Tian Sha and her husband Jian Liang have two children, the daughter is surnamed Jian with her father, and the son is surnamed Tian with her mother. Tian Sha was bold before she got married, and the fierce side of her personality was very obvious, she could listen to the words of few people, and Tian Sha's personality was strong when she was strong, if others behaved tough in front of her, it would not only make her tougher, but also make both parties unhappy.

Until she met Jian Liang, she found that sometimes she could listen to his opinions, and even involuntarily follow his ideas to do things, at first she was also strange, but then finally understood the reason - when she was tough, Jian Liang knew how to show weakness in front of her, and even did not show her skills for the time being, which made her full of a sense of accomplishment, and at the same time made her feel that she was respected by him, so that she could listen to Jian Liang's words.

Jian Liang was gentle with her, and as a result, she easily achieved the effect of overcoming rigidity with softness. Jian Liang has his own set of flexible ways of dealing with the world, so sometimes he can easily do things that others can't imagine how to do.

Not only has he had a very good relationship with Tian Sha over the years, but he can also make Tian Sha sincerely and willingly do some difficult things for him.

This not only makes others think that he has some rare skills, but even Tian Sha herself thinks that his flexibility is very clever in dealing with people, and she realizes that sometimes it is much easier to overcome rigidity with softness than to fight hard.

Because Jian Liang's gentleness made Tian Sha feel comfortable and made her understand another way of behaving in the world, she was also gentler in front of him.

But she knew that the subconscious rigidity she had formed over the years had made it difficult for her to properly use Jian Liang's flexibility to deal with people, and it was even more difficult for her to drastically change her personality, so she felt a little sorry for herself.

Therefore, she hopes that her child can easily overcome rigidity with softness, and Jian Liang also hopes that her child can become a person who overcomes rigidity with softness.

Therefore, the name given to the child by the two is also related to this - the name of one of them

"Wen", another person's name

"Soft". Not only is the name of the child like this, but Tian Sha and Jian Liang have tried to shape both children with a lot of actions

"People are like their names" who overcome rigidity with softness. From the time the children were just able to understand some truths, Jian Liang told them: "The power of gentleness is enormous. People in the world are often tough and gentle, and if they can be gentle, they may easily hit the soft underbelly of the tough, overcome the rigid with softness, save time and effort...... "Despite this, the two children have inherited some of the hardness of Tiansha after all, so although they have been shaped by adults since they were young in the direction of gentleness in their outward behavior, they will still say some sharp words and do some things that appear tough.

They cultivated two children in the hope that one of them could become the future young patriarch, or even the patriarch, so they desperately hoped that the two children would master some insidious means from an early age, so although the two children Jian Rou and Tian Wen looked kind on the surface, they were actually not gentle, and their softness was only an appearance, not a true temperament.

"Why are there more people?" After Tian Wen saw Wu Xunsheng, he asked Nie Yangwei and Jian Rou.

"This stinky boy dares not to listen to me, I have to give him some color!" As he spoke, Nie Yangwei used all his strength to push Wu Xunsheng fiercely.