Chapter 15 Confession 3
This point is still the case in the era of women who want women to hold up for half a day in later generations, women often take better care of their children when taking care of them, and most mothers have to consider all aspects of their children, and a large part of fathers with babies are often described in one word: just live.
Women's careful, sensual characteristics make them very good when children are young and need adult care, it is with the selfless dedication of human mothers, so that human beings can reproduce from generation to generation, if there are no offspring, human civilization will be cut off sooner or later.
But it is undeniable that there are two sides to affairs, and the advantages are actually disadvantages at some times, and women's carefulness and sensibility will make many women become less timid in many cases, and they will also seem too gentle, and they are too family-oriented so that they lack enough experience.
They are inexperienced at times, they are quite stupid and sweet, so that they cannot distinguish between truth and falsehood, white and black, and in many cases they become prey in the eyes of some hunters, just because those hunters are aware of some weaknesses in them.
For example, Bao Xi is weak in the Condor Shooting, she is a very kind and good woman, and she has always been worried about her husband, even if she later became the princess of the Jin Kingdom, she has a lot of glory and wealth, but she still wants to return to Yang Tiexin.
But why did the Yang and Guo families have such a broken family? Isn't it that she is very kind, she saw the injured King Jin, and with the idea of saving someone's life and building a seventh-level floating slaughter, she saved the King Jin and hid it.
The prince of the Jin Kingdom took a fancy to Bao Xiweak's beauty, so he found the official who betrayed the Great Song Dynasty and got rid of the Yang and Guo families together, and then he couldn't find the husband Bao Xiweak for the sake of the child in the womb, so he did not follow the prince to live in the Jin Kingdom.
Women with a little more experience may not know what is going on at first, but then they will definitely feel that something is wrong, not long after saving a person, the house was raided by the government after the person left.
No matter how you look at it, that man has a problem, so will she obediently follow the man she once saved? On the whole, it is a pity that the two Yang Guo families are pitted, and they are particularly easy to deceive.
It can be seen that the kindness of women will be taken advantage of, and a bad one will make the family unlucky, if Yang Tiexin meets the injured King Jin, he is afraid that he will be killed directly with one shot.
Thinking of this, Ling Xiao thinks that men and women have their own strengths, but they also have their own shortcomings, and the best way is to carry forward their own strengths and avoid their shortcomings from being taken advantage of.
For example, in this world, Ling Xiao knew that it was impossible to vigorously promote the ideas of later generations, because the people's wisdom had not developed to this point, and it could only be done step by step, rather than pulling out the seedlings to help them grow.
In addition, during this period of time, Ling Xiao already knew that there were still many nomads outside the country, and they had to go south to grab things almost every year without food.
In their eyes, the industrious people of Kyushu, who are mainly agricultural, have a better life than them, and they are just a group of robbers, who run to the customs from time to time to cut leeks.
As a result, wars between the imperial court and the nomads have always existed, and the main force of the war is mostly men, and most women do not participate in it.
Farming is the main force, and fighting is still the main force, so that the matrilineal society is transformed into a patrilineal society, and women gradually have no say in the loss of time.
Only after the development of human science and technology has made great strides, with the emergence of various machines, women have the opportunity to work and earn money.
And women themselves have the ability to earn money, so they move towards an equal rights society, because there is a good saying: the economic base determines the superstructure.
Ling Xiao naturally knew the social situation later, so he hoped that the female compatriots around him would learn more useful knowledge.
Beauty will be lost, money may also be lost, only the knowledge you have learned is your own knowledge, and you can't take it away.
Ling Xiao is ready to make a corresponding plan, and he must think carefully about the specific living conditions of the girls in the village.
You must know that most women in the village also have to go to the field, and during the busy farming season, they are very busy with planting and harvesting.
Many of our fellow girls work the farm, and when the crops are ripe for harvest, they may encounter drastic changes in the weather.
If one is not good, it may lead to the end of everyone's hard work, and the grain production will be reduced or extinct.
When it is time for the harvest, the whole family must mobilize to gather the crops as soon as possible.
Ling Xiao decided to avoid the corresponding time point so that the girls could have a chance to read.
She also planned to persuade Yu Zhen, but not to worry about making them beautiful.
Girls in the countryside generally don't stay at home and have to work.
They will accept the wind and rain from the outside world.
The lack of fair skin is proof of special diligence.
It's really a contribution, Ling Xiao thinks they are actually very beautiful.
Of course, they are beautiful when they work hard, and this is the beauty of the soul.
After thinking about it, she decided to encourage them to practice good hygiene.
But I don't want to care too much about my appearance, and I want to be a big beauty.
When they are not able to protect themselves, it is a sin for girls to be too beautiful.
Ling Xiao said to Yu Zhen: "They should be encouraged to brush their teeth, but Yu Zhen Daoyou, in fact, girls are too beautiful." ”
At this point she paused, and then continued: "If they don't have the ability to protect themselves, it's a tragedy." ”
In many cases, girls in the countryside who are too beautiful do not necessarily get a good end, and beauty is a disaster in many cases.
If the family is not able to protect them, it is possible that if they do not give up their daughter, the whole family will be finished together, so how to choose.
In fact, without any education, and with a preference for sons, it is already a good original family to be able to think about selling beautiful girls.
You must know that most of the people in the village are the most ordinary peasants, and they generally have to rely on a few acres of land to make their lives better, which means that they belong to free people.
But they all belong to the kind of small people who rise to the top, belong to the common people, and they have no social status at all, although they have been saying for a long time: the prince is guilty of the same crime as the common people.
However, if it is true, it must be stupid, once Cao Cao just said that he would protect the crops in the field, once there was a decision to spoil the crops, but not long after this was said, he accidentally ran to the field and gnawed a lot of crops on his own horse.
If Cao Cao had followed his previous orders, he would have died. Cao Cao also found himself in a dilemma, if he didn't cut off his head, then what he said would be regarded as a release P, would anyone still be able to listen to his words in the future? But if he cut off his own head, then what else should he be? So the third way appeared, that is, to cut the hair and act as the head.
It is true that in the eyes of the ancients: the body is skinned, the parents who receive it, dare not destroy it, and the beginning of filial piety, which leads to the cutting of hair in the eyes of the ancients, which is a very heavy punishment, but in Ling Xiao's view, this is a fundamental reflection of privilege, if other soldiers of Cao Cao's army make the same mistake as Cao Cao, there is absolutely no second word, there is no matter of beheading, and the soldier must die.
This proves that the concept of the prince breaking the law and the common people put forward by Han Feizi and other legalists is more of an ideal to be achieved, and in many cases it is just a slogan, because how can a person who is high above be willing to be responsible for the corresponding criminal law with the people below.
For a long time, in the eyes of the aristocracy (including officials, petty officials, officials, etc.), the common people were simply tool people, puppets that could be manipulated at will, and did not belong to their own clan.
Even if the common people and the nobles are both human beings, they all need to eat, drink, sleep, etc., and they also have the same emotions as joy, anger, sorrow, and happiness.
But the nobles generally still feel superior to themselves and are very arrogant, and the Tenryu people in One Piece in the Japanese manga are the most typical representatives of the nobility.
Just because of the merits of their ancestors, the place where they lived was to live separately from the rest of the people, and they even wore the mark of nobility in their names.
Men plus saints, women plus churches, become the world's nobles above all beings, once they take a fancy to them, whether they are ordinary people or kings.
It is possible to become a slave of the Draconians, if you want to resist, just wait for the Draconians to hunt you down! That's going to be the end.
When Ling Xiao watched this anime, he felt like he was blown up with three views, I'll go, what kind of social system is this? Incomprehensible.
These so-called Tianlong people, who claim to be the nobles of the world, put themselves in too high a position and actually do such a thing.
Those who are regarded as slaves by them are to respect their elders who have worked hard, but it does not mean that they are inferior.
The descendants who established the world politics were actually lying in the honor of their elders and suppressing others in every possible way, claiming to be Tianlong people.
Do you bring bubbles with you, thinking that you can not breathe the oxygen under the same sky as the untouchables?
Although this is an anime, it also more or less reflects those high-ranking upper-class people.
I don't care about the small people below, in their eyes, the small people are slaves.
Ling Xiao has traveled through an ancient society and knows very well the character of those nobles.
I don't care about the situation of the people in Shengdou at all.
In fact, Ling Xiao remembered the original owner of the second world.
After experiencing the Holocaust and wandering around.
The original owner is very down-to-earth, and he can be regarded as more respectful of ordinary people.
But he actually still has that kind of indifference unique to nobility in his bones.
He didn't pay much attention to the lives of the common people who offended him in general.
For example, after he became a miracle doctor, he was used as a bargaining chip, and he was very happy when he found out and left.
He didn't even take revenge on that family, it's not that he is a particularly kind-hearted person.
Instead, he wanted to get out of the dangerous place faster, and not to delay more time because of small things.
On the other hand, it was also because he understood the social rules of the time very well, and the family was a small commoner.
At some point, the common people are actually not as noble as the servants of the powerful families, and they seem to have self-righteousness, but that is really weak.
The higher strata can easily break the weak self* and turn their family into criminals, which may be miserable.
Don't say anything about the dignitaries and nobles, even the servants of the dignitaries can teach a lesson, and even the officials can suppress and bully that family at will.
After the original owner ran away, why didn't those officials who ran in vain think about teaching that Diao people a lesson? The ingot of silver given by the head catcher is also material for trouble, which will only attract more extortion.
The original owner used to be a child of the scholar clan, and many routines had been taught before, maybe he didn't know what was going on before, but how could he not know after so many years outside, so he didn't teach them a lesson.
He didn't plan to be recruited at all, that is, he wanted to take revenge on the original owner of the family, he didn't need to do anything at all, and their family would be punished accordingly for what he had done, which was a social rule.
People who thought that the original owner was very kind didn't understand the social rules at that time, but in fact, the original owner knew that they must have had a bad time so they didn't do it.
Ling Xiao naturally knew what the original owner thought, and she was a little helpless about it, but that family should also be punished accordingly, so she didn't say anything.
Although Ling Xiao is the benefactor of the original owner, it does not mean that she can be the master of the original owner who has grown up, and the person who lives in that world is the original owner.
Ling Xiao knew one thing very well, the decision to forgive others was definitely not something that she, an outsider, could decide.
It's not that the parties can't make any decisions for the original owner, so Ling Xiao doesn't care about the original owner.
After passing through this world, Ling Xiao naturally doesn't want girls to just know how to make themselves beautiful.
It's best to learn a lot and supplement your own connotation, and being beautiful is a good aspect.
But the existence of beauty is relatively short, everyone will be old, and beauty is not allowed to be white-headed.
Ling Xiao thought that she could only choose one between beauty and wisdom, and she would rather choose wisdom.
Beauty is pleasing to the eye, but knowledgeable women can go further.
She didn't agree that Yuzhen wanted to help those girls in the countryside become beautiful.
Although it is possible to become beautiful and let enter the so-called noble family.
But they don't have the opportunity to receive relevant education and etiquette training.
What's more, he has no cultural background, and he is not proficient in any poetry and songs.
The kind of beauty that is often most likely to become the concubine of a petty official.
Or the pet of a wealthy businessman is more likely to become a fertility machine, or a plaything in Fengyue Field.
If so, it is better to marry into a family in the same environment and live this life peacefully.
Of course, some people may just want to fly on the branches and become a phoenix, but that is also a personal choice, choose the path they want to take.
But Ling Xiao still really hopes that those girls can learn something that is really useful to them, instead of just relying on a face.
You must know that time is a pig-killing knife, which will turn beauties into ordinary people, especially women, because they also have to bear the burden of giving birth to children.
Many women will get fat during pregnancy, fat is often a taboo for beauties, in fact, people who are too plump look very beautiful, basically a fat appearance is greatly reduced.
This world is also monogamous and polygamous, although according to the rules, some people are not allowed to take concubines, but this does not prevent men from finding a legal mistress at all.
So it's better that he still has some unique skills, and of course, Ling Xiao also knows that these thoughts are a bit deviant to say at this time.
She can leave this world, everything is fine, nothing happens, but she is afraid that the original owner will be killed.