Chapter 526: Xu Guodong's Expectations
Xu Guodong didn't know, and never thought that after leaving the original life of a rich family, there would be a day when someone would be busy with his relatives, and he didn't know it at all.
Things can change quite quickly, especially when a large group of people have already arranged everything.
Many people have watched what love masters, as well as all kinds of help dating to help make a date, TV series bridges with girls to meet, this kind of help dating, and create opportunities for the protagonist to chat on the corresponding occasions, and even help prepare lines and various props.
In reality, it should be called a wingman, just like a date, a stranger suddenly comes over to talk, if the first impression is not very good, and the person who does not know all aspects of the girl's reaction is particularly sufficient, in the first conversation, it is easy to fail.
This situation is normal, after all, it is like playing a game, and no one comes up to the full level of the large number.
In this case, there are roughly three solutions: one is to continuously improve your skills, social skills, image, knowledge, and ability to control the topic, and slowly summarize experience in failure after failure.
Of course, in this case, it will be difficult for one person to level up quickly.
In this case, there is also a simple way, which is to find a wingman, and the wingman is not just one person or two people, depending on the situation.
This junior wingman is like a teammate playing a game, a person's skills are not up to par, and they can't clear the level alone, and they often think it's just a one-person game, but when you taste it carefully, you will find that this game can actually be teamed, and the so-called wingman is your teammate.
It's like a lot of people playing some mobile games, in which they team up with each other to PK, a good wingman can save you and fire at the right time.
Of course, since it is analogous to playing games, then a wingman who is not up to par, everyone should understand what is going on.
And there is another kind, that is, the third kind, this third kind, which is considered deception, and if it is a white lie, it is also okay.
From the TV series, we have seen which love masters, help formulate scenes, help investigate the girl's background, help understand all aspects of the girl's information, and then summarize and formulate a suitable opportunity for you, meet the girl by chance, and then meet again and again, to acquaintance, and then to familiarity.
Then create ambiguity, confession, many are common routines, the key depends on how to use, different people see the same profile, will see different.
And how much can be seen, that's a matter of rank.
If you give them an analogy, it should be called boosting, you pay for it, you bear all the costs, and then they make all kinds of rules for you, and in the process, you don't have to show any of your own personality, personality, and some of your own characteristics.
As long as you follow the plot they have formulated for you, you can, bring a Bluetooth headset, listen to all commands, and you can see how fast and efficient it is to have a large number with a small number.
When you don't understand why these actions are so easy to chase the girls, they have already collected the money and retired without leaving their lives and fame.
Then you can hug the girl you have been dreaming of for a long time and enjoy a good time in love.
Yes, the girl you fancy they helped you catch up, but there is no after-sales service, whether it is for the girl, or for you, it is so, a little better may get along with each other for a period of time and slowly adapt to each other.
If it's a little worse, it's fun, and after getting along for a while, you can find out that she or he is not what you see.
That's right, everyone lives in this society, leaves home, leaves their own small space, small world, he or she will put a mask on himself, whether gentle, cute, sunny, or considerate, it is just a mask.
Everyone will show different people the side she or he wants to show, and if you dig deeper, you will find that everyone, even yourself, has many different faces.
Then some began to quarrel, and the originally hidden contradictions broke out here, conflicts, the unhappiness of being deceived, and everything will slowly ferment.
In the end, a lot of them will break up unhappily, this is the consequence of not having enough level, just like you don't know a game at all, and then directly buy a full level number, but the game account is only full level, no equipment, no skill points, and even if you have skills, you don't know how to use them.
Even if you originally knew a little bit about the operation of the warrior class, but after buying an account, you found that the game character turned out to be a mage class.
Then you use the staff as a mace and smash it down, wow~
The situation is dire.
Life needs to be experienced, so it is not recommended to skip the process to pursue the result, how many people fall in love at first sight in this world? Love at first sight can still go to the end, and how many happy marriages can there be?
It may be a bit biased, the perspective returns to Xu Guodong, Xu Guodong at this time does not know that he has been arranged, and he is still living his life day after day in that small room.
And the aunts in the village have nothing to do and have nothing to do with the intellectuals from the city.
As for the other protagonist, Lin Juan, I don't know at this time that her marriage has become the most important thing in the hearts of those women in the village, and she is making suggestions one by one, thinking about how to arrange for the two of them to meet.
These people are not like the kind of dating arranged team, they just want two people to meet and have time to get to know each other, and as for whether it can be done, they can't make the decision.
If it can be done, everyone will be happy, if not, then there will be something to be busy with next.
Although Xu Guodong is a little older, he has rich experience, and he is an intellectual young man from a big city, no matter how you look at it, he is worthy of Lin Juan.
It's better to be in time than to be in time, if Xu Guodong had come here a few years earlier, maybe everyone would not have thought of these problems, after all, a few years earlier, Lin Juan was still too young.
On Xu Guodong's side, naturally the aunts of the surrounding families came to him and said that since he helped pull the red line, there must always be a clear word from one party.
When Xu Guodong heard that there was a girl in the village that he had never seen before, and who was very beautiful and knowledgeable, he was first surprised, and then blushed and heartbeat.
To say that for so many years, I don't want anyone to know the cold and the hot, Xu Guodong himself doesn't believe it, but his living conditions have not been very good, so he hasn't considered this matter, and he wants to ask at the moment, but he is a little embarrassed.
These women are all human spirits, and they can see Xu Guodong's thoughts at a glance, and repeatedly guarantee that this girl is absolutely good, good-looking, able to work, and knowledgeable.
The most important thing is that they want Xu Guodong to meet the girl named Lin Juan, this is not the kind of matchmaker in the past, give a portrait, write a few big words to describe the girl's appearance and conduct, even if it is the introduction of people.
Then one by one, the eldest lady did not go out of the door, and the second door did not step, and on the day of the wedding, after entering the cave room, she lifted the red hijab to be able to verify the body.
In the era of openness, the advocacy of free love has made some unreasonable things abandoned.
Xu Guodong was a little hesitant at first, but then he thought that since they could meet, there should be no problem, and he was not a small boss, and he had a family at the right time, so Xu Guodong didn't care about the methods that these aunts said.
After all, he was a highly educated person in that era, open-minded, and girls certainly need men to pursue them, and he is also grateful for the methods proposed by those aunts.
Seeing that a group of people around him were so enthusiastic, Xu Guodong felt a kind of home atmosphere for the first time.
Although this Lin family village is not as prosperous as Fengcheng, everyone also needs to work, but this kind of atmosphere is not something that a big city can have, and at the same time, with the praise of those aunts, he is looking forward to this girl named Lin Juan more and more.