20191203 Secrets that can't be told on Tuesdays

There's a guy arguing there in the TV series. Is it true that the whole family owes you, what have you done for this family, don't you feel indebted and something. The atmosphere is right.

The little prince called his sister, but her sister didn't answer.

(Recording 13th, 7:50pm)

After a long time, I called Huang Ama again, but Huang Ama still didn't answer.

My sister pressed the phone.

In the TV series, the mother-in-law is still counting her daughter-in-law's laziness and work, and she is not good at it.

The three of them, the queen mother, were packing up something.

My sister's mobile phone vibrates, and she answers the phone (19:56) and says to the little prince, you have made a call with your girlfriend (in fact, we only talked for three minutes)

(3 seconds)

My sister said that you called her when you were eating, and your parents were on the side, why didn't you call your parents, and you didn't apologize to your parents. This guy went out to exercise, and you called. Who do you ask to answer the phone, we are okay at home, just waiting for you. I don't know what's going on.

(20 seconds)

My sister said, yes, we don't know the situation. I just came back from the car, and I can call my girlfriend to say a few words.

(20 seconds)

My sister said, no, I don't need it

(20 seconds)

My sister said, who speaks in a low voice? But you've been there since last night. Have you ever sent a message to your mom and dad?

(2 seconds)

My sister said, you called last night and went out of the car again. How did Mom and Dad come over last night.

(20 seconds)

My sister said, have you thought about it? You don't have to speak so aggressively.

(60 seconds)

My sister said, "Oh, this is how I speak."

(10 seconds)

My sister said, no one thinks about you. Is there anyone who isn't from your point of view.

(6 seconds)

My sister said, "We're thinking too much about you." It's okay to make you feel like your mouth is wide open

(10 seconds)

My sister said, "You can call me and tell me the facts." What facts are you stating? Do you know the ins and outs of this? Did you ask clearly, you don't know anything yourself, you called to explain the facts to your elderly parents. So what do you want your elderly parents to do. You want to transfer to Ningbo, this is your own business. We didn't think about it? If you want to transfer this house, you can transfer it to you immediately, as long as you can take out 800,000 or 900,000 yuan owed to the bank. You can close the title right away. I signed all the texts I should have signed. You are also grateful to your sister. We are sisters and brothers, if you have difficulties, we will do everything we can. As long as you can get this money now, the house will be transferred to you immediately, and the transfer to Lin Fang can also be done, so your account can be solved smoothly.

(6 seconds)

My sister said, can you take it out, if you can't take it out. So if you talk to your elderly parents about this now, what do you want your parents to think, and let them save some money for you?

(12 seconds)

My sister said, yes, you didn't tell them, but you explained a lot of facts to them. This is a lot of facts that you can't stay in Ningbo, you're anxious, you're sad, you're nervous.

(6 seconds)

My sister said, but don't tell this in the tone you did.

(13 seconds)

My sister said, what is the possibility? Maybe it's best to add your name to this house when you buy it.

(6 seconds)

My sister said, you didn't mention this, when you buy a house, who would think about it.

(4 seconds)

My sister said, you speak, you speak by yourself, pay attention to yourself.

(2 seconds)

My sister said, pay attention to what you say

(8 seconds)

My sister said, now I am here for you, I hope you get through this difficulty, I hope you stay here smoothly, I hope that after you stay here, your parents will no longer worry about your affairs.

(4 seconds)

Sister said, you dare to say

(6 seconds)

My sister said, where, you are talking about it over there, is there anyone making trouble in this matter from beginning to end, it is you who turn it over and play over there.

(2 seconds)

My sister said, has anyone repented of this matter? I told you before that when you get married, you will take this house, and when you have the ability in the future

(8 seconds)

My sister said, then you agreed, why did you tell your parents last night about the marriage and the house to buy a new house? Why did you bring this up again yesterday?

(4 seconds)

My sister said, that's what I mentioned, I'll talk about it first. I mentioned it.

(50 seconds)

My sister said, then I was here yesterday, you tell me what you said. (Recording 27 min. 20)

(10 seconds)

Dad came here and asked me, and I nodded. If this mom and dad have already told you, then you ask them if my sister knows, and what my sister says. And you already know that you agreed, and you already know that your sister's house is yours. We have all met Lin Fang's parents, you and Lin Fang's marriage date has been set, Lin Fang said that you will get the certificate in May on a cloudy day. It's marriage above the law, and this matter has come to this point. What am I going to say?

(3 seconds)

My sister said, you think of everyone as your imaginary enemy. Yesterday I said that Lin Fang came to live. You said that you should buy a house when you get married, did we mention it?

(10 seconds)

My sister said, then do you buy it now, do you have the ability now,

(6 seconds)

My sister said, then what are you hesitating about, what are you thinking, what do you mean by using this house for marriage?

(10 seconds)

My sister said, if you have the ability, you can buy it, and if you have the ability, you can buy it yourself.

(8 seconds)

My sister said, why are you saying this when you are not capable now.

(3 seconds)

My sister said, wait until you have the money in your pocket

(3 seconds)

My sister said, Wang Jun, we are a family, and we will give you all these with our hearts and hearts.

(16 seconds)

My sister said, "Go and read what you said, and listen to it the next day."

(20 seconds)

My sister said that you don't think there is a problem with your attitude towards yesterday's speech, do you know what you said yesterday?

(8 seconds)

My sister said that the content of your speech and the attitude of your speech are all problematic and funny, so you don't want to suffer a lot of grievances. What you say is really unbearable, you have to reflect on it yourself.

(4 seconds)

My sister said, what do you shout.

(10 seconds)

My sister said, how far have you inquired about this?

(8 seconds)

My sister said, "Okay, that's what you said last night."

(16 seconds)

My sister said, you, it's so good to you, everyone takes you to heart when you say a word, you talked about it yesterday, and I've been looking for someone to inquire today. You say that the hukou should be landed for two years. But let me tell you, the policy has changed this year, as long as you have a hukou landing, as long as your wife settles in Ningbo before you change jobs. I found the Ningbo Military Retired Cadres Service Station today, and I will give you their phone numbers. Who did I find, I found a government department

(8 seconds)

My sister said, I'll tell you one thing, when the old cadre tells you, don't listen to the wind or the rain. Is that the case now.

(6 seconds)

My sister said, oh, okay, then you have difficulties, then why can I inquire, then why can I inquire There is a service station for retired soldiers in Ningbo. You should know better than I do that there is such an agency.

(7 seconds)

My sister said, what?

(7 seconds)

My sister said, I'll tell you, I'll give me a message, you tell me the news you heard from your unit, you passed on a message to your mother and father, the two of them were so anxious that they couldn't sleep at night, and your sister followed all night thinking about how to solve this matter, how to find someone to inquire, and the indirect result was that your sister was on the phone all day today, and was on the phone all day. As a result, I also asked Lin Fang to ask how to transfer the household registration, and she was also looking for someone to ask about the household registration all day long

(3 seconds)

Do you think that all this thing that everyone wants to get in should be? Just because you said, oh, I have this difficulty, and I state this fact to you. But this fact, have you thought about it first, have you screened it yourself, have you dealt with it, have you thought of a solution? Don't you really feel that you owe anything to your family? Including Lin Fang? Although Lin Fang didn't say anything, he said that the little prince was the best. Don't you think you're as interested in this girl as she is for you?

(4 seconds)

My sister said, every time you call, you are talking, what difficulties do I have, what problems have I encountered, but have you ever thought about how to solve these things? If you just ask, "Oh, I'm in trouble, go tell your loved ones, tell your old parents, and let them worry about you and think of a solution for you." You're saying that I don't need you to solve it for us, but how can they not worry about you, how can they not solve it.

(5 seconds)

My sister said, what am I angry with you?

(6 seconds)

My sister said, oh, you have worked hard, let you suffer. You know it's fluttering and fluttering.

(5 seconds)

My sister said, are you like this to your mother and your father? My mother now gets injections every day, draws blood every day, and can't eat or sleep at other times except for a full meal at noon today. Do you know what her cold has made her look like?

(6 seconds)

My sister said, Wang Jun, let me tell you, no one tells you that you are wrong, and no one forces you to do something. We're just telling you how we feel when we listen to you. The communication and exchange between people, what I say is not that I pay attention to my feelings, but that I pay attention to how the listener feels when they hear my words. It's not that we've been talking to you, your words are wrong, I'm looking for fault with you.

(3 seconds)

My sister said, think about it yourself. From childhood to adulthood, your mother, your sister and your father didn't take your affairs to heart, you Wang Jun said a headache and brain fever, we are all worried.

(3 seconds)

My sister said, I don't care about your unit now, because you are a veteran now, and you are familiar with it. Occasional cold and fever, you are such an adult, I don't care about you. When you first came here, I wished I had spent all my spare time running to you. You've forgotten everything. Now you are forgotten,

(3 seconds)

My sister said, maybe you haven't forgotten, but now, these have become words on your lips. I'm so grateful to my mom and dad and sister, I'm grateful. You're numb.

(3 seconds)

My sister said, "I don't ask for anything."

(2 seconds)

My sister said, I'll tell you about this house from beginning to end. If I hadn't given it to you, I wouldn't have signed that document with you, you study the law yourself and know what that document means.

(2 seconds)

My sister said, let me tell you, your sister doesn't need it now, I can still get by now, you can't afford it now, your sister gives you this house, it doesn't matter, you have the ability in the future, you have to buy a house. Then you can subsidize your sister a little, and when you have more than enough ability in the future, you come over and take the money and say, sister, I have the ability now, I will give you a little. I have a little extra and I give you a little, and I will surely accept it with joy. You don't have the ability now, everyone is worried about you, you talk about this, what's the use of a family saying these things all the time, what's the use of a family always sticking these words in their mouths?

(3 seconds)

My sister said, the family doesn't tell lies, I know your heart, I didn't care about you, I told you when you have the ability and when to give it to me. Didn't I tell you? Why are you bothered?

(3 seconds)

My sister said, I talked to you a lot tonight, you think about these words yourself, no one forced you, and no one said that you Wang Jun is nothing, you Wang Jun is not doing anything right, no one says this. But think about it yourself

And let me tell you one more thing, you and Lin Fang are only engaged, not married yet. Even if you get married, your parents can't even do it when you're old, you need to serve, you need Lin Fang to take care of your diet and daily life, then your parents came to Ningbo, and when they talked to you, you said that you discussed with Lin Fang, and that could be talked about in the past. Mom and Dad are still in good health, they can walk, they can run, and they can even go to work. Help you take care of the housework and take care of everything. Why did you say that when your parents told you about this, why did you say that I would discuss with Lin Fang first, and discuss with Lin Fang first.

(3 seconds)

My sister said, it was your parents who raised you for 30 years, and they specially told you about me, this land can't be planted, and I came here to live with you, why don't you feel very happy at first, they finally don't have to work so hard, come here. If you can find some work at will, you can pay for their living expenses. Why are you

(2 seconds)

My sister said, why are you, oh, you come to admit it now, do you know what you said at the time,

(5 seconds)

My sister said, they said they wouldn't do it now, why did you open your mouth to discuss it with Lin Fang.

(5 seconds)

My sister said, "Did you apologize to them?"

(5 seconds)

My sister said, you broke their hearts. On Sunday, when your parents told you, you said that you discussed with Lin Fang, and when your parents told you last night,

(2 seconds)

My sister said, "Tell your dad on Sunday."

(4 seconds)

No, Mom said, come over. You say, what do you say Lin Fang. Mom said, no matter Lin Fang today, just the four of us. We're coming. Was it like this last night, did I wronged you?

(6 seconds)

My sister said, you don't have to apologize to me, you apologize to your old father and mother.

(10 seconds)

My sister said, "Okay." Let's go and meet and tell you about this next time. It's not something you can apologize for and just say something. There will be a lot of things like this in the future. After Mom and Dad really came here in the lunar year, there were a lot of things like this. Wang Jun, let me tell you, you are about to get married now, and after you, you will have your old father and mother above, your wife next to you, and your children below. How to balance the relationship. On a rampage like yours, you'll make the whole family unhappy. You go and assemble.

The little prince came back and called Huang Ama again. (Hey, it's really hard.) ）

Huang Ama said, you like to listen to other people's rumors, I told you a long time ago, if you are not my son, I don't care about you. I told you last night that you still have three more installments, and you have five years to take your time. Ah, Lao Tzu told you last night that you had to look like this. Lao Tzu told you to work hard, and it depends on your hard work. If there's a little bit of something, just call your parents and tell your sister. Then don't talk like that. Again, he said that I was like that.

(10 seconds)

Huang Ama said, I'm not telling you to deal with it yourself, you have to talk about it, do you have a way to do this thing, so that's it. Cousin Lin Fang came that night and asked you to send a message, you put your tone aside from you, you speak by yourself, you are a person, how are you talking, and you have to think about the tone of your speech. You are Lao Tzu's son, I will tell you how to teach you how to make up for your shortcomings. Don't think I'm going to pick your thorn today.

Lao Tzu told you early on Sunday that we don't plant land, come and live. You asked your sister early in the morning what she thought and what it was like. What else are you going to shake off your sister? Lin Fang said that he got the certificate on May 20th, how can my son say it, you don't know your situation, your mind is very bad, you don't know this situation, just come over. All roads lead to Rome. I told Lin Fang that this side is empty, so I can't come and live. Lin Fang didn't say that he couldn't come over. I said, you can't live there, she said that she just paid three months' rent over there, I said if I can get it back, she said ask the landlord to get it back for two months. She wanted to come over herself. (Whether you want me to go over or not, I don't know.) Anyway, people invited me, and as soon as I heard that I could save property fees, I thought I really wanted to save money, so I agreed. ）

Huang Ama said, "Listen to me." It's like you're a nobody. You have to hear it clearly, you have to hear it clearly, you just haven't changed at all. I talked to you last night, and I called again to ask for advice, you are my son, you listen to my explanation. The last time we were at home, we said we were coming. Now that you look like this, Lao Tzu may not be able to live with the two of you. Your heart is stronger than Lao Tzu's. Lao Tzu doesn't want you to do anything bad. We can't afford to buy a house now, and when you have good conditions in a few years, we can also get two dollars and see which house we like. Then you don't live here now, where are you going to live? Even if we scrape together a down payment, will you be able to pay the mortgage yourself? This house is 1.3 million, you are at least 230 now, Lao Tzu can help you make up 500,000, and you still have 180. 800,000 mortgages, 4,000 a month. A mortgage of 1.8 million is 8,000 a month. Do you have what it takes.

I said I was going to come and stay, and you said you were going to ask your sister. Son, you said this last night, you are your son, I am your son. Both of us have to talk from the bottom of our hearts, whether Lao Tzu comes or not, it's all for you. I want to get some money to reduce your burden, if it weren't for you, I would have stopped doing it. Lao Tzu said on Sunday morning, I won't do it in the lunar year, and I'm with you. What did you say to Lao Tzu, how did my sister talk about it? Ask your sister about everything, and you still shirk the matter of Lao Tzu to your sister now. You said again, then let me ask Lin Fang, you see that you are not married yet, son. Lao Tzu's heart was cold. This little kid, to say a few words with a good conscience, this little kid is very good. Lao Tzu has been watching here these days, and Lin Fang said that you say every day that I can't wash the dishes clean, so you don't let me wash them. She wanted to wash and said that Huang Ama was here to teach me how to wash. Wash the dishes every night. Got up early this morning, cleaned up the house, cleaned up, and took the garbage away. Obediently, this girl can match you, which is a blessing that you have cultivated in your life, you must cherish it. Don't let me play a temper here, you wait for Lao Tzu to clean up your stinky temper, and your breath will come up, it is estimated that there is no such a good thing. Why did I ask her to come and stay, you didn't want to call him over. (I don't know if the original text of this sentence is "Why do I want to come and live, you don't want me to come over?") I don't even know why you're 27 years old, why can't you turn this brain. Okay, okay, I'm not going to tell you. Think about it when you talk to yourself, go wash up. I hung up. (I really don't understand it anyway.) ）