For his nephew's ideal, Dong Changhu is even more appreciative.

The ancestor of their branch was a good official praised by the people, and now his nephew also has this ambition, and he will inherit the official style of the ancestor in the future, and he praises it.

"You go on."

"Later, we visited many great Confucians and famous teachers, and these people who were talked about by people also had their own styles, and after learning our identities, they also had their own calculations.

At that time, I thought that no matter what position a person is in, he must not lose his heart, otherwise no matter how famous he is, he will not be enough! ”

He still often remembers the style of those people, some of them are stammering, some are pretending to be high-minded, some are disdainful, and some can really keep their hearts, but no matter what kind of mentality, most of them are envious.

What stammers is for the sake of the brother-in-law's face, pretending to be high is to want to capture the old and indulge, disdainfully saying that he can't eat grapes and saying that he is ordinary sour, and those who can maintain their hearts are also with the mentality of not offending people, and point out their knowledge.

No one dared to mess with their family in Changhai County, so what he saw and felt was kindness, stammering and flattery, and he didn't think much about it at that time.

After he actually walked out, he realized that what he encountered at the beginning was just a small thing.

"Hmm." For his nephew to be good at checking people's hearts at such a young age, Dong Changhu is still very proud.

He asked again: "Then Cheng Ze, have you ever thought that now you are taking advantage of the light of the snow girl, so when you get ahead in the future, how will those people think of you?" ”

Without waiting for him to answer, Dong Changhu continued: "They will also say that you are the younger brother of the Snow Girl, but that's all, more they will praise your achievements and ignore your own background, right?" ”

Seeing that Dong Chengze had realized, Dong Changhu continued with relief: "No matter how hard you work in this life, your identity will never exceed that of His Royal Highness King You.

When you live in Youwang's Mansion, you only see the drawbacks, but you only ignore the benefits for you and Chengqing. ”

Dong Changhu said a little dryly, picked up the teacup in front of him and took a big sip: "Now you and Qing'er should watch more, learn more, think more, and do more, and talk less, calculate less, and care less."

You are the upright son of the county government, Qing'er is the second son of the righteous name, what are the eyes of those subordinates and many mouths?

Your brother-in-law is His Royal Highness the King of You, and your own sister is the princess of You, you should straighten up your waist and live here with dignity. ”

After a pause, he whispered, "What are those subordinates?" It's just a matter of serving!

To put it mildly, can they compare to you? It's just a royal minion.

Whose face do they want to live? It's up to your brother-in-law and sister!

As for the dignitaries, they will not look down on you because your brother lives in the palace, but on the contrary, they will want to hold you high. ”

"Why?" Dong Chengqing, who has been listening carefully, interjected, because he also has his brother's feelings, and he also wants to hear the thoughts of the third uncle, so he just listened from beginning to end, and it was also because he wanted to open the words just now.

Dong Changhu touched the nephew's head lovingly, and said earnestly: "Think about what is the identity of your brother-in-law?" I don't need to say it. ”

"He is the son-in-law of the present, the vassal king of the Northland!" Dong Chengqing replied naturally.

"That's right, does your brother-in-law need to slap those people?"

Dong Chengqing shook his head with Dong Chengze and said this. The two children both had an understanding, and Dong Chengze even figured it out.

Dong Changhu breathed a sigh of relief and solemnly instructed: "Think about it, your father usually doesn't like to deal with people, he is perfunctory and lazy, and he is just a county prince, let alone your brother-in-law?"

Therefore, in the future, when you come into contact with those people, you must distinguish what purpose they have in approaching you, and what they want to get from you.

People with good character can deal with them, but those with poor character must be perfunctory, and they can't learn badly!

If there is something that you can't decide, you have to ask Your Highness more, or discuss with the Snow Girl, although she is just a little lady, but her knowledge is sometimes willing to bow down to the third uncle.

You have to remember that all people in this world will treat you with a purpose, but Snow Girl will not!"

"I know that the eldest sister is the best for us!" Dong Chengze's eyes were a little red.

He always knew that the eldest sister was not easy, but after yesterday, he really realized what it was really not easy, and what he thought of before was just a small thing.

Dong Chengqing was also silent, and the touch in his heart was quite big, no matter how he usually jumped out, but he didn't have a lot of thoughts at all.

"No, you don't understand, what you see is only the surface!" Dong Changhu shook his head and affirmed.

Dong Chengze was thoughtful, but Dong Chengqing was a little unconvinced.

Looking out of the window through the screen window, Dong Changhu looked out the window, the scenery in the courtyard was pleasant, the flowers were in full bloom, the bright sunlight was sprinkled, leaving mottled shadows, and two yellow larks jumped and chirped on the branches, attracting other birds to follow.

For the first time, Dong Changhu mentioned the events of twelve years ago in front of the two children, and as he narrated, both of them had red eyes.

Dong Chengqing choked up even more and said: "I didn't know that something like that happened to the eldest sister!" , she's ...... And daddy, he, how did they ......"

"If it were an ordinary child, how would he treat his brother from now on? Will it be jealous? Could it be that you are disgusted with that home because of this? ”

Dong Changhu has the temperament of a chivalrous man, on the surface he is the most arrogant of the four brothers of the Dong family, but in fact, his mind is more delicate than any of them.

It's not that he got the benefit of Cher, and it's not that he can't fight for Cher's sake.

It was only through years of contact and observation that he discovered places that others had not noticed.

Cher never hated anyone, whether or not that person had bullied her or helped her in the first place.

She is a person who loves and hates clearly, but in her dictionary there seems to be only love, not hate.

She will repay the grace of dripping water, and those who have bullied her, she will laugh it off, and will never care or retaliate back.

And the only thing that can affect all her thoughts in this world is the two nephews in front of her.

Over the years, Dong Changhu has seen clearly, his second brother is just a merry and talented man, and he is just merciful everywhere, the most hateful thing is that he pays too little attention to a few children, in addition to his own enjoyment, what he pursues is just a little lady who has a romantic relationship, and his mind is not used in the right place.

And the deceased second sister-in-law is only the second brother in her eyes.