Chapter 103: Uncle
Yan Wang, who was still very young, suddenly turned red after hearing this, and she felt ashamed after listening to her eldest brother's words, he naturally knew how unreasonable his thoughts were, but he still felt in his heart that his wife cared too much about his brother.
Fortunately, the eldest brother belongs to the kind of well-informed person, he did not start to be afraid because his brother-in-law was the prince, and he did not get angry after hearing the news, he smiled faintly.
Pulling his brother-in-law to a quiet place, planning to have a good talk between the two of them, the eldest brother said after a long silence that he planned to go to another place to be an official, and he wanted to leave Yandu for a period of time, so that the two of them could live a good life, and in addition, he would definitely not sue Princess Yan for this matter.
King Yan was stunned for a moment after hearing this, he was just jealous that his wife often thought about his eldest brother, but he, who was a husband, was put in the back, so he didn't feel very comfortable, didn't he say that women should take their husbands as their heavens after they got married? But he didn't want to get rid of his eldest brother in his heart, if his wife knew, he was afraid that he would be angry.
The eldest brother laughed after hearing this, he looked at King Yan, he was still a very young person, so he did things so impulsively, but when every man has impulses, it means that King Yan is still young.
As an eldest brother, he naturally has to be considerate of his brother-in-law, speaking of which he is twenty years older than his sister, raising his sister is like raising his own daughter, and he also teaches a lot of things that men learn, and his sister is very smart, and she learns better than ordinary men.
This is also the reason why he knew that King Yan's longevity might not be long, but he had to marry his sister into the palace, other families couldn't use their sister's ability at all, but Yan Wangfu was able to let her play her strengths, anyway, the men in Yandi lived relatively little, and most of them died on the battlefield, since this was the case, he felt that the palace was more suitable for his sister, and later after some operations, his sister married in.
When he heard that his status in his sister's heart was higher than that of King Yan, he felt a little proud, but as a very thoughtful person, he quickly understood that this situation was not good for his sister-in-law.
As a man, I know one thing very well: if as a husband is inferior to other men in the eyes of his wife, this will cause a lot of damage to the relationship between husband and wife, which is a big taboo, even if he is the elder brother of his wife, this sister did wrong.
After all, the person who will be with his sister for the rest of his life is not his brother, who is twenty years older than his sister, nor his sister's children, they will all leave their parents like little birds, have their own small family, and the person who can accompany his sister for a lifetime can only be his brother-in-law.
He saw this very clearly, and naturally he would not be like a brother-in-law who was a little jealous, but he hoped that the man would always be like this, which showed that everything about his sister would be deeply attracted to King Yan, and they had the potential to become a loving couple.
He is naturally happy for his sister, so he has no intention of inserting it between his sister and brother-in-law, anyway, the relationship between him and his sister will not change at all, they will always be brother and sister.
And it's good to have one more person who loves her sister, as a person who has been living in the border city, he has always known how fragile life is, and he himself doesn't know when he will die, so let my sister have more people around her who love her, in case he is gone, my sister will also live well.
Under this kind of thinking, the eldest brother didn't care about King Yan's jealousy at all, and still treated King Yan very peacefully, but after speaking freely this time, Uncle Lang had a little more friendship.
Originally, King Yan thought that his eldest brother was just saying that, but he never thought that he would really leave Yandu and go to live somewhere else, saying that he wanted to see a different scenery, and the princess couldn't refuse this reason.
The eldest brother wrote a lot of letters to his sister after leaving, knocking on the side to let his sister learn to treat her husband well, which greatly promoted the emotional exchange between Yan Wang and his wife, and made Yan Wang very grateful to his eldest brother, originally thinking that he would let his eldest brother come back after a few years.
I never thought that my eldest brother would die at the hands of aliens, which made Concubine Yan hate aliens to death, fully supported King Yan to attack aliens, and even used too much mental strength to deal with aliens, and finally died early.
Yan Wang didn't know what to say, in fact, he later knew that he was asking too much, and it was normal for his wife to think about his brother, and after a long time, with the drag of his children, he was afraid that he would not have so much energy to always think about his brother.
But at that time, he was still a hairy young man, and his mind was not very mature, and he was naturally not very reliable in doing things, so he would do stupid things to talk to his uncle, which made him feel a little sorry for his dead uncle.
King Yan didn't think about marrying another one after his wife's death, his heart was taken away by his wife, and the reason why he was still alive was because he remembered his responsibility, he was King Yan, and he wanted to maintain the peace of Yan Land.
In addition, after the death of his wife, their children are not big, that is Princess Yan in exchange for her own life, he wants to watch them grow up for his wife, but also watch them marry wives and have children one by one, and he will tell his wife about the situation in the future, which is the motivation for King Yan to survive.
When his son He Hui encountered the same problem, King Yan quickly found out, and he sympathized with his son in his heart, this child was even more ignorant than himself, after all, the object of his jealousy was a woman.
If you don't get these things done, you may continue to be jealous in the future, looking at his son a little helpless, King Yan wants to laugh, his son's mental obstacle has not been lifted, and King Yan thinks that there is nothing to do.
He Hui was a little helpless, he himself knew that it was wrong, and it made people laugh when he said it, and until now he can only hide everything in his heart without telling others, especially this matter can't be known to his wife.
King Yan was a little helpless after listening to his son's words, he had all these mentalities of his son, because the objects they were jealous of were all very good, for example, even if he was jealous in his heart, he also knew that his eldest brother was really a very attractive person, and there were too many people who couldn't compare to him.
Even King Yan had to admit that the reason why Princess Yan was so good was because of the credit of the eldest brother, who took responsibility after the death of his parents, became a father and a mother, and brought up his sister.
King Yan couldn't deny this from the beginning, but as a husband, he still felt dissatisfied, why did his wife care more about his eldest brother? will cause the eldest brother to back down and leave Yandu.
Later, when he found out that his eldest brother was just to keep their husband and wife away from each other, but suffered death, this incident has always made him feel very guilty, and sometimes he thinks in his heart: It would be good if he was not jealous, but it was too late to say anything.
He didn't tell his wife about this, for fear that his wife would find out about it and settle accounts with him. He is not stupid at all, if this situation is known by his wife, he will only say that he is small-minded, and King Yan often recalls his uncle's every move in his heart.
Later, after his wife passed away, King Yan would often remember everything that had happened and regret it a little, but he had to say that all this was fate, he, King Yan, was still alive, but his wife was dead.
After these things, he didn't know about other problems between husband and wife, but he had a lot of experience in the aspect that a husband is not as good as another person in his wife's heart.
Especially seeing the eldest son like this, how many years has he been an old bachelor, but as a result, a little wife came, Yan Wang could feel his son's feelings, and suddenly it was like the old house was on fire and could not be saved.
In the relationship between the son and daughter-in-law, the son naturally has to pay more, and the daughter-in-law has more people to worry about, in addition to his own brother, there is also a person who has been accompanying the daughter-in-law to grow up, the son is better to the brother-in-law, to put it mildly, the son's age is enough to be the father-in-law of the brother-in-law, then their relationship is not bad.
But for the eldest lady of the Tao family, he could feel his son's depression, because his daughter-in-law often mentioned the eldest lady of the Tao family, but he was afraid that she would have her mark in all aspects of their married life, which made his son feel very difficult.
King Yan has always been a bystander, knowing that the rival in his son's mind is his daughter-in-law's best friend, just like how he felt about his eldest brother at the beginning, so that King Yan didn't know what to say, how could this be?
He deliberately investigated the eldest lady of the Tao family, they had already investigated before, but before they mainly focused on the eighteenth mother, and they felt that the eldest lady of the Tao family was very capable, but they didn't care too much.
King Yan investigated carefully this time, and felt that this one was quite good. Judging from the information, this girlfriend is the senior sister of his daughter-in-law, and he suspects that the later daughter-in-law is actually a student of the eldest lady of the Tao family, named sister, but actually a master and apprentice.
It is no wonder that after the eighteen mothers married into the palace, the eldest lady of the Tao family did not stay in the palace of Yan at all. And it is very likely that the person who will make this daughter-in-law particularly capable is her best friend, no wonder the daughter-in-law has done a lot of things for her best friend, just because the love between them is quite deep, and for the daughter-in-law is very worried about his senior sister, King Yan can't blame anything.
If the daughter-in-law doesn't care about the Tao family's eldest lady who is kind to her, then King Yan will feel terrible, because this daughter-in-law is not human at all, this is the situation that needs to be paid attention to, King Yan would rather his daughter-in-law care about her former friends, so that she is a person, not an emotionless machine.
After King Yan figured it out, he naturally wanted to relieve his son, saving his son, who had always felt that he lacked feelings, was very young when dealing with feelings, and did not go the right way when getting along with his wife, which may lead to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife, which is a big taboo for people who want to go to the battlefield.
The men of their family are generally not moved, if they are tempted, it is a lifelong thing, he hopes that his son can go well, before their husband and wife were reconciled by a wise uncle, and now the son needs him as a father.
"Although this child is a woman, she is quite capable, you have to learn to respect your wife. In fact, if she didn't care about the Tao family's eldest lady at all, it would be very troublesome, because she was impersonal. Yan Wang said.
The son on the other side looked at his father with some surprise, in his eyes, his father has always been a person who doesn't speak very well, and at this moment he was a little suspicious that this was not his father? I even want to give him what kind of ideological work as a son.
But this is indeed his father, He Hui still recognizes it, at this moment King Yan saw his son's suspicious expression, this look made him look not very pleasing to the eye, and wanted to beat his son, this bear child!
He's also for his son! But this scene also shows that my son is really living in reality, which is good! If the wife knew, she would be very happy, and her son would grow up and love his wife.
He suddenly wanted to talk about his wife, and then after the run-in, the husband and wife lived very happily, and talked about what they had said to each other, which was also a warning to his son not to let him go his own way.
He always remembered that before his wife died, he asked him to care more about his eldest son, she didn't want his son to be a cold person, but to live a real life, with his own joys, sorrows, and sorrows.
King Yan still remembered this sentence, and finally waited until his son was jealous. Hahaha! The wife would be very happy if she knew, it turned out that this son was a child who was too straight-minded.
King Yan laughed when he thought of this, and the prince on the other side once again felt that there was something wrong with his father, and he suddenly laughed, just thinking about whether to invite the military doctor in the house over.
King Yan came back to his senses and said slowly: "Your mother was brought up by your uncle at the beginning, and when your mother grew up, she introduced it to me. At that time, she was really young and very beautiful. ”
When he said this, King Yan showed a nostalgic look on his face, which made the prince look at it with wide eyes, what does this mean by his father? His father had never talked about these things, and all this made He Hui a little in a trance.
King Yan was so angry when he saw his son's expression, so he kicked his son lightly, this bear child, why is he expressionless when he listens to gossip, and when he sees his face, he lets the person who is the father play.
After he kicked his son, he said, "Later, after your mother got married, she thought about your uncle every day, but it made me angry." At this moment, he seemed to see himself who was still very reckless.
At this moment, King Yan wanted their son to understand how husband and wife got along, so he told his eldest son about the most private part of his heart, because the two were somewhat similar.
Shizi stared with wide eyes, at this moment he didn't believe that this was his father, didn't he burn his head? My father has always shown great respect for my eldest brother, how do I feel that my father now has a lot of opinions about my uncle, what is going on?
King Yan saw through his son's thoughts, and said: "Yes, I respect your uncle very much, he is quite talented, and belongs to the kind of person who is very smart, but it does not mean that I have no opinion on him. ”
After hearing this, the prince didn't believe what he heard, what? Respect my uncle, but I still have a lot of opinions, what does this mean? At this moment, he didn't understand what his father meant.
King Yan wiped his face with his big hand and said, "That's right! Didn't I just say that? Your mother cares more about your uncle, which makes me, a husband, feel neglected. ”