Chapter 237 - Three Factors Affecting Human Development: Heredity, Environment, and Education (2)

Yiling looked at Suni, she has really changed a lot in the past two years. Yiling can clearly feel that Suni has matured and improved. On the other hand, she is indulging in the past, falling into emotions, stagnating and not talking, and it seems that she has regressed.

Yiling asked, "Can ...... Don't these short-term stories really have any effect on you? ”

Suni smiled: "Yes, it has made me recognize the true face of some people and understand the cruel nature of this world." This was not experienced in the previous school, and the teachers would not teach. Speaking of which, although there will be high eyebrows and low eyes among classmates at that time, compared with the real knives and guns in society, it is simply a drop in the bucket.

Besides, after all, classmates are only with each other for a while, if they can figure out this layer back then, then no matter how out of control the trouble is, in the end, everything will be buried in the long river of time. ”

Suni paused at this, her expression became serious, her gaze suddenly became a little distant, and for a moment, Yiling suddenly felt that Suni could be called an "adult" - although her appearance was no different from when she was in school, but in terms of dressing style, it was more suitable for the needs of the office.

But I heard her continue: "However, after stepping into society, we can't get rid of many things. Although we can change jobs and colleagues, like our classmates, are mostly passers-by in life, we will always be affected by it if the overall environment remains the same. ”

glanced at Yiling, and said, "So, the environment is really important. Yiling, if the small environment of our building is really not good, haven't you thought about it, let's live in another place? ”

Yiling was stunned. Eye contact with Suni: "You mean...... Changing houses? ”

"That's right, change to a place with more beautiful landscape design and higher overall quality of people. In ancient times, there were 'three migrations of Meng's mother', and in the future, we will have children ourselves. Could it be that with all that has happened to you today, do you bear to let your children suffer from the same disease as you?

Do you remember that there was a film called "Snail House" before? We're chasing each other at that time? There is a line in it, I am particularly impressed, the heroine said: "I believe that in the future, I will not only be in this kind of broken alley, with the salesman on the first floor, the part-time worker on the second floor, and the canteen master on the second and a half floors to become first-class." ’

To be honest, when I first heard this paragraph, I was actually a little uncomfortable inside. There is no distinction between high and low in the profession, and when she puts other people's work on the table, it is difficult for people not to have a sense of distinction between high and low, and misunderstand that she sees herself as a clear stream.

But if you think about it further, what she really wants to express is actually the environment. Yiling, I'm also at the bottom, so I never wanted to look down on anyone. But if the same kind of people keep trampling on each other and can't save others, then they can only force themselves to leave. ”

Yiling frowned: "The house listed in Kejiang is so expensive, we ...... Do you want to change it? How long will it take to do this? I've never seen a part-time worker buy a house on their own. ”

"How do you know you're always a worker? You're only 24 years old, Yiling! ”

Yiling was stunned again. She realized that Suni's ambition and thinking were working, and she couldn't keep up.

Suni stood up, walked to the bookshelf next to the computer desk, took a book, took it, and handed it to Yiling.

Yiling looked at it and said, "Isn't this the "Principles of Education" you bought when you coaxed your mother to take the kindergarten teacher qualification certificate before?" ”

Suni nodded: "Although I didn't take the certificate, since I spent money to buy books, I flipped through it with the mood of 'it's always right to read more books'."

Do you know Yiling, at the beginning of this book, it is said that there are three factors that affect a person's development, namely: heredity, environment and education. Think about yourself, which of these three elements do you have the advantage? ”

"I didn't ...... Right? ”

Suni slapped her thigh: "Isn't it?!" So, I deserved to not be admitted to university! Our parents are ordinary workers, and we have not received a good education, and we have experienced an era of material scarcity, so when we were young, the focus of our parents was not to let girls read good books at all, but not to go hungry.

Let's talk about this environment, the living environment is a group of aunts downstairs, who have nothing to do all day long, gossip and compare with each acre and three points of land, and their brains are as rigid as paste, but they are still self-righteous to guide and interfere in other people's lives.

Finally, there is education. I'm not qualified to speak ill of my former teachers, because I'm a bad student and I'm a bad boy, so I'm used to being ignored by my teachers. Anyway, in my impression, from primary school to middle school, few teachers are willing to really discover the shining points in their students, and they generally use grades to speak. ”

Suni paced up and down in her room, impassioned: "So, Yiling, look at it!" We don't have anything! If we don't work hard and make some changes, our children will still be like us in the future, and they will not have an advantage in these three areas! ”

Yiling blinked her beautiful apricot eyes and looked at the excited Suni: "So, you chose Zhang Wei, right?" Because he's smart and genetically good? ”

When Suni heard this, she sat down again and said, "About this, I feel like a blind cat has met a dead mouse, you know, I didn't actually think about the question of being smart or not at the earliest, but in the process of falling in love, he did take me a lot of progress in my studies and thoughts." It was only then that I slowly discovered that dealing with smart people turned out to be such a good thing.

Yiling, even if it is realistic, smart people are also the best choice for girls of our level. Because, rich people don't look down on us at all, and their marriage partner is always a woman who is as strong as them. So, money is not the first thing to consider, I feel that smart is. ”

Yiling bit her lip and stared at Suni for a long, long time.

At the end, she spat out, "Nini, you seem to be ...... Live understood. ”

As a result, Suni said: "It's just a little bit of enlightenment, and there are still a lot of things I don't understand." Anyway, Yiling, I plan to continue to improve myself, and then perform well in the company, preferably before the age of 30, I can replace our director! ”

"Lord...... Director?! ”

"That's right! Don't think it's impossible. I'll tell you, it's nothing. As far as our director is concerned, like a pig, I don't even know how he got up, is it by relationship? I have observed it for a long time, and I think that his advantage is nothing more than that he has a higher education, he graduated from a 211 key university, and then his past qualifications are a little better, and he comes from a well-known state-owned enterprise. Nothing else.

I'm still young, I can get my education promoted, I can accumulate project experience, I don't believe that I can't surpass him one day......"

On this day, Suni and Yiling chatted for a long time, and Suni "Bang Bang", and set up a lot of ambitions with Yiling.

Although Yiling was wondering if she was a little too ambitious? Compared with myself who has no planning, but I feel that a person is willing to set small goals and big goals, and has the courage to challenge high difficulties, which is always ...... Okay, right?

Looks like I'm going to change that too. Yiling said to herself.

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