This dusk, Suni and Yiling's three views were all refreshed by Meimei. So, at night, two men lay on a small bed, one facing the wall and the other facing outward, both with their eyes open, both on their own minds.

Suni was thinking: Mei Mei said that marriage was "an equivalent exchange that maximizes benefits", which probably exists among rich people, after all, they have a lot. But I am poor, what good is it for the poor? How many hairs do I have on my head? How many pairs of pants do you have in your closet?

What I can be pictured by others is myself. In this way, on the premise of protecting myself, I am looking for feelings, but it is not so complicated and pure. Because, I just need to figure out whether I really like the other party, and whether the other party really likes me, that's fine......

Suni has a simple mind, a low IQ, and doesn't have so many distractions, and after she has a firm position, she turns to thinking about the affairs of the club.

Unlike Yiling, with the same words, her mood was up and down several times.

Yiling first felt that Mei Mei was powerful, and she couldn't express the same classic opinion as she did, but Mei Mei could not only explain her views correctly, but also get to the point of the problem in every sentence-

She is really, every word is said in Yiling's heart!

For example, regarding the "example of abandoning her first love and marrying a blind date arranged by her family", Yiling chose to believe it directly without doing field research to verify its authenticity. Because, in her family, there is one alive.

That's the cousin she touted countless times and married the daughter of the owner of a construction company. When my cousin got married that year, Yiling counted the luxury of the wedding banquet to Suni in the same way.

Suni also asked, "Is it the out-of-town girlfriend that your brother talked about at school?" Her family is so rich? ”

Yiling rolled her eyes and replied: "It's not her!" That one was already divided, and my aunt disagreed! ”

Suni was surprised: "Why? Didn't you say that she also took you to buy clothes? People are nice. ”

"What's the use of me thinking? My aunt doesn't like it, saying that the foreign ones are always different from our living habits, and I am afraid that we will not be able to run in if we live together in the future. Moreover, she also has a younger brother, the most important thing is this, my aunt is worried that my brother will become her family's 'brother demon'! ”

Externally, it is all such a caliber.

But now, today, after Meimei's "pointing", Yiling finally understands that everything is just an excuse made by the aunt and her family: when people measure the value of a relationship and a marriage, and cannot balance it with their own interests, no matter how kind, caring, gentle, and virtuous a person is, it will be useless.

Because, the other party will always pick out the bone in the egg, and then swear to proclaim his own righteousness, and put himself on the moral high ground forever.

Is it realistic? Hypocrisy? Was it unfair to that girl?

Be.

But so what?

Yiling's cousin hugged the eldest lady and fell asleep like that. Moreover, because of his father-in-law's relationship, he became the head of the group before he was 30 years old, and he jumped from nothing to a young capitalist with resources and connections, and was envied and envied by countless people.

Yiling doesn't know if his cousin will occasionally remember his first love in college? That girl, Yiling also admitted, is more beautiful and virtuous than her current sister-in-law, more than a hundred times. She may also be very capable, after all, she was born in the countryside, and it is not easy to be admitted to a key university.

However, Yiling knows better that if her cousin really marries her, maybe the two of them will have to work hard for a long time before it is possible to earn their first house in Jiangshi.

It's not like now, my cousin easily reached the top.

Standing on the shoulders of giants and looking at the scenery, the vision will naturally widen. Therefore, no matter how mediocre the qualifications are, they can achieve one or two with money and resources.

This is also the reason why Yiling looks down on her sister-in-law while yearning for her cousin's encounter, deep down.

Yiling's sister-in-law has had such favorable conditions since she was born, but in the end, she only went to secondary school. Although later, my cousin's father-in-law, in order to seek her daughter's stability, forced her to become a kindergarten teacher.

In order to accomplish this goal, Yiling's sister-in-law applied for a night university, and it was a good idea to get a college diploma.

The family paved the road and built a bridge early, and she could go to work directly after she got the kindergarten teacher qualification certificate.

As a result, it was a teacher qualification certificate, and she took the exam twice before passing!

After a lot of tossing, the end result was that she only attended classes for two weeks.

She was unemployed, and she went on a blind date with Yiling's cousin. It is reported that it was her father who first fell in love with Cousin Yiling, mainly because he was familiar with Uncle Yiling, knew the roots, and knew what kind of child Cousin Yiling was.

married her with her brother, Yiling didn't know if there was really love between them? Watching from the sidelines, at least, in the eyes of outsiders, they are still quite affectionate. Her brother is considerate to her, and she also cares for him.

Always, that's it, until now, it's been 5 years. My sister-in-law never went to work again during the whole process.

Once, she talked about her brief part-time job experience. Yiling was also there that day, playing with her sister-in-law's friends in her villa. During this period, a friend of my sister-in-law talked about the company's environmental problems, so my sister-in-law said the reason why she only worked for two weeks that year:

"Aren't there more women in kindergartens (referring to the relatively high percentage of female teachers)? Ouch, you don't know, one by one, oh, they're all like black-eyed chickens, what's wrong with me driving a BMW at work? My family deserves it, it's their business?! As a result, the leaders all talked to me and said, the impact is not good, and the teachers are giving feedback on this matter-

My toilet, a bunch of three-eight! Pipe head and pin, and pee, all the special care! I really, I don't even have the freedom to wear clothes or shoes......"

Another friend of hers interrupted her: "Oh, don't complain about this, the kindergarten children are small, and the two teachers have to bring 20 or 30 children, so the dress must be leisure, comfortable, and convenient for exercise." Like our baby teacher, that's it.

Think about it, if the kindergarten teacher wants to wear high heels to work, if he steps on the child, then don't have an accident? A child's feet are so tender. ”

Yiling's sister-in-law was speechless for a while, paused, and then said: "Anyway, this job is not done by people!" I'm tired, I don't have much money, and I still have a bunch of requirements. I was in the middle of the night, and my head was dizzy, and I finally got a certificate and diploma, so what? Bring a little P child, I want to change to a system, and I want a bachelor's degree! I ......"

Yiling sat next to her, smiled coldly, and said in her heart: It turns out that this is the reason why she really didn't do it - not qualified!

Since then, she has begun to feel sorry for her cousin, and feels that her sister-in-law is not worthy of her brother at all.

Until today, brainwashed by Mei Mei's "profit maximization", Yi Lingfang suddenly became enlightened: Yes, if she wasn't for this virtue, how could my brother be able to climb this family? It seems that in the future, I can only do this......