Xue'er ignored Dong Changhe's glare, and said her reason lightly: "Although my mother is sick because she is not in good health, the most important thing is that my father was injured and lived in Dong's mansion, because Sun deliberately targeted him to get angry and depressed, which is why he finally got such an illness."

Our sister and brother are already very generous without settling accounts with Sun, and now she wants to marry into the county government and be our nominal stepmother, which I will not agree to anyway. ”

"Okay, your mother is sick because of Sun, so why did your second aunt and your grandfather get sick?"

"It's very simple that the people of the Yun family are all arrogant, but they don't lose the most basic principles of being a person, and there is a conflict between the two.

To put it simply, when a reasonable person meets an unreasonable person, the one who will suffer in the end must be the reasonable person.

The second aunt was persecuted by the Qian family, and she was depressed for many years.

And my grandfather lost his faith in life because he lost his wife, and the white-haired man sent the black-haired man, and he was old and couldn't get justice for him.

It has been said that steel is easy to break, if there are no external factors, the steel may not be broken!

And it is precisely because of the external cause of the Sun family that today's ending has been caused. ”

Xue'er said in her heart: Isn't Dong Changhe self-inflicted humiliation by arguing with himself? The last thing she lacks is these theories.

Of course, she doesn't think what she says is all crooked.

As a bystander, she has seen very clearly over the years that the so-called filial piety and three obedience and four virtues have made the women of this era trapped in the inherent mode of thinking, and they cannot break free from such moral kidnapping and cannot stand outside the circle to see the world.

Yun Pandi's IQ is definitely top-notch, according to Yun's words, their sisters learn everything quickly, and they almost have the ability to remember.

And Yun Pandi also has a high EQ among the sisters, but it is a pity that the Yun family strictly requires her daughters according to the standard of three obedience and four virtues.

Including the Yun family, she also strictly demanded herself according to the standards of Mrs. Yun.

But when the inherent concept conflicted with reality, they chose the inherent concept against their will, abandoned their ideal life and love, and finally wronged themselves.

It's a pity that this kind of grievance is not exchanged for an ideal life, let alone an ideal love, so what remains is endless torture from the soul.

And Old Man Yun, does he really not love his children? The answer is clearly no.

In this era, what is particular about marrying and obeying the husband, and what the husband is about the death of the son, and what is important is the water spilled by the daughter who marries. Therefore, Old Man Yun would rather watch his daughter being wronged than come forward to help, how sad it is.

Old Man Yun's feudal thinking eventually led to the loss of his two daughters, and he himself couldn't stand the guilt from his heart, and finally died.

Dong Changhe laughed angrily at Xue'er's crooked reasoning: "According to your meaning, the most fundamental reason why your mother died of illness was because of my father's mother's support for my outer room?" ”

Xue'er looked at him with a smile, which means that you also know!

"Then does Xue'er need to take revenge on me as a father?" Dong Changhe's tone was a little unkind.

Xue'er shook her head, and Dong Changhe stared at her with a very suspicious gaze.

"The grievances between fathers and mothers have nothing to do with their children, one of you is willing to fight and the other is willing to suffer, that is the rule of the game between you, and it is also your own willing choice, so even if I can see it, I will not retaliate against anyone.

Not to mention that you are always the biological father of our brother and sister, even if you are wrong, it is not our turn to put your beak in the mouth.

But Sun is different, she is just an outsider to us! ”

"Then you don't care about Chengde? He's your own brother! Dong Changhe reluctantly compromised and wanted to impress her with family affection.

"Isn't he already a son-in-law? It's already the best ending for him, isn't it? I didn't get angry with him, and I didn't instill the hatred in it into Ze'er and Cheng'er, isn't it enough? ”

Xue'er's words silenced Dong Changhe.

He is very smart, Xue'er's words seem to be crooked, but when you think about it, it is not unreasonable.

And he also saw that his daughter was not easy to mess with, not easy to fool.

But as a father, he compromised again and again in front of his children, and he always felt that he had no face, so although he agreed in his heart, he didn't show it on his face.

Xue'er didn't pay attention to what he was thinking, and continued: "So my conclusion is that the Sun family can enter the mansion, but because my mother has just passed away for only a hundred days, she can only enter the mansion through the side door, and she can only be the identity of the concubine, and she can only be the identity of the concubine forever."

This was her own choice, and she had no choice since the day she threw away her self-esteem to make an outer room for her father!

I don't believe that when she was working for her father's outer chamber, she had already calculated that her mother would die at a young age, waiting for her to take the position of his father's wife!

And I don't want to see the miasma in my house, so the Sun family is not allowed to step into the county lord's mansion and disturb the lives of our three siblings, but I will not prevent the younger brothers from contacting each other.

The Sun family can never participate in the housekeeping, the affairs of the two mansions are now in charge of me, and in the future, my father will marry the stepfamily, and the affairs of the county mansion will be taken care of by the stepfamily.

I will not interfere with my father's wife's wife, but my father's stepfamily must be chosen by me.

That's my bottom line. ”

Dong Changhe sneered: "Hmph, your conditions are comprehensive enough!" ”

Xue'er shook her head and smiled and stretched out a white jade finger: "First, it was the Sun family who annoyed me first, not because she was making trouble for her father to be a wife, and she couldn't wait to enter the mansion in less than 100 days after her mother's death, and I wouldn't put forward such harsh conditions." ”

Dong Changhe was secretly shocked in his heart, he didn't expect Xue'er to be like a god, it was indeed because of Sun's step-by-step pressing, he was so troubled that he had no choice, so he would be cheeky to discuss with Xue'er.

Xue'er stretched out another finger and continued: "Second, I have no intention of going against my father, after all, I will get married in three years, no matter how strong I am, I should not take care of the affairs of my mother's family after marriage."

But after all, the county government will be inherited by Ze'er's son in the future, and the family business will also have a part of Qing'er. As their eldest sister, I had to plan ahead.

And what I would rather offend my father and fight for today, but there is no half of it for myself, I think my father should be able to accept it.

After all, fathers value their sons more, don't they? ”

Dong Changhe knew that what Xue'er said was indeed right, his son was his, how Xue'er fought for it, and the future of what he got was given to his sons.

Now that Xue'er wants to have an identity, a career and a career, and a silver and silver, she really has no reason to covet the things at home.