Everyone knows about the children of Lin Laosan's family, but no matter what the child is, whether it is really as weird as the daughter-in-law of the Li family said, and he was tied by Lin Laosan with a red rope, which is just a little talk after tea and dinner for these women.

After today, if no one mentions this matter again, or if the dolls of Lin Laosan's family go out to play around again, this matter will be considered to be over.

Now they are concerned about another thing, in that era, the people in the village were very united, of course, there were also those who were not united, after all, the forest was big and there were all kinds of birds, such as Linjia Village, which was a relatively large village, and so many people could not guarantee that everyone was of the same mind as the people in the village.

Moreover, this person's heart is inherently complicated, and everyone's interests are different, so naturally there is no such thing as one heart and two hearts.

However, at this time, the days have just calmed down, and they only want to live this day well, and their free time does not prevent them from seeking some benefits for their juniors, of course, this time this welfare, it is not something delicious, but a person.

Don't look at this Xu Guodong when he first came to Linjia Village, his body was as weak as the first recovery from a serious illness, and he was skinny and skinny, but after more than half a year of conditioning, it also showed the physique of a young man in his thirties, and he did a lot of work, this person was a lot darker, but he was also a lot more energetic.

Not to mention anything else, it was those people who knew Xu Guodong in Fengcheng before, if they saw Xu Guodong like this, they would definitely be surprised, and they wouldn't recognize it at all.

To the educated youth in Linjia Village, four men and two women, among them, one man and one woman have already been dealt with, and although the other woman looks quite good, she is dressed up for a day, and in the eyes of the old people in this village, it is called improper.

In 1980, young people needed great courage to wear jeans on the street, not to mention Xu Guodong At that time, when the little girl came to this Linjia Village, she was dressed relatively trendy, but in the eyes of these old people, it was not good to learn.

And this girl's family seems to have some background, and she doesn't have the heart to stay in this village, in fact, in the end, these young people who come here are all used to living in the city, how many of them are willing to stay in this ravine?

It's not that the old man doesn't know this truth, but Xu Guodong is obviously an exception, from the very beginning of the sick situation, has been taken care of by the people in the village, and later, when he became a teacher, he taught the dolls in the village, and occasionally adults wanted to learn to write or something, which Xu Guodong also minded.

Everyone teaches with their hearts, as for whether they learn or not, it is their own business, and the most important thing is that Xu Guodong has never mentioned any tuition fees from beginning to end.

Xu Guodong's own rations are all based on the help of the village chief's family.

In the eyes of people at that time, imparting knowledge was a great kindness, and it was said that this day was a teacher and a father for life, and the former husband was not just a profession.

Self-cultivation, family, governance, and peace in the world.

How to slim down?

If you don't cultivate your own body, how can you join the family?

If you are not enough to cultivate enough, how can you talk about governing the country and leveling the world?

In ancient times, Mr. was not only a guide, but also the best example of this student, teaching by word and deed, telling the truth of life, this student learned not only knowledge, but also a character for people.

It is true that in ancient times, there were people who misbehaved, and there were people who learned but were useless, but this situation is still going on, and it is not a big deal.

There are good and bad, yin and yang, things in the world cannot be said to have light and shadow, everything is often in a balance.

Speaking of Xu Guodong's body, the people in the village said that they would give Xu Guodong teaching money, but Xu Guodong pushed it in every possible way, and this matter would not be resolved later, not to mention that this scholar has seen a lot, Xu Guodong has experienced so many things, and he also knows how to communicate with people.

If you want to mix well in this village, it is naturally the best way to have a good relationship with the people in the village.

How do you make friends with people?

It's hard to say, it's simple to say, it's to change hearts and minds, no one is a fool, even if you have clever means, you have deceived once or twice, but as long as you show your stuff once, the eyes of others looking at you will change essentially, and no matter what you do, it is difficult to change this kind of view.

If a good person has done half his life and done a bad thing, then he will have it, and others will let you always remember for the rest of his life that you have done a wrong thing.

Xu Guodong really likes the atmosphere in this village, and after the family road falls, after several turns, this person's heart has also been worn out a lot, and he was also depressed in Fengcheng before, but now when he arrives in this small village, he didn't expect to be able to experience a kind of family warmth.

He is heart-to-heart, the villagers are simple, but they are definitely not stupid, and the old people in the village have gone through wind and frost, and they are called a quasi-person.

Xu Guodong's performance, those younger generations may not care too much, they just think that this is a good old man with a soft personality, but the old people in the village can see that Xu Guodong has a sense of belonging to Linjia Village.

He doesn't treat the people in the village as outsiders, and the old and young in the village don't treat Xu Guodong as outsiders, although half a year is not a long time, but it can also explain a lot of problems.

Although the villagers did not give Xu Guodong any tuition, Xu Guodong's food was much better, the old and young in the village, one is counted as one, and there is something delicious at home, and they always want to pull this Xu Guodong into the house, and one more person will add an extra pair of chopsticks.

And the children in the village have a good relationship with this Xu Guodong, they come to listen to this Xu Guodong story every day, and the person who has been a gentleman will tell his story, and the effect is not the same, anyway, the same story, put it here in Xu Guodong, and the mouths of other people, it is a completely different taste.

In this way, after coming and going, it was another half a year, Xu Guodong had almost integrated into the Lin Family Village, and those who came with him were still looking forward to when they would be able to return to Fengcheng and return to their original life.

Xu Guodongle is at ease, and he is also well-known in this village, and everyone knows that there is a cultural person in this village who can not only tell stories, but also tell those books that he can't understand in a simple and easy-to-understand way.

Linjia Village is not the Linjia Village of a few decades ago, but there are more than half of the people with foreign surnames in the current Linjia Village, there are not many more Xu Guodong, and one less Xu Guodong, so it really seems that something is missing.

This Xu Guodong did not have a family, and the old people saw that this kid had also reached the marriageable age, but they had never seen this Xu Guodong say that he had a daughter-in-law, although he didn't say it explicitly, but he kept this matter in mind.

Let an outsider completely integrate into the village, then get married and start a family, and live in this Linjia Village in the future, of course, is the best choice.

And the most important thing is that Xu Guodong's conditions are not bad, although his family is in the middle of the road, but he is also a person in the city, and he is still a cultural person, as for the family has no money, it is not a matter in Linjia Village.

The situation of everyone in the village is actually similar, except for the village chief's family, which is a little richer, the situation of everyone else is actually similar, after all, they all came from the war, and there is nothing wrong with saying that everyone is on an equal footing.

As long as this person is willing to do and is willing to do it, he will still be able to live a good life.

Not to mention that Xu Guodong is still cultured and knowledgeable, and he may be able to become another good hand in this village when the time comes.

Of course, this is all later, but ah, these old people really care about Xu Guodong's affairs, and they have been discussing with someone for three days, when to find a mother-in-law for this Mr. Xu, and this mother-in-law has to find a suitable one, otherwise it is not a good thing to complain.

No, after getting the exact news from the dog, the group of people was relieved, and after several searches, they really found a good little girl for Xu Guodong.