Yanzh Since the Qin and Han dynasties, the so-called five non-marriages have appeared at the time of marriage, which has been recorded in Dai De's "Da Dai Li Ji Ben Ming" at the end of the Western Han Dynasty, and later there were special annotations: widows and eldest daughters do not marry, and there are no religious precepts.

If it is translated in the vernacular, that is, if the mother dies early, the girl's family will not have the upbringing of the mother, and the girl will not know how to be a wife and a mother before she gets married.

It is equivalent to saying that after the eldest daughter of the girl lost her mother, her value in the marriage market, which was already very miserable, also plummeted, and she became a defective product that everyone was not optimistic about.

This is also one of the important reasons why the relatives and friends around him must continue the strings after the average man loses his wife, anyway, the stepmother is also the mother, and the situation will be better.

In the case of the original owner, there is no possibility of making up for the death of both parents, and the Li family will not be optimistic about the future of his niece, so it is just right to be a foil for his daughter.

The Li family calculated that in the future, after the arrival of her niece, she would let her and her daughter be together, let her remember the kindness of the Tao family's second room, and let her be polite to her sister.

The Li family has long calculated in his heart that only girls who have read books are valuable, even if their niece's market in the official eunuch family is not good, and it is not easy to marry.

But there are never men in the world who can't marry a daughter-in-law, there is no woman who can't marry, and nieces will never rot in their own hands.

After Li's eyes rolled for a while, he thought about how to maximize the benefits, if he really couldn't marry into a business, he could get a sum of money.

Of course, because of Li's own reasons, she doesn't plan to let her niece read any history and other miscellaneous books, and smart people can see too much.

Then Li plans to let his niece and the concubine in the second room read more serious books such as women's rings, and the woman is alive.

Although the status of the merchant is low, the kind of people who want to ask for marriage are very rich, and they like vassal elegance the most.

After YY, Li's eyes lit up a little, and a declining family girl can definitely sell for a good price.

And she thought that because of the death of both parents in Changfang's niece, Tao Er would not stand up for her niece.

Then the possibility that Lee's can operate is still very good, think about it.

Li knew very well in his heart that Tao Er had a lot of disgust and hatred for Changfang.

Then in the days to come, the children of the long house will be firmly grasped by her.

If the operation is good in the future, it will definitely make a big profit.

This is private money, and it is all owned by her alone.

Ay! This means that the children have all the money for their marriage.

Li still has one more thing to think about.

Sister-in-law Han's children will listen to her in the future.

This discovery made Lee's heart feel happy, which was great.

She has always been jealous of her sister-in-law Han's good luck and happiness from the bottom of her heart.

is also the son of the Tao family, and Tao Da's ability is much stronger than Tao Er.

There has always been monogamy in the big house, and no one can get involved in the couple.

Tao Er has always had a pet, which makes her feel that as a wife, she has to spend a lot of money.

Even though the Dafang family later resigned and left the capital, the Li family was still a little uneasy.

The reason why this happened was because Han was loved by her husband, which made Li jealous.

She is bent on cultivating her children, and it is impossible for her husband to train them, but her children can.

And the death of Tao Da and his wife made it possible for her wish to come true, and the two boys were still young, but they were afraid that they would not be able to remember their parents.

Even the eldest lady is not big, you can try to shape them all into some mediocre people, Li began to think in his heart.

After thinking about it clearly, she packaged her thoughts and let Tao Erlang know that if the second room raised her niece and nephew, she would definitely not lose money.

After listening to his wife's words clearly, he felt much better in his heart, and since the matter was a foregone conclusion or acceptance, he felt that he was really good.

So the husband and wife discussed it and decided to give their niece a dismissal after a while, so that she didn't dare to speak, and she had to be more obedient when she lived in the second room.

At this moment, they completely ignored Mama Liu and did not tell who died, from the slaves of the big house, it was the eldest lady who asked her to come, and it was inferred that the husband and wife of the big house died.

Ling Xiao in the monitoring pouted slightly, the original owner was really unlucky, and the so-called second uncle and aunt were not good people, but fortunately, they knew what to do after knowing the situation.

Besides, after Mother Xia came back yesterday, she told Ling Xiao about the situation she encountered in the second room, and she was very glad that the eldest lady found that the second room was not worth relying on at all, otherwise it would be easy to enter and difficult to come out.

Ling Xiao asked Xia's mother to go down to rest, and at the same time to see how the mourning hall was prepared, and from the next day, she would start to officially observe filial piety, and just met at the mourning hall, taking the opportunity to suppress the arrogance of the husband and wife in the second room.

Discovering the strange behavior of Tao Erlang's family, Ling Xiao was not disappointed, she could achieve her own ideas by grasping the shortcomings of the two people, anyway, she would not live with Tao Erlang and his wife, she naturally waited for the arrival of these two.

Tao Baozhu hoped that her mother would come, but she waited for a day, and fell asleep very late after tossing at night, and the next day even the rooster crowed did not affect her, and finally she was woken up when it was time to eat morning food, and got up with a little sleepiness.

Because from today onwards, the official wake, this time the cherry commander made a lot of morning food, because of the sake of filial piety, there is no meat dishes, but the taste is not bad, Ling Xiao naturally knows what happened during the filial piety, and he can't eat meat.

So in order to ensure the nutrition needed by the human body in a short period of time, you can eat some soy products, such as tofu, dried tofu and other foods, which belong to plant protein, which can be eaten during the period of filial piety in the eyes of the ancients.

But as a person from modern times, Ling Xiao feels that egg milk still needs to be supplemented, you must know that the human body needs protein for development, and vegetarian protein can supplement a part, but the human body also needs animal protein.

Forget it, wait for the 100-day hot filial piety period to add some animal protein such as eggs and milk, this is for the good of the two children, Ling Xiao planned in his heart what to do without causing trouble.

Good nutrition at a young age is good for the development of the brain and all aspects of the body, and children must pay attention to it, otherwise filial piety will make children be treated badly.

After eating, Ling Xiao took a few children to the vigil, and during this time, the three boys were all relatively obedient, and Tao Baozhu did not dare to object.

Just when Tao Baozhu felt very tormented, Tao Erlang and his wife finally arrived, and the husband and wife sat in the car, looking at this not too big courtyard.

The two of them were a little disgusted, especially when they heard a series of fierce dog barking, and even a big dog came out, but fortunately, they were quickly called away.

Li's brows furrowed suddenly, she actually smelled a trace of stench, so disgusting, took out Supa and gently covered her nose.

And at this time, Su's mother had already gotten the news, so she sent someone to meet her, and the couple's faces were a little unsightly at the moment.

The nieces and nephews who are juniors didn't go out to greet them, which made the two of them very unhappy and wanted to have a seizure.

At this time, Mother Xia came over with someone wearing filial piety clothes, which made Tao and his wife shut their mouths all of a sudden.

The person behind Xia's mother was holding a wooden pallet, on which were two sets of decrepit filial piety clothes, and the rough clothes were still with raw edges.

"What does that mean?" Tao Er was shocked, he had been thinking only about the death of his annoying brother before.

Completely forgetting that there are still parents living there, if the brother dies, the parents are afraid that it will not be good.

"The old slave said it when he went to the house yesterday, and the old lady and the two of them went with him."

Xia's mother's words made the faces of the two Taos and the two couples suddenly become very unsightly.

The two of them just thought that their children could sleep peacefully when they came back.

One was in bed pondering what would happen after his brother's death.

unconsciously ignored the safety of the two old men.

In fact, Xia's mother was very unhappy.

The two of them actually forgot to wear filial piety clothes.

Even if the old one doesn't find the body, he won't be sure.

But Tao Er, as a brother, still has to dress his brother in Qi decay mourning clothes.

Li Shi looked at it and suddenly remembered, "Hey! We don't know about that. ”

Turning his head and asking, "Mama Liu, why didn't you remember what was going on yesterday?" ”

Xia's mother didn't pursue it further, she directly took the second husband and wife into the courtyard to wear mourning clothes.

After the two of them changed their clothes, Xia's mother said, "The eldest lady is holding a wake for her grandparents and parents, and she can't come out to greet them for the time being." ”

Tao Er and his wife were a little unhappy when they didn't see someone greet them, and they even wanted to have a seizure and give Ling Xiao a big dismount.

But the two of them were singled out at the moment and they haven't worn mourning clothes until now, no matter how you look at it, there is a problem, and at this moment they don't have the heart to find something to pick on at all.

After the two of them put on filial piety clothes, Tao Er remembered that he was going to worry, which made him a little desperate, what should he do? What if Shouxiao comes out and doesn't have a position? This discovery made Tao Er a little desperate, but he had to change into filial piety clothes.

Fortunately, he was supposed to be guarding the spirit, and this loveless expression was very suitable, Xia's mother coughed lightly and said: "At that time, someone saw the old lady and the two people getting into an ox cart and wanted to dodge, but after the flood caught up, they never saw the two of them again. ”

"Later, I couldn't find where I went, and I couldn't come back in the flood." Xia's mother went on to say that Li also remembered the matter of the vigil, because she cared too much about the child being taken back, she didn't care about the lives of other people at all.

After listening to Xia's mother's words, I remembered that in addition to Tao Dalang and his wife, there were also his own parents-in-law, but fortunately, he was wearing plain clothes when he came out, otherwise it would definitely be trouble.

After putting on the heavy filial piety, the two of them were brought into the mourning hall, which only had a spirit card, and Tao Erlang saw that he knelt down suddenly and then cried.

He wanted to cry at the thought of his current official position flapping his wings and flying away, but the problem was that he must not expose this kind of thinking at this time.

I saw him crying and pounding the ground, and he kept calling his father, crying until some of his body was a little convulsive, what should I do?

Ling Xiao naturally knew the performance of the two of them during this time, and he didn't care about the death of the eldest brother and his wife at all.

Still thinking about benefiting from it, these two people belong to the kind of people who have always been very selfish, and she watched coldly.

Fortunately, this time there is Yuzhen, which is equivalent to finding the guardian of the three sisters and brothers.

Otherwise, you will either follow the Tao family, or you will go to find the original owner's mother's family.

Either way, it's going to be sad to live with some outsiders.

Ling Xiao didn't plan to go to someone else's house at all.

She has seen Dream of Red Mansions, so she naturally knows something about the fence.

You must know that Lin Daiyu's mother is the beloved daughter of the ancestor of Jiafu, and Jiafu is her uncle's family.

As a grandmother, Mother Jia loves her granddaughter very much and has always treated her as an eyeball.

But Lin Daiyu is still having a very bad time, one of the two uncles doesn't care, and the other doesn't care.

The two aunts are one who is too busy to take care of herself, and the other is eager to isolate Lin Daiyu from her son.

In this case, the slaves who had a pair of rich eyes thought that Lin Daiyu was here to fight the autumn wind, saying that she was mean and petty.

This happened when Jia's mother had the right to speak in Jiafu, if Jia's mother didn't have the right to speak, she was afraid that Lin Daiyu would eat bran vegetables.

Ling Xiao has deep doubts about the life under the fence, and takes a deep look at the memory of the original owner, her uncle's family is not in the capital.

The original owner's mother is the old daughter of her maternal grandfather and maternal grandmother, and she is quite favored in her mother's family, and later she once ate the anger of her mother-in-law after getting married.

Fortunately, at that time, my grandfather and the old couple were there, and they went to Tao's house to seek justice for their daughter, and the husband and wife became a loving couple.

However, the maternal grandparents died one after another, and the original owner's uncle Ding Wei later went to other places to become officials, and his family followed.

In other words, if the uncle's family is not in the capital, it is naturally impossible to adopt three sisters and brothers, so it's actually good!

She really didn't want to go to live in the original owner's uncle's house, and she was super uncomfortable living, maybe it wouldn't be good.

Later, if the original owner's uncle's family is good, then it is also good to be a relative.

After scrutinizing the memories of the original owner, Ling Xiao found that the original owner should still have relatives.

The cousin aunt of this body is the same age as the original owner's mother.

What's even more strange is that the two of them are not sisters.

But I don't know why it looks super similar.

People who don't know think that the two of them are twin daughters.

If two people think that they look alike, it will feel good.

But in fact, this is not the case, the relationship between the two has always been quite flat.

The original owner once asked the reason once, only to know that the two of them didn't get along well at all.

Because they look too similar, outsiders compare two people everywhere, which leads to the average relationship between the two people.

The aunt married into the noble family because of her talent, and the very low-key mother of the original owner married into the family.

There should still be a lot of in-laws with the Tao family in the capital, Ling Xiao thinks about it, his head hurts, so many relatives of seven aunts and eight aunts.

Fortunately, the relationship between other in-laws is relatively far away, and she can basically ignore it, and she is ready to honestly keep filial piety in this courtyard, waiting for the return of the original owner.

During this period, I helped the original owner educate the two boys well, hoping that the original owner would come back early, she would not use this body to marry, if the original owner did not come back, she planned to become a monk first, and wait for the original owner to come back.