When she came out of Boss Chen's house that day, it was more than 2 o'clock in the afternoon, and Suni didn't want to go home, so she proposed to Zhang Wei to go to the "Ancient Orange Garden" 3 kilometers away from the university town.

Zhang Wei thought about it, and realized with Suni that now, it is true that they have never played together, so he readily agreed.

The two of them got on the loop bus, took 2 stops, and arrived. It's a small free park, and because it's a weekend, it's quite crowded.

Suni and Zhang Wei walked in from the arched gate, and walked along the cyan stone path at will, and from time to time they could see that in the pavilion by the river and in front of the stone table next to the small wooden bridge, old men and women with gray hair were in groups, playing chess, singing, drinking tea, and chatting there.

Zhang Wei said enviously: "I hope that when I get old, I can live near the park and make a group of like-minded friends, and I can get together often like these grandparents." ”

Suni smiled and asked, "Then in your old age, do you have me?" ”

Zhang Wei was stunned.

The wind is blowing.

The rustle of leaves, like a tambourine plucked by someone, Zhang Wei recalls that when he was in elementary school, the music teacher used to hold the hand-clapping instrument and teach them a group of children to dance a cheerful group dance - the name of the dance, I probably can't remember it anymore. Only vaguely, it is necessary for little boys and little girls to wear national costumes and dance together.

There are handles, there are circles, and there are salutes.

Well...... It's a bit like the countrydance that is danced in Western society, when gentlemen and ladies meet each other.

Zhang Wei forgot where he saw a sentence, saying: Life is like a dance, you must have two people to match it to dance wonderfully.

And Suni's words, seemingly, as if, probably, are...... What does it mean to invite to dance?

Can...... That dance is called "life"! It's about a lifetime!

So Zhang Wei was stunned for a long time! He can't turn his brain, he doesn't understand the girl's thoughts, he has never been in love when he grows so big!

Before, the two had a crush on each other and knew that they liked each other, but Suni said that her mother didn't like her son-in-law from other places, and they were not independent enough, so she wanted to wait until everyone "grew up and matured" a little more before being together.

Zhang Wei also understood and agreed. After all, although love is romantic, it also has to face reality. Suni is an objective problem, and if the two want to determine the relationship, they must be discussed and resolved.

At that time, Zhang Wei was facing the graduate school entrance examination, and Suni had not yet decided whether to find a job or go to a higher education, everyone was at an important point in their lives, and they did not rashly increase their troubles and unnecessary troubles in such a situation, Zhang Wei also felt that there was nothing wrong with this-

After all, if it's something you can't do, there's no need to commit to it. With a hot head, if you have to go to the hard touch of the mountain league and the sea oath, the result must be that the head of the collision will be broken and bleeding.

Suni understands this truth, and Zhang Wei also understands it.

Therefore, they are "friends above and lovers are not full", in fact, it is also the best choice to maintain a good relationship between the two under the helpless move.

But...... Now, she seems to be ...... Changing your mind?

Zhang Wei always looked at her in a daze.

As a result, Suni said, "I ask you, if I get a job, what will I face next?" ”

"This ...... Confront...... What? Zhang Weizhi asked in a daze.

Suni gave him a coquettish look: "What stupid! Young women of school age, working for two or three years, at this time, it is natural to go out for five things: learning to drive, dressing up, consumption, entertainment, and blind dates. ”

"Is that what you say? I haven't heard of it. ”

"You're not knowledgeable, of course you haven't heard of it. So you say, if I get a good job, what will my family ask me to do? ”

"Learning to drive?"

"Phew! Blind date! ”

Zhang Wei stopped, his eyes widened, and he immediately said nervously: "Blind date so early? How old are you?! You're 2 years younger than me, how can you go on a blind date? ”

"I'm past the age of early love, why can't I go on a blind date?"

"So, are you going?"

A hint of cunning flashed in Suni's eyes: "Will you let me go?" ”

"I won't let it!"

"So what excuse do I use? Headaches, foot pain, stomach aches? The great aunt is here? This one must not be used indiscriminately, my mother knows what day of the month I come. ”

"What then?"

Suni pursed her lips: "Or...... I'll be honest, I have a boyfriend and he's still in graduate school. Good no good? ”

Zhang Wei said: "You, do you plan to clarify our relationship with your family?" So what you used to think about, now, don't you worry? ”

Suni took Zhang Wei's arm, sat down on a bench by the roadside, and said, "I've thought about it, in life, when you grow up to different stages, there will be different problems. I used to think that I had to solve all the troubles and wait until everything went smoothly before talking about romance and feelings.

But today, when I saw Brother Chen and Wang Zhen, I suddenly felt that although my consideration was not completely wrong, it seemed that it was not necessarily right.

You say, what is the ultimate point of so-called independence? Is it 'freedom'? Or is it 'relative stability'? Whether it is one of the two, it is actually not easy for today's young people to do.

In this way, our age is constantly moving forward, and the problems we should encounter will still be encountered.

Maybe he was urged to marry before he was 'independent and stable'. It's not even 'independent and stable', it's time to have a baby - it's scary to think about! ”

Zhang Wei lowered his head, Suni's words were indeed not bad. The rapid pace of social development and the progress of science and technology have made their generation of young people not only have to bear the speed of high-dimensional operation of the overall industrial machine brought about by the refined division of labor, but also face the shackles of those ordinary ethics under the ruthless crushing of the wheel of time.

There is nothing wrong with being a qualified screw, falling in love, getting married, and having a baby are also the fundamental pursuit of people.

However, the contradiction lies in the fact that the personal energy and time required to adapt to the machine of social industry is too huge!

That's why it happened, "Before I was 'independent and stable', I was urged to get married." It's not even 'independent and stable', it's time to have a baby"!

Zhang Wei understands. At a certain time, he and Suni will both face the same problem.

So he asked, "So, what do you want me to do?" ”

And said: "Anyway, whether it's light or dark, I'll be you, my girlfriend." ”

Suni smiled and leaned her head on his shoulder: "The pressure is nothing more than these, and the difficulty is nothing more than three consecutive questions: Is there a partner?" When to get married? When to have a baby?

As long as I can bear these things, I will be able to gain 'freedom in my heart'. The point is that you have to be my strong back. ”

Zhang Wei stretched out a hand and clasped her fingers: "I will definitely be your strong backing!" No one can pry it away! ”

"Me too."

"Hehehe......"