current quick temper, which makes her feel that she doesn't mind analyzing the causes of her personality in front of him.

"I had a good temper when I was a kid, and like other girls, I liked to play around and dress up Barbie dolls.

Once my dad went on a business trip, and when he came back, he bought me a Barbie doll set that my family couldn't buy locally, not only the doll is particularly beautiful, but also there are many beautiful clothes and accessories, which I especially like.

Not only do I like it, but my sister-in-law's cousin also likes it, and she plans to forcibly 'borrow' it from me, but where can I give it, I refuse and refuse to agree.

My cousin was four years older than me, I was six or seven years old, she was eleven years old, and a child of that age, four years old was an insurmountable gap in strength and height, so I was beaten for the first time in my life, and I was beaten very badly, my body was blue and purple, and my hair was torn. Yan Xue recalled the thing in her childhood that made her remember it vividly, even after many years, there would still be some faint liver fire, and her hands subconsciously clenched into fists on her knees.

"Tut-tut......" Kang Ge said, "You cousin is really domineering!" ”

"Yes, her personality is quite natural, and she has inherited it perfectly from my sister-in-law." Yan Xue sneered, "I was very embarrassed by her at the time, but the doll kept holding it and refused to let go, which made my cousin mad and tear it hard, the doll's skirt was torn, her hair was pulled out, and a leg was broken."

When the adults in the family heard the voice, my sister-in-law knew what had happened to me, and the first thing she said to me was: 'If she wants you to give it to her, it will be fine, and children should know to share, and they can't be so selfish'. ”

"Yo, your little aunt is really a logical genius!" Kango laughed.

"It's not strange for her to say this, it's always been this style, the focus is on my parents, the two of them were afterwards, one told me, knowing that my cousin was domineering and loved to grab toys, and I couldn't beat her, I shouldn't play with that set of Barbie dolls in front of her, and the other told me, forget it, it's all bad, it's a big deal to have a business trip to the field in the future, and then buy it for me.

I feel particularly aggrieved, because I was not at fault at all from beginning to end, and I was beaten, why did I have to be educated in the end? My mother said that there was no way, my aunt's family was unreasonable, and it didn't make sense to them, so they could only afford to hide.

Since then, I don't play with Barbie dolls or play house anymore, I just climb the horizontal bar with a group of little boys, run and jump, and after a while, because this one has grown a lot taller, tanned, and stocky. ”

"No one talks about you like this?" Kango asked.

Yan Xue laughed when she heard this question: "You still have a life!" Of course, some people said that my relatives told my parents that I was like a tomboy, and I didn't look like a girl, which was not good.

But my parents didn't pay attention to me this time, and I later learned that they didn't think it was wrong for me to play with boys, and that if someone bullied me, the boys would help protect me.

Isn't that a joke! Am I playing with them to seek refuge? I think playing with them up and down will give me more strength, and by the way, I can watch them fight and watch. ”

"And what is the result of your study and observation?" Hearing this, the smile in Kango's voice could no longer be hidden.

"As a result, when my cousin came to provoke me again, I pounced on her and got into a fight, and I was beaten up by her, and she was no better than me.

After that, every time she provoked, I didn't care about fighting with her, and she didn't dare to provoke me casually when she was too many times, which also taught me a lesson, in the face of those unreasonable people, the most effective way to protect yourself is to make yourself unprovoked.

A little older, relying on the so-called 'adolescent rebellion and disobedience', I dare not provoke my relatives, I dare to go back, and I am just as unkind to bully my parents, and I must react quickly enough to seize the opportunity, so my temper became more and more urgent, and slowly I became a famous cactus in our family circle of relatives.

So you say, isn't the natural character not having a big impact on the future? After Yan Xue finished speaking, she slowly exhaled and came out.

If you can, who wouldn't want to be a little white rabbit that has always been well protected and harmless to humans and animals? From the little white rabbit to a cactus, and into a hot wheel, only Yan Xue knows how much helplessness there is.

"I also had a period of time when I had a lot of fights with my classmates, and I was approached by teachers because of the fights." Kang Ge nodded, his finger lightly tapped the edge of the steering wheel, "At that time, there was a little change in my family, there were three boys in the class, and they always used this to squeeze me when they had nothing to do, and finally one day, I couldn't bear it anymore, and I fought with the three of them respectively, and all three of them were beaten very badly by me, and I fought three times by myself, but it was not much better."

But because I did it first, and because I beat them separately, I beat three people alone, not the three of them beating me, and the teacher called my mother to the school to complain in a fit of anger. ”

"And what's your mother's reaction?" Yan Xue was a little curious, if it was her parents, she would probably feel sorry for herself being beaten, and at the same time, she would blame herself for not provoking those three people, and she shouldn't ask for her own hardships, she was a little curious about what Kango's mother would do.

"My mother understood the cause and effect, and told the teacher that if my son bullied others first, I would never spare him, but if someone bullied us first, she talked nonsense about my mother's family, insulted her personality, and bullied people too much, so she said that she would pay for it once and how much money she needed to pay if it was broken."

"Wow! Your mom is so handsome! Won't you have no psychological burden at all when you fight in the future? Yan Xue teased, glancing at the shallow scar in the middle of Kang Ge's eyebrows.

Kang Ge raised his hand and touched his eyebrows as if he felt the drop of Yan Xue's gaze: "This is not left over from that time, it belongs to another story." Do you think my mom is so dashing as to support me in fighting with others?

In fact, after I went home, I was severely educated by her, she told me, you are a person with a long brain, and you are not a bear in the woods, and everything you encounter has to be solved by fighting with your teeth and claws, especially if the other party is three people!

They are the wrong party, and it is a lesson to use other people's family affairs to squeeze people, but if they are taught a lesson, they have to make it as if they are doomed to the same end, then it is not too much of a loss! If you put yourself in it, won't you lose even more completely! ”

"Wow! Your mother is such a wise person! Yan Xue sighed sincerely.

Kang Ge waved his hand: "Wisdom is a prize, an ordinary little old lady, but she is better at settling accounts, her principle is that the price paid cannot be higher than the interests she wants to protect, otherwise she will lose a lot."

However, her handsome and chic attitude really scared our teacher and the parents of the three children, although they didn't like her attitude, but then those children really didn't dare to say some ugly things about my family, probably because they felt that if they were beaten because of this, there would be no one to ask for an explanation.

However, if they don't talk about it, of course I don't have a reason to beat them, and I don't have the leisure to fight with people all the time. You've taken a police class, you know, it hurts when you hit someone! I don't have that masochistic fetish! ”

"Alas...... It's so good......" Yan Xue sighed faintly, the family affairs mentioned by Kang Ge that made him so unpleasant back then, she naturally wouldn't be uninterested in asking questions, but Kang's mother's way of doing things back then really made her feel emotional.

Kang Ge heard Yan Xue sigh, and was about to say something to her, when he saw a figure appear in sight: "That's not ......"

"Xu Hao!" Yan Xue had already seen the man, "The nameless man I was waiting for didn't appear, but I bumped into him!" ”

"It's okay if you don't have fish or shrimp! I just wanted to talk to him. Kang Ge looked at Xu Hao, who was walking from a distance, "The last time we chatted with Zhuang Fukai, Xu Hao sent a message to contact him and asked him to eat, Zhuang Fukai avoided him, do you remember?" ”

"Remember, that posture seems to be afraid that we think he has a close relationship with Xu Hao." Yan Xue nodded.

Kang Ge watched Xu Hao come over, and when he passed by the car, he lowered the window a few inches: "Xu Hao." ”

Xu Hao was passing by the car, and suddenly heard someone shouting to himself inside, he was startled, stopped and turned his head to look, and saw half of Kangge's face in the open car window, and he was smiling and waving to himself in the driver's seat.

"Uh......" Xu Hao recognized Kang Ge, but instead of greeting him as warmly as before, he bent down and approached the car door a little, with a slightly embarrassed and cramped smile on his face, and stammered, "You guys came to investigate Xu Wenrui's case again?" Then, you guys are busy! I won't bother you! Let's go first, and have a chance to eat together later......"

"It's okay, it's okay, don't be busy walking, just chat a few words when you meet it! Whether you get in the car, or I get off, you choose! Kang Ge was still smiling, but his tone was not negotiable at all, in fact, not only did he not have any intention of discussing with Xu Hao, but he also carried a faint threat, and after finishing speaking, he waited for him to speak as if he was sure that Xu Hao would buy it.

Xu Hao frowned, and after just two or three seconds of hard work, he resigned himself to making a choice, sighed, opened the back door and sat in.