Chapter 567: The Housewife's Awakening (27)
Lin Du didn't know what to say, so he simply remained silent.
Cheng Che didn't care about Lin Dui's reaction, he continued to say, "I can't wait to escape, but he has arranged every step for me to take, and I have no way to escape." When I got to work and began to get in touch with what he called his country little by little, he began to ask me to be a shrewd businessman in his eyes, to calculate the input-output ratio in everything, and to only care about the numbers in his account. ”
"That's what he is, hypocritical and contradictory. On the one hand, he wants me to be a moral benchmark in his heart, and on the other hand, he wants me to be shrewd enough to even do whatever it takes to do business. After all, he doesn't love me, all he loves most is money and his face. He had been brainwashed by the lust and money that permeated the air in the financial street. Cheng Che did not feel warmth and love from family life, he lost his mother when he was young, but his father did not give him enough care and warmth.
Lin Duan somewhat understood why he liked Qiao Hanyin, of course, because Qiao Hanyin was beautiful and unique enough, but at the same time, he projected all his shortcomings in maternal love onto Qiao Hanyin, not that he wanted maternal love from Qiao Hanyin, but that he liked Qiao Hanyin's gentle and loving appearance towards Jiang Nuo, which reminded him of his mother.
He not only fell in love with Qiao Hanyin, but also fell in love with Qiao Hanyin's family, her and Jiang Nuo's family, he liked Qiao Hanyin and Jiang Nuo's warm and harmonious mother-son relationship and family relationship, because that was what he lacked and longed for.
Cheng Che's father's contradictory behavior is also understandable, just like many parents have been telling their children not to fall in love, and to guard against it for fear that their children will fall in love. And after graduating from college, he said why the child didn't have a partner yet, and he had to arrange a blind date for them to get married quickly.
Seeing that Lin Du didn't speak for a long time, Cheng Che asked her, "Do you also think that I am asking for hardship?" A lot of people say that I have gained wealth that many people can't reach, and I shouldn't complain so much, and there are many people in the world who can't even eat, and they say that I just think about it all day long. ”
"What kind of bastard is this?" Lin Du disagreed, "Is it true that in the world, just eat and dress warmly?" Could it be that if I raise Nuonuo, as long as he doesn't go hungry or freeze, everything will be fine? There are many meanings of happiness, and it is not positively correlated with wealth. You can't say that those who have poor material conditions but have love from their parents and grow up in love are not happy, nor can you say that people with good material conditions but do not get the love of their father and mother are very happy. ”
Cheng Che took a sip of tea, although it was already cold, but his heart was warm: "Thank you, thank you for understanding me." Many of them said that I was too full to eat, and asked me to go to the construction site to move bricks for a month, so that I would no longer think about what I had and what I didn't have. So it's been a long time since I've told anyone about it. ”
"Material conditions are certainly a source of happiness, but it does not mean that people with good material conditions do not have troubles. The emotional aspect is fair to everyone, and no amount of wealth and power can be exchanged for a happy enough emotional experience. Lin Du understands, just like Xiao Ruoruo, the emotional damage caused to her by her parents is lifelong, or Chu Mo, who has been escaping the shadow of childhood all her life, one of them is the only heir of the Xiao family's huge company, and the other is the powerful prince who holds great power and even later sat on the throne, but are they really happy?
"Thank you, thank you." Cheng Che finally found an outlet for his emotions that had been deposited for a long time, "My father always asks me to be at ease in everything, to have the upper hand in both business and life, to be a polite gentleman, and to make others feel like a spring breeze." I'm fed up, I want to escape. ”
"It's his business what your father asks you to do, and you can try to choose the lifestyle you like to live your toy." Lin Du encouraged Cheng Che: "When doing business, you can do it in a way that is comfortable with you, and in life, you can no longer wear a mask." Your path in life is your own, and your father cannot take it for you. I think you are very good, hard work, and sincere in dealing with people. ”
"Thank you, so my father is disliking me more and more now, because I am really drifting away from his expectations little by little." Cheng Che smiled bitterly, "In the past, when I did what he wanted, he would praise me with two sentences, although the two sentences were pitiful." Now, when I meet him, it's okay if he doesn't scold me. ”
"You're good enough now." Lin Du looked at Cheng Che, she actually admired Cheng Che's current state, he was the most measured, gentle and polite gentleman she had ever seen.
Cheng Che's father's dissatisfaction probably lies in the fact that Cheng Che is not so shrewd, and calculates the input-output ratio for everything.
Lin Du could feel that the boys in Cheng Che's heart were generally sincere, which was probably something his father didn't like.
"I like a sentence very much, I hope you will go away for half your life and come back as a teenager. Cheng Che, keep the boy who has always existed in your heart, I have always felt that this is one of the most precious things in life, don't care what others say. Everyone has the right to choose their own way of life, your father likes to calculate the input-output ratio, and you don't, it doesn't matter. Lin Dui's voice was gentle but firm.
Cheng Che lowered his head to drink tea, in fact, there was no tea in the cup, he just used the posture of bowing his head to hide the emotion and water color in his eyes.
Lin Du turned his head, looked at the vast night, and pretended not to see Cheng Che's emotional fluctuations: "Cheng Che, look, you said that there is greed and desire, but I look there, but it is dreams and struggles. I want to stay there, to gain a foothold in your so-called man's world, and I want to live up to my values and ideals. ”
"You're right." Cheng Che also felt that he was extreme, "There are indeed dreams and struggles, as for desire and greed, we say that it has it, it has it, we want it to have it, it does not have it." We shouldn't always stare at the dark side, just like I did to my father, and I was tired of him making me a hypocritical person like him, full of benevolence and morality. However, I do also appreciate the material conditions he provided for me. ”
"Maybe you should have a good talk with your father, and even if he doesn't accept your ideas, at least you should let him know what you think, let him know that you have your own ideas, and not his vassals." Lin Du gave his own advice, not only love and marriage need to be managed, but also family affection is not needed?
"I'll try to talk to him." Cheng Che felt that chatting with Lin Du for a while made him feel very comfortable, as if the breath he had been holding was unblocked all of a sudden.