Xiyan sighed, "It's really hard to be a doctor, and there are many exams." ”

When you are studying, you will be the major with the most class hours, and you will have a long internship period.

She has been watching as a bystander, and she is a little glad that she did not study medicine in the first place.

When she first chose her major, she was afraid of taking anatomy classes, so she chose economics directly.

Even if she is urged by her mother's family, she doesn't study, and when she goes to the general teacher, she is afraid of the whole person.

Fortunately, she didn't study, as a roommate, she knew very well how powerful her roommate was, and it still took so much time.

In addition, as early as when he was studying, Ling Xiao began to follow his mentor into the clinic and began to come into contact with various patients, and winter and summer vacations did not exist.

Ling Xiao didn't have any complaints about this, but she saw with her own eyes that once something happened, even the doctors who were resting at home would be summoned by a phone call to rescue the patient.

This is something that every medical worker may encounter, and he must persist in gritting his teeth, so that after the three of them know about it, they really respect the people who are engaged in the profession of doctors.

Those who can persist in studying in the medical profession, persist in the test after test, and finally take the position of doctor are some truly brave people.

"It's a bit difficult, and when you master the original knowledge, you need to learn new knowledge at any time." Ling Xiao nodded, she didn't deny that it was really difficult to study medicine.

"Xiao Xiao is a doctor, but he still has to take the exam every two years, and if he doesn't let his practice qualification, he will be revoked, tsk." Qian Rui said.

Ling Xiao shook his head and said, "Now you have to work hard to do that line of work, even if you are a teacher, don't you have to go through assessments again and again?" ”

"To live, you have to keep working hard and recharging, and this is true for you and me." Qian Rui nodded after hearing this.

It's true that many industries are learning new knowledge all the time, and they also need to have professional qualifications.

Xiyan and Qian Rui have been assessed again and again, and they have a deep understanding of this.

For example, when Xiyan joined the ranks of civil servants, she was also tested again and again.

He even took the bar exam specifically.

But there's no denying it.

After doing so, it was more professional.

Some results can be seen now.

For example, people with a very strong accent like that.

It is simply impossible to become a teacher, because Mandarin is not good.

They have no aversion to dialects, but they must speak Mandarin if they want to become teachers.

You must know that the accent in some places is strongly contagious, and if you are not careful, you will follow the teacher astray.

There are also some local dialects that sound to others, and they simply can't understand anything, you must know that there are too many dialects in Kyushu.

Especially the teachers in the university, they are from all over the world, imagine that the teachers do not speak Mandarin, but speak dialects.

EMMMMMM！ There will be communication barriers, and there are some commonalities between the northern language families, and there are too many differences between the southern language families and the northern language families.

For example, if the hair washing in Mandarin is spoken in Shanghainese, it is very strange to outsiders, because it is not called washing hair, but beating the head, and if you don't understand it, you think you are going to fight and are ready to hit someone else's head.

Therefore, when a teacher is a teacher, he must pass the Mandarin test, this is so that students can study well, otherwise the teacher on the stage uses various dialects to teach, and I am afraid that the students can understand it, so it will take a lot of time, and the course is only a lot of time.

After everyone learns the dialect by themselves and can understand the teacher's words, then the taught courses can only be self-study, but some courses need to be explained by the teacher.

This requires those engaged in the teaching profession to use a relatively standard Mandarin, not only to speak dialects in class, but also to pass the Mandarin test.

All aspects are aimed at making members of various industries more professional in their work, and they can also communicate better and better serve the public.

As a result, after entering university, students begin to study for their future one by one, which is the direction of students' efforts.

All four of them have passed the foreign language qualification exam, and Ling Xiao has passed at least several foreign languages.

"We have a lot fewer opportunities to take the exam after graduation, and the qualifications that should be taken are also examined." Qian Rui said.

Many people feel liberated after graduation, but there are still many people who will continue to study, including Ling Xiao.

Qian Rui looked at Ling Xiao, anyway, those who want to be motivated still have to continue to study.

Zhang Shanshan said: "Xiao Xiao still has to take the exam, and it is really very hard. ”

"Xiao Xiao, then I wish you an early exam." Xiyan said.

"Yes! Xiao Xiao, you have to turn positive as soon as possible. ”

"Okay, I'll try to do well." Ling Xiao said.

Zhang Shanshan looked at them with a little envy in her eyes.

She didn't want to go to work, but had other plans of her own.

She had a plan when she was in college, and she is still very determined.

But it is undeniable that at this moment, she is still a little envious of her three roommates.

Because in reality, the three of them are considered big women, and they want to compete in the workplace.

She said a little faintly: "The three of you have goals, and I belong to people who have no ambitions." ”

When she spoke, she was a little afraid that her friends would look down on her, because after she graduated, she planned to get pregnant when she went back.

Fundamentally, I never thought about becoming a strong woman in the workplace, and she was the most unproductive one in the dormitory.

Although it has always been her greatest wish to have a baby, she feels a little decadent when she sees that her roommates have their own career plans.

Isn't your path right? But she really hopes to be able to watch the baby grow up slowly, she has that ability and that opportunity. She prefers to be a good mother and accompany her children to grow up.

Ling Xiao shook her head gently after hearing this, it is difficult to be a good mother, I believe that Zhang Shanshan will work hard, she looked at her brightly, among the four girls in the dormitory, she looked the least like a good wife and mother, but wanted to be a good wife and mother.

Xiyan said: "This is your choice, neither breaking the law nor harming others, why not?" It is not easy to be a good mother. ”

"Shanshan, haven't you been working on how to be a good mother all these times? Quite an effort. Qian Rui also said.

Hearing their words, Zhang Shanshan was very grateful for her roommate's opinion, and she looked at Ling Xiao, the only one who did not speak out in this matter.

She asked, "Xiao Xiao, do you think my studies are in vain?" If you want to be a stay-at-home mom, you don't need to study for a doctorate at all. ”

"Why white? Didn't you study diligently in college? Ling Xiao said with some surprise.

"Some of the books you read may be forgotten, but you will remember what is useful to you."

This is really Ling Xiao's idea, learning is for oneself, and learning is not a loss.

Zhang Shanshan nodded after hearing this, and a happy smile appeared on the corner of her mouth.

Ling Xiao sensed that she seemed to have some doubts about this aspect.

He asked, "Isn't this what you get after going to school?" ”

"Can't stay-at-home mothers go to school?"

This sentence made Zhang Shanshan's eyes light up.

She was really thrilled to get the support and approval she wanted from this sentence.

Zhang Shanshan's eyes lit up after hearing this, and her roommates had never mocked her thoughts.

Even now after knowing her ideals, the three of them were only slightly surprised.

But as a more enlightened person, he does not criticize at will.

Zhang Shanshan's choice is reasonable and legitimate.

Not so long ago, her thoughts were heard.

After posting it online.

It was refuted by many people.

said that she was a waste of national educational resources.

After letting Zhang Shanshan know about it occasionally, she had a pimple in her heart.

I feel that I am taking advantage of other people's learning opportunities and not cherishing resources.

The more she didn't care about this kind of thought, the more uncomfortable she felt in her heart.

In fact, many people on the Internet are eager to get her flesh out.

It makes her a little annoyed and a little afraid.

Someone was already going to point at her nose and scold her.

Say she's a moth.

Let Zhang Shanshan accept incompetence.

Originally, she didn't want to say it.

I'm afraid that my roommates feel the same way.

It's just that the atmosphere today is very delicate, so let her speak out her troubles.

"Tang Linfeng must be very happy that you continue to study, right?" Ling Xiao said.

Ling Xiao asked three questions in a row, and the big stone in Zhang Shanshan's heart was moved away at once.

She smiled and nodded, and said repeatedly, "Thank you for letting me know that I didn't do something stupid." ”

She had always known that she was the most sluggish of her roommates in the dormitory, and that the other roommates were all sharper than her.

However, Xiao Xiao has never spoken much, and what she didn't expect today was that she would say so much, and she found out that this roommate had never said it before, but she knew it very well.

And Ling Xiao naturally saw it, gently touched Zhang Shanshan's wine glass with the wine glass in his hand, and drank a sip of sweet juice.

"Shanshan, you have to remember one thing, people in this world don't try to please everyone."

"No matter how good you are, there will be people who look down on what you do."

"Just do your own thing." After speaking, Ling Xiao nodded.

Xiyan and the two also looked at Zhang Shanshan and nodded.

It is impossible to be liked by the whole people.

It's gold, and some people say it stinks of copper.

They are going to work hard.

But definitely won't look down on stay-at-home moms.

Because they give everything for their children and their families.

Hearing Zhang Shanshan finish what happened, I felt a little funny.

They also did not think that Zhang Shanshan, who received a good degree of higher education, was a waste of educational resources.

Zhang Shanshan was admitted by herself, and she also paid all kinds of fees such as tuition fees in full.

In addition, as roommates, they feel that their roommates will not be family-only people.

Zhang Shanshan's efforts are obvious to all, and Zhang Shanshan's theory of becoming a good mother has been learned a lot.

Even when she encounters various problems in life, she will think from her mother's point of view, which is a novel experience for them.

If you want to be a good mother, you don't just have theory, there are thousands of differences in practice, and many times it is a little bit of a groping.

And those of them who are not yet married can get the most authentic materials first-hand from Zhang Shanshan, so that they will not take detours in the future.

So in their opinion, Zhang Shanshan is a pioneer, and everything she encountered in raising children is the best hint for them.

At this moment, they hope that Zhang Shanshan will write a book on parenting, she has the pen power to write, and she also has the spirit to study the situation.

She also has the financial resources and energy to do it, because she has a lot more time than a professional woman, which is a good plan.

If you change to the other three, I'm afraid you won't be able to spare time to grow up with the baby.

They know this well, as professional women, they have to work and take care of their babies.

I definitely can't observe carefully like Zhang Shanshan, she has a good temperament.

And the three of them are all relatively rigid, but they are afraid that they will not work.

Probably after the response is done, just throw it aside.

Forget about it after a while.

But they also know that there are gains and losses.

Life in the world is imperfect.

And the reason why Zhang Shanshan has the confidence to be a full-time mother.

is because her bamboo horse is a good husband, and because her mother's family gives her confidence.

Of course, if you change to someone else, you will sigh, and you don't have the idea of exchanging with Zhang Shanshan at all.

Because they imagined that they would have to stay at home all day, circling around their family 24 hours a day, and they couldn't sit still.

The reason why they did not object to Zhang Shanshan's choice was because they knew that road was the path she wanted to take.

But it doesn't stop them from wanting to work hard outside and see more things.

It also wants to prove that women are not inferior to men in many places.

There will even be better performance in some places.

But it doesn't matter if you want to continue to spread your wings.

Still ready to be a good mother.

are all good choices.

This is a right given to women by society.

It belongs to the great progress of civilization, so that women have the opportunity to choose.

They are fortunate to be born in such an era, and naturally they want to give up their friendship.

The three of them looked at each other and said in unison, "Shanshan, be a good mother." ”

Even Qian Rui was gearing up and said, "We're waiting for your notes." ”

"Be sure to record what your child has experienced in detail so that we can inquire about it later."

After talking with her roommates, she had a new idea, is it a crime to want to be a stay-at-home mother?

Whether it is her mother's family or her mother-in-law's family, they are willing to support her approach, and they are not afraid.

She herself would love to be a good mother and care about other people's affairs?

Some people just like to point fingers at other people's affairs.

It's really a very offensive person.

Stay a little bit.

After thinking it through, she smiled.

"Xiao Xiao, you're really right."

"Dongdong likes me to continue learning." At this, she blushed.

"He also told me: my major can be studied at home, and I can work hard."

Zhang Shanshan told her roommate that when she was in school, she and Dongdong discussed the future and family development.

For the sake of the development of Dongdong's career, the couple had to use contraception at the beginning of their marriage and did not plan to have children early.

Because Dongdong wants to work hard while he is young, and wait until he fights hard to lay the foundation.

Wait for Dongdong's career to enter a certain period of stability before having children.

It wasn't too late at all.

Of course, when having children.

Zhang Shanshan can't be too old.

Because it's bad for both mother and child.

For this reason, the two of them specially consulted.

In this way, when the child is born, Dongdong will have the opportunity to accompany their mother and son (daughter).

In the process of growing up, children will have the care of both parents.

Know both husband and wife, whether it is father or mother.

are providers who give children a sense of security.

After hearing about their intentions.

The roommates all felt a little sour.

The dog food for roommates and boyfriends is really messy.