Judging from the experiences of Yin Lihua and Xu Pingjun, the two unlucky original partners, a woman sitting in the position of the original partner does not mean that she is completely fine, because in some cases, that position is not very stable.

What the two of them have in common is that their mother's family is not too powerful, and once something happens, they can't compete with the other party who wants to occupy their original position, and the other party can completely overwhelm people.

The Yin family chose to back down and gave up the position that originally belonged to Yin Lihua to the other party, and then the original partner wanted to become a concubine honestly, bowing to Guo Shengtong, and living like this.

Xu Pingjun's maiden family is not as good as the forces behind Yin Lihua, she is just the daughter of a criminal minister, how can she fight against the Huo family, Xu Pingjun can only think that they have a shallow relationship between husband and wife, so they have to back down, but in the end they became queens.

Yin Lihua and Xu Pingjun are the two original partners, one becomes a concubine, and the other does not back down and becomes the queen, this is not a choice that the two of them can choose, but a choice made by their husbands.

Of course, in terms of consequences, Yin Lihua finally won the final victory and became the empress, the empress dowager, her son became the second emperor of the Eastern Han Dynasty, and Guo Shengtong was only the queen mother.

And Xu Pingjun died early, and the time she was with her husband was only a few years, and it seemed that she failed in the end. Because she died too early and was poisoned by the female officials around her, she couldn't even take revenge after her death, but the daughter of the Huo family became the second queen.

But to put it mildly, perhaps it is precisely because of her early death that the emperor has always remembered that the shortcomings of a person after death are often ignored, and the whole person is constantly beautified in memory.

Judging from the results of Yin Lihua and Xu Pingjun's two different responses, it is better for Yin Lihua to make concessions, which makes people feel that Xu Pingjun should take a step back like Yin Lihua.

But it's different, you must know that Guo Shengtong in history has always been a very virtuous woman, and she is generally not harsh on Yin Lihua. But Xu Pingjun's incident is different, Huo Guang's wife is not a fuel-efficient lamp, this kind of person who even poisons the queen if he doesn't agree with him is a good stubble?

From this point, it can be seen why ancient women cared so much about their mother's family, because there are facts that tell them that their mother's family is not strong, and the wife becomes a concubine, the problem is that ordinary people don't say anything.

Eighteen Niang doesn't have too much help from her mother's family, her father died early, her grandmother has also died, and the only closest relative, Brother An, is still a child, in case there is a snatch of the princess's throne, what will happen to her?

Ling Xiao had to plan early, because Eighteen Niang had been very friendly to the Tao family over the years, which made the Tao family exempt from a lot of things, and she hoped that Su Ying could have a more stable life.

Instead of bothering Baal to grow peaches, someone came straight to pick them. This is also the reason why she wants to leave Yanwangfu, Eighteen Niang needs the support of outsiders, and staying in Yanwangfu is like entering a cage.

In addition, the sons and daughters taught by the Tao family must also have their own future, and what she can put on the bright side is that they will follow their own path, so as to live up to the skills they have gained through years of hard study.

She told Eighteen Niang about this a few days ago, which made Su Ying a little disappointed, and thought that Ling Xiao would follow her to Yanwang's Mansion, Ling Xiao shook his head and said no, and did not explain more.

And after hearing Ling Xiao's words, Gorou laughed, and his whole person relaxed all of a sudden, his own sister still remembered that she was their sister, and he thought that she wanted to stand by Eighteen Niang's side all the time.

Living together over the years, he is more familiar with Eighteen Niang and has a good impression, but he has his own ideas, and as a man, he doesn't want to rely on nepotism to get promoted.

In addition, he knew that Sister Ah gave up a lot for the two of them, so he didn't want Sister Ah to become a female official for their brother, even if it was a female official next to the princess, you must know that the official was crushed to death.

As the princess of the world, the eighteenth mother will have a lot of things, so the female official next to her must have a lot of things, maybe she is a gunblocker, he doesn't want his sister to fall into the Yanwang Mansion.

Anyway, the eldest princess left a lot of manpower for Eighteen Niang, which was enough for Eighteen Niang, and of course her own sister lived her own life, and he and San Lang both vowed to let Sister Ah live the life she wanted.

This time, Gorou was very happy when he heard what Sister A meant, he laughed all of a sudden, and the whole person relaxed all of a sudden, with Sister A, making him feel like he was still a child.

After Ling Xiao saw it, he felt that the shrewd and capable Gorou suddenly became stupid, so he said: "Gorou, do what you want, don't hurt others easily, but if someone wants to find trouble, don't be polite." ”

Gorou smiled and said, "Okay! During this period of time, the third brother and I still met this prince of Yan more often, and we should talk more with his people to see how this person is? Let Eighteen Niang know in her heart. ”

After making sure that his sister would no longer be a cow and a horse for Eighteen Niang, Gorou began to think about making Su Bei's life a good one, in his opinion, as long as Su Bei could live well, then Sister A would not worry about Su Bei, and her own little life would be good, which Gorou still knew.

Ling Xiao smiled after hearing this, she felt that her skills in raising babies were still good, look at whether it was Saburo or Gorou were good children, Saburo This child is more stable and suitable for Shoucheng, and Gorou likes to use his brain.

Of course, Ling Xiao naturally knew that the two of them were still a little tender, after all, some things had not been experienced, and they knew that things had developed differently, and Ling Xiao decided not to break them, so he just looked at them.

Only if they have suffered losses and been fooled, will they remember it deeply, and all of this is under her control, and she is a little strange, some people are angry at Ling Xiao's control of the guards on the one hand, and on the other hand, they despise her for being a woman, what's wrong with women? What kind of logic is this?

After Ling Xiao found out that he could use his divine sense, he quickly knew that those impure minds were cursing him, but in general, Ling Xiao didn't care, and the kind of people who wanted to frame people directly looked for an opportunity to kick out.

When dealing with these things, Ling Xiao took it with her, and let her start to work hard to adapt to the identity of the princess, after all, she may become the highest leader of Yan Land, who made the loss rate of the men in Yan Wangfu too high, and several times only orphans and widows were left in Yan Wangfu.

If she had to be prepared, she would face everything that might come, this is her way, and no one else can take her place, which she knows very well.

What can you say when you find out? can only grit her teeth and persevere, of course, she likes the skills of the Tao family, especially the children raised by Ling Xiao, they basically belong to the kind of people who are both civil and military.

Ling Xiao smiled when she found out, and didn't say anything, just asked Su Fei to pay attention to the situation, because she found that the children who grew up with her also had their own ideas.

Ling Xiao didn't want to interfere with their choice, everyone had their own way to go, and this required them to make their own choice, and it had nothing to do with Ling Xiao if something happened.

I used to let them stay in the village because it was chaotic in the capital before, and they didn't go out, but I didn't think there was another interpretation, and after reading the relevant interpretation, there was only a rather ridiculous feeling.

Ling Xiao didn't have anything to correct about this, because sometimes the more he corrected, the more people were suspicious, so for the time being, they can have their own future.

While their sister and brother were talking, Su Ying was also letting the people around him start training, because he knew that Ling Xiao couldn't follow her as a female official all the time, and even planned to send her to Yanwang's mansion.

She knew that Ling Xiao had always belonged to the kind of person who didn't like to be restrained very much, even if she was a female official, she rarely interfered in her private affairs, and more so that Eighteen Niang could learn how to do things and how to distinguish other people's hearts.

Eighteen Niang is very grateful to Ling Xiao in her heart, it is precisely because she has no intention of interfering in her life at all, and Eighteen Niang has many loyal servants around her, even if she enters the Yan Palace, she will not worry about her lack of manpower.

It is precisely because of her arrival that she has greatly broadened her horizons, knowing that there are plains, mountains, deserts, rivers, and oceans in this world, so that she knows that the world is very big.

It also made her understand that there are too many unavoidable things in this world, and every adult has to carry the burden of life to move forward, and in order to survive, they can't stop, they have to bear the heavy burden, and seek a way to live for themselves and future generations.

She actually wanted Ling Xiao to stay, because she would feel much more at ease with her. For so many years, there has been a sister of the Tao family, which has made her live a good life and wants to be with her sister.

But she didn't say her thoughts in the end, because Goro of the Tao family had already told her that Sister Ah had worked hard for so many years, and she still let my sister rest, she was originally a noble girl from a family, and he would not agree to Sister Ah going around.

He is bent on letting his sister live well, and he doesn't bother too much. She has the right to taste her own life, and the previous sister has always lived for them, but she didn't live for herself.

In addition, Sister Ah has always exercised everyone's abilities in all aspects, and she should want to live an easy life, instead of always checking and filling in the gaps for them, please use your brains more, live well, and grow up.

Eighteen Niang naturally felt it, as if Ling Xiao had any plans, and didn't want to be with them forever at all, in fact, Ling Xiao wanted to wait for the original owner to come back and stay in another place, so as to prevent the difference between the original owner and Ling Xiao from being too big.

Ling Xiao hopes that she will continue to improve, because who is not as capable as herself, Ling Xiao told her: The mountains will fall, and the water will break, and only by relying on their own efforts to learn their skills.

And said that Eighteen Niang has been studying for several years, and should be a teacher, some things can only be experienced in real life, and there will be great progress, which is a problem to pay special attention to.

After Ling Xiao's explanation, after thinking about it, she knew very well that she had to work hard, and it was up to her to be able to stand firm in Yandi. No one can help her all her life, just like the maids around her, when they are old enough, they will let them go out to get married.

Although it is possible that the people around her will not want to get married and choose not to marry for life, most of them will get married and have children, and they have a new start in life, so they must be mentally prepared for this.

And Ling Xiao once told her: "On the road of life, many people just have the possibility to walk with you for a while, and when the time comes, they will be separated, and everyone is their own personal trajectory, and it is good to get along well when they are lucky enough to be able to walk together." ”

She was a little sad after hearing this, she had to say that what Ling Xiao said was very right, and even she could think that Brother An would have to separate from her when he grew up, he had his own way to go, and one day he would have his own small family, so he would be farther and farther away from her sister.

Although she knew that this would happen, she still felt heartfelt sadness in her heart, although she had not yet become a mother, she had to experience the mentality of being a mother early, and felt that her brother was snatched away.

But from another point of view, she also snatched her husband and let her have her own little family? After thinking of this, Su Bei felt a little funny, I see, since this is the case, why is Brother An sad when she grows up and gets married? It's good that he has one more person who loves him! But in the end, he accepted this reality.

After being pointed out by Ling Xiao, she felt a little frustrated in her heart, she found that she had gotten into the horns, but fortunately, Ling Xiao had told her some thoughts before, which made her feel a lot better.

In addition, she finally understood why Ling Xiao wanted to leave them, because after she found that after following Ling Xiao, she didn't need to think about it for herself at all, so there must be no possibility of progress.

After figuring this out, she was very grateful to Ling Xiao in her heart, and tried to use her brain, wanting to prove that she was capable again, Ling Xiao was very satisfied after seeing it, even if she found some mistakes, it didn't frustrate her.

The group lived in this place for a while because of the snow and the wounded, but fortunately, because this place was a base camp for him, he stored a lot of food and firewood, and even forage.

The people of Yan Wangfu and his party were also very tired, just to adjust their lives, and Gorou and San Lang would also take time to take a look, and the prince of Yan Wang naturally received them happily.

In this process, after Gorou knocked on the side, he knew the prince's plan, which was not bad! If Eighteen Niang seized the opportunity, she would get a good husband, and the military advisor knew that this was a little fox who had not yet cultivated to perfection after seeing Goro, and San Lang was much more honest than his brother.

He later told Shizi, "Hahaha! This time the emperor lost blood, and if he knew that the people he sent had such excellent talents, he would simply vomit blood. The Tao family is not easy to mess with, and they must have a good relationship. ”

He also saw that the best people here should come from the children of the Tao family, what he didn't expect was that the Tao family was so visionary that they would want to survive in Yandi, in fact, the military advisor felt very surprised after knowing the situation.

You must know that all the people brought by the Tao family are literate, even those who plan to farm for a living are literate, and this discovery makes him feel what kind of Tao family this is.