Chapter 11: Talking Late into the Night

20200828 Friday until late at night

5:30 xxx, 7 o'clock

In the morning, when the little prince was in bed, I said that I would make breakfast and wait for him to get up before making dumplings. First, the boiled eggs were steamed, and the chicken rice was heated.

The little prince stood guard from 7 to 9 o'clock, ate his breakfast, and we hugged him and went out.

It seems to have gone a little early, the video lasted for 3 minutes, I ate chaos and watched a talk show. One Yang Mengen said it was quite funny.

For example, Party A and Party B have to treat Party A as a grandson, not a grandfather, in order to take good care of it. For example, he has the blessing of not having earlobes. Such as tags, and thank you.

I saw Yang Li's man's blind self-confidence again, and sent gifts to his girlfriend with a big country. There is also a joke about the thin man of the twins combined.

At lunchtime, the little prince was practicing at the driving school, and I ordered takeout for him. After I rested, I brushed up on the kindergarten teacher questions.

The little prince has been practicing driving, and at 4:41, he asked me: I came back from the driving school, how did you eat at noon, do you want to come back together to cook or I will do it first

I said, I'm happiest that the little prince came to pick me up from work. Hahaha. Forget it, you've worked hard too. Go back and rest. Cook and eat together in the evening. I make egg burgers. There is an egg burger artifact at home

He said, "Do you have an umbrella?" It's raining. It's pretty big

I said, no. But I have a small umbrella. You don't use it.

He said, okay, I'll buy some potatoes.

So we called and discussed making an egg burger at night. At half past five, I went home on time. The little prince rested in the living room, waiting for Ding Dong to come. The little prince told me that there was a person in the driving school who preached the gospel to him today, and talked about the miracle of suddenly knowing Japanese, the different factions, and the miracle of the disappearance of the dark green, and the revelation that he saw a doctor who could cure the sick, and saw an angel or something.

I kind of disagree with some of his notions, but the sickness and angels are really there. I was hungry and started tinkering with milk gelatin tablets. The little prince continued to say the man's strange remarks.

I had a little back pain, so the little prince massaged me, and he even kneaded the skin. Ding Dong came, we started cooking, the egg burger did a very failure, there was no baking powder, and I threw it away 1 month ago. We failed to cook, ate the egg burger, and went out to eat. I went to the cafeteria and ordered two dishes and a bottle of wine.

I took the little prince to Yintai, and the little prince took my hand, and he was going to call his sister.

He didn't get through, he kept looking at his phone. It rained halfway through, so I had to turn back. Halfway through, the rain stopped, and the little prince refused to go any further, so we had to go home.

I played the piano and he urged me to take a shower. I went to take a shower. At this time, he and his sister were on the phone. The two of them talked about the wall layout of their hometown, the driving school or something. I took a shower, and before he finished playing, I washed my clothes. Before I finished it, I went to the living room, took my mobile phone, and went to the room to listen to the song and answer the questions by myself.

He got ready, went to the room, and said, what are you doing?

I said coldly, brush the question.

He said, "Why is there a song?"

I said, yes.

He said, "Why don't you ignore me?"

I said, you are naturally reasonable.

He said, "You are like this, I will take a bath."

(No relief, just left.) Very good.. )

After taking a shower, he went to the living room to play by himself, and I went to the kitchen to drink water, and turned off the lights to sleep.

While he was sleeping, he came in and said, let's talk about what's going on.

I said, nothing.

He said, "What are you going to do?"

I said that I was not used to him calling like this, and he said that their family did not get along in the same way as we did.

I said he urged me to take a shower and immediately called.

He said he deliberately turned on hands-free so that I could listen to it too.

I just want him to change the way he talks on the phone.

He said, I've been like this for so many years, do you want to be a loner because you don't contact others? Am I bad with you, I usually call you for two or three hours. Am I playing less? I've been playing for 21 minutes and 49 seconds today, and I haven't carried you on my back, I'm on the speaker. I really can't figure out why.

I told the reason, and he said that I was jealous and I could distinguish the object.

I said he wouldn't change me even a bit.

There's nothing wrong with him saying he's not white.

I said, do you want to listen to the recording?

He said, "Okay." If you take it out, you will be more serious, and I will be more serious with you. You can even send it to the eldest sister and the second sister. If they say there's something wrong with me, I'll admit it. However, from now on, the two of us also have something to say, and forget about it. I'll say something, you still record

I said, I've been recording it, okay.

He said, "Put it on."

I said, I can't listen to it, this recording is too long, I started recording it after work, and I want to take a screenshot.

He said, it's okay, you can put it.

I let it go and said, that's it, I can't hear anything clearly.

He said, "You can record with me all day long, right?" Am I a prisoner? Where do I not care about you anymore? 、

I said, I feel like an adult, and I speak like an adult. You and I can snort, no problem. Others can't.

He said, you have a lot of problems, can't you come back and rest and sleep? Come, call your second sister now to see if what you say makes sense

I said, people don't have to sleep, huh?

He said, OK, cloudy day asked.

I said, I can't stand you guys talking. Is there something that can't be said? Isn't it okay to chat in a group?

That's the pattern of your house, he said. As soon as he said it, he lowered his head.

I said, you are so disgusted, just don't look at it. (I'm walking to the living room)

He came over, turned on the fan for me and said, you feel wronged, when you quarrel with me, will you feel that I am wronged in my heart? Only the governor is allowed to set fires, and the people are not allowed to light lamps, and you make this request to me, have I made a request to you? Have you had enough trouble? I'm coming to Ningbo

I said, it's my sister's credit.

He said, if you say these cool things again, I really don't want to pay attention to you anymore, I will be patient and tell you well tonight. I didn't call every once in a while.

I said, then why do you call as soon as I go to the shower.

He said, "That's what I picked up." I'm talking to you in person.

I said, don't talk to my face.

He said, I said it out and made people laugh to death. You're going to do this, I'm going back to sleep.

After twenty minutes, he came out and said, "What are you doing lying here?"

I said, you're angry again, what am I going to do when I go back?

He said, you did something wrong, and you want me to come out and coax you. I waited twenty minutes, and that's what you are. Yes.

He went back again, and I went in too.

I said, I just want you to change your tone.

He said that if I talk to a female colleague like this, you say me, I will change. I've been calling like this for twenty-seven years.

I said, "Then you can go on for seventy-two years."

He said, if you are like this, in the future, your own child will stick to me, will you also be jealous?

I said, yes.

He said, "Are you embarrassed to say it?" If you take this thing out on a cloudy day and listen to it, I won't believe it, I'll fight with you today, and if you let me know in the future that you can take a recording of me, or the content of what my family says, I'll deal with it for you.

I said, I'm on all day long, it's just my ears.

He started looking at his phone. After I prayed, I went and hugged him. He wouldn't.

He said, "You forgot what the queen mother said to you that day." Take a look at my chat history for yourself, August 23rd is on vacation, you have also read the blessings you sent to me on August 18, the 16th is the chat history you sent to your sister, and the 1st is making dumplings on Army Day. That's less than half an hour in total

I said, I haven't had it for half a year.

He said, you can't ask you to chat with your brother, like me. It's not fair to both of us. My sister asked us to go to Cicheng to help, what did I say, I want to accompany my wife. Twenty-one minutes at night, you can't stand it? You tell me why you can't stand it. Do I spend less time with you every day? I don't care whether I'm at work or at home, do I spend less time with you? Call for an hour and a half every night in the unit, there is it. At home. You work during the day. WeChat has never been broken. What do you not be satisfied with? Do you want me to be all about you and not associate with others? I ask you so, have you done it?

I said, I have done it, when a woman marries, she only has her husband in her heart.

He said, I tell you everything, you are still messing around, the burden of the family, I don't have pressure? Can I solve it in this way, you don't let me smoke, you don't let me play games, I just chat a little easier, can't you? You yourself said that you want to have two children in the future, so would you like to see the two children ignore each other without asking? I make you feel the warmth of family

I said, I don't decently such warmth

He said, you always have such an attitude, you have always been unable to handle such a relationship.

I said, what if I talk to my brother like this while you're taking a shower?

He said, "Then I might have interjected." Ask who you're calling with. Then say hello. That's the difference between you and me.

He coughed.

I said, can you speak as calmly as I do.

He said, "Can I be at peace when I see you like this?" I'll ask you, how many friends do you have in Ningbo over the years?

I said, my friends are all back. There are only churches.

He said that people are one by one, and they must have associations. Dad said, with such a slamming personality and such a tone of voice, your road will only get narrower and narrower, and the two of us will be alone in the future. The circle of friends blocked everyone, and when the time came, let everyone like it, why did you say that people like you, you do things yourself, you don't know that there are these problems, I will tell you well, you still do your own thing. Never rely on things that have been, and don't allow others to eat you. Friends come out of nowhere. You posted on Moments, how many people said they were coming to the wedding?

I said, "Well, yes." What about you

He said, "I have three."

I said, I'm far away.

He said, don't mention that it's not far away, you don't have it. You're going to weddings all over the world. I don't want to punch you in the face, you know. Then let me ask you, is Hubei far away, my sister is married, and Sister Candy is here like this

I said that she was not married, so she didn't have to drag her family with her.

He said, where are so many excuses? The month of love is December 25, so can you come in the first month?

I said, no, okay? Do confinement too.

He said, your best friend got married, you worked in Ningbo, and you asked for leave to attend the wedding at the company, and when you got married, they said that Anhui was too far away. People treat you like a fool.

I said, no!! I'm sad to say that. At least the character is good.

He said, I don't know about her, I don't know. I thought that after I got married to you, I could teach you these things slowly, and let you change them little by little, but you have always been like this, and the road is getting narrower and narrower. You can say whatever you want outside, and you don't need to disguise yourself at home. When you should cry, you will cry, you will be angry, and you will no longer be angry after you have spoken, I am reasoning to you. You're not a seventeen-year-old kid who just fell in love, can you think rationally?

I said, I'm sorry, I'm sorry.

He said, how many sorry words have you said to me in the past ten days?

I said, I make too many mistakes, and I don't make the same mistakes every day.

He said that people get along with each other in different ways.

I said, "Well, I'm going to have to have a process of accepting habits." I haven't heard you call like this, okay, you called in the unit before, and I couldn't hear it.

He said, I brought you with me when I talked about everything, and then when I talked about driver's license, you didn't go to learn, how could I bring you? Three days of fishing, two days of drying nets. Such a good opportunity at night, but you don't take advantage of it. It's better for you to chat in the group and say a hundred words, than to say a word on the phone at night. I've never asked you to do anything for me, and today I'm going to make the first and probably the last one to you.

I said, got it. It's that famous quote again...

He said, I'll tell you, if you call your brother today, I come out of the shower, I will come over and interject a few sentences, this is called the interaction between people, my father often says that I can't be a person and can't do things, I find that you can't do it.

I said, I'll go to the living room to get my phone, and you don't hold me, and I'll call there alone

He said, you have a problem with your brain, you will be married for ten or twenty years in the future, I will make a phone call and come over to hold your hand, how old are you, you are not a seventeen or eighteen-year-old girl who has just fallen in love, can you be more mature. You are now taking the kindergarten teacher, how can you be a teacher with your character, the student is a little naughty, and he will immediately get angry, how can you be a teacher.

I said, "I'm not going to be angry."

He said, "If you're a little clever tonight, I'm on the phone, and you come over and say that you're coming back so late, and it's better to say a word of concern than anything." You have a pimple in your heart, I have been calling like this for so many years, you don't believe you are going to ask on a cloudy day.

I said, I'm not interested in your past.

He said, "You don't know my past."

I said, I'm going to look at our future.

He said, you don't have self-confidence in your own heart, and I try my best to give you confidence, accommodating once, twice, three times. Then let me ask you again, why did the children come to the party when my sister was at home in the past, but now you live here, and people don't come

I said, because of the epidemic

He said that the epidemic has been a long time.

I said, I don't know,

He said, you can't play with them, before I came back from vacation, I also knew to buy some fruit for them, and occasionally go to the party.

I said, you are polite.

He said that this is the interaction between people and people. Do you receive so many likes, did one of you take the initiative to come to the wedding?

I said, the roommates are all out of town. Married married, pregnant.

He said, in this society, you can't support it alone, you are very comfortable, take care of yourself, eat enough alone, and the whole family is not hungry, don't you feel lonely.

I said, there is a little prince who is not lonely

And he said, What about when there is no me

I said, watch Korean dramas, run and sleep. Have a vacation to play with friends.

He said, "Has anyone come to Ningbo to see you?"

I said, yes. Meiying also cooked for me.

He said, "You have a big face." They will also cook for you. And let me tell you, you don't have to close the doors and windows at home. It's normal to live at home and make a fire to cook, something dirty. When you go to the kitchen at night, you say, look how dirty this window is, I'm your husband, it's okay, if a friend comes, what do you mean by that.

I said, just say there's ash, I'll wipe it.

He said that if a guest comes and you start cleaning, this is to drive people away

I said, "Do I have that?"

He said, not that you have this, but to remind you. For example, when you go to work, your boss asks you to do the work of other colleagues, and you do it, and you tell others that it is thankless to do this work.

I said, "What are you talking about?" He said, I'm talking about the workplace. Do you have any experience in the workplace for so many years? I don't see it at all. Go to work and leave work every day. I'll say something nasty, you're no different from the walking dead. I want you to do it and keep it in mind. I work in the workplace, and when I come home, I want to relax, and what to do, home is a haven of relaxation.

I said, "Can you relax with me?"

He said, "I'm also relaxed with you." What is called family is what makes you relax. The person you just met will not be exposed in front of him, and you will know what kind of character you have after you understand it. Am I comfortable with a stranger? Tell him how much money he has in the family and how many rooms he has?

I said, no.

He said that it is different from the people in the family, there is one to say one, and there is two to say two.

I said, I can't say it all, I don't report good news.

He said, reporting good news or not bad news is another aspect, see for yourself, is it easy for the second sister? But she also smiled every time. Big sister, I watched it once, and she was also smiling.

I said, they all have good personalities.

He said, "You can remember the rules I said tonight." You also want two children, for the future of life, when there is a difficulty and need help, not alone, but someone to talk to, and think of a way together. But like you, we can't get along. You want me to be happy with your family when I come back safely, smoothly, and smoothly. You have to remember me. You can't meet this request, and I can't meet anything. I'm just a phone call, and you'll be able to quarrel with me for a long time.

I said, anyway, if you are in front of me and have fun chatting with others, I will not be happy. Last time, Sister He was too, and asked for a long time.

He said that people always have to find a topic to talk about. You don't come and go, you don't come and go, I ask you, you were hospitalized in January, who came to see you

I said, I didn't say anything. It's all said when it's good. So I told Arjune. She's coming.

He said, what about your colleague

I said, Mr. Xu, they are here. I didn't say anything else. You okay..

He said, "When you are angry with me, are you still worried about me?"

I said, "I'm worried."

He said, sooner or later, I'll be by you.

I said, "No." The reason why I'm angry is that I move a thousand pounds in four or two. Said coldly. Just like last time, I quarreled with my brother on Chinese New Year's Eve, and he was a little dissatisfied that I was called a little princess by you. I just said that he was not as good as you.

He said, "There's something wrong with your way of education." One is comparison. I was compared to my dad. It's your mother who spoils her son very much. It is impossible for our family to wash our feet.

I said, and later my brother said that he was a little jealous of the little prince, so I felt very sorry for him and hugged him. When he got the certificate, he said that his sisters had been deceived and there was no sister.

He said that this is the younger brother, the emotion accumulated for decades. He's three.

I said, three of them are all gone.

One more thing, he said, is this house. Let me tell you again, this house is ours now.

I said, uh...

He said, don't be unreckless, the root of the bad relationship between the two of you is in this house. In fact, when your parents came to Ningbo, they said that this house was ours. If you feel indebted, you should pay more attention to your words.

I said, can you pay back the money?

He said, Ningbo's current housing prices, can we afford to buy them?

I said, Maruko, I remember that you weren't like this before, on August 11th, in Moon Lake Park, you said you didn't want it.

He said, yes, then we are married now, do we have money now? Can I buy a house in Ningbo in the next year or two?

I said, P2P returns my words, it's possible. If you don't pay it back, then it's no fun.

He said, I'm the same as you, I don't want this house, this is my sister's hard work in Ningbo over the years, but she feels sorry for me and feels that she is going to get married soon, you don't have a house, and other girls won't marry you. To put it bluntly, your parents agreed so readily, isn't it because of the house, will they agree?

I said, I don't need their consent. Didn't we get a certificate?

He said, you can ask your second sister if Maruko doesn't have a house, will your parents agree to us being together

I said, the second brother-in-law and the eldest brother-in-law don't have it, so they are still married.

Times are different, he said. The eldest brother-in-law, your father knows, the second brother-in-law is near, you are alone in Ningbo, there is no house, your father will not rest assured. They came last year, and I told your parents at that time that although the house is now my sister's, my sister is married, so we don't need it, we will use it for the time being, and then change it to a bigger one when we have the conditions. It's just that your parents didn't tell you. I also told my parents that I am not capable now, so I will accept their advice first, and then I will change houses when I have the ability later.

I said, can you just live without transferring?

He said, then I can't settle in Ningbo.

I said, or sign a document, even if the transfer is her house.

He said that the law does not allow it. You said you rented this place before, and sent you a contract in the group. Did you transfer money later?

I said, turn around, and he retreated. 5 months to the date of the original license.

He said, "You're playing tricks on your family." You tell people that you rent here to see the house.

I said, I'm cleaning.

He said that the family treats you as their daughter-in-law, but you set traps for the family everywhere.

I said, this is justified, and the time is clear.

He said, where did you come from so much self-righteous truth, my sister sent you this message, you didn't see it. I've told you so much tonight, I hope you can remember, and I'll emphasize a little bit more about the recording, and you'll record it later, you're welcome.

I said, I just want to remember wonderful things, I can't remember, I can only rely on it. Otherwise, 1.51 million words can be written.

He said, you can write it. It's a running account anyway. If I see your recording in the future, I'll deal with it for you.

I said, can't you put it in your bag?

He said, either get up in the morning on a cloudy day and you handle it yourself, or I will handle it.

I said, reluctantly

He said, "I'm telling you these two things tonight."

I said, it's useless for me to record it, unless I can't remember a lot of the dialogue. This memory is very small, only 8G.

He said, "I'll tell you anyway." I often walk on the shore, how can I not get my shoes wet. You're going to record it, don't let me see it.

I said, "Okay." Got it. It's a little past a bit, let's sleep.

So we went to sleep.

Good night, all over the world