Chapter 386: Don't Lose Yourself
"What do we do now? Do you want to continue to travel here? Two of us? After Ding Liang's back disappeared, Yi Kexin stood there, looking at Wang Yan with a melancholy expression, a hundred unhappy and reluctant in his heart. She actually doesn't know what's wrong with her mother, the older she gets, the more she looks like a child, just take herself to act with her, and bring a Ding Liang to accompany her. This brain circuit?
What the hell did she think? has been using the same set as when she was young to trick the young people of today? People who are dozens of years old don't know how to write the word steady?
Even if it is for the sake of the happiness of the children, you have to think about whether it is reliable to do this.
"We are still according to the original plan, I have now figured it out, success depends on your own hard work, dignity to rely on your own ability to have, instead of to climb the high branches of others, their own down-to-earth, step by step to earn back the money, is the most reliable, in the future, your business, I don't care, you want to be an old aunt can also, as long as you are happy, you can afford to raise yourself, before, my mother did too outrageous, imposed her own will on you, now, I can see through, what is the purpose of human life? It's not just for the sake of your inner peace and happiness, you can't be dominated by money, and you can't be led by money. β
At what second Wang Yan had an epiphany, even she couldn't tell the difference, but this kind of mature thinking made Yi Kexin reminisce.
She stared at her with a pair of beautiful eyes, "If I were an old woman and didn't have a bench to sit on, in the future, you wouldn't blame me?" After she finished speaking, her eyes still blinked.
Wang Yan showed a very flat appearance, but her voice was firm, "As long as you have a full heart and be an old aunt, it doesn't matter." It's like my dad and I, I've been arguing all my life, I've been arguing all my life, and I don't know what it's for, I haven't really lived for myself all my life, I've been arguing all day long, pulling and pulling, and there are no emotional things. I also figured it out, in this life, there is really no need to tie your whole life to marriage, there are many more and better things to do, hey. Wang Yan's last deep sigh made Yi Kexin's heart go up and down.
She just didn't understand that this conservative housewife who was shouting about her family every day, clamoring to get married, and if she didn't get married, she would be an old aunt, and she didn't have a bench to sit on, suddenly changed her thinking.
"Are you serious? Actually, I don't want to get married for my mother's sake, I don't want to passively enter into marriage. I want to get married for whom, I don't want to get married for a bench, I don't want to get married for money, I want to get married for myself, when there is a person who makes me feel that he is really reliable, has the same three views, and is not uncomfortable with each other, you can consider getting married. This is the first time that Yi Kexin has been so open in front of her mother so clearly.
In the past, she always felt that her mother was an imaginary enemy, deliberately planning her life all the time, and she didn't have much ability, but she imposed any hope on her, forcing her to keep turning like a spinning top.
Therefore, I used to disdain to say a few more words to my mother, and sometimes I didn't want to talk to her all day. I feel very tired from talking to her, and I can't breathe.
In her mother's life, her life was ordinary, full of scum, and even looked down on by the people around her, so she once lived a very depressed life, and it was because of this that she kept nagging, unwilling to accept the current fate, but she couldn't get rid of it, and there was a resentment when she said it, so Yi Kexin was very afraid of her at that time.
"I'm serious. From now on, I no longer care about your personal life, I suddenly feel that I actually need you to guide, your cognition is far more than me, you don't follow me, when I was young, I was completely indulged in the pleasure of being pursued by men and women, seventeen or eighteen years old should have been in the age of struggle, and chose marriage with the flow, but I didn't think to learn some knowledge to arm myself, and I didn't think to improve myself, so that I became poorer and poorer later, but I was helpless, and always restrained myself in the traditional way, Rural girls are not married at the age of twenty, that is, no one wants, is intimidated by these rules and regulations, but does not have their own opinions and thoughts, and later after getting married, they blindly rely on their husbands, thinking that they can be prosperous and rich with him, and have never thought that they want to plant this seed of happiness in their own bodies, so, when they are old, they are poor, and they have no ability at all, I think, in fact, I am ashamed of you, I am now afraid that my thoughts will affect you, today, The reason why I called you out is actually a lot of determination, I don't want you to marry into the Lu family in the future, look at his mother's eyes every day, I don't want you to marry somewhere else in the future, the family depends on you to survive, so I will take you out, this annual leave, only me and you. Wang Yan said so much in one breath.
These should also be regarded as a summary of his life.
Yi Kexin was a little unaccustomed to it, her mother suddenly became like this, and she was very panicked.
"Knock knock!" The phone rang, it was my father.
Yi Kexin immediately swiped across the phone screen and answered the call.
"Yi Kexin, our people, all bought plane tickets and went to Guilin to find you, because just now your brother sent a message, saying that you went to Guilin, where are you, don't turn off your mobile phone......" Dad's voice seemed to have aged a lot overnight, he was a person who couldn't bear too many things, a little fragile, a little thing, it would make him unrelenting and frightened.
Wang Yan didn't wait for Lao Yi to finish speaking, and snatched the mobile phone in Yi Kexin's hand, "What are you doing here with them?" Aren't we allowed to go out and play together? What the hell are they, they didn't hire someone to protect the matchmaker, they didn't get officially engaged, and his mother still wanted our daughter to get out of the game every now and then, such a family, just because she has money, are you going to accept them? I can tell you, I, Wang Yan, don't want my daughter to marry out and suffer hardship, why should I return it to the rich, so many people who have no money in the world will starve to death in the end? What about marrying a rich man? The money you get without relying on yourself is not spent happily after all; If you have to rely on yourself to struggle, why should you marry him and make them look down on ......"
Lao Yi hung up the phone decisively before Sister M came over.
A woman's phone call is enough for him to be annoyed, and he brings a woman over, he just doesn't want to live, in this world, the most difficult thing is these middle-aged women who are older and think they can see through life.
Sister M pursed her mouth, saying that she was very upset, she felt that Lao Yi turned off the phone when she saw her coming.
Lao Lu didn't care about these details at all, he put things in the car and got into the car with the others.
Lao Yi didn't say his wife's attitude, he didn't care about Wang Yan's attitude at all, the two of them have lived together for so many decades, and they have long had a tacit understanding that they don't trust each other and don't get used to each other.
Wang Yan didn't expect Lao Yi to hang up his phone like that, and his teeth itched with hatred, "Look at it, look at it, your father's old immortal dared to hang up my phone, it's really annoying, in this life, I have followed him for decades, I really don't know what to do with him, when I was young, I looked at a few letters he wrote, a few maple leaves and a few acacia beans in his collection, and I was so moved that I didn't want to, hey, I was poisoned by love at that time, if it were now, I would not only be moved by him to send me a few love letters, Give me a few acacia beans, and I will definitely investigate whether this man is self-motivated or not, and how self-motivated he is? Is it a worker maniac who is bent on work, or an idle opportunist...... "Mom has been chattering there, anyway, in this life, she has never married the right person, just looking at her appearance, not looking at the substance, which makes her life so miserable now."
Yi Kexin didn't speak, just stared at her obliquely.
Today, she should have dressed up a lot, wearing this fake mink that Yi Kexin bought for her, the style design of this dress is very good-looking, and the neckline setting is also perfect, but it is worn on Wang Yan......
Yi Kexin looked at the person who matched this dress, and felt a little emotion in her heart.
Wang Yan also felt that Yi Kexin was looking at herself, and suddenly said, "I'm strange, after getting off the plane for so long, except for your father who gave you a call, the rest of the time, your mobile phone is stationary?" Tell me, they don't nervous about you because you haven't been home for so long? No one is nervous about you? β
Yi Kexin glanced at her phone, which had dozens of missed calls.
She didn't tell Wang Yan about this, but replied lightly, "Your daughter is very rich, she still works hard, she still has work in the company today, and she didn't go to work, why do you want to call your daughter, do you think your daughter is amazing, your daughter is just an employee, a fishing girl, don't swell up first." Yi Kexin gave her mother a preventive shot first, and now she is really just a girl, but there are infinite possibilities in the future, as long as she is willing to work hard.
"Knock knock," Yi Kexin had just finished speaking, and his phone rang violently.
It was Lu Tingfei's call.
As soon as he got off the plane, he turned on his phone.
Then, he saw Ding Liang who took the boarding pass from there.
Before he had time to say hello to Ding Liang, he first called Yi Kexin urgently, "Hey, where are you now?" Your brother Yi Keyun and I just arrived at the airport, you said it's funny, I also saw Ding Liang, I thought he would be with you, I didn't expect it, he was alone at the airport, and he probably just got his boarding pass. β
Lu Tingfei said as he summoned a look with Ding Liang.
Wang Yan heard the phone and immediately leaned over.
Yi Kexin took the opportunity to hand her the phone so that she could listen carefully. Wang Yan looked at Yi Kexin cautiously, hesitated for a second, and decisively dodged away.
In the end, she still didn't dare to answer her daughter's phone call without permission.
"Is Ding Liang gone? If he doesn't leave, you can bring him over, and we'll spend it together this year. Yi Kexin took the initiative to invite.
Today's incident was completely done by Wang Yan alone.
It's an outrageous thing.
She felt sorry for them.
Wang Yan relied on them to like herself, and she got carried away.
Yi Kexin can't always follow her, get carried away, until now, she is just a small working girl, she can't get ahead, although there are some episodes, she has done some things within her ability, but now she has long forgotten about it.
Lu Tingfei didn't cover the microphone, and asked Ding Liang directly, "Yi Kexin asked you not to leave, stay, and play with us, okay?" If it's convenient, call your mom and dad too? β
Ding Liang smiled and didn't say anything, just shook his head decisively.
In fact, he has his own plan in his heart.
You can't run around Lu Ting all day long and forget about your own business.
"Ding Liang refuses to come over, maybe he has his own business, you send a position, and your brother and I will rush over." Lu Tingfei's purpose was just to see Yi Kexin earlier, and the move made by Wang Yan today made him so nervous, he was actually afraid that this time it would be like watching the sunrise at the North Pole last time, he didn't want the same thing to happen many times.
Whether it was tempting or real, he didn't want to go through it again.
"Then I'll go first." Ding Liang actually booked a ticket to someone else's place today, but after receiving a call from Wang Yan, he changed his itinerary.
Later, when he learned that Wang Yan was just making a farce, at that time, his mood was very complicated and uncomfortable. With his usual character, he would definitely scold Wang Yan very badly, but in the end, for Yi Kexin's sake's sake, he still held back, after all, her daughter's character is still good, and he can't be as knowledgeable as an old man like her.
"Let's go," Lu Tingfei turned his head again after speaking, "I know what you're going to do, but I can remind you that those rural areas are not easy to find, and, moreover, if you choose someone else, if you regret it in the future, you won't be able to live with many people, there are some cultural differences, personality differences, three views are not compatible, you have to think about these things clearly, I admire your courage to chase love, but, it is estimated that the ending will be difficult." β
Yi Keyun didn't know why, and glared at the boss with a pair of good-looking eyes, "What, Ding Liang is going to the countryside, which countryside to go to, that, what, seal, seal, seal, what orchid, you are all crazy, those poor and remote places, very partial, don't lose yourself, in the end, not only will you lose people, but you are also afraid that you will lose your life." You don't look at my mother, dozens of years old, what kind of heartbeat is she playing, one person escorts two people to Guilin, if we don't come, the three of you will lose your life, isn't it, what kind of system? You can't learn from my mother, it's so naΓ―ve, you really want to go, or if you go with the people in your family, you go one by one, in case you meet someone like my mother, who says that he wants a matchmaker, that he wants to get engaged, and that he wants his parents to make a dowry in person, then it will be troublesome. After Yi Keyun finished speaking, he looked at Ding Liang, "Don't roll your eyes, the elderly in those villages are much more feudal than my mother." β