The four eyes were facing each other, and the two of them were slightly condensed by what Chen Xiaoli said, and then, Suni stretched her eyebrows, her cheeks were slightly hot, she saw it, Jiang Yiming also became serious, and his eyes were full of tenderness.

Suni bent down, faced Chen Xiaoli, smiled, and touched his head: "My brother and sister didn't quarrel, we have different views on one thing, and we are a little excited." Didn't scare you, did you? ”

Chen Xiaoli shook his head: "I understand what my brother said." My aunt also said, 'It is better to ask for others than for yourself', which means that it is better to rely on others than to rely on yourself. My dad is gone, my mom is gone, and although there are still uncles and aunts, my uncle has to go out to work, and my aunt has to farm and take care of my younger siblings, and no one can help me all the time.

So, I have to learn how to cook my own food, raise pigs, and farm the land. My brother and I still have to study hard and go to university in the future! That way, I can grow up to get a good job and have the money to build a new house! ”

"That's smart." Jiang Yiming raised the corners of his mouth and touched his head as well.

Chen Xiaoli raised his head and said to him, "Brother, can you stay at my house for two days?" Can you teach me a few more words? I didn't do very well in the final exam this time, and I only scored 80 points in Chinese. Look at the pinyin writing, there are several mistakes. I've copied the mistakes several times, but I still can't remember them, brother, you can teach me again, okay? ”

"Okay." Jiang Yiming readily agreed.

Chen Xiaoli happily picked up the cut pigweed and went to feed the pigs, here Suni looked at his little back, women's natural maternal love, spontaneously, subconsciously, Suni blurted out softly, "I really hope that there will be kind-hearted people to adopt their brothers." In this way, they have a home. ”

The wind blew her hair, the smell of grass, and the girl's body fragrance, brushing Jiang Yiming's face, Jiang Yiming ...... Slightly smoked......

Yiling quietly stood behind Suni and said, "Raising two sons, do you think your family opened a bank?" ”

Scared Suni! Turning to look at her: "What are you talking about?" ”

Yiling said: "Do you think raising a child is raising a puppy and a kitten?" Just feed him? 'Multiple people with more pairs of chopsticks', that's the way of parenting in the 80s, okay?!

Children in the 21st century spend a lot more than we do to go to college! Starting from kindergarten, it is necessary to configure all kinds of electronic products for him, in addition to winter and summer vacations, various interest classes, make-up fees, summer camps, overseas study tours, and creative workshops, the more channels to broaden your knowledge, the faster your parents will burn money!

And that's not all! The boy's marriage room is enough for you to be the back of your parents! And that's not counting the bride price, diamond rings, cars, etc., and the rest of the money! I'll ask you, you don't have any strength, you dare to raise children? Still raising two? And raise two sons?! Crazy you! ”

Suni was stunned by what she said, remembering Meimei's remarks that "poor people don't even deserve to have children" in the past, Yiling's words expanded on it.

He pursed his lips and said, "Huh? You haven't raised children, how do you know so much? ”

Yiling rolled her eyes: "I can't see or listen?" As far as my cousin's son attends a bilingual kindergarten, the tuition fee will cost tens of thousands a year! Sign up for a violin class, a few hundred dollars an hour! So, you think ......"

Suni glanced at Chen Xiaoli, who was walking this way after feeding the pigs, turned around and turned back, frowned, and interrupted Yiling: "Don't say it!" ”

Jiang Yiming interjected: "No matter how others live, the only thing people can face is themselves." Live well, be worthy of yourself, isn't it over? Why compare yourself to others? ”

pulled Chen Xiaoli and said gently: "Let's go, wash your hands, and eat." ”

Yiling glared at Jiang Yiming's back, picked up Suni, deliberately distanced himself from Jiang Yiming, and said in a low voice: "He has never been bitter and loyal, he can't listen to these realities so much, it shows that he is a poor ghost!" ”

Suni said: "He helped you, and you still say that about him?" ”

Yiling pouted: "What's wrong?" Fact! This is the same psychology as a man who drinks and comes back to beat his wife, the more useless he is outside, the more horizontal he is at home! On the one hand, the face and vanity of the big man are not satisfied, and on the other hand, he is unwilling to admit that he is incompetent, so he diverts his attention and blames the woman for all the fault!

Throughout the ages, have there been fewer people who have made such excuses? The emperor is mediocre, and he still says that the concubine is a disaster! This kind of feudal legacy to this day, isn't it that you can't make money because you don't have it, but don't you blame women for worshipping money in reality?

Such a man doesn't want to think about it, he was born to his parents and raised by his parents, why should other girls give you for nothing? Why do you let people suffer with you? I'll tell you, Nini, this is typical poor thinking! The poorer the brain, the shorter the brain, and the less you can think of others! Poor can't be said yet, cut! ”

Suni recalled her understanding in the examination room that day, and the difference between her and Yiling was that she felt that the thinking of the poor was restricted by rules and regulations; Yiling, on the other hand, believes that the poor are narrow-minded.

These two ideas seem to be the same, but they are not. The former is passive and outward-looking, while the latter is active and inward-looking.

But in general, they are all expressing the short-sightedness of the thinking of the poor.

Suni frowned, she didn't deny Yiling's conclusion, but-

"Don't talk about it, we're also poor, okay?"

Yiling was stunned, paused at his feet, and said loudly: "How can this be the same?!" We are girls, and we have a second chance to be reincarnated! For us, even if it is through marriage, climbing up a grid is a kind of leap. Besides, the right to speak in this world is still in the hands of men, so as long as this state does not change, male superiority and inferiority will still exist, and marriage still needs men to be more powerful.

It's just that now women also earn money and occupy a place in society, so they have the qualifications to participate in the symposium and promote feminism. But in essence, it has not reached the point of true feminism, and there has not been a return to a matriarchal society. That is, independence is independence, tradition is tradition! ”

Suni's mind went round and round when she listened, and she didn't know where Yiling got so many crooked theories? It seems that everything is said to her, and she feels that she has taken advantage of whatever it is!

In Suni's heart, she doesn't want the division between men and women to be so obvious, including, Mei Mei once said that the relationship between men and women is like a tug-of-war, so why bother?

After all, men and women, in essence, are created by the collaboration of both parties. That being the case, that is a community with a shared future!

But Suni doesn't want to have any more verbal disputes with Yiling, she understands that people have their own ideas, and it is unnecessary to impose their own ideas on others, and she is not a great person, what qualifications does she have to guide the lives of others?

Merely......

When she walked back to the front yard from the pigsty and saw the two brothers Chen Xiaoli and Chen Xiaoji again, Suni couldn't say anything and felt distressed.

Just because she thought about it, reality had torn the father of these two children apart, and the game of life, the beginning of these two children, was already in reality......

Suni silently recited: In the next time, I hope they will be treated gently by the world......