It is not easy to expand the school, Xu Guodong has worked hard for this thing for many years, because of his teaching, he deeply understands a truth, that is, education still has to be staged, and the children's curriculum cannot let him show his chest revenge after all.

Even if you are just a teacher, you have to have a dream, not to say that the world is full of peach and plums, then you must also build a better school in Maple City as much as possible.

Later, everything made Xu Guodong's ideal become a reality step by step, from the original principal of a primary school to the principal of a junior high school, and later with the support of some people, he became the principal of Fengyuan Private High School.

But all this comes at a price, that is, Xu Guodong works longer and longer, leaving him less and less time to accompany his family, so that in Xu Wan's growth process, Xu Guodong did not fulfill his due responsibilities at all.

Many teachers are in this situation, they can teach good students, but when they come to their own home, they feel extremely difficult to teach them well.

Some teachers will put forward high requirements for their children, for grades, for interests, and even before the child grows up, he has already planned everything for the future, and some people are busy with teaching, busy with work, and neglect their children's education.

They are serious and professional.

But there are many examples that tell us that a good teacher who is responsible is not always a good parent.

This is normal, generally, whether it is for parents or children, it is the first time, the first time to be a parent, the first time to be a child to others, often need to run in, need to adapt slowly, need to master the whole process.

In this qualification process, no matter which side is in the driver's seat, the scales will be skewed, and something will happen that was not originally expected.

Tragedy often happens in the process, and then there is the so-called rebellion, the so-called bad boy.

If you see the cause of the matter and find a good solution, then you can get through this stage perfectly, but if you can't find it, or if you use simple violence to solve it without thinking at all, the contradiction will further escalate.

All want someone to understand, all want to be able to build effective communication, between subordinates and leaders, between students and teachers, between children and parents.

The status of parents is destined to be strong, and too strong will lead to subconsciously using their own power to oppress when solving some problems, and omit the necessary process of communicating with children.

is like Xu Guodong and Xu Wan, the father and daughter, the relationship between them, in that environment, has slowly become stiff.

The most familiar person slowly becomes the strangest person.

This is why in recent years, many people have begun to pay attention to the education of teenagers, and children's growth needs not only companionship and guidance, but also correct psychological guidance.

Understanding and communication are not based on the strength of one party, and real communication cannot be established in that situation.

How many parents really understand their children?

How many children have been expecting their parents' understanding but finally reluctantly give up.

How many people will only wake up completely after experiencing a tragic event, and the so-called for your own good is actually just based on his self-awareness?

If you can't be treated equally, you can't talk about communication, and you can't empathize, so don't say anything for your good!

That's just a comfort to yourself, a forced way to let the other party complete things according to their own wishes, but how many people have really considered the feelings and thoughts of the person concerned?

Just like Hou Lang once said, this era is a good era now, how many children have entered the age of not being confused at a very young age?

What you once thought was naïve, what you thought didn't grow up, is actually just what you thought.

In the process of growing up a child, a small neglect can make you miss a lot, and you will start to erect a wall between you and your child, and the person you think you know best will gradually become completely unknown to you.

It's ridiculous how many parents still naively think that they are the people who know their children best in the world?

Xu Guodong is like this, he just knows that he wants his children to study hard, but he doesn't tell his children how to study and why they should study, if it weren't for Lin Juan's existence, I'm afraid the relationship between their father and daughter would have broken down long ago.

Xu Guodong can be said to have been smooth sailing over the years, from a small teacher, and finally achieved the position of the principal of Fengyuan Private High School, of course, Fengyuan Private High School at that time was just Fengyuan High School, which is the predecessor of the current Fengyuan Private High School.

At that time, Xu Wan had reached the age of high school, so she naturally came to the school where Xu Guodong worked to study in high school.

Although they were all in the same school, Xu Guodong was too busy at that time, and basically didn't have much time to take care of this daughter, and not many people even knew that Xu Wan was Xu Guodong's daughter.

The first two years were not bad, Fengyuan High School was established, and it was also supported by the Ministry of Education, and the results were also very good, and many children graduated from Fengyuan High School and went to all parts of the country.

It looks like it's thriving, but it's not so good.

Being a principal is not so easy, compared with simply teaching and educating people, there are obviously too many things that the principal needs to consider, Xu Guodong has experienced a lot of things in these years, and he has learned a lot of things in the beating of some societies.

He is no longer the simple person he once was, who just wants to live a simple life with his wife and daughter in a small village.

Time will make a person change, and the ideals that have always been realized with his own efforts have made Xu Guodong focus on his work, but it was that year that he experienced the most serious crisis.

This crisis stems from the vice principal of the school, the head of a school, like the highest authority in a place, although the vice principal only has a sub-word in front of his name, but it is not a little bit different from the real arrogance.

There may be more than one vice-principal in a school, and each vice-principal is responsible for a part of the work.

And only when the principal is transferred, or something happens to leave the position of the principal, the vice principal has a chance to become arrogant.

A radish is a pit, this truth is clear to many people.

At that time, there was a vice principal in Fengyuan High School, and this vice principal had only been in Fengyuan High School for a year, but his family background was very hard, and his uncle was a leader of the Ministry of Education.

This person was originally disdainful of Xu Guodong, a guy from the grassroots, because of his uncle's backer, and Xu Guodong's family had no money, and he didn't know how to give gifts, so the principal of Fengyuan High School was Xu Guodong's highest position.

Xu Guodong can no longer climb up, he just wanted to be a good principal at that time, watching the thriving development of the school, but if he doesn't move, it doesn't mean that no one doesn't want him to move.

For example, the vice principal.

Back then, there was an incident in Fengyuan High School, where a girl committed suicide in school.

At that time, the impact of this incident was very bad, and it was also very huge, all kinds of rumors were flying all over the sky, and gossip was spread everywhere, some said that the school was haunted, some said that there were some bad people in the school, and some people said...

At that time, this incident was circulating in the streets and alleys of Fengcheng, which brought a lot of pressure to Xu Guodong, the principal.

But this is just the beginning, the vice principal found that this was an opportunity, at that time there were only two vice principals, with his relationship, the other vice principal had no way to fight with him, that is, if Xu Guodong stepped down, then the next principal would be him.

Wealth is moving, and rights are sometimes the same, although Xu Guodong is stereotyped, but he is still decent, at that time, he was busy communicating with the family of the girl who committed suicide, and he never thought that someone would stab him from behind, and this also led to the later things...