20200324 Tuesday cried and laughed

Early in the morning, I went downstairs to measure the size and the preliminary list of materials arranged

A small stool at home can come in handy, go around in a circle. Four dining stools for both parents to sit on, with bows behind them.

Use a small glass can as a decoration and hang it on the ring. A sky full of stars can be used for decoration. The frame can be used to hold photos. Trilon of the company for hanging cloth.

2 flower bench shelves for decorations. The counter chair is made for newcomers. About 31 chairs are rented.

Company square table plus arch layout photo wall, etc.

Owen ordered 31 small cakes as a gift. (I want to think about it more concretely and add others)

The church borrows a microphone table. Pull the wire.

Don't sprinkle flowers and damage the environment.

There are 20 small stools, with an average width of 28 cm and an arc length of 83 and 10 in an arc length of 90 cm. Use a cyan sanded cloth.

The chair under the tree is 40 cm wide and 133 cm long

The column interval is 305, the arc is 325cm, and there are 5. Height 270cm

Circumference 360360227,947cm

Ate steamed buns and went to work. Continuing to refine the plan, the arch was also thought of, and the company pole was put in a pot at home, and with the floral arrangement, perfect.

The two sisters said it was good.

In the afternoon, he sent a message to the little prince:

The Little Prince. You've made me nervous. Look at how nervous you were the day before yesterday. You've been here for the past two days, and my heartbeat is the same as it was in July last year. You have to keep looking for things to do and indulge in them. Not sleeping well for several days also has an effect. Dark circles are coming, I feel. Little prince, in fact, don't bother, it's the same as writing a paper, I write roughly, after all, I have a lot of wonderful ideas, you give comments after reading, and revise it. It will become a model text. And my idea is, don't get married, do it yourself. Don't veto, come and help me. Done hand in hand together. In fact, there are really a lot of resources that can be used, I asked about the property in the morning, and they said yes. I also have a bridesmaid, and my sister-in-law's sister is also my best friend. There are also officiants, and Brother Jiujun has already agreed. Witness the marriage to find an uncle. Isn't that great? If you're looking at my layout ideas, they've already been generated.

Idea + Skill = Person. Looking forward to the return of the little prince, haha

After work, I pushed my 9 cans home and got stuck.

The little prince called,

I said, he was pushing the jar, and he was doing the question, asking me what the jar was for

I said, I want to grow copper coin grass, so I brought the jar back. I didn't know where to find copper coin grass, but when I looked downstairs in the morning, it was full of pools.

He said, you can't raise hao

I said, yes. I've raised it

He said, recruit mosquitoes

I said, "It's not like planting it now and giving it away later." Attract mosquitoes to other people's homes.

He said, why do you hold so many jars at once. Isn't one a day bad

I said, I don't want to spend 20 hours to do what can be solved in two minutes. One day for 9 days. Impatient. For example, when I write my homework during the winter vacation, I finish it in the first three days and then sleep peacefully, while my brother always puts it off until the last three days to catch up

He said, who will finish writing three days ago?

I said, so you're the same kind of person, I'm doing my homework non-stop, and I don't let go of watching TV. There was a year of winter vacation homework where I hadn't studied the grades, and I was watching TV and thinking about it. I asked my sister if there was anything and the answer was half, and she said of course there was, 0.5, and I instantly turned white and wrote the answer in the homework book. My sister said that while watching TV, I was thinking about the topic and was not at all distracted.

The little prince also smiled. I was absent-mindedly watching TV.

He said, what did he eat in the morning

I said, steamed buns

And he said, Is it ripe?

I said, steamed for more than 20 minutes, and then added a boiled egg, which was quite delicious. In the afternoon, I felt cold, but fortunately I brought a coat, Apo had already put on spring leggings, which were too thin for me to wear, and her physique was relatively warm.

He said, what did he eat last night

I said, I bought strawberries yesterday, and a Chinese cabbage, which is very big. Ate the fish. Can't eat it at night, it's not thawed

He said, don't freeze next time. The steamed buns are well done

I said, learn from Douyin. Recently, the epidemic in foreign countries has been very serious, and the leader's daughter is abroad, and there was a fire yesterday. These domestic manufacturers can only pay basic wages. I don't know if it was deliberately told to us.

He did the topic, and I fried the cabbage and started eating.

He said, my sister called, I steamed the white steamed buns and went to the balcony.

Fifteen minutes later, he returned. Smiling (a little ill-intentioned)

He said, "What are you eating?"

I said, two steamed buns. This is a flower rose.

He said, "Put the steamed bun up for him, pinch it and show me." Well, it's cooked

I said, I'm going to learn how to make desserts in a few days.

He said, "I'll be able to go out at the end of April, and you're going to make it for me."

I said, okay.

He said, "When the time comes, I won't do it."

I said, dessert can't be served for dinner

He said, "It's all right." You eat less steamed buns at night, and it will swell as soon as you drink water

I said, okay, I won't do that much next time

He said, "You can eat it for breakfast."

I said, or do it in the evening. The yeast has been opened, and I don't want to leave it there all the time, but luckily I didn't buy 100 grams, otherwise it would have been done for years and months

He said that a small amount and many times, this is the way to live a careful life. My sister is a waste

I said, my sister is really wasteful, I don't need to stock up, I just buy a little bit every time.

He said, my sister doesn't get up at five or six o'clock in the morning, she goes to work at half past eight in the morning and can sleep until eight o'clock. I also grind and chirp and eat a little bit casually, and I don't do hygiene. I didn't finish my work at night, I worked overtime or something, just deal with it, and eat an apple and banana and it's over. Then I like to buy special prices, and it will be wasted after a long time

I said, "You see I'm going to bring that cabbage back, and I'm going to eat it every day."

He said, you can buy some meat for cabbage, or buy some vermicelli

I said, don't. I'm going to finish the noodles.

He said, buy some meat, buy some meat, slice meat,。。。

I said, let's talk about it next week, I'm definitely not going to do this week. There are fish

He continued, don't you have noodles? After boiling the water...

I said, okay, let's go and do something safe, right? I went to the kitchen to knead the dough

He said, don't do it yet, let's talk about the wedding.

I said, "You say."

He said, put things aside, let's solve this problem first.

I said, it's okay for you to say it directly, you have to catch me. Won't it come out in June? June said

He said it was too late in June. How many months do you want to get your license?

I said, June is good

He said it was too late

I said, whatever

He said, "Give me a." You, you sit down, let's have a good talk.

I said, it's okay to sit on the balcony.

He said, where to get the certificate

I said, the administrative service center.

Where is the wedding, he said

I said, downstairs.

He said, well, then I'll tell you what I think, it's a hurry

I said, I mean New Year's Day, but

He said, don't, don't worry, you are in a hurry as soon as you say it, you let me finish the sentence, I will tell you, I will tell you.

I said, say it (what are you doing with so much foreshadowing?) ）

He said, I know you have too many ideas, can you turn that speaker off?

I said, "There's no speaker."

He said, there are too many noises in your voice on the phone, it's better, so be it.

I said, is it noisy? It's not noisy.

He said, well, don't wait for me to finish, because the pandemic is not over now. Although the situation is good now, it is not certain that it will be over by the end of April.

I said, and then (the situation doesn't need to be explained in such detail, really,)

He said that I asked the unit leader before, and he said that the two of us were going to go for a physical examination, seven, seven, eight, eight, and then go back to the unit to get a seal. It will take a month to get this material at the earliest, and it will take a month at the fastest without delay.

I said, it's New Year's Day.

He said, "Don't be tired yet."

I said, you have talked about so many reasons, what is the conclusion? Straight to the conclusion, no foreshadowing, it's okay, I know.

It's not as easy as you say, he said

I said, why wasn't it so easy? It's good to tell the conclusions. (It's really slow, a lot of foreshadowing)

He said, I tell you, if you want to get the certificate on June 12, I can do my best to report it

I said, no, no, no, don't be so forced, it's okay.

He said, love, don't, don't be so impatient, more impatient than me. It's not that easy and simple with this thing. Unlike in our local area, you can directly decide on the household registration book, and you have to have time to do all kinds of materials here. (Hypothetical example)

I said, first, it's not me asking for June, it's the queen mother asking (you do your best, not for me) I said it's better on New Year's Day or the year after the year. She said why can't she get it in June? You don't have to convince me, you go and talk to the queen mother

He said, no, it's our business to get married, it's our decision

I said, no, we said it doesn't count (I said Ningbo, you can say that the queen mother agrees.) The queen mother agreed, you are inking here, and the answer is that the queen mother does not agree. My parents said that after the new year, my mother told me if I could have New Year's Day. After she agreed to hold it in Ningbo, I took a step back and said that it was okay on New Year's Day, and she said that it could be June. I took a step back, and the wine was a little late, even my mother was a wine after the New Year, and she had to get rid of it in June)

He said that we will consider them in our affairs, but this is our business, and we have the final say (polite 3: we have the final say)

I said, no. It's not like two people can do whatever they want. (If only I could have known the back of their politeness earlier)

He said, "If I can do it before I take a vacation, I can do it." When it comes to small weddings, it takes time to prepare. Like you said, it's not entirely up to the two of us, but the other people have their own things, and we have time for us to get it done, and they don't necessarily have the time. (Who is kicking the ball to?) ）

I said, "Who?"

He said, for example, if we're done with this thing, invite other friends over. They don't have time

I said, the first one is from Ningbo, how can there be no time? Second, how many days will it take? It would be nice to have a Saturday. (This ball is really unskilled, no matter what time it is, everyone is busy, okay)

He said, stop, stop this first, can you represent others?

I said, no matter how busy Saturday is, it's impossible to say that a large number of people can't come, right? You don't have to think about other people's homes, if someone tells me that one day and a Saturday, I can drive over, no problem, this is your worry.

He said, then let's talk about it, the key is this marriage material, if it is all done, then it is okay, the key is that it is not done now, I can't decide on this matter. So as I told you, my ideal plan is September 9th. Just go like my sister and get a certificate. Weddings, these things, put them aside for the time being.

I didn't say anything. The material is not something he can decide. It's the truth. I didn't know it would be so difficult. If he knew that he was called the version years ago, he should have done it,

He said, let's talk about me going to Fujian with my father

I was staring at the computer

And he said, What shall thou see?

I said, well, it'll be done in a minute. (My brother asked me why Huixia was strange that I was estranged from my brother)

He said, what's wrong?

I said, it's okay.

He continued, of course I'm going to Fujian, do you know why I have to go to Fujian? I was a little worried that my uncle wasn't so happy with me. No, what are you looking at? Is it so important?

I said, misunderstanding.

He said, "What's wrong?"

I said, ah, it's Huixia, where to start, it's that my parents want me to invite Huixia to come, so I'll ask him and ask him not to tell my brother or anything first

He said, no, your camera is shaking my eyes.

I said, okay, no matter what they do, what does this little couple have to do with me, it's annoying.

He said, "Another question is getting married, who did you talk to?"

I said, bridesmaids. You have to make an appointment first. Let's see if he's willing to come. Then discuss the setup with the bridesmaids. Plus the bridesmaids are my brother-in-law's sisters. Then in order to prevent leaks, I told my prospective brother-in-law

He said, "Have you set a time?"

I said, very vaguely, I said if it's June

He said, we haven't discussed anything, and when the specific discussion is decided, you don't want it yet. You can say that you will be my bridesmaid when I get married, and say this to others. Because the time has not been set, you know

I said, it's okay

He said, including just now, I also want to say, because marriage is a matter for the two of us. Discussion, but also the two of us to fully agree, this issue, we have to discuss, completely in opinion, completely agreed, the two of us (really long-winded)

I said, we used to say it was 520, but then it became September 10, and then someone pushed the boat down the river

He said, you can't help but reach an agreement, then you just say it yourself, I don't know anything, mom came over again, you just like you sent that calendar in the group that night, mom saw this, you know?

I said, Oh my god, I think about her, she's not happy, that's nothing to say, that's nothing to say, I didn't mention it in June, oh oops, I can't accept it. (First, at that time, it was discussed, and the plan I sent was just a plan, not a final decision.) Second, the queen mother made it happen, but now it's mine, isn't it? ）

He said, "Can you, can you let me finish speaking."

I said, "Well, you say, you keep saying "let me speak", and there is no substance at all, you say

He paused

I said, just say the important things and don't add to the foreshadowing.

He said, I told my mother that the two of us didn't fully discuss the result, so I said to the group, because my mother would care about these things (isn't the group just family, a plan can't be said yet, what does the queen mother care about?? I don't understand)

I said, what the group said was not what I said, it was the queen mother who wanted to mention it, why do you seem to blame me now. You arrange it, and I'll participate.

He said, I didn't have time before, and I was busy yesterday, so I came to discuss with you in the evening

I said, what else to discuss with me, the date? The date depends on whether it is approved or not, and it is not negotiable anyway. What else do you have to discuss? Going to Fujian? I didn't say I wouldn't let you go.

He paused for a second and said, you are okay with everything, these things you sent me today, saying that you can't sleep at night, I saw that I was worried about it, you know?

I'm a little sad

He said, there are some things to think about slowly, and we will solve the problem step by step. How did you come up with this question, is it before I said how to do this wedding, step by step, is it that I said at home

I said, yes, I didn't say it was bad, it was the queen mother who told me, I don't have time after the New Year, can I do it on New Year's Day. If it is changed to you Ningbo, then agree to get a license to get married on New Year's Day, and she said that it is not May? I said not in May. She said no, June. I said June was a bit rushed. She said that you got the certificate in Ningbo. I asked my mom, and my mom agreed, and that's it

He said, I was very strange, you know, I went to a meeting that night, and I came to such a conclusion, and I wondered how it could have come to such a conclusion so quickly.

I said, the queen mother said that there is no time after October, and said that my mother used to say that when the New Year was over, she wanted to say that she was not available, but she didn't dare to say it.

He said, "Can we do this?" Can we do this? We are at the end of the year ... There is no time in the first half of this year, as I told you just now, in the second half of this year, I will involve the assessment of staying in the team, and I will not have time in the second half of the year, so I will reserve a long time to practice my physical fitness in the second half of the year, so there is no time in the second half of the year. The first half of the year is now March, and the time is three months before June, and the time is very tight. None of these materials have been approved, and the wedding is going to be held in June, and the time is tight, and the time is tight, right?

I said, and then (I held it for a long time before I finally heard him finish)

So my plan now is to postpone the wedding until the lunar year, he said. The wedding was postponed to the lunar year. Get the certificate this year, what do you see?

I said that the time between getting the certificate and the wedding was too long, and a month was already too much

He said, "Then we will get the certificate in the lunar year." Just plenty of time to deal with it. The two of us are in the army, the other is at home, although we live in Ningbo, but the two of us are basically contacted by phone, and there are some problems, we are not like my sister and brother-in-law are together, we can fully gather together (what problems need to be solved, what do you want to do now?). Don't we know each other as well as others? I don't understand)

I said, where are you going for the June holiday? You can't live here. This is cohabitation

He said, then I'll go home, I'll go back to Anhui on vacation, and my parents will be busy with the tomatoes until mid-June. When they are over, I will go to Ningbo with my father, and then I will go to Fujian with you

I said, then I'm going to ask my dad. In the lunar year, if it takes such a long time, it makes no sense to see him so early.

He said, how does it not make sense

I said, "See?" It's still the same as a fixed marriage, anyway, I've already seen it, so I don't have to go again

He said, "Then according to what you say, we won't go to Fujian this year?"

I said, "My dad doesn't need you to come."

He said, "Seriously, I really don't know if my uncle is dissatisfied or what, why he doesn't care about you or anything." For example, in Anhui, why is my uncle reluctant to come? You can come to Ningbo to come to Anhui, why can't you (you think Ningbo can, Anhui can do it, routine)

I said that if you don't plan to get a license, you don't need to see him, he is willing to see you, and it is only when I tell him that the wedding will be held in June, and he will say yes, and you can arrange it. Now back to square one.

He said, the wedding is too tight, no, no, I said these things, you are already in March, June, then these three months. Three months is because we didn't get anything, it's too tight, and like you said, if you talk about weddings, you can't find anyone, because of the epidemic, many marriages in the first half of this year have been canceled

I said, I don't want a wedding, I'll make it myself, and my renderings are all done. Anyway, if you don't want to get it, then pull it down,

He said, "Don't get married."

I said, I don't like weddings, I want to make it a little bit better (I make it better than a wedding)

He said, then don't look for a wedding, just do it at home, in Anhui.

I said, no, I don't, I'm going to go here so my parents can come. It was said that it was here, we have a wedding here, as long as the people in Ningbo participate, the relatives will go back to the wine and invite them to eat, the queen mother agreed, why did it become like this to you again, hold a small wedding, those friends and colleagues in Ningbo will come to it, a ceremony, don't want it for half a day.

He said, if you go home, you will just hold a banquet?

I said, yes, if you want to rush too much in June, you can do it in the lunar year. A small wedding is very simple to answer the things that can be solved in a weekend, don't pick up relatives, these things are very simple, why put so much pressure on yourself. As long as you are in early June, the two of us are free to take wedding photos, it doesn't matter if you are not free, and wedding photos do not have to be.

But we prepared all these things by then, and the materials didn't come down, he said. It always takes time for you to inform them

I said, I ask you when you will know the result

He said, May, isn't one month enough?

He said that before the vacation, if you say that before the vacation, you can do enough materials

I said, I think it's enough, too

He said that this material may not necessarily work well. If we can't do it, we won't be able to get a license, and we won't be able to implement everything.

I said, what's the matter with the implementation, anyway, I didn't find anyone, I'm just going to be here, I can do it, I can't do it.

He said, "My idea is to get married in the lunar year.

I said, just go and apply.

He said, it's useless to apply now, I can't get out now, I have to fill in the form, and I have to get it back and stamp it after I finish it. Someone from our unit is going to investigate your personal information, and I can't get it right now. I've forgotten all these things. I'm not saying I didn't ask, what's the process now? I go to the application first, hand the application to someone else, give it to someone else, and then someone else gives me the form. I filled out the marriage application form, handed the form to him, and he wanted to go out to investigate your information, go to the police station over there at your house, go to the police station over there in Fujian

I thought to myself, saying it so carefully, it didn't add complicated gifts, but I thought it was very simple. The political trial is in Ningbo, and my household registration is here.

He continued, what is a political and metallurgical review? When he comes back, he has to sort it out and summarize it. Feedback, if there is any other information to add, if there is anything else that needs to be added, I will add information again. Once all this information is complete, he will give me the medical examination form. The two of us are going to the hospital together for a physical examination. Then, I went to him again, and he stamped me, signed, and gave me a certificate that I could get married, and then I went out to get this marriage certificate with you

I said, you can do it again when you are on vacation, and you can go back to work when you are on vacation, right?

He said, you have to know that other people, their department has a department, not to say just do this one thing, just waiting for you to get married, yet. You are a warrior, they are cadres. You have to beg them to do something, they are happy to give you some time, and if they are unhappy, they will drag you down. (Five words are good: see the speed of doing things). That's why I say it's going to take a month at the earliest, you know?

I looked aggrieved

He said, ouch, if you are still aggrieved, will I bully you? We didn't discuss anything about you, so you just told others about these things, and in the end, you can't say it back, you can't take it back. I walked less than 10 minutes that Sunday night. When you come back, tell me that it's going to be June. I'm in a state of blindness, you know? So, on my mother's side, I'll tell my mom about getting married. After I discussed it with Lin Fang, I had a general idea, 80% of the results are out, and then I will tell you the specific situation. I have only one thing I want to tell you. Marriage is a matter for the two of us, the two of us discussed, you can't be like last time with your mother, the two of you will decide the matter of marriage, so what does it have to do with me, the groom? It doesn't matter.

I laughed, aggrieved again

He said that now it is too big. Without fully consulting with me, you made up your own mind, and didn't consider the actual situation on my side.

I said, "Think about it."

He said, he knew that if he had a problem with me, he would raise his mouth and pout, what should he do? I feel like I'm too embarrassed now. The two of you put this matter to rest, and my sister called me tonight to scold me

I said, what are you scolding for?

He said, does he think we look at the things you send and you send them? It's the things you posted in the group, she thought it was the result of a discussion between the two of us. She said that you two didn't discuss anything at any time, so she sent it out.

I said, "That's just a plan."

He said, and I'll tell you again, do you remember the last time I met my uncle and aunt, my aunt said that you can't marry two a year, and you forgot

I said, I haven't forgotten (it's rare for you to remember, the queen mother doesn't care) I should have gone back at that time, my mother said no, oops, no courage.

He said that this aunt's side must not allow disagreement.

I said, no, I deceived her with clever words, is it calculated according to the lunar calendar? It doesn't affect.

He said, you are like this, my aunt thinks I taught you to say it.

I didn't speak

He said, if I don't work overtime on a cloudy day, I will call my uncle and aunt on a cloudy day

I said, no.

He said that he hadn't called for so long and that he was going to make a call. Alas, it's okay, I'm going to do this as much as I can, okay, I'm going to do this as much as I can. Good things are grinding, not necessarily bad. You're fine, you're excited, you're happy, you're forgetting everything.

I laughed

He said, "On Sunday I said I was going to work overtime on Monday night, okay, you told them all, you tell them, you tell whom."

I said, Jiujun, Aijun, the whole family, Apo

He said that not the whole office knows about it (office, Liu Pinxian is still on the sixth day of the lunar New Year)

I said, no, just Apo

He said, it's okay, it's okay. Huixia is also considered to be in her own family. Aiqiong Jiujun asked her sister to help out again when the time came, and said (what's serious, and your sister came forward, I eat white rice?) ）

I said, no, I will

He said, "How did you send them a message?" You can send it to me, and show me the screenshot.

He looked at it and said, this is fine. I teach you

I said, I don't need you to teach me, I know it myself. Don't want you to teach. Everyone knows how changeable I am.

He said,I'm the most uncomfortable right now.,It's that I asked you what you think.,You said you don't have an idea.。。 You don't tell me anything, you're over there with cranky ideas, whimsical ideas. (inexplicably funny) After thinking about it, he didn't ask me if this was okay, so he told others.

I said, put out the fire, you hurry up and put out the fire

He said, I'm telling you now, you don't want to look like you don't care.

I said, it doesn't matter how it looks.

He said, "I'll tell you, what do you think, we'll discuss it later?"

I said, then you can't decide.

He said, let them go first, don't rush back to them first. There is a way to think about the problem. It's already happened, can we just fix it? (The problem is not that I can't get it back if I say it, I can settle it in two minutes.) What annoys me is that I want to finish it quickly so that my conscience can be at peace. ）

I said, how did I eat a dynamite? Timed.

He said, your expression makes me very unhappy, and it doesn't matter

I said, how could I? No, it won't

He said, don't look like you don't care

I said, I just don't understand.

He said, forget it, don't talk about it so much, I'll wait for the next name, and now there is not much electricity

I said, hang it if you want to hang it, and explain so much.

And he said, What about you? If you feel like I'm not right, you can make a call.

I said, you're right.

He said, forget it, so as not to quarrel, I'll hang up first.

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I chatted with Rong Hua and told everyone that the review might not be done, and the time would be determined. Everybody said yes. I chatted with Rong Hua about the military sister-in-law, love flowers, masks and something. The little prince called, and I hung her up.

He laughed haha.

I think it's funny too.

He said, "Who are you talking to?"

I said, bridesmaids.

He said, "You didn't buy that dress last time?"

I said, no, how can I wear that dress, I will wear it the year after tomorrow.

He said, "I'll tell you, I'll tell you that there are styles of clothes every year,

I said, I don't care about that, we can lead the way (don't follow the trend)

He said, who are the bridesmaids

I said, Ronghua

He said, Is it like a flower?

I said, no, there are love flowers, wind flowers, and beautiful flowers.

And he said, What have they said?

I say, say bad things about others, women talk to women, you say bad things about others

And he said, "Say me."

I said, no, said that Wu Aihua had spent

He said, you don't panic, you know,

I said, yes

He said, "When you speak, your eyes will look up involuntarily."

I said, yes, haha

He said, there are three things I want to tell you, first, I will get the materials for the certificate, when will it be done, and when will we get the certificate. If I don't get it right when I'm on vacation, I'll push it back. Second, about holding a small wedding, this thing is not very good, this idea is not very good, I say don't be unhappy

I said, our whole family feels good.

He said, "Your whole family thinks well." This idea is really not presentable, how can there be a wedding separated by several paragraphs

I said, how not? Where there are several short, there are only two paragraphs.

He said, don't tell me, I don't think this idea is good, I'm a man, you have to listen to me, I don't think this idea is suitable. I am your husband, I am the future head of the family, you have to listen to me. Unless you convince me. (I dislike this set of rhetoric, this kind of rhetoric, women say yes, men say, it makes people rebel.) In the original Bible, the woman loves her husband as Lord, and the man loves his wife as himself. But you can't ask her to say, 'Submit to me as to the Lord,)

It's over, now it's up to you to listen to you (don't talk about the queen mother)

He said that the wedding matter, we will arrange it in the future, and improve it little by little, just like we write a paper, and the question of whether to get married in Ningbo or to my hometown in Anhui will be discussed with my uncle when I go to Fujian this time

I shook my head and said it was useless

He said, don't shake your head with me, what are you shaking? Materials and everything, you have to plan slowly. I will try my best to convince my aunt and uncle

I said, no. I know you don't want to force them. They won't go to Anhui.

He said, "I'll do my best." I haven't washed yet, I haven't made my bed yet.

I said,Anyway, there's no romance.,I know.,Hey.,If you want to listen to you, listen to you.。。 (The jar is broken, and it can only be done in Ningde)

He said that there is also a brother-in-law in the family, and he specializes in weddings

I said, no, I don't like weddings

He said, no, we can add our favorite elements to it, just like writing a thesis. This is our wedding, and we are both planning for the two of us, not that you are the only one who makes the idea.

I said, I definitely don't want to go back to home, because it's not romantic at all, except by the river. Second, the ceremony of the hotel, the meals are too expensive, and the queen mother definitely doesn't like it. So pass. I like this place in Ningbo, I like it here, and I will be here in the future.

He said, but I'm not from Ningbo

I said, how are you not. If you don't have a hukou, you are from Ningbo

He said, you have to feel that you don't want to get married in Hexian anymore, you want to be in Ningbo. You didn't listen to me at all, what do your eyes look at?

I said, what can I see, I'm so nervous that I can't look at you, I can only look at other things, just knock on it.

He said, I really don't know, if you discuss this matter like this, how to deal with these problems?

I said that it could not be handled, because there was no way to negotiate the position. (I want Ningbo, you want Anhui.) You want your relatives to participate, and I want your relatives to participate. If my relatives in Anhui don't come, your relatives in Ningbo can't come. I want a Western-style style, you want a local taste. I can accept three places and three times, romance and economy, you want to force my parents to go to Anhui at one time. ）

He said, what is the position is not negotiable, do you mean I can understand that the two of us don't need to get married, our positions are still different

I said, yes

He said, "I may have said something heavy." What does it mean to have a different position

I said, you said I want to listen to you, you are a man I want to listen to you, then what position do I have, I have no position.

He said, I think the two of us, this thing is not very, you said just these few people. Weddings are meant to be lively. (I don't have a loved one's wedding, it's called lively.) The fourth position is different, you want your liveliness, regardless of my loneliness)

I said, no, didn't you notice that your relatives were there? It's good that relatives want to come to Ningbo, but my parents won't go to Anhui anyway

He said, to tell you the truth, Ningbo does not have any relatives.

I said, don't talk nonsense, your parents, your sister and brother-in-law, isn't your great uncle Ningbo? (Besides, you know a few relatives in your hometown, and you can't tell the difference between relatives and relatives, and you are still confused here) You don't know who your relatives are.

He said, "No, you have to raise a bar with me, do you?" Can you not be like this, do you have to do this? I don't think it's good for you to talk like this, let's use the issue of negotiation

I said, why do you have to be told by others, your relatives want to watch it, and it's not like a segment or something? Can you be a little creative (even my mom and dad can accept it)

After a few seconds of stopping, I said, then the hotel. Don't be rural. (I think your hotel will cost money, so I separate, you don't think about my wedding, then spend money).

He said, don't be rural, right? What does the rural style look like? Have you experienced? Tell me about it?

I said, ask your mother

He said, no, you tell me what is rural?

I said, once you said that you liked the marriage scene like Aihana. (I thought we were like-minded) and then after all these months, you completely forget

He said, "Don't talk about him left or right." You tell me what a rural wedding is

I said, except for that kind of scene, it was a rural wedding.

He said, what kind of rural wedding have you experienced that makes you so disgusted, how many have you been to (how many have I been, don't you know?) ）

I said, I've been through a lot. In addition to loving flowers, there is also a pin in the church, which is not rural

He said, "If you say that you build a table and put a cross at home, I can accept it, but let me go to church, I can't accept it."

I said, I don't think it's possible either. I just feel like when you tell me that you're going the same way with me, I'm moved like that, as if it's a little too fast, that's how it feels.

He said, you are moved too quickly, what is the matter

I said, you're going to wash up.

He didn't go

I said, I know this now, what I like you don't like.

He said, "I don't like what you like."

I didn't speak.

He said, all your stuff is wishful thinking on your part, you know?

I said, yes, I've found out.

He said, I said before, all things, the two of us need to negotiate and discuss. One conclusion is that his bad factors are in it, and we need to change them.

I said, "Can I take the second path?" After receiving the certificate, go to Ningde for a wedding.

He said, "Hey, aren't you going too far?"

I said I could only do it where I lived, or where my mom and dad lived. My parents won't go to Anhui either.

He said that I would try my best to let them go to Anhui

I said, why do you send your daughter to someone else's door, why do you send your daughter to someone else's door? We are different from you, you can send your daughter to a large number of people and go by yourself, we can't do that, your daughter goes out by herself, no one sends her to someone's door and comes back by herself.

He said, according to what you say, then in Fujian, your father and second sister got married (it turns out that you and your mother both questioned this)

I said, in Ningde, my parents will go, if it is my hometown, they will not go to the joint organization OK. Hometown, I can't die.

He said, can you stop what you are doing and stop writing

I said, I didn't write anything at all, I don't look at you, I said because I can't look at you, your face is so bitter. You go wash up.

He said, "That's in Ningbo."

I said, yes

He said that all the relatives came to stay in the hotel (angry words, see if you don't feel sorry for the money. ）

I said, yes (angry words, you are willing to give up, I am reluctant)

He said, "Let's do it in Ningbo."

I said, if you want your hometown, it's okay, anyway, I just have one request, just go to Ningde to do it first, I will retreat to the second, it doesn't matter.

He said, "Do you need it?"

I said, so, our wedding, what are you thinking about your relatives in Anhui, what are your relatives, have you considered my family. And then you say I'm going to listen to you.

I cried straight away.

He said, don't cry, I'm not good, I shouldn't lose my temper with you. Don't cry. Don't cry, it's not good to cry, it's not good to look at your eyes.

I couldn't help but say, I considered the romance I wanted in this plan, and I considered waiving the cost of your hotel, and then going back to Anhui to do a small one downstairs, don't your relatives in Anhui know that the two of us are married? Isn't drinking in Anhui? In Ningbo, my parents will come to the wedding again, why not? A small wedding, isn't it okay?

One thing you have to take into account, he said, is that the wedding and the banquet themselves go together

I said, there are many examples that can be separated

And he said, "Ah, you know, our family is all rural after all, and we've never had this kind of wedding, you know?" Holding a banquet means that people want money and watch the wedding.

I said that customs need to change, and that there is no progress in blindly inheriting old traditions

He said, I said, the two of us stay in Ningbo, I can't get in touch with them, but my father and mother will go back

I said, didn't you come to Ningbo? Why do they have anything to do with it?

He said, this is the sophistication of human feelings. It's not a one-and-a-half. It's not that I'm angry with you tonight, I'm going to lose my temper with you. We can't ignore anyone we don't want to ignore.

I said, then it's done downstairs, it's good to go back and do it, (they want to see the ceremony, show them) there is no cost to do it twice, I will bear all these expenses downstairs, my parents can bear it, as long as they are willing to come to the wedding, right?

He said, yes.

I said, "Wouldn't that be good?" I burst into tears and said with a smile, colleagues from Ningbo, girlfriends, parents come to Ningbo, they don't have to go to Anhui when they leave, and then we will go to Anhui to do it again. Because my dream has been fulfilled.

He said, "Aha, I'm telling you, you're really like a child, and now you're laughing again." Don't talk about these things all at once, talk to that

I said, you are not here during the day, people are so excited, who do you say?

He said, "Hold back."

I said, hold it all the time, and it exploded.

He said, "Ritual or something, we have to discuss it slowly, and I'm going to make the bed now." (9:27 a.m.)

I said, I have all the renderings. I'll show you the picture, I'll show you. Don't move for a minute, don't move for a minute, 10 seconds, look at it and then go, I withdraw, did you see it?

He said, crying a moment and laughing a little, little child. See, it's good, go to bed early

I said, okay.

As usual, Rose kiss, good night