Chapter 35: What I Didn't Realize
When the Yun family has no hope for her future marriage, she fell from the sky with a husband who is excellent in all aspects, can she not cherish it?
Her own conditions are too far from her husband's, and the gains and losses in her bones make Yun Shi not know how to get along with her husband, so her mentality is unbalanced.
And Dong Xue'er, the child who was expected, was not the man in Yun's heart, and she sprinkled all her anger and unwillingness on Dong Xue'er.
She deliberately deceived herself, and her husband treated her badly because Dong Xueer was not a boy.
Coupled with the fortune teller's words, the Yun family had even more reason to abuse his daughter.
How can these little Dong Xue'er understand it?
Cher didn't study psychology in her previous life, but her upbringing made her a rather sensitive person, so she can see the essence of problems that others can't see.
As for Dong Changhe, he is even more so, he is essentially the same as the Yun family, he is kind, otherwise he would not have silently endured the partiality of his parents for so many years, and helped his brothers and sisters without regrets.
He has not been in good health since he was a child, his mind is more sensitive than ordinary children, and he is a sentimental literary young man.
Except for his body, he is not as bad, but his real life is far from his expectations because of his body.
At home, because of his physical relationship, he was treated unfairly by his parents and wanted to join the army, but he couldn't make the trip because of his physical relationship.
If he wants to take the imperial examination, he may not be able to afford it with the situation of the Dong family at that time, and he also knows that even if he continues to take the scientific examination, with his physical condition, he may not be able to get out of the examination room.
fell in love with a woman, and because of her body, her parents disagreed.
wanted a son, but his wife gave birth to a girl.
So much unsatisfactory makes this already sentimental and ambitious man feel all kinds of malice.
He used the nostalgia flowers to make up for the missing piece in his heart, but he was also released twice.
After a long time, Dong Changhe accumulated all kinds of unwillingness and resentment in his heart, so he ignored his daughter, which is a normal thing.
After all, ancient times are different from modern times, there is no family planning here, and children are not as expensive as in modern times.
What Dong Changhe didn't realize was that what he did was no different from his parents, and his inaction indirectly chilled Dong Xue'er, who was full of expectations.
Of course, these are all Xue'er's analysis, she will not tell Dong Changchun this, she blinked innocent eyes, and said with a smile: "Sister-in-law, you said that everyone's choice is different, right?" ”
"Yes." This time, Dong Changchun nodded, but she didn't understand what this had to do with her question?
"If everyone's choice is different, why do they choose differently?" Cher asked again.
"Because of the different ideas, of course." Dong Changchun affirmed.
"Why do you think differently?" This time, Cher didn't wait for her to answer before continuing: "Because everyone's hardships are different. ”
"Bitter?" Dong Changchun asked rhetorically.
"Yes, bitterly. For example, Dad, what is his struggle? Cher asked rhetorically.
Dong Changchun was silent, what is the trouble of the second brother? Suddenly, she thought of the second brother's previous love for the eldest lady of the Shui family, could that be the second brother's hardship?
But how can she make it clear to a six-year-old?
"Dad, he doesn't love his mother, that's what he suffers." Xue'er leaned on Dong Changchun's ear and said in a low voice.
Dong Changchun looked at this eccentric niece with a strange look, as if he wanted to see her through.
Xue'er ignored her scrutiny and continued to lower her voice: "Mother's distress is that she knows that her father's heart belongs, but she likes her father. ”
Dong Changchun was shocked this time, is this little niece really only six years old?
Xue'er still laughed heartlessly, shook her head and said, "So Xue'er has no hatred in her heart, only sadness." ”
"Sad?"
"Yes, it's sorrow! I feel sorry for them. Why be together? Is it really happiness to get something that you have been forced to obtain?
If you don't love it, why do you want to marry, and since you know that the other party doesn't love you, why do you want to forcibly stay?
They have their own sufferings, and the people who end up bearing these hardships are the people closest to them, such as Cher.
And in the eyes of others, I have become another sad character, sister-in-law, do you say yes? ”
Without waiting for her to say anything, Cher continued, "Is hate useful? It's obviously useless, and since it's useless, why should I hate? Why complain? It's better to live my own life.
Since no one really loves me, then I love myself! ”
In fact, Xue'er can not say these words, but she hopes that this transparent sister-in-law can live happily in the future. She is Dong Xue'er, and from the day she occupied this body, she Xue'er was the owner of this body.
She was not afraid of Dong Changchun's suspicion, because she couldn't find her own handle, so she simply let her think that she was a precocious one!
Of course, she still explained: "Dad's book Xue'er has read a lot, and I can read a lot now." I would secretly read it when I was fine, and a lot of my insights came from books.
Of course, Xue'er also has her own understanding, but she just doesn't know if it's right or not.
Sister-in-law, are you right to say that I think so? ”
Dong Changchun nodded fiercely and said, "Yes, sister-in-law didn't expect Xue'er to be so smart, it would be nice if you were a boy." ”
"Why, my sister-in-law also thinks that Xue'er is not a filial daughter, is she a broom star?
Is it because I'm a girl that I'm supposed to do all this? Cher deliberately misinterpreted her meaning, looking a little lost.
"No, of course not, what my sister-in-law wants to say is that if you are a man, you will definitely become a person who does everything when you grow up." Dong Changchun ignored the contradictions and hurriedly explained.
"Hahaha...... Xue'er teases your ......" Xue'er laughed and looked at Dong Changchun teasingly.
"Ah, you bad girl, look how I punish you......" She didn't expect to be tricked by a child, so she went up and started scratching Xue'er's itch.
"Sister-in-law, I was wrong, spare my life...... I don't dare anymore, wahahahaha......" Cher begged for mercy while dodging.
The aunt and nephew went crazy for a while before they stopped, and since then the two of them have established a "revolutionary friendship" and have become good friends who talk about everything.
Dong Changchun stayed in Xue'er for only seven days before being taken back by the Qin family, on the grounds that she had to go back to study female red.
Of course, Xue'er hopes that Dong Changchun can stay for a few more days, because she really doesn't have the psychological preparation to face Dong Changhe and his wife alone.
But the wound on her head had already scabbed, and the Qin family said that there was no major problem, and she also took the pulse for the Yun family again, and the Yun family's fetus also sat firmly.