Chapter 3 Why Get Married
According to Ling Xiao's analysis, the original owner belongs to a person who is more clean, not only physically, but also psychologically. Seeing this, Ling Xiao knew that if the original owner was still there, knowing that her husband was cheating, no matter how much she loved her husband, she would not hesitate to divorce.
Even Ling Xiao felt that the original owner loved her husband more before marriage, a man who was more able to speak sweet words, and was more able to take care of female companions, and he looked good, most women would fall, and it was normal for the original owner to fall in love with that man, and then the original owner never thought about anything else.
It's just that there are signs that Zhang Xiaotian's love after marriage is fading little by little, because a man who really loves his wife will not let the original owner become like that, look, Ling Xiao looked at her in the mirror, an ordinary middle-aged woman, damn it!
Ling Xiao scolded, because it was clear that the original owner was younger than Zhang Xiaotian, and now the two of them were standing together, and the original owner had become the older one, although Ling Xiao didn't know Zhang Xiaotian's aesthetics, but from Ling Xiao's point of view, this body was really not very good-looking.
The original owner seemed to be instilled with ecstasy soup, and she didn't realize that she was so fat at all, because the food she liked to eat was too high in calories, which would cause her to be obese, fortunately, she was still young now, otherwise Ling Xiao suspected that this body would have coronary atherosclerosis early.
At this moment, Ling Xiao was a little confused about Zhang Xiaotian's intentions, to say that he didn't love the original owner at all, but married her, even if his wife's beauty was ruined after she became fat, he didn't think about divorce, but why didn't he tell the original owner that her eating habits were not healthy, and he didn't urge her to lose weight.
Ling Xiao's discovery, the original owner didn't know, people who were dazed in love are not easy to find the problem, the original owner seems to really sink into her husband's love, but love and marriage have always been two people's affairs, unilateral efforts or efforts, it may be a tragedy.
What a pity! You must know that Ling Xiao thought that the original owner was a woman who was partial to science, and she would neither object to love, nor would she give up anything else for the so-called love, but the original owner seemed to have fallen into evil and did not find any problems.
Ling Xiao felt very strange, as a wife, didn't she find a problem? Whether the husband has a heart or not, he should be able to feel it, but Ling Xiao found that the original owner had not thought about these problems, and no matter how he looked at it, he was full of disobedience.
It is said that the IQ of the original owner is not low, otherwise she would not have been admitted to a key university with a high score, but she has not found a problem, and she has not cared that their current married life is a sexless marriage at all, and ordinary women should have discovered the problem a long time ago. In fact, unless Zhang Xiaotian is a eunuch, or someone else, he will see his wife without any thoughts, this is what Ling Xiao is most puzzled about, and the original owner doesn't feel wrong here at all.
No matter how you look at it, Ling Xiao feels that the marriage between the original owner and Zhang Xiaotian has an incomparably strange feeling, the original owner is like a wise person, and she doesn't find that her life is a routine, she is a tool person with children, but she doesn't know how long the throne of the original owner's legal wife can keep.
Ling Xiao felt that there was something wrong with the original owner's character at the moment, and there was a feeling of disobedience. The original owner was originally a scholar, but now when he takes a closer look at the memory of the original owner, he doesn't find the attributes of the scholar, no matter how he looks at it, it looks like a bit of a love brain, which makes Ling Xiao feel wrong after reading it, what the hell is going on?
She sighed after flipping through the memories of the original owner, fortunately, the time of crossing was a little late, otherwise if she had to maintain a sexless marriage with Zhang Xiaotian for such a long time, she would definitely have found out that there was a big problem.
Of course, if it was replaced by Ling Xiao, I am afraid that the problem would have been discovered long ago, and some clues would have been found from the memory of the original owner after giving birth to the child, hey! The original owner is very miserable, of course, if Ling Xiao crosses over early, he will have to maintain this marriage for the time being, after all, the children of the original owner are too young.
After making trouble directly, it won't do her any good at all, can she fight against the child's father with no job and no money? Now if you want to get a divorce, you have to have money, how can you hire a lawyer if you don't have money? There is nothing that cannot be without money, otherwise it will definitely be miserable.
After she thought about it clearly, she found that the people the original owner cared about the most were her two children, as long as they lived well, it was completely fine. It's just that the children are too young to be their own support.
At this time, Ling Xiao felt that his stomach was hungry, and Ling Xiao remembered that he hadn't eaten breakfast at all, and it was already eleven o'clock, and it was almost noon, so let's prepare to eat.
After thinking clearly, she began to prepare to cook, she made it relatively light, belonging to the kind of food that digests and absorbs a little slower, chew more when eating, so that you don't eat much, but you can increase satiety, which is conducive to weight loss.
Now I probe the memory of the original owner, and find that she doesn't care about her getting fat, which is also full of disobedience, I remember that the original owner was more concerned about her figure when she was in college, why did she start to indulge herself after getting married?
She was an outlier who had a big appetite when she was pregnant, so her figure was as fat as if she was blowing, okay! It is normal to want to eat during pregnancy, but for your own good, you should also control the amount of food and drink during pregnancy to prevent the fetus in the womb from being too large, which will lead to dystocia.
When the original owner gave birth to twins, because there was a child with an umbilical cord around the neck, and later a direct caesarean section, the natural birth was exempted, and there was no such thing as dystocia, but the original owner did not control his mouth after giving birth, and his weight did not decrease. The original owner found that his strength had increased after gaining a little weight, so he didn't think about losing weight.
Ay! The original owner's situation made her feel a little uncomfortable, but she still reduced the portion size when eating, because Ling Xiao decided to lose weight, and being overweight was not good for her personal health.
After eating, Ling Xiao slowly moved his body, this body was too heavy, and it would take a while to lose weight to succeed, but Ling Xiao knew that he would definitely be able to lose weight successfully.
Because it was the first time to exercise, Ling Xiao didn't practice for too long, and the exercise had to be done slowly, otherwise it might cause an accident to this body, which was simply a loss-making business, and of course Ling Xiao wouldn't do it.
After the exercise, Ling Xiao began to prepare to go through the memory of the original owner again, to see what stalls she left behind, speaking of which, she was a student of the mathematics department, and after graduation, she relied on Zhang Xiaotian's face to go to work in a company, and she didn't go to give birth to a child after a year.
After seeing what happened to the original owner again, the corners of Ling Xiao's mouth twitched, and at the same time he was sure of one thing: Zhang Xiaotian had already established a certain network at that time, and there must be something that the original owner didn't know, so why did he marry the original owner?
The original owner's performance is not very bright, it is not bad in the key universities where the top students are flying, but it definitely does not belong to the most top-notch kind, in addition, the original owner's family background is also very ordinary, and he can't give the original owner any help at all, it is said that with Zhang Xiaotian's ability, he can marry a better wife, he has that opportunity, is the original owner dizzy, Zhang Xiaotian is also dizzy? Can't!
This question popped up in Ling Xiao's mind, but it was impossible to ask it in the man's mouth, but Ling Xiao really didn't feel quite right, she had a lot of puzzles in her marriage with him, and she continued to look at the other circumstances of the original owner.
The original owner has been relying on her husband's salary for a living at home for many years, she needs to take care of two children alone, sometimes she has to take two children to see a doctor, with one behind her back and one in her hand, at first the original owner was crying to see a doctor for the child, and then gradually adapted to it, but every time the child is sick, she will be greatly tired, fortunately, she has not dared to relax, for fear that she is sick and no one takes care of the child.
In this case, she has no time to care about her major, she is too busy, and she has some time after the children go to kindergarten, and she has a new plan to speculate in stocks.
This is because she knows that if she does a good job, she can earn more money than she does at work. It is impossible for her to go out to find a job at this stage, so she can only wait for her child to go to elementary school, and Ling Xiao feels that the original owner still has a sense of urgency.
The start-up capital for stock speculation was given by Zhang Xiaotian, as for the original owner himself, he also saved a little money, the household money was not used up, all of it was saved, Ling Xiao was sure that Zhang Xiaotian was definitely rich, a lot of household money in a month, and the original owner saved hundreds of thousands, from this point of view, he definitely made a fortune, which is not quite right.
What did Zhang Xiaotian do? Ling Xiao thought about it for a while and put this question aside, because Zhang Xiaotian shouldn't tell the truth, so she didn't bother to pay attention to him, or think about how to live her own life, other people are the richest people in the world, and they don't need to care too much, anyway, the richest man's money won't fly into other people's accounts.
After lunch, Ling Xiao turned on the computer newly bought by the original owner, feeling that this kind of thing was too backward, far inferior to the mobile phone in the previous world, but this is already a better computer in this world, hey! Barely usable it.
The original owner specially bought the computer in order to speculate in stocks at home, and after Ling Xiao went up, he found that he had not set a password, so he checked the computer software first, and soon figured out what the software was like, whether there were viruses and other problems.
After the inspection, I felt that there were many vulnerabilities in the computer that could be exploited, so I set up a small program to protect my privacy. It is also very troublesome to prevent some hackers from turning their computers into springboards and meat ji.
After protecting the computer, Ling Xiao took a look at the stocks purchased by the original owner, the original owner's investment philosophy is to be stable, this investment concept is not wrong, but it is too difficult for Ling Xiao to make money, she is now in urgent need of a large amount of money, in case of a lawsuit, there is no money to pay for the lawyer's fees.
In addition, Ling Xiao also knows that no matter how stable the stock is, it will plummet when the market plummets, so she specially designed a small software to be reminded when she is cordoned, and she doesn't want to lose money.
After doing these things, it was time to pick up the children, Ling Xiao went to pick up the two of them, and when they arrived at the kindergarten, they were sued by the teacher, saying that the two children of Baby Beibei teamed up to bully other children.
Ling Xiao looked at the two children, they were a little panicked at the moment, but more with a little anger, and Bei Bei wanted to cry, which made her want to press the blue tendons on her forehead.
"Teacher, if baby Beibei does something wrong in this matter, I will definitely teach them a good lesson." followed Ling Xiao and said in his heart: "If others bully my child, then I can only say that the will tease first!" Well played! ”
Of course, she didn't say these words, otherwise the kindergarten teacher might think that this parent was a violent maniac, and felt that educating the children was very stressful, and it was possible to let it go later, which was not good for the children.
Ling Xiao sincerely hopes that teachers should try to treat children with a bowl of water and treat every child equally, so that children can set a good example.
In this way, he said goodbye to the teacher with a little smile, and took the two children home, and the two children obediently followed, because the defendant's parents were very quiet, and they pouted.
Ling Xiao didn't say anything else, just took them home, and when they got home, the two children smelled the aroma of the food, and couldn't help sniffing their noses, Ling Xiao asked them to wash their hands well and come over to eat.
After eating, Ling Xiao asked, "Why are you beating people?" Look, I've been beaten up too, right? As she spoke, she was going to see if they had been hurt in any way, but nothing was serious.
Looking at the two children who were still in the shape of a ball, Ling Xiao was a little soft-hearted, they were cute and beautiful children at the moment. The original owner and his wife are both good-looking, and the children who combine the advantages of the two will naturally not look bad.
Especially now they are five short figures, and they are still cute, very cute. At this moment, when two pairs of big watery eyes look at Ling Xiao, with the unique cuteness of children, it will generally inspire the love of adults.
But Ling Xiao was different, and still asked mercilessly. She didn't want them to be people who could only swing their fists, that would be too rude, she wanted the children to be a force person who exercised their bodies, and at the same time, had a brain that was good at thinking.
"Mom, they say we're kids without a dad." Daughter Beibei said that she had tears in her big eyes, because she really rarely saw her father, so she was very annoyed when she heard the children's words, so she and her brother beat people together.
After hearing this, Ling Xiao squatted down and looked at the two of them, and said, "Dad is going to earn money, it's been very hard, don't care about those things, just do your own thing." ”
Looking at those two little faces, Ling Xiao felt that the second wave of pressure that she wanted to divorce had arrived, in fact, she realized that the people who could be hurt the most in a divorce were the children.
Do you want to divorce the two of them for the sake of not divorcing? Ay! It's really difficult for a woman to live, speaking of which, the original owner has been out of society for so many years for the sake of his children, once a man changes his mind and wants to find another like-minded woman, how many good ends do people have as a cousin?
Let's talk about divorce first, it is possible that the man will transfer some property, in fact, the original owner does not know how much money his husband can earn a year, so it depends on the man's conscience when divorcing, in case there is no conscience, she has no problem.
In addition to property, there is another big question in divorce, that is, who has custody of the children? The woman of a housewife is not very good at asking for custody of the child, but as a mother, does she dare to give up custody easily?
Especially the custody of girls, you must know that it is difficult for a girl to grow up safely, there is never a shortage of people in this world who take advantage of girls, even boys, Ling Xiao has encountered the edge of playing with children in other worlds, whether it is a boy or a girl, you must pay attention.