In our twenties, we will involuntarily show our charm in front of the opposite sex, hoping that there can be such a person who can enter their inner world and have a vigorous love with themselves, like fireworks.

If Xue'er hadn't been reborn, maybe she wouldn't have been able to withstand Xuanyuan Mo's enthusiasm and sink with him.

Because Xuanyuan Che's love for her is hidden in action, she is not a woman with a high emotional intelligence, for this kind of wordless love and love, she always understands it after half a beat, and she can't keep up with his rhythm at all.

What we prefer to believe is what we see and hear with our own eyes rather than what we feel.

Just like in the face of love, men are more willing to practice and express themselves with actions, and even go straight to the topic and pull women into bed.

And women pay more attention to sensory feelings, such as what do men give themselves? Whether it's a bouquet of your favorite flowers, or a dress that you once fancied, or a piece of chocolate that you were hungry after working overtime.

Will we recall what sweet words men have said to themselves? And which of these words are from the heart, and which of them are perfunctory.

Xuanyuan Che was too far away from Xue'er at that time, and through those cold gifts given to her, Xue'er couldn't see his sincerity, and she preferred the feeling of Xuanyuan Mo giving her something with his own hands.

And those letters that Xuanyuan Che wrote to her from time to time, she only felt that it was a perfunctory, a means to coax her.

With Xuanyuan Mo, she appeared when she needed care the most, and she preferred to believe that the latter was genuinely caring for her.

Compared with what Xuanyuan Che paid for her behind her back, it was Xuanyuan Mo who showed it in front of her, and she saw it in her eyes and was moved in her heart.

After the age of thirty, we still have the strength to love, but we are always cautiously tempting, and we are more and more worried, and we will no longer love someone like a moth to a fire like before.

Because we are afraid, afraid of losing our minds, afraid of losing everything we have in front of us, because we are no longer alone in our careers, we are no longer fledgling boys and girls, and we no longer have curiosity about young love.

We are worried, worried that we will be scarred by loving someone, and our impulses will be forcibly suppressed by us, and sometimes we will even watch our loved ones stay away and are unwilling to keep them.

The life of forty years old can be said to be quite mature, many people have lost the strength to love, and most people are willing to guard the grave of marriage and live a fruitful life.

The bold ones will be nostalgic for the flowers and leaves, use their successful life to attract the opposite sex to take the initiative to rush to us, use indiscriminate affection to make up for the feelings we have long lacked, and use ruthlessness to fill our empty soul.

Xue'er is still sensible, speaking of which, when she met Xuanyuan Mo, the combined age of her two lives was already in her thirties, close to forty years.

At that time, she was confused, and she hoped that a man like Xuanyuan Mo would love herself without hesitation, and she could dance with him and love vigorously once.

Similarly, she also longs for a reliable home like Xuanyuan Che, so that she will not live the rest of her life.

She has never been able to get out of the shackles of reason.

Therefore, Xuanyuan Mo's dedication is destined to be nothing for her here.

She felt guilty about him, and she didn't know how long the guilt would last, or where the guilt came from. Although he never took the initiative to provoke him at the beginning.

Now Xue'er will feel lucky, glad that she made a rational choice at the beginning, because the more she understands Xuanyuan Che, the more she finds that love is not noisy, not vigorous, not vows, not reckless impulses.

It is the companionship of a long stream of water, an inadvertent trembling, a heart with each other, and a mutual acquaintance after understanding.

Some people may say that Xue'er is really realistic, but love is real life, it is trivial oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, not perfect, not a beautified love story.

Back to the book, Xuanyuan Che saw that the expression on Xue'er's face was a little hesitant, and he thought that Xue'er was afraid that he would be jealous, so he pretended to cough dryly: "It's not easy for the fourth brother, in the past two years, I have sorted out the political affairs there in Goryeo Mansion and suppressed the local opposition forces, so I really don't have time to come back to visit us."

It's rare that he can find time to bring gifts to his children. ”

He said these things against his will, and he felt that he was hypocritical.

But he couldn't be too cautious in front of his own woman, the reason why he calculated before was that he was afraid of losing Cher.

He is now the winner, and Xue'er also has his seed in his stomach, and he will not doubt Xue'er's feelings for him, so he can only push Xue'er away.

After two years of getting along, he knows that Xue'er is a very thoughtful person, and she will make up a lot of things in her brain when he is not paying attention.

Until now, he still can't grasp Cher's thinking, although Cher's appearance in front of him is pure and weak.

But when this little lady became stubborn, how many times did he learn it.

Xue'er smiled faintly: "I know that the fourth brother also has his own things to do, and he can't always be the child who doesn't grow up." are already married people, and they will no longer be so unproportionate!

I received the gift, and the third brother wrote a letter to him for me to express his gratitude, and I won't get involved. ”

Xuanyuan Che wished for this, when he received these things, he wished that he had never seen them, and he wanted to receive them in the treasury like this, and not give them to Xue'er.

After thinking about it again, he still sent it, after all, those past grievances and entanglements are already in the past, and if he holds on to it, he is asking for his own suffering.

"Okay, leave this matter to your husband!"

In Goryeo Mansion, Xuanyuan Mo, who had dealt with all the political affairs, tasted the wine alone, and remembered the things he gave Xue'er, he squinted his eyes and asked the inkstone: "She should have received those things!" ”

He never hides his covetousness for Cher in front of the inkstone.

After hearing that Xue'er had a miscarriage due to Xuanyuan Yu, although he was worried and distressed for Xue'er, he felt a little happy in his heart.

He wanted to go to her side to comfort her personally, but he knew that he couldn't, so he had to hold on to that imminent heart and use business to anesthetize himself.

Later, a few months later, when he learned that Cher was pregnant again, he felt that his heart was about to break.

He prepared gifts for the children with his own hands, not how much he liked Xue'er's children, but he wanted to remind Xue'er of his existence through those things, and remind of the past that belonged to the two of them.