Chapter 312: Preliminary Determination
20200504 Tentative on Monday
I got up in the morning and steamed steamed buns, and started to clean the kitchen of my second sister, and I didn't care about eating.
At 8 o'clock, the little prince called me to tell me the story of Lin Xiangru and the story of Yan Zi Chu, saying that there was something wrong yesterday, and this time it was told according to the direction of the book, and after talking for more than half an hour, his mouth was dry and he wanted to rest.
Sister downstairs plucking chicken feathers, yesterday to bathe the baby is a practice estimate.
I went upstairs to make steamed buns, and the little prince called and asked what style I liked
I said, I don't like the high cold wind, I don't like the filter, I want to be real, I can't hold the Chinese style, I like the forest, it's elegant, I have a file before, I have it in the computer, but I don't have it on the phone. Which kind of Maruko prefers.
He added Lema, I heard Lema, I think it's expensive, we entered Lema's small group, I skipped congratulations, only asked the price, the little prince said the price doesn't matter, she sent a lot of pictures, I said that the style can be chosen anyway, the price package content is the most critical. The little prince still said that the most important thing is to choose the style. That person said that her husband was very spoiled or something.
I said, as long as the style is matched, for example, the student makeup should not be thick, but the appearance of the campus, like the love of the hawthorn tree. Hey, my steamed bun is really a bit dead. Actually, I think it's good for us to go back to He County
He said, who said that the county is not expensive, there is only one like
I said, not by the sea. Dull, don't.
After eating a few steamed buns one after another, he was still debating after lunch. In short, I said the 4000 limit, more than don't. But recently, it seems that the prices of several brands have increased. I also asked Zherong's. Where is he willing.
He went on a lunch break, and I saw that Meituan also had less than 4,000. A 2688, a 3688 also gives a wedding dress, in fact, I don't need to send a wedding dress package.
He woke up at 2 o'clock and called me, and I said that you can place an order early, so as not to increase the price, and you can return it anyway
He said, if you place an order, you try it.
I said, 2688 is fine
He said, what are you looking for, have you checked, have you done a field trip, this thing is only once in a lifetime,
I said, you don't want to listen to what people say once in a lifetime. In this way, it will be a bottomless pit in the future, and the baby will give people a pit according to the pregnant woman's photos, and it will be enough to set an ironclad one. It's just a beginning, be sure to have your own budget,
He said, you always have to ask people to place an order, whether there is any additional cost or something
I said, this package is enough, his car is also included, and he has already said that there will be no additional cost. I can take a screenshot to prove it. These emerging brands are not bad, but they are big brands, because they have been in business for many years, there will be no emerging stars, and I also like the name, Eden.
He said, I will occasionally ask my cousin-in-law when the time comes, he is doing a wedding
I said, it's better not to think about other people's majors, and I can help you for free
He said, you can think about it, I can't think of it. Just ask Lema like that, who got it for you, she doesn't want to pay attention to you anymore, you know, because of work, he can't help it. You, you still have to spend the money you should spend
I said, but I can't give it to others
He said, I said not to talk about the price, but to introduce the style. When people sell things, they must sell the most expensive things to others, and the money is in my pocket, and it is my business whether to buy it or not. Take a look at this information first.
I said, it's really okay to go to the countryside, and Zherong can also do it, and it's also within 4000.
He said, how to choose the film?
I said, "Choose online."
He said, how to arrange the back and forth
I said, go and shoot once, and you don't have to go for the rest
He said, do you know the level of people
I said, the little prince is so good-looking, anyone can look good
He said, don't mess with all that bells and whistles.
I went to wash my hair and let him refute it. After washing and drying his hair, I found him on the phone, and half an hour later he called me, and I said, who to call, and I called for half an hour.
He said he had gone to ask about the wedding photos.
My sister said, men are really hard, and you have to be asked what the hell are you doing after half an hour, because you don't usually fight for so long. I must have seen who told you about this
I said, I know, which one.
He said, this eye-rolling is really, is it still going to stab me with a villain
I said, which one
He said, I have a brother-in-law who shoots in Nanjing, and we went to Nanjing to shoot
I said, okay, the cost
He said, "It won't fool us." Weddings are also done by him
I said, the cost? Pardon me for being vulgar
He said, "Don't worry."
I said, okay, it's expensive.
He said, no, after all, it's his own relative.
I said, okay. Then go to Nanjing to shoot
Mom called, and I used my sister's phone to go back and continue to discuss the wedding photos.
He said, now I will delete Lema's WeChat
I said, it's unlikely that we would go to Nanjing in June
He said, just go directly when I come back from Fujian, because I don't have many holidays, and we will go to Nanjing to take pictures on vacation.
I said, what are you doing in Fujian, it's not that you don't need it, why do you come again
He said, I'm asking you something, I'm going to ask you one last time, because I'm going to start working on this matter, and there's still half a year left. Uncle and aunt, they can't come to the wedding in Anhui.
I said, don't come. It's good to participate in Ningbo
He said, if you get a small one, the budget is almost 10,000 more.
I said, it's a banquet. It also costs money to eat in Hexian
He said that the trip to the house was over. In addition to the banquet, you must always stay in a hotel.
I said, if you go to the county, you will have to stay for at least three nights, and the travel fee will be twice as much, isn't it the same?
He said that the budget for banquets in Hexian County will be much cheaper than that of hotels
I said, I ask you, how much is your table
He said, this, I don't know, will definitely be much cheaper than that hotel, besides, Ningbo also has to stay, two nights.
I said, as long as half a day, let's go.
He said, where did you drive people away like this? For example, Ningbo is more than 400 at night
I said, where is it so expensive, give me 10,000 yuan, and I can do it
He said that it would cost 10,000 yuan more
I said, give me 10,000, including Mr. Xu, and I can handle the five of them
He said that the office invited them to dinner, and they couldn't be with their families, so what would it look like? You still have to do it in Ningbo, do I still have to find a car to pick it up?
I said, just have a wedding downstairs
He said, don't make a fuss, don't think so naïve, okay
I said, "Well, my parents must not have come to my wedding."
He said, so I said to go to Fujian and invite them. We don't have a lot of money, we're going to save a little. Ningbo runs a small one, we have to spend more than 10,000 yuan, at least
(Is ten thousand a lot??) I said, "Just wait for me to become rich." You've had a dry mouth today.
He said, the fourth thing was done in Ningbo, your girlfriends and friends finished eating in Ningbo, and got married in He County, are you alone, who will accompany you, don't you feel lonely, isn't this the truth? When my sister got married that day, I got married, and those friends came to Ningbo from Hexian County
I kept my head down
He said, "Let's discuss this matter." You keep your head down, you raise your head.
I'll look at him
He said, I have 60,000 yuan on me now, 70,000 yuan at the end of the year, and the 100,000 yuan is estimated to be less, and the family has no money, and my parents bear a little bit over there, but they can't bear it all, so we have to take out a little bit too. Ningbo here to spend more than 10,000 more, how can we live after we get married, (so serious...) Speaking of which, if the bride price is 100,000 yuan, I don't have a dime. So we have to save some, and I want to go and see my uncles and aunts and try to convince them to come, so that everyone will be happy, and it is the best. If we can't be convinced, the two of us will go to Fujian before the wedding.
I said, Maruko, will the wedding be good-looking
He said, about the wedding, we can talk to the brother-in-law about what we think, he tries to get it, but there is one point, we are at home, we don't go to the hotel, there is not such a big venue, you know yes
I said, got it
He said, if you want a bigger stage, then let's go to a hotel near the hotel, we have to make a decision very quickly, you also know that the epidemic in the first half of this year, the marriage is postponed to the second half of the year, and you have to make an appointment in advance. If you don't go to the hotel, the chef who cooks at home has to tell him in advance that this matter must be decided as soon as possible, and you can say what you think.
I didn't speak,
He said, what do you think, you say, I'll listen, don't hold your mouth, what do you think, you say it
I said, I just want to get a small one in Ningbo, it's really not complicated, I just call a few girlfriends plus my family
He said, here in Ningbo, I get married, and my two best men will not come, and I have no friends, you know
I said, do you know what a family wedding is, only the family attends
He said, now the two of us have not obtained the certificate, to be honest, the wedding is really not good-looking
I said, of course, after getting the certificate
He said, "I'm going to have to keep the two of us for a wedding photo shoot this year
I said, it's on New Year's Day
He began to count the holidays, and concluded that I plan to go home for the wedding this year. (Roughly, no leave on New Year's Day)
I said, it's almost out of power, hurry back upstairs to recharge
When you get upstairs, he says, "What do you look down?"
I said, tell a few of my girlfriends to use it, don't use it for weddings, it's too far
He said, "You sent it?"
I said, what's the matter?
He said, "Enough trouble?"
I said, "No." Ha??
He said, what do you mean, don't use it, right, you use this attitude to resist what I said, right?
I said, "No."
I said, I used to have seven or eight, but now I only need two or three. The excess is not used
He said, you think about the problem, think it clearly before you do it
I said, then I'll withdraw the withdrawal
There are some things that you don't like, he said. Don't want to be at home, go to the hotel, you say no
I said, "Aren't I worried about money?"
He said, "You said you don't want to get married."
I said, "Aren't I worried about money?"
He said, then you now, okay, then we will do nothing like the second sister
I said, whoever says no, sooner or later, will do it,
He said, don't you feel sorry for money
I said, "So I'll do it when I have the ability."
Is this a money-saving thing, he said?
I said, when you have the financial ability, it would be good to do one that you like
He said, you said this today, if you dare to say this to me again, as long as you dare, I will call my mother immediately, and all things will be canceled, I don't have the ability now, as long as you dare to tell me again,
I said, you're so fierce
He said, do you think what you said is appropriate?
I said, I don't know
He said, I don't know.
He said, let's talk about something, I'm the most annoying, the most unbearable thing
I said, you're still annoyed, so listen to you
He said, "You tell them not to come, okay, I wish they wouldn't come, and save money."
I said, whatever, listen to you
He said, "Don't listen to me every time." Is there anything we can sit down and discuss well, marriage is not my business alone, if there is anything, you can say it, if it is feasible, we will do it, if it is not feasible, we will find a way, I can take a pen to make a record.
I said, the master of ceremonies, I want to be a long handsome, not a stranger, but to invite a respectable person,
He said, how can he be highly respected,
I said, he's the principal.
He said that his sister invited him because they were all friends. What kind of friendship do I have with him, I asked my brother-in-law to come over, and if you think it's unfair to you, I'll pay for a master of ceremonies
I said, I hate spending money the most, you always spend money.
He said, just tell you, you invite him to come over as a friend, and if he doesn't come, forget it. Besides, when they got married, did you give money to the share?
I said, "No."
He said, "Then do you think we're going to come over when we're married?" Eating is about giving money
I said, I didn't give it, I didn't give it
He said, "You're a bridesmaid, sister, you're not just going to the banquet as a friend." You've been to so many weddings, I haven't been to it, you know a lot more things than I do, why don't you know anything about these things,
I didn't speak
He said, as soon as you say it, you are unhappy in your heart, and you will cry immediately, and I feel sorry for you like this. Also, you said that Ningbo invited colleagues, girlfriends and families to dinner, but colleagues definitely can't be with their families
I said, why not. Last time, my sister invited a colleague, and we also went
He said, "That's because we're peers, not elders."
I said, "That's two separate places."
He said, do you want to book two boxes and run around?
I said, yes
He said, you are the main character, running around like something
I said, aren't people at the same table?
He said it was the same field
I said, "That's the first day and the second day."
He said, "That's fine."
I said, "That's it."
It doesn't matter, he said. Sister, they asked us to talk a lot at that time
I said, I don't need to explain, it's annoying, it's annoying, it's annoying
He said, if you don't listen to too much, I won't explain the reason to you, and you have a pimple in your heart, and tears are about to fall.
I said, my girlfriend is going to Ningbo anyway, and the rest will go to Anhui. A bridesmaid
He said that the bridesmaids are all double, you attend so many weddings, whose bridesmaids are single
I said, I didn't count. Then Huixia Ronghua comes, and others don't use it
He said, I don't want you to have conflicts and be unhappy
I said, what's so unhappy about this, it's upset when you come
And he said, I have lost thy meaning. You feel that your marriage is not as good as others, and you are not satisfied with this wedding plan,
I said, I'll see for myself
He said, at the end of the day, you think you're inferior to Bill, or rather, in your heart, think I'm inferior to others
I said, "No."
He said, don't say no, your expression is written
I said, "No, the little prince is fine."
He said, you don't have to say no, no, I listened to it for a long time, and I heard it. To be honest, I don't want to talk to you about this anymore now, I have a headache, you don't have any ideas of your own, and some of the ideas that come to mind don't work
I said, then in Ningbo, I will invite a few of them to dinner, and a few people will be invited to the wedding. Just be virtuous and wise, they will go to Anhui, you can.
He said, yes. Originally, your colleagues were also invited. What about others?
I said, no
He said, "What about my little brother?"
I said, "No, either." Sister, they don't use. If the younger brother wants to come, he can come.
He said, don't you call Aihua can they?
I said, my friend, I know what is light.
He said, I hope you don't have a bad relationship with them
I said, okay, the bride listens to me the most. Don't worry, we are all iron girlfriends, not plastic girlfriends, our own sisters, the reason why Pinxian and Pinhui came to Anhui is that I know that the two of them are not that kind of people, and they don't care about these at all, and Pinhui is just married to have a drink
He said, I am thinking about you and you, and they all grew up together.
I said, I definitely want a brother for the master of ceremonies, Wu Qifeng.
And he said, Is he doable?
I said, I wrote the manuscript to him, I went to ask him, and he could
He said, "Whatever you want."
I said, what is the name of your brother-in-law's shop?
He said, I don't know
I said, he always has a circle of friends.
He said, I just asked my sister. My sister said that Ningbo is very pitiful, and the two of us coincide, and I haven't had time to ask my brother-in-law's WeChat
I said, oh~~ You are saying bad things about me behind your back
He said, "No." They are stuck in traffic on the road, and the heart of the villain takes the belly of the gentleman. No wonder the ancients said that only villains and women are difficult to raise. In the field of photography, you don't know anything, I don't believe that you usually have nothing to do with wedding photography, of course, you have to go to see it when you are ready to get married, and you have to understand the industry information.
I said, oh~
He said, when I go to Fujian, I always feel that I am going to go, and my father is not going, I am going to go
I said, don't. It's okay to come once officially, and it's useless to come if you don't come officially
He said, then let me ask you, the eldest sister is married, and the eldest brother-in-law has been to the house several times before getting married
I said, once, after getting married, I went to the house once, and gave my mother the pig's feet money, which was the gift money, and I didn't bring anything else. Called pig's feet money, because that day my mother was going to invite my uncles to eat pig's feet
He said, then the problem came again, the eldest brother-in-law gave 100,000 yuan was said by the aunt, or the eldest brother-in-law gave it himself
I said, maybe my sister taught him. I refunded 20,000 yuan to buy jewelry for my sister, so this is inevitable. Now I'll pay for this money myself, I don't need you to pay it, I was originally a rich woman.
He said, what yours and mine, after we get married, what's yours is mine, and mine is yours, all in one family. Anyway, I just went once, right?
I said, you can go early, it's official.
He said, "Are you going to make a pavilion wine?" or a dream wine
I said, the big sister is back to the door, I don't know if my mother wants to do the front. The youngest daughter is different, huh?
He said, that is, Auntie wants to make a pavilion wine?
I said, she said you are in the sixth year of junior high school and she is in the third year of junior high school
He said, in the third year of junior high school, I went to Fujian in the second year of junior high school to do things with the sixth year of the county junior high school, and I was too busy at this time, and I had to ask about the messy things such as the wedding car at home
I said, two cars at most
He said, I'll get you a bike
I said, yes.
He said, my previous plan was to hold a wedding in He County on the sixth day of the new year, and I will go back to Fujian with you to hold a homecoming wine on the eighth day of the new year
I said, "Then I'll tell my mom."
He said, "Don't worry."
I said, my eloquence is not a big deal
He said, is it good to put something in your stomach, first ask what is the importance and customs of leaving the pavilion and returning to the door
I said, "Well, you can do as you please."
He said, "I'm going to consider it from all sides,
I said, why do you want to be so complicated, let's not look at the days
He said, let these things go first, if you are on the sixth day of junior high school, you have to come a day in advance, no, you have to come over on the fourth day of junior high school, otherwise you will be very tired the next day.
I said, Huixia and they will come with me, and Pinxian and they will come later
He said, yes
I said, after the wine, we can go back with them, that's reliable, right?
He said, Fujian should go to Nanjing South first, and I will look at the route
I said, the little prince is so cute. No response
He said that to Nanjing, the earliest bus arrived at 8:40 p.m., arrived at 2:20 p.m., took a break, and took a bus from Nanjing South Railway Station to Hexian for more than two hours, and arrived at Hexian at more than 4 o'clock
I said, where to sleep
He said that near the hotel. Sure I'll arrange it in advance
I said, Ding Qingmu, I have more places I have been.
He said, "You four come first." On the sixth day of the new year, we set off on the eighth day of the new year
I said, no, no, I'm afraid you're working too hard, if people want to ask you to drink or something, that's not good, and you may stay up late, you must go out early, and it's very hard to go back to Fujian
He said that any day he went back to Ningbo, he would only have 30 days off after getting married.
I said, how can there be so many, not 20
He said that 10 days of marriage leave. He began to count the number of holidays. Then he said, Come back on February 22nd
I said, I will have a holiday on the 24th, from the second day of the lunar calendar to February 5th
He said that if the pavilion wine is held, February 14 will be the third day of the new year. Now there are two plans, the first plan is to return to the door. The second is homecoming wine. Oh, my brother-in-law added me on WeChat.
I said, huh.?? At first, it wasn't with him
He said that at first, he asked his sister, and she also said that her brother-in-law and I thought about it.
I said, oh.
He went back to his brother-in-law. I consulted the manager of the city's love, and the original package price was 4000 for me, and she said yes.
I called Meiying and talked about taking wedding photos, and I suggested going out of town, but he refused. My sister said that he was out of town, and he said yes. Meiying said that men don't think about the wedding is good-looking, you have to think it out for yourself, it's a lifetime. persuaded me a lot,
The little prince is back.
I said, if you give it to someone now, and don't do it for him in the future, it will be very embarrassing.
He said, "Why don't you get it for him?"
I said, okay. (There's no room for manoeuvre)
He said that he specialized in weddings, and he called me, and I will hang up first.
I sent a message to Ai Joan and asked her if she would regret her humble wedding and struggle with it for the rest of her life.
Ai Qiong said, the most important thing to do a wedding is an economic foundation, like Kaiyue's wedding, I haven't participated, but it can be seen that it is very grand, very romantic you, not how we want to do it, some people will slap the swollen face and fill the fat, causing economic reasons for the two families, if they hurt each other, then I think it is very much more than worth the loss, the wedding is actually only for others to see, and the private interaction and romance of two people can have their own
Very pertinent advice, and I am grateful to the sisters.
The little prince came back and said that he would take care of everything, and that we just had to bring a pair of shoes, and you wore high heels
I said, I don't have high heels
He said, "Let's go buy a pair then."
I said, I don't like to wear high heels, I will be taller than you in high heels.
He said, nonsense, there is another good news, my brother-in-law got me a wedding planner
I said, okay
He said that for the outdoor wedding, he asked us if we were going to the hotel or the flowing water seat, and I said the flowing water seat. He said there was no venue
I said, the grove is also good
He said that he suggested that there should be no park. There is only one on the street, which is not very good, I said that there is a platform at the door, and he said that he can build a platform in front of the house, and the tools will be prepared.
I said, the cost? 、
He said, "Can you listen to me?"
I said, I don't want to listen to too much nonsense
He said that we don't have to worry about all of these things, including the videographer
I said, I thought you were going to say a number.
He said that now there is only one last question, whether we should go to Fujian
I said, no. Ningbo is also not used.
He said that there is one last question, whether my uncle and aunt will come to Anhui because we are going to take family photos. I want to go to Fujian and try to persuade my uncles and aunts to come and get my daughter married, although you don't have to say that you don't have to send your daughter to someone's house
I'm messaging my dad about family photos
And he said, What are you doing?
I said, persuade Dad to take it.
He laughed and said, "I'll persuade them when the time comes."
I said, no, I'll persuade myself
He looked very happy and said, "Then I'll leave it to you."
I said, well, I'll do it well, congratulations
He said, it's a matter of the two of us, sister, are they coming?
I said, no, leave my sister and them at home.
And he said, What are these words?
I said that they came back for the New Year this year, and our family was too crowded
He said, "Our family also has a large population, so let's bring it here."
I said, I'm not like you. Your sister is equal to your second day, my sister I can put aside as much as I want, it has never been my day
He said, I tell you, you will be more important to me in the future
I said, no, no, no
He said, don't think wrong, you're only going to get more and more important. I didn't know you still ate your sister's vinegar
I said, no, what am I doing with her vinegar
He said, "Oh, look at this." My brother-in-law sent a photo, what series do you like
I watched it and said, it's okay, just take a beautiful picture of me
He said, it's a little fresher, or a simple style
I said, fourth, fifth. Hey, isn't it smoother for us to make a pavilion wine?
He said, "Then we'll make a pavilion wine, and come with them when we're done."
I said, if you can't get the fare, I'll cover it.
He said, we're going to make a couple of series
I said, wedding photos, civilian clothes, military uniforms. And there's more. If you don't take maternity photos, you won't need it in the future. That's a good idea, go and install it.
He said, "Yes." Think about what else you have to do, you go out there, I came to Fujian in the second year of junior high school, and I don't know if I have a car
I said, yes, for so many years
He said, "I didn't fly over."
I said, stay at home for 2 days, do you want to change to the fourth year of junior high school?
He said that no one is in the fourth year of junior high school
I said, it's okay for us Christians
He said that the third day of junior high school happened to be Valentine's Day
I said, good stuff for Valentine's Day. So be it, let's go early, they come with their butts, so it's not embarrassing, yes, yes, the bride and groom should take the lead, it makes so much sense.
He took a pen and wrote.
I said, you have to thank Arjun.
He asked, otherwise he didn't know how to thank him, I took a screenshot of it to him, and asked him to read it quickly, he actually saved it before withdrawing it, and watched it for a long time.
He said, when did you ask
I said, "At first."
He said, I'll listen to my brother-in-law's voice.
I went outside to complain about the twists and turns in the inside, and Anhui was settled, so don't come to Ningbo.
The little prince came again, and he said, now that everything is ordered, you have to see the bridesmaid dress for yourself
I kicked my second brother-in-law off the sofa, the air conditioning was too cold.
I said, if you have a sofa, you will fight, brother-in-law, I want to lie here. I don't need a bridesmaid dress, I have one to wear
He said, "How can you do it?"
I said, are all the things bought on Taobao worn, are the rented ones worn, what's wrong
He said, "Oh, go to your wedding, be your bridesmaid, and wear the clothes you're wearing."
I said, what's the matter?
He said, is it the right size
I said, oh, you're right, they're two very small, and that's summer, we're winter, no, no. I don't need it in winter, and I don't need to wear a Chinese style.
The little prince went to take the roll call, I played the song and listened to it, and then I went to the shower.
When I came back, my brother-in-law and brother-in-law sent something to my uncle, but I didn't send anything. I didn't ask either.
Speaking of a lot of tomatoes, which can be eaten for more than half a month, I was instructed to recharge quickly, and then talked about the stage of the US presidential election, saying that Biden has a high approval rating
I said, I don't like it, I always feel that he has something to do with Ben
He said, "Don't be foolish." Now they're waiting for a special drug
I said, there are so many people all over the world, the year of the monkey.
I sat slumped, he thought I was digging my nose with my hand on my nose, scoundrel me, I couldn't defend it, let him go, he also said how could he meet such a stupid girl, whose family is this, happy humming a little song.
I couldn't sleep all night. Thinking that family photos can also be taken in Fujian. Both parents don't have to be in the same frame, right?