Chapter 69 If a woman wants to stand firm, she must either be cruel to others or to herself!

Speaking of this, Mrs. Zhang gritted her teeth, thinking about the days when she was begging for a living under her mother-in-law, it was really uncomfortable, so that she still can't let go of it today.

Speaking of which, Wang Yongzhu took the opportunity to see if he could convince Mrs. Zhang to be more tolerant of the two sisters-in-law in the future and be kinder to the little beans.

"Mother, since when you were someone's daughter-in-law, you felt that the milk was too harsh to be a mother-in-law, why did you become a mother-in-law, and still treat your sisters-in-law like this? Could it be that all mothers-in-law in the world are the same? Then I don't dare to get married......" The rest of the words were silenced in Mrs. Zhang's eyes.

Mrs. Zhang hates that iron is not steel, if it weren't for her own daughter, she would have taken the soles of her shoes and pulled them up.

But looking at the girl's little appearance of covering her mouth and making an innocent appearance, she couldn't get angry.

Let's just say that this girl's attitude towards several daughters-in-law has eased these days, it turns out that the problem is here.

My daughter never thought about it so much before, it seems that someone is chewing the root of her tongue in her ear, which is not to see that she is good to her daughter.

Mrs. Zhang thought about it, and the target was only those two daughters-in-law, which was very good! Under his nose, he can also take advantage of the fact that his sister-in-law was hit by the resignation, and take the opportunity to gossip and let his daughter stand up for them.

She also said that over the years, how many sons and daughters-in-law have been suppressed?

It seems that there are still a lot of people who are careful!

What did Mrs. Zhang think in her heart, her face didn't show it, but she couldn't help but poke Wang Yongzhu's forehead.

This girl, so filial, is too real, what if you get married, what can you do, meet a powerful mother-in-law, must not be rubbed to death, she used to always feel that her daughter is still young, eat, drink and enjoy the good life before she got married, everything is hidden, now it seems, no, you have to let her know the world!

"You stupid girl! Mother tells you, you are still too young to understand the Tao here! Mother will tell you the truth, if a woman wants to stand firm, she must either be cruel to others or to herself! When your mother and I were girls in my mother's family, we relied on being cruel to ourselves, working more, eating less, having a sweet mouth, and having a hard temperament, so that we could get married smoothly.

Don't look at marrying your father and becoming a stepmother when you enter the door, it doesn't sound good, but the one in front of your father only leaves a daughter, as long as I can give birth to a son, I can stand firm in my in-law's house. When I first entered the door, my mother was a little low, the first to get up every day, the last to sleep, a cover outside the house, everything had to be done, serving your milk during the day, washing and cooking, and working in the fields. Sewing and mending clothes at night, and having to coax the girl left by the woman in front of her, she has never slept a night, and she has never eaten a hot meal.

That's it, your grandmother still picks her nose and eyes every day, a word is wrong, she didn't expect anything at all, she cried and scolded me and said that I am a stepmother, I am ruthless, and I want to kill your dead-faced eldest sister! Your father was also guarding against me at the time, as long as your grandmother cried and made trouble, your father didn't give me a good face for a few days, I was in this Wang family, like boiling oil, until I had your eldest brother, it was a little better, my mother was careful every day at that time, until she gave birth to your eldest brother, she was considered to have a firm foothold in the Wang family. For so many years, I can't tell you what I have suffered. If you weren't cruel to yourself, would you be able to get through?

Later, when you and they went, my mother had your brother and you again, and she was in charge of her own house, and life was better. I thought that I could enjoy the blessings of my son and daughter-in-law now, but this son got married, and there was one more person next to the pillow, so I was selfish.

Let's just say that your sister-in-law, your eldest brother is an honest person, your sister-in-law has a plan in her heart, and she has always thought that she is the eldest son and eldest daughter-in-law, and your father and I are not dead, so we regard the Wang family as hers. I thought it was great to give birth to three sons to the Wang family, so I thought about separating you all. Those ideas are all leftovers from my mother's play, if I don't press her, I'm afraid that it will turn the sky upside down.

And your second brother, who also has no conscience, is at home for him to study, and the money spent can be a villain, he is good, married a daughter-in-law in the city, and simply hides in the city and does not go home, and every year when he goes home, he cries poverty to his mother, saying that it is not easy to live in the city, phew! It's just that I was blown by the wind on my wife's pillow and lost my conscience and forgot my father!

Your third brother is also an unsuccessful person, he doesn't have a home all day long, and there is no difference between him and him. You see your third sister-in-law is pitiful, right? One person dragged three children, and he didn't even have a handle on weekdays. This is also a loss to our family, if it were someone else's family, the daughter-in-law who couldn't keep the man would have been kicked out a long time ago. You know, the pity is also made by herself, just married to our family, crying and mourning all day long, as if our family is sorry for her, and she doesn't have a smile on her man, and she doesn't say much, which man can stand it? The wife at home doesn't know whether it's hot or cold, so can a man run out?

My mother has lived for most of her life, although she has not read any books from your second and third sisters-in-law, but she has read a lot and can understand that from ancient times to the present, it is this world that women live hard. If you want to live well, you have to coax men, follow them, and make them happy, so that you can get what you want.

You are my daughter, can my mother harm you? Now that your father and I can still work, I think that in the future, you will marry nearby, and your mother will give you a thick dowry, so that you can straighten your waist in your in-law's house and be close to home, and your brothers will take care of it, and your in-laws will not dare to bully you. As long as you get married, fight for your stomach, and give birth to a son, you won't have to worry about it in this life! You can rest assured, your father and mother will definitely not find you a family to marry and suffer in the past, you must choose a good family for you, and keep you smooth and obedient for the rest of your life, so that your mother can close her eyes. ”

These words were really said by Mrs. Zhang's heart, not her daughter, who is willing to spread this out and make it clear.

Wang Yongzhu could naturally feel Mrs. Zhang's painstaking efforts, "Mother, I have memorized what you said." I know that my mother is dedicated to my good, I just feel sorry for my mother, I gave birth to me and my brothers, and now I can't enjoy the happiness, and I have to worry about us. I'm ashamed to think about it! ”

"Nonsense! My own girl hurts herself! When my mother gave birth to you, I naturally wish you had everything well! My mother told you, you are an honest person, find someone who knows the roots, and after you get married, your mother's family is your reliance, you have those brothers, who dares to touch your fingers to try? When Mrs. Zhang heard her daughter's words, her heart was soft and a little sour.

"Mother, you scold your sister-in-law so much on weekdays, they also have a mother's family? Won't they go back to their parents' house to complain? Why didn't I see their mother's family come to our house? Wang Yongzhu said he didn't believe it.

Mrs. Zhang sneered: "It also depends on what kind of maiden family it is!" Your sister-in-law is settled by your grandmother, and she is a relative of your grandmother's family, otherwise she is worthy of marrying our family with her mother's family? When the dowry cost our family five taels of silver, I accompanied a box of old clothes, not even a bed quilt, just this, your sister-in-law and her mother's family in our Wang family can't talk, if your sister-in-law didn't give birth to three sons, I and your father looked at her, she can have today? ”