Chapter 33: The Affair Ends
But Old Man Yun is not hard-hearted, and he doesn't think about his daughter at all.
His original words were: "Sanya, do you accept and leave?" If you accept it, then you will be reconciled, but there will be no place for you to live at home, because the Yun family can't afford to lose that person.
After the divorce, you will only be single, or you will find another man to marry.
Either you continue to live with your son-in-law, and what your father can fight for for you is to take that woman as a concubine, and it is impossible to have a wife. ”
In fact, this is the sorrow of women in this era.
Most of them are divorced because they have a family and can't go back, either commit suicide, leave home, or marry another, and few of them can be accepted by their mother's family again.
The Yun family is a woman of this era, she knows better than anyone how many catties and taels she has, and her husband's heart is not in her, and she knows better than anyone else.
But knowing that this is the case, she can't do it if she really wants her to leave her husband.
It's not that she can't survive alone, she loves her husband too much, and she doesn't want to leave her man.
Therefore, the Yun family compromised in front of his father in private, and the old man Yun also saw that the time had come, so he said the purpose of this trip.
Dong Changhe knew that this was already the biggest concession that the Yun family could make, and now his father said this, because a large part of his father's insistence was because: Old Man Yun was a character who was not stingy.
The so-called practice of the Dong family did not marry a wife or take a concubine, after all, it was not implemented in the family rules, and it could be broken.
As long as Old Man Yun gives in, his father's work here will be able to be done sooner or later.
The day's events came to an end quickly, with a result that Cher didn't expect.
This made Dong Xueer, who had changed her core, truly realize for the first time that she had really come to a strange era, and everything in this era was relatively backward, including people's thoughts and consciousness.
And she will live here from now on, like most women in this era, she has to accept those constraints and have to compromise with the general direction of the times.
This made Xue'er, who was still happy when she got the space ring, fall into panic and hesitation all of a sudden, and she was wilting for several days, unable to lift any spirit to do things.
The Yun family has already gone home, and Dong Changchun was left behind by Dong Xiucai and his family to take care of the injured Xue'er, and by the way, to help the Yun family, who had some tire gas.
Dong Xiucai originally planned to take Xue'er back to Sanjiagou and raise her by his side at the beginning.
But the matter came to an end for the time being, the Yun family made another guarantee, Dong Changhe also changed his attitude, and Dong Xiucai did not speak.
Dong Changhu was unwilling, but no matter how much he liked children, Xue'er was still his niece, so he had to tell his second brother privately when he left, and he could be regarded as doing something for his poor niece.
The Yun family has stopped very much in the past two days, and no longer beats and scolds Xue'er at every turn, mainly because she has just experienced such an accident, she doesn't want her husband to hate her husband because of Xue'er's affairs, and on the other hand, because Dong Changchun has been living at home for the past two days.
Moreover, the injury on Xue'er's head really scared her, and she didn't really feel Xue'er's injury that day, mainly because her mind was not on it at that time.
It wasn't until I calmed down later that the more I thought about it, the more scared I became.
Her daughter almost died at her hands, which made Yun realize that her daughter was only six years old, and that she had really been so inappropriate with her children in the past.
After a few more days passed like this, Dong Changchun felt that Xue'er's condition was wrong.
On this day, Dong Changchun took advantage of Yun's absence and asked Xue'er: "Xue'er, tell my sister-in-law, are you feeling unwell these days?" Is the wound painful? ”
Xue'er was listless, and she couldn't lift her strength at all, so she replied cowardly: "Sister-in-law, I am not uncomfortable, and the wound is not painful." ”
"But, I see that you always have no spirit, that is, there is something on your mind? Are you worried that your aunt is gone, and your mother will treat you like before? Dong Changchun continued to ask tentatively.
Xue'er shook her head, opened her misty eyes and said, "No, my mother has promised in front of everyone, it shouldn't be, Xue'er is not worried." ”
"But, aunt sees that you haven't been in a very good mood for the past two days, you are a child, what other things can't you think of?" Dong Changchun quipped.
Xue'er shook her head: "No, sister-in-law, Xue'er just can't figure out some things, so she can't lift her spirits." ”
Through these days of getting along, Cher found that her cheap sister-in-law is a very transparent person, and her thoughts and actions are different from those of the countrymen.
Between her gestures, she has a temperament that is different from everyone else, and she is a woman with relatively high overall quality, and she is willing to have more contact with her.
Dong Changchun was a little funny in his heart, what could a six-year-old doll not think about? It's nothing more than the second brother's upcoming concubine!
So she smiled and said, "Is it that your father is about to take a concubine, and you are scared and don't know how to face that woman?" ”
"Yes, but not all." Cher replied with an eyebrow raised.
"How?" Dong Changchun was curious.
She Tara said with her head: "Xue'er is thinking why her father wants to take a concubine, but her mother can accept it?" Why can a mother only have one husband, but a father can have many wives? ”
Of course, Xue'er has not been mentally unmotivated for the past two days, she is worried about her future.
Feeling powerless for her to wear this era, she wondered what she would do when her body grew up, would she be like the Yun family? With the same fate.
She also had a longing for love, and after being slapped in the face by reality, she vowed not to believe in feelings anymore and no longer believed in men's vows.
But she really wants to have such a person who can understand herself, can truly appreciate herself, and can live a life with herself.
In her past life and present life, she was a woman with weak relatives, not to mention that it has become a past life, just now, if her father doesn't love her mother, can she still hope to find the lost feelings in them?
Since she can't count on it, when she grows up, is she just like a woman in this era, when she reaches the age and is introduced by a matchmaker, her parents think it's about the same, and then a few ingots of silver send her away?
Is it that if she is not a person, she will be like the Yun family?
So what's the point of her crossing? Is it just to survive? Day after day, year after year, like the walking dead, was that the life she wanted?
She didn't dare to think deeply, she really didn't dare to think about it.
In modern times, even if she loses her love, she can still have her own career and control her life at will.
Here, her identity is the daughter of the Dong family, and she can't be the master of her own marriage, her career, don't think about it for the time being, and in the future, it's hard to say.