Qiu Limo, who fell on the chuáng, had tears of pain in his eyes, and Yu Qian's words made him extremely sad. In the end, nothing has changed, and he is still the one who is disliked.

"Can I come in?" Ren Yuan's voice outside the door sounded lazily, and after waiting for a while, Qiu Limo didn't answer, so he opened the door and walked in.

"Ah, isn't this in the house? Why don't you open the door for me? Ren Yuan smiled and sat next to Qiu Limo

"I won't open the door, won't you come in too." Qiu Limo was very irritable in her heart, and she didn't want to pay attention to Ren Yuan at all now. Because he sent someone under the fence, and the young man was a little afraid of Ren Yuan in his heart. Muttered back, "The door is unlocked." ”

"I thought you'd lock it up." Ren Yuan smiled, looked down at the dress that Qiu Limo threw to the ground, and asked, "Why are the new clothes thrown on the ground like this?" It's all wrinkled. ”

"It's good to lose it if it's an eyesore, and I didn't pay for it." The boy buried his head deep in the quilt, and said angrily, "It's a nasty garment anyway." ”

"How can you say that? I think it's still (tǐng) good-looking. Ren Yuan put the large pile of shopping bags he was holding on the table, picked up the dress on the ground, gently dusted off the dust, looked at it, and said, "Isn't it good, you picked it?" ”

Qiu Limo was extremely annoyed by Ren Yuan, who was chattering on the side of (shēn), and lamented why there were such people who had no eyesight. He wanted to cry quietly, and he became more and more annoyed, so he simply shut up, but didn't hear it.

"The clothes are good clothes, but this match is not very good." Ren Yuan didn't care about the young man's silence, and said to himself, "In terms of overall style, the decoration is too heavy. The lace piping at the corners of the skirt makes the lower (shēn) too sluggish, and your body is so slender that it is not suitable for such a bulky tusk. And this top too, the double-breasted silver buckle and lace decoration on the front placket are too much. ”

"If I were to choose it for you, it would definitely be a high-waisted fit that wouldn't accentuate the flat (xiōng). Go for a minimalist style, and the pleats of this cloth replace lace

It would be better. And if you wear it, you can actually try black and purple, which will complement your skin tone more than sky blue. ”

Qiu Limo raised her head in surprise and looked at Ren Yuan, who was holding a Lolita dress and a serious review next to (shēn), and inexplicably felt a little funny. Under the backdrop of Ren Yuan's unusual body shape, the dress in his hand looks like a doll's clothes, and the arms with the muscles (ròu) are as thick as the waist and legs, which is extremely awkward.

"You still know women's clothing?" Qiu Limo couldn't help but ask curiously

"What are you kidding, what do you mean I still know women's clothing." Ren Yuan smiled, "I'm also a professional designer, Jiang Ziwen, that yellow-haired girl knows what to wear, if you really want to dress up, it still depends on me." I flipped through the clothes she bought for you just now, or I thought she was wearing them herself, if she hadn't bought them for you. ”

"I also think she has a bad eyesight (tǐng)." Qiu Limo couldn't help but complain

"Right? She's definitely the kind of person who doesn't understand anything herself, but can't give advice to others. Ren Yuan squeezed his eyebrows and said, "What are you doing, don't do it, do it as much as you can." You are still suitable for some simple and mysterious style, it is rare to look so tall and white, and it is the best match with cold colors. How can ordinary girls have your conditions, I'll pick a few for you when I have time. ”

"It's not so bad, Sister Jiang is also kind..."Qiu Limo suddenly felt that this rough big man was not so annoying. Cautiously asked, "Don't you think it's strange that I like to wear women's clothes?" ”

"What's so strange about that? What age is it? Ren Yuan said disdainfully, "It's just an old antique like Lao Yu, and his head is still so rigid, I think he can say something like that." ”

"Besides, what is women's clothing? Is it true that the clothes worn by women are called women's clothing? Ren Yuan asked rhetorically, "Then skirts and high heels, which were originally worn by men, traced back to their origins."

Source: It should be that women now wear men's clothes. ”

"How can you say that..."Qiu Limo smiled bitterly, "because it is recognized as a dress worn by girls, so it is called women's clothing." ”

"You can say that, but it's not so simple about clothes." Ren Yuan carefully folded the dress in his hand, smoothed out the folds and put it on the edge of the (chuáng), and put the wide-brimmed top hat on it upright.

"Human beings evolved step by step to Homo sapiens, got rid of the living state of drinking blood, began to give up hair, and began to weave clothes to keep out the cold, clothing has more meaning." Ren Yuan said lightly, "Because it is no longer a uniform hair, but a self-made clothes, in addition to the length and color, the clothes have more changes and differences." As a result, clothes have also taken on an important place in social interactions. ”

"To put it simply." Ren Yuan pointed at Qiu Limo, "What kind of clothes you wear means that you want to show others one, what kind of self you are." Therefore, with the abundance of materials and the complexity of social structure, the types of clothes have become more and more. People are also more accustomed to taking the first impression through clothes. ”

"Uh..."Qiu Limo, who was confused and confused, asked embarrassedly, "So what?" ”

"Therefore, your Uncle Yu wants you to wear men's clothes because of his expectations and cognition of you. It's not a question of what other people think, it's about what kind of cognitive impression you want to give them. Ren Yuan chuckled and said, "What matters is not what others think, but what you want to do." ”

"It's not as complicated as I thought." Qiu Limo was dizzy by Ren Yuankan, couldn't figure out whether it was right or wrong, and said in a daze, "I just want to wear beautiful clothes." ”

"Really? If it's good-looking men's clothing, do you want to wear it? The corners of Ren Yuan's mouth raised slightly, and he asked with interest

"Men's clothing is not good-looking..."Qiu Limo said stubbornly with a straight face

"It's not that men's clothing isn't good-looking, it's that you don't want others to see you as a man (xìng)." Ren Yuan hit the nail on the head and said, "You're just looking for (shēn) recognition through clothes." Am I right that you want to wear women's clothing, but clothes that are recognized as what women (xìng) should wear? ”

"I..." Qiu Limo looked at Ren Yuan in surprise, he realized that the other party might know him better than himself, and said after a long pause, "Can't you?" ”

"Of course, (shēn) is everyone's freedom. The physical (xìng) don't you can choose, but the psychological (xìng) don't is free, and each of us has the right to be what we want to be. Ren Yuan said with a smile, "So you don't have to be sad because of other people's opinions, you are free to be what you want to be." ”

"But is the way I am really what I want to be?" Qiu Limo mustered up the courage to say, "If my parents didn't treat me as a girl when they were young, if I hadn't experienced those things later, would I still think so?" ”

"What are you worried about?" Ren Yuan sat up straight, his eyes facing Qiu Limo, and asked solemnly, "What are you worried about?" ”

"I often wonder if I want to be a girl, or if my parents and the people around me want me to be a girl." Qiu Limo hugged his arms (xiōng) and said slowly, "I would think so, just because I was indoctrinated with such thoughts, and all this may not be my intention. ”

"Do you think your thoughts don't belong to you?" Ren Yuan asked

"Isn't it? If Uncle Yu was my father, I wouldn't think like I do now, right? ”

"You are who you are, and no matter what influence is exerted on you around you, it is the result of your own choice." Ren Yuan shook his head and said in a deep voice, "Don't your parents also want you to live like a boy?" But you rejected the ideas they imposed on you, didn't you? Including your later rebellion against Meng Wei, isn't it also your own choice? ”

"It's not because other people's minds make you, it's because you choose to cater to other people's expectations when they match your desires. When it comes to conflict with your self (shēn) desires, don't you also choose to rebel? ”

"However, it was because I was indoctrinated with wrong ideas at a very young age." Qiu Limo hurriedly said, "What does a newborn child understand?" ”

"So do you think they're doing something wrong?" Ren Yuan asked rhetorically, "If you think that your current thoughts are wrong, doesn't that just mean that your thoughts only belong to you?" ”

"That's what I'm worried about." Qiu Limo blushed and retorted, "How do I know that the judgment of right and wrong belongs to me, and not from the indoctrination of my parents when I was a child?" ”

"If you think that the human mind can be indoctrinated, that's even more wrong." Ren Yuan nodded at the latter's smooth head and said, "In this case, we are receiving the influence around us all the time, so doesn't everyone have their own thoughts?" ”

"This..."

"A person's perception can be changed, but his heart." Ren Yuan pointed to the young man's mouth (xiōng) and said heavily, "It will always belong to him." ”

"But..."

"Nothing." Ren Yuan stretched out his hand to stop Qiu Limo's words, and said, "You don't have to think about whether your thoughts are correct or not, now you only need to think about one thing: Are you anxious about your own (xìng) cognition, or are you anxious about other people's cognition of you?" ”

"I..." In an instant, Qiu Limo stood on the spot, his heart was in turmoil.

"Or let's do it another way." Ren Yuan smiled mysteriously, "What do you care about, is it someone else's opinion or someone's opinion?" ”

Hearing this, Qiu Limo's face turned red, and there was a violent roar in (xiōng), and his brain became blank.

Ren Yuan patted the young man on the back, "That's all I say, you can think about it yourself." If you care about someone's opinion, you need to think about what to do, but you can rest assured that no matter what choice you make, you will always be you, and no one can change it. ”

With that, Ren Yuanqi (shēn) walked out. Qiu Limo raised her head and asked in a panic, "Where are you going?" ”

"Go to the basement." Ren Yuan turned around and laughed, "Don't worry, I'm very tight-mouthed, and I never talk nonsense about other people." Besides, you didn't say anything, and I don't know anything, do you? ”

"Ahh ”

"Work, I can't sleep with you tonight."

"Who wants you to accompany me!" Qiu Limo said angrily

"Then who do you want to accompany you?" Ren Yuan smiled evilly

Seeing through the secret thoughts in her heart, Qiu Limo only felt that her whole face was about to be cooked, and buried herself in the quilt again, ignoring Ren Yuan.

After getting Qiu Limo, Ren Yuan left the room and went down to the third basement floor of Villa No. 6, where Yu Qian had been waiting for a long time. Seeing Ren Yuan stepping into the room, he frowned and asked, "Pacified?" ”

"It's just coaxing children, I'm very good at this." Ren Yuan pulled over the chair and sat down, "I'm not like someone, but I can't dry the quilt on the kang." ”

Yu Qian didn't say a word with a dark face, looked at the other party's smug face, and ate this deflated.

"Alright, alright, it's not too early, it's time to get down to business." Seeing that Yu Qian was on the verge of madness, Ren Yuan put on a serious face in time, stretched out two fingers to poke into his mouth, and rolled his throat to clip out a small square wrapped in a (ròu) membrane. Ren Yuanxin tore open the (ròu) membrane with his hand and took out the envelope he had swallowed earlier.

"Let's take a look, Xia Yuchen, this old guy, what he found out."