Chapter 20: Rural Daughter-in-law in the Nineties 19
In this era, many people in the countryside got married by holding a banquet in the village, and most people did not even receive a marriage certificate.
The management of small places is full of loopholes, although children need their parents' marriage certificates to get a household registration or something, but in fact, there is no marriage certificate, and you can do things by stuffing a red envelope and giving a gift or something.
In the case of the client, it is not even a de facto marriage, and only the cohabitation relationship needs to be dissolved, but the custody of the child needs to be properly resolved, of course, it is still hoped that it will be negotiated privately, and if it cannot be negotiated amicably, then it can only be decided by the court/court.
If the court/court decides, Meng Changjin has a high chance of getting custody of the eldest girl and the second girl.
But Meng Changjin is more inclined to negotiate with Hao Jianye in a coercive and friendly manner, she has already asked Xiaosi, she only needs to get permission to divorce from Hao Jianye's mouth, even if it is the fulfillment of the client's long-cherished wish.
This news was worth rejoicing for a while, but when she returned home from the market, she was a little unhappy.
Her PHS is out of power, and there is not even a charging socket in the entire yard.
The only electric light that uses electricity is the kind that pulls the switch.
Meng Changjin held her chin in the palm of her hand, thinking that she had miscalculated.
There is no longer a pastime game to play with a box, a greedy snake, etc., Meng Changjin simply picked up the stone and taught the eldest girl and the second girl to count from one to one hundred.
When the two little girls were able to count from one to one hundred by themselves without her prompting, Meng Changjin began to teach the two of them addition and subtraction within ten.
Meng Changjin doesn't know much about this world, but it definitely doesn't mean that she is stupid.
She still doesn't have any pressure to teach this kind of simple thing.
Both the eldest and second girls are smart children and learn quickly.
After counting from one to a hundred, learning addition and subtraction has become more difficult for them, but it didn't take too long, and they were able to stumble over most of Meng Changjin's questions.
There is a very strange phenomenon in the learning of children, that is, if they learn well at the beginning, they will become better and better.
But if you don't understand it at first, then you basically don't want to understand it later.
Obviously, the eldest girl and the second girl belong to the first type, so after being able to count from one to a hundred and then be able to calculate addition and subtraction within ten, the two little girls want to learn more.
But Meng Changjin couldn't find anything to teach them, which was very embarrassing.
Looking at the two pairs of big black bright eyes, Meng Changjin really couldn't say the rest of the words she wouldn't know, she still wanted a little face.
Meng Changjin simply diverted the attention of the eldest girl and the second girl: "Mom, let's teach you to write your name." ”
The child is still very easy to fool, and the attention of the two little girls was immediately attracted by their big name.
"Okay, okay, the second girl wants to write a big name!" The second girl jumped up and down excitedly.
Although the big girl looks quiet, her eyes also reveal excitement.
Meng Changjin found a slightly thin branch and began to write on the ground in the courtyard.
Stroke by stroke, written properly and seriously.
It's just that if someone is here, they will find that Meng Changjin writes traditional Chinese characters, and there are a lot of strokes.
Meng Changjin wrote the names of Zheng Mingyu and Zheng Mingzhu respectively, and then pointed out to the eldest girl and the second girl respectively.
The two clever little girls are rare this time, and they can't just learn it twice.
When Meng Changjin pointed to the words and taught them, they could recognize which character was Zheng, which character was Ming, and which character was Zhu and Jade, or they could guess it.
But after erasing the written name and writing it out word by word again, let the eldest girl and the second girl recognize it, and the two little girls were completely at a loss.
The two little girls only felt that it was so complicated, they couldn't recognize it, and they were desperate QAQ~
Although the progress is no longer the previous one or two times to learn to disappoint Meng Changjin a little, but I think this is right!
I think she learned words when she was young, and she learned the first word for a long time.
If the eldest girl and the second girl are too smart, Meng Changjin can't help but doubt life.
Although the eldest girl and the second girl learned it twice, Meng Changjin was still patient.
The phone is out of battery, there are no mini-games to pass the time, and it's idle anyway, and there's nothing wrong with teaching a big girl and a big girl.
And seeing that the expressions on the little faces of the two little girls became more and more stiff and complicated because they couldn't learn all the time, Meng Changjin felt that this scene was really cute and interesting.
Then I thought about it and felt that it wasn't a big deal, now that the eldest girl and the second girl are young, there will be such a scene, and when they grow up, it will not be easy to see this kind of cute scene again.
So while the child is still young, it is early to tease and play.
"You're a bad taste." Xiao Si complained about Meng Changjin's bad taste.
Meng Changjin was not ashamed at all, but proud: "I'll have a bad taste, and I will come if I don't accept you." ”
Xiao Si was choked and wanted to say something, but he couldn't think of anything to say for a long time, so he had to squeak in the end.
It's just that he silently turned around and pointed his fish tail in the direction of Meng Changjin.
Damn!
Xiao Si felt that it was really necessary for him to apply for an eloquence training class, and then he would scold Meng Changjin to the wall in the future!
Meng Changjin didn't know what Xiao Si was thinking, seeing that Xiao Si didn't squeak, Meng Changjin smiled happily, and continued to happily appreciate the little faces of the eldest girl and the second girl who were bitter because they couldn't recognize the words.
At this time, Meng Changjin suddenly felt that the mobile phone was out of battery and nothing, and people had to learn to have fun for themselves.
The warm atmosphere of the mother and daughter learning words was interrupted by the sound of the courtyard door pushing open, and then it was completely destroyed by the drunken and unsober scolding of Hao Jianye, who was drunk and had the taste of inferior alcohol.
Before he came back from drinking, beat his wife, was beaten up and thrown into the room and froze overnight, what happened happened one after another, and after the full fight, Hao Jianye didn't drink for three days.
After being threatened by Meng Changjin with "widowhood", Hao Jianye was a little scared at that time.
People like him look at people very accurately, Meng Changjin said that he didn't mind being widowed, although his expression was calm, but Hao Jianye inexplicably felt that Meng Changjin was really capable of doing this kind of thing.
So he didn't dare to make trouble again, but he was unwilling to divorce Meng Changjin as he wished.
He was angry and afraid, so after the fox friend came to the door today and asked him to drink, he went.
The fox friends probably knew that his wife was going to divorce him, so they gave him a bad idea.
Some people say that if there are two children, they can't be separated, and as long as a woman says good things and coaxes them in front of the children, she will definitely be soft-hearted and not divorced.
There are also people who say that husband and wife, fighting at the head of the bed and at the end of the bed, cleaning up people in bed, and divorce.
Then Hao Jianye, who was on the top of the alcohol, listened to it in his heart, and immediately came back drunk, planning to try it with fox friends and dog friends.