20201219 The dust settles on Saturday

10 o'clock, 7 o'clock

I got up in the morning to sweep the floor and wash clothes or something, I didn't see the little prince's message at 8:18, and I received a call at 8:40 and chatted for 20 minutes. Seeing that he still didn't have any energy, we talked about today's itinerary or something, and said that I was jealous that I had more hair on the floor than me, so I swept the floor hard, he had something to do, I went to the company to change the scarf, and then went to the church to hand in the materials.

At 10:45, my sister happened to come to Mingzhou Hospital for a physical examination, thinking that she would not have a chance to see me, so she sent a message saying, "It seems that I don't have much time to see me today, so I will go home and you will be at any time when you need me, I am Wang Jun's sister, and I am also your sister and best friend", I am already in the company. Busy, hitchhiked their ride to church, answered the little prince's call for 3 minutes, and showed him a few Christmas trees.

When I arrived at the church, I just ate vermicelli for lunch, and then took out the gloves that happened to arrive today and started washing the dishes, cutting the meatballs, dividing the sesame filling, and then skewering and wrapping rice balls, there was a sister, holding a camera to pat it, and when she came, she said that she didn't want to do it, and said that Yafei's bag was not good, I was not very happy, and the little prince complained about her. When people asked the brothers to help, she said that she was reluctant.

I don't care about you..

The little prince woke up from his lunch break, I was still making dumplings, I was hungry, I ate some sweet potatoes, and I started to wrap up. Later, I checked the courier, and the curtains had arrived, but the pole was not yet. Then I received the task of stacking oranges, I started to pile them, and I was with a few children in the kindergarten, they played peek-a-boo, I took the inflator and blew it on Ye Ye, and she said that she would not play with me anymore.

At 5 o'clock, the little prince went to ask for leave, and everyone went to the small class VIP to eat, first waiting for the children to eat, and then waiting for the large army to line up. I'm waiting for the little prince.

Qingxin They said that this is marrying love, and they must wait until the other party to eat.

I went to the door to pick up the little prince, and soon came, and there was no need to queue up, so we took two plates to the small class to eat. After eating Lin Tao and they went to the lobby, the little prince said that there was something, so we went back first, said goodbye to Aiqiong Jiujun, and said that it would be later to remove the stitches the next day.

Out of the lobby, I said, you have something to do at night, you can't stay

He said that Huang Ama would call at night. I talked to him in the morning

I said, "What are you doing with him?" and they didn't have much. We figured it out ourselves.

We talked. My feeling is that things have come to this point, and the little prince is responsible, it's too slow.

The little prince said that my parents didn't answer the phone and didn't say anything. This is something to be discussed between the two families.

And I said, No, this is your mind, it depends on yours.

He said, how much is the mind, only how much is said, we know how much to take, otherwise is it a bottomless pit?

I said, "Did you take it out when you said it?" You don't want to press Fujian's, you can have as much as Anhui.

He said that what the bride price is, it is the establishment fund of the parents of both parties to the small family, and it is discussed by the parents of both parties.

I said, "It's impossible for my parents to discuss this with you, you want a number, you give 60,006.

He said what if they wouldn't

I said, this is your heart, and it is impossible not to. It's a ritual, a process. You talk about etiquette like this, don't you have this ceremony?

He said, we know that we want it, but we haven't said that we won't give it, the question is how many you don't say

I said, "It depends on your hearts."

He said, then I give 120,000 is also my heart?

I said, okay, you give 10,000 to 10,000, there must be a process, you don't have any process, just say you want to pick me up? Don't you think it's funny? My dad was confused.

He said, "I didn't say that it didn't cost me a penny to marry you, but you always have to tell us how much to prepare." Did your parents get through on the phone?

I said, I can't get through, have you figured out a way? If you want to find your uncle, you can forget if the phone can't get through

He said, "Did I tell you?" If I hadn't said I was responsible, did I?

I said, and it was over with me? It means that I want to say hello, but they didn't answer the phone, and I asked anyway. Did you say that I can't get through on the phone, I have something, do you want to help me get in touch?

He said, "I'll tell you, isn't that what it means?"

I said, "No." At home for so long, you didn't ask me to call my mom and dad

He said, did you call and bring me? Do I have a chance to say

I said, why don't you say it in Fujian, don't answer the phone, why don't you say it to your face.

He said, I said I was going to Fujian, what did you say, you don't have to go, you don't have to go.

I said, I said no, don't you need it? I said that if you don't need it, you don't need it? Or you don't have the heart.

He was angry, and I turned around and left. He called out to me, and I walked a long way, and when I came around the corner, I turned to see him coming.

He said, "You're doing it, aren't you?"

I said, "If you get angry with yourself like this in the future, I will ignore you."

He said, "I'm not angry with you."

I said, then you can take my anger out on me, and you will do this again?

He put his hand on my face, touched it, and we embraced.

He said, go home and talk about it.

I said, "It's the same when you go home." It's all about talking.

He said, "Didn't my parents mention the bride price?" I've told you so many times

I say, what's the use of talking to me? Can I say yes?

He said, then they mentioned it when they met in Ningbo, did they mention it less?

I said, there are so many people in Ningbo, cousins, cousins, uncles and grandfathers, is this easy to say? If you were replaced, you would say, come and give me how much is the bride price?

And he said, "What about at noon?"

I said, don't be too funny, the first meal you eat, your sister and brother-in-law are still there, and you start talking about the bride price??

He said, it's you who know too well inside and out. How many times did my dad call, and did he get through?

Okay, why didn't you talk about it at that time, didn't you ask???

I said, it wasn't my parents who mentioned this, you took the initiative, my second brother-in-law invited my parents to his house for dinner, and expected my parents to mention it, sorry, no. That's dragged on until now also every conclusion. If you drag it out like this, it won't end well.

He said, we have done something wrong, but is it all our fault? Are your parents right?

I don't speak.

He said, I think your parents are the most hd

I said, let's record it.

I sent it to my mom and withdrew it. He didn't see it.

After walking a few steps, it will be too late if you don't drive home!!

I walked a few steps and said, withdraw.

He's so cute.

I said, angry you didn't negotiate at all. Okay, let's calm down.

He said, "Aren't we concerned enough about getting married?" It's not that I said, your parents really don't care.

I said, how the woman's parents should pay attention depends on your initiative. Could it be that my sister got married, and they were urged by the queen mother

He said that it is true that they are more concerned about getting married, and their parents don't care about it

I said, my parents are not in a hurry, and we will be fine later.

And he said, Well, that doesn't end.

I said, it's good not to tie the knot. Push it back a bit and you'll have time to fight for it. Say that my parents don't care, what about you. Brother-in-law, have your parents been to your house?

He said, "Yes."

I said, "Has the queen been here?"

He said, "You didn't say you didn't have to go." Originally, they all said no, but now they say they want it.

I said, "Okay, then you can go now." My dad also wants to save face. My dad asked me in October if I would get married, and if I did, I would have to pay for pig's feet. also said that if he wanted to end the matter, he would borrow 10,000 pig's feet from his second sister. I've heard this, can I not show up?

He said, what is this pig's feet money? Your mother didn't say that I should bring it with me in the second year of junior high school.

I said, "That's what she sent to her uncles to have a drink."

He said, is it you giving or they are giving

I said, after all, we will give it.

He said, "That's the right thing to recognize." What did your father say at the wine table before, so far away, he didn't recognize his relatives. Now it's going to be again.

I said, it's not a confession, it's my mother's relatives, they send it, and I don't send it. I don't want it

He said, in the end, the money is not from you, that is your relatives.

I said, no, my mom is my mom's. She sends it, and I give it to her.

He said, you don't understand anything, and you say you know every day. As for the bride price, it must be discussed by both parties, not by one person's mind.

I said, "No." It is impossible to give you a number.

He said, people say give a number, bow down and count. You don't want to say as much as you want, how can we prepare?

I said, that's good if you don't follow the big sister's, and you don't learn an example. Didn't I tell you that my eldest brother-in-law gave 100,000 before? What did you say before, my dad wants so much, you don't have it. My dad doesn't want it. You expect my dad to tell you this? No way.

He said, "That's what I said." But this must be discussed by both parties.

I said, "No." It was all mentioned by the man.

He said, "My colleagues in Fujian also have it, and I also asked."

I said, even if this is the case in Fujian, it is not the case in Zherong

He said, then you ask Meiying Aihua.

I said, "Okay."

I called and asked, Mi-Ying. Meiying said, didn't you already give it? 100 thousand.

I said, "When, no." How to ask this number, the man said or the woman said.

Meiying said that people generally give 16 or 180,000 directly. Zherong also has 3.8 for 4 red envelopes, or a better 58,000 for 4.

I said, "Is this something that the parents on both sides sit down to decide?"

Meiying said, yes.

The little prince raised his head, and you see...

I said, isn't that embarrassing??

Mei Ying said, what is this?

After hanging up the phone, the little prince said, you see, it was the two sides who said it together.

I said, okay, then I'll give you a number, okay. 180 thousand. Do we have it? So it's still according to Anhui, I think about it, it's 66,000.

He said it if he didn't agree

I said, I won't disagree, I've said it so many times, it's a ritual, a process. My dad wants to see the process of your coming forward, okay.

He said, I didn't say no. I didn't say it wouldn't cost you a penny to marry you, okay.

I said, people say that a daughter-in-law who doesn't spend money is not a good daughter-in-law. Anyway, this process must be wanted, as for how much my father will return to me, that is his intention, he is different for each daughter, you don't have to worry about it.

I said, how did we get here?

He's going to stop the car.

I said, "Why stop the car?"

He said, it's so cold, don't you hurry home

I said, it's the same with the subway

He said, "Dad is going to call at night."

I said, okay. Then hurry back and go back.

I sat inside.

I said, you said I didn't tell you, before the Dragon Boat Festival, I said that my eldest sister gave 100,000, you know what to say in the future, what do they know about the reaction of the queen mother? My sister came back to me and came back to look for me. At that time, you had to stay in the team, and you thought about using money. She said how to get this out, let Wang Jun talk to her mother-in-law, and pay in installments. I said, "I don't need you to take it." I myself will be ready. That's what I did.

He said, go back and say it's okay

I said, there's no shame. Later, my uncle found out.

He said, go back and say it's okay.

I won't say anything.

He sighed, grabbed my hand, and said, "What a disappointment."

I don't want him to take it.

I said, I'm disappointed too. When my uncle found out, he said that my father sold his daughter.

He said, let's go back and talk about it.

I said, it's all homely, and it's nothing to listen to. You say that my parents don't care, then let me tell you, in October, when my father asked me if I was going to get married, and I wanted to send pig's feet money, I had already paid him part of the money, and I really paid it in installments. I did it.

He was surprised and said, "You ,,, you have something else to hide from me, you should think about it and tell me when you get home."

I said, no, that's all.

He said, think about it.

I said, my big sister said I couldn't say this, but I'll tell you anyway.

Huang Ama called, and we said we would be home soon.

So he stopped talking, went all the way to the house, turned on the air conditioner, and died of cold.

I said to the little prince, if you want things to get things right, you and Huang Ama should go to Fujian.

He called Huang Ama and greeted him for making dumplings today and turning on the air conditioner.

I said, the greetings are over, let's get down to business.

Huang Ama joked, what a serious matter.

The little prince said, let's get down to business.

I said, clean up the mess.

Huang Ama said, what an endgame.

I say, this awkward endgame.

Huang Ama said, nothing embarrassing, little princess.

I said, in my father's opinion, the bride price is a etiquette, without this there is no beginning, he is still confused, how to talk about the day or something. My dad just doesn't answer the phone much, and we rarely call, and my eldest sister's in-laws have been on the phone for so long, and they don't talk on the phone. My dad didn't think it was useful to call, so he might as well come back in person. Although the second brother-in-law didn't hold this wedding, he was close to him and often went back to see, my father also liked him, even if her daughter was so afraid of men, she was still willing to let my father hug her. He can always say well in person, but it's okay if he doesn't answer the phone, so he doesn't like to answer.

Huang Ama said, we can't do this well, and I called your father twice.

I said, it's fine. The little prince did a little bit very well, at least he took the initiative to bring up everything on the day, not to discuss with my parents, what day is convenient for you. My parents would only choose from our plan, and it was impossible for him to take the lead. Like my second brother-in-law, even if my second sister is old and the children are older, she can't do it. So my second sister wanted to subsidize 200,000 or 300,000 yuan to buy a house for my father, but her husband's family didn't dare to say a word. This ceremony is necessary, the bride price, the queen of the emperor Ama has mentioned, my father is so strong, it is impossible to discuss with everyone how much, this is to see our minds, when I learned that my second sister did not hold a wedding, because the second brother-in-law did not give the bride price, did not take the initiative to mention, but asked my parents to discuss, then this thing can not be done. He invited my parents over for dinner, and my second sister held her stomach up, and at the dinner table she talked about how the food was done. It's not impossible to expect my dad to say it, our family won't say this. I told everyone that when my eldest sister gave 100,000, the little prince said that if you don't want him, don't forget it. Then my dad won't say yes. Later, when my sister returned to the Dragon Boat Festival, she came back to me and said that now the little prince needs money to stay in the team, and I know that I was going to spend 50,000 or 60,000 yuan at that time, and I also know that there is no money. My sister said that the little prince should go and tell my parents that it was okay to pay in installments, and I said at the time that I didn't need to take it here, and I could afford my own salary. That's what I did. I kept telling him that this matter doesn't need to be told to Huang Ama, we will solve it ourselves. If it hadn't been for my big sister calling this time, I would have solved this matter alone. I've already called some for my dad, and it is true that the installments are paid. My eldest sister said that I was not doing the right thing and asked the man to come forward, but my father thought that I was pushing my elbow out, and he had a good face, which made him unhappy and had to accept it. I also said that I can't tell you this, otherwise my father will have no face, I don't think there is anything I can't say, the little prince always says that there is a family, this is what I think is a family, there is nothing to hide.

Huang Ama said, this is nothing shameless. We won't talk about the past, but now we'll see what to do.

I said, if you want me to say, just give me a 66,000 Bo lottery, as for how much my father will return me, it is his mind, we don't care about this.

Huang Ama said that if 66,000 can be done, you don't need your father to return.

I said, and the little prince kept saying that he would not agree. I said I would agree. My father, I understand, he wants the man to come forward, not me.

The little prince asked me how much I gave, and I didn't say.

Huang Ama and I continued, my dad likes to pick up soft persimmons and pinch them, and he is most afraid of me. I had beaten him several times before, and it was my own card, and although he was not happy, I could still see his withdrawal record and withdraw it little by little. He wanted this ritual process. Otherwise, he is still souring me and saying, I don't know what day you have, I guess it's still early.

Huang Ama said, if you can, I will transfer 50,000 yuan to you in the evening, you don't think it will work.

I said, don't need 50,000, 20,000 is fine, I have it here.

The little prince said, you transfer 50,000, I have it here. No need for Lin Fang.

Huang Ama said, Okay, then I'll turn around later.

The queen mother took it and said, "Little princess."

I said, huh

The queen mother said that this was done wrong by the little princess.

I said, yes.

The queen mother said that the little princess was kind to do bad things, and she was considerate that we had no money, so she gave it herself. But this is not right, the matter is not carried by yourself. What we have, we discuss together.

I said, yes.

The little prince asked me again how much I gave, and I compared.

He and Huang Ama began to discuss how to transfer, and transferred 40,000 yuan through WeChat, but there was no more in WeChat. Say pick it up tomorrow.

The little prince said that it was enough, and it was estimated that it was enough to spend a year ago, and he still had 40,000.

I said, "It's not enough for me."

The little prince said, then your 40,000 yuan, will you be refunded?

I said, ah, don't think about that, we can just do our part. Give him 60,006 to make a lottery, as for how much he gives me, that is my father's heart, he has three daughters, and each daughter is different.

The queen mother said, then I will give you a change of mouth fee, how much you will have to give

I said, this is also the intention of the queen mother. 1,000-10,000 yuan is fine, but 10 yuan is not good.

The queen mother laughed.

The little prince said, that's the queen mother joking with you, who really gave 10 yuan. My sister said that the installment payment is also a joke, and you always take it seriously.

I said, Anhui also has this custom, this can't be joked.

The queen mother said, "Then change your name to what?"

I said, whatever people are called, we will call it. But I don't like people to call my mother in front of me and my mother-in-law behind my back. Very bad.

The little prince said, "You have something to say."

I said, "What do you mean, everyone but me does." Churches which are not like this.

The little prince said, then it's all mothers and mothers, how can they tell the difference. There used to be a woman, and her husband said to her, "Your mother said, let's go back for the New Year." His wife said, isn't it your mother? His husband said, okay. My mother said that if she wanted to go back to her hometown for the New Year, if she went to my mother's house, my mother would not go to my mother's house.

We laughed.

The little prince said, you shout overlapping words, and you call mom here. I usually call Mom

I said, you talk nonsense, you also say mom is okay.

The queen mother said, just call the queen mother, the emperor is very good.

I said, haha. Very good.

Later, I talked about my father's strange temper, and he didn't have a kinship. The queen mother said, you should call Lin Fang's parents first and see if 60,006 is okay.

I said my mom wouldn't leave work until half past nine. My dad didn't know if there was time

The queen mother said, send a message to your mother first.

So we called my mom, and she said, yes. It's okay. We asked how to fight, or should I fight?

Mom said, no, I want the little prince's father to call, or he calls your father first, and then the little prince calls.

Got it!

We called my father, and the little prince admitted at the beginning that he was not doing well, and the phone calls were few, and the royal ama could not get through. Ask if 60,006 is OK.

Dad said sourly, little brother, I know you are busy in the army, I said I didn't receive a call, there are only a few people on my mobile phone, and there is no record. (2 times, it is true.) Don't blame Dad) It's not that you can do it, I say no, what can you do. Don't say that Fujian wants 200,000, Zherong also wants 30,008 to 4 red envelopes, or 50,08 to 4 red envelopes, (Zherong's, I really don't understand.) Heaven understands) to give. You just give me 100,000, will I take it all? It's not like that, it's okay for the two of you to unite. I haven't decided when you'll get married. We didn't think about anything else, we just wanted everyone to be happy.

The little prince said to wait and let Huang Ama call.

Dad said he was going to sell garbage and hit tomorrow. Mom will be there tomorrow.

I said that I collected all the garbage and gave it to my grandfather, and I will send it to my father next time.

Dad said, yes.

The little prince said that the postage was not enough

I said, my dad doesn't dislike it.

After a few words of hanging up, we called Huang Ama and said that there was still half of the gas, and it should be almost the same to call tomorrow, and I said that the call at half past eight should be about the same. Then we went to sleep.

Kiss, the dust settles, happy~~~

The little prince said softly that he couldn't hide anything from him in the future. Then he said that he would not go to the party tomorrow, remove the stitches in the morning, hand over the materials, and he would make me something delicious.

All right~~~