After returning home with a large bag that day, Suni entered the room and carefully thought about her mother's words in the supermarket.

According to her 20 years of understanding of her mother, Suni believes that her mother said a lot, some of which were not, and they were basically nonsense. What kind of customs and national culture, in the final analysis, among all the reasons for not wanting a foreign son-in-law, there is only one point, which is the closest to her true thoughts, that is-mind other people's eyes, and the short-term flow!

Suni knows that her parents have been low-level people all their lives, with no money, no power, and no power, as one of the most prominent weaknesses in human nature, they still have relatively little experience of such a thing as superiority.

The most proud of them in life is probably the hukou. Unlike Yiling's mother, she can say that her eldest brother (that is, Yiling's uncle) is a contractor, how can she afford to buy a house; 's own sister (that is, Aunt Yiling), the family was demolished, how did she get rich overnight.

If your own ability is not enough to show superiority, if you want to experience the pleasure of superiority, you can only use relatives and friends to improve. As long as the person concerned does not feel self-deception, this method can still produce some spiritual pleasure.

Of course, psychology says that this subtext, which resembles a "celebrity cult", is actually one of the manifestations of human animality. Because in the animal kingdom, the strong can have more resources and mating rights, so the weak can rely on it and rely on it as a result, they can get its protection and get a piece of the food.

The result of human beings relying on the strong and relying on the strong is not necessarily to get benefits directly, but subconsciously, the heart that wants to get benefits should also exist.

Suni doesn't understand psychology, but she understands that her parents need to survive in a "group". When people on a level are almost the same in terms of income and social status, the subtle differences in the "undercurrent culture" (i.e., the unwritten rules in a circle) will be particularly apparent.

For example, this question of marrying a local or a foreigner. Because of the environment in which Suni lives, everyone has no sense of superiority, and the one who can take it out to "brag about it" is probably that he is an aboriginal resident of a first-tier city. Relying on the prosperity and convenience of this city, I paralyzed myself and thought that I was superior to the first-class life in other third- and fourth-tier cities.

And now, if the child suddenly wants to give up this "superiority" and seek the "low allocation" of the third or fourth line, then the gap under the asymmetry is: people who have experience loopholes in their spirits, even the last trace of "feeling good about themselves" has been taken away!

followed by the pain of relatives and the happiness of enemies, for being at the bottom of the chain of contempt, Suni knows that "tsundere" like a mother must be unwilling!

Sure enough, the next day, Suni's mother went to play mahjong with Yiling's mother in the afternoon, and came back from dinner in the evening.

She may have realized that Suni chatting about her boyfriend for no reason was actually a kind of probing, so she was really worried that Suni would find a son-in-law from other places to come back, so she picked up the good mother character of "knowing and knowing" in the past, and turned to the nagging mode of "bitter mouth".

Said: "Nini, do you know why Yiling is willing to go on a blind date?" I heard from her mother that the last time her aunt introduced her, she refused to go, but this time, she was positive! ”

Suni bit a braised lion's head in her mouth, and when she heard this, she looked at her mother with big round eyes and asked, "Why?" ”

Her mother smiled lightly: "Because the introducer this time is her sister-in-law." You see, Yiling is the same age as you, but she is better than you and will plan. I don't believe that if she looks so smart, no one will like her and pursue her in school. But she waited for her family to introduce her, and the introducer had to be someone she liked before she was willing. Little girl, you have brains! ”

The latter sentence was said by Suni's mother to her father.

Suni's father said: "It's good to have someone from your family to introduce you, but if you don't, you can only find it yourself." Our Nini isn't bad either. Nini, do you have any little boys chasing you? ”

"Puff - cough cough cough ......" Suni squirted out half of the soup, and choked on the other half, making her face red and her whole body trembling.

She regrets it! I really shouldn't take the words to trap her mother, and now she and her father are "mixed doubles", singing and harmonizing, and they are all joining hands!

Suni went to drink water, hid behind the cup and glanced at it, and saw her father and her mother exchange a look, and then deliberately said, "Why are you so excited?" Dad didn't say anything. Dad gave birth to you at the age of 35, and you will retire in a few years, I expect you to get married soon, I can hold my grandson early, what's so strange? Look, it scares you! ”

also put a fried chicken leg in Suni's bowl, Suni knew what it meant, and soothed her frightened heart!

"Hey, hey, hey, hey" at her dad silly, and then turned the focus of the topic around! said: "The person introduced by Yiling's sister-in-law must be good?" The young man her aunt introduced last time, I actually secretly followed, and I also went to see him. It's just that people are getting older, and nothing else. ”

When her mother heard this, she really stepped into the "pit" dug by Suni, put down the dishes and chopsticks, twitched her face, and said loudly: "What, what?!" You secretly went on a blind date with Yiling?! Who let you go? You kid, why are you so ignorant?! If Yiling's mother knew, she would still think that my daughter had no one to want, so she would go to dig the corner! Then I don't want to lose the dead?! ”

Suni ignored this, just lowered her head and picked up the rice. Her mother paused, then said, "You wait a minute." You go along, did you discuss it with Yiling? She can't look down on herself, so she wants you to dig into the wall, isn't it?! ”

Suni said slowly: "No, I just think the blind date is fun and fresh, follow and listen, what are they talking about." I was sitting in the toilet and there was a corner, and the man didn't see me. ”

"You ......" Suni's mother's face twitched again, and she was choked by Suni...... Speechless!

But I heard Suni say again: "Mom, I am now a person who has had a blind date experience, I tell you the truth, blind date has no way to make men and women, what do you feel, just like asking the price in the vegetable market, one look at the appearance, two ask about the salary, three talk about the work unit parents and family, at most, at most, and then ask: 'What are your hobbies?' 'I like something like that.

It's not interesting at all! Stupid! So, you must not arrange a blind date for me, if you arrange a blind date for me, I will bring you a son-in-law from other places back the next day. Really, our out-of-school classmates are so interesting! is handsome and has a sweet mouth, so it's a good partner for love!

Anyway, what you said, I'm still young, so I'll take a long-term view, find a few boys to talk about love first, and as for getting married, I'll talk about it when I'm old. Right? ”

After speaking, he put down the empty bowl and wiped his mouth: "After eating, let's watch the film!" ”

Here, Suni's parents were shocked, and her mother was so angry that she rolled her eyes!