Chapter 84: Teaching
These words made Huang Xiaosi look stunned.
He had never thought about it.
Everyone said that Laizi was a bad person, and he also saw that Laizi had done many bad things, and subconsciously thought that he was a bad person.
If you think about it, Laizi hasn't done anything bad to herself.
Even if I ignore him every time, I will still greet myself when we meet.
I was very angry when I was hit by a stone, and I just left in a huff when I saw myself.
"Mother," Huang Xiaosi tightened his throat and asked confusedly, "Lai Zi is really a good person?" ”
"To others, he's a bad person," Jiang Nuan said softly, "but he doesn't have any ill will towards us, so he's not a bad person." ”
After a pause, Jiang Nuan spoke, "Whether it is a good person or a bad person, it is a relative definition, perhaps, a good person for you is a bad person for others."
For example, the blind mother-in-law in the village is very good to everyone in the village, but she often does not give her granddaughter food, do you say, is she good or bad? ”
Jiang Nuan's words made everyone lower their heads.
This simplest example made them have to admit that even though Laizi had a bad reputation and bad conduct, they were not victimized by it.
This realization is a little unacceptable to everyone.
"Mother," Huang Xiaosan was the first to speak, "Do we have to admit that Lai Zi is a good person?" ”
"Of course not," Jiang Nuan shook his head, "Laizi did such a thing as theft, which shows that his character is flawed, but because of this, you can't beat people to death with a stick and deny everything he has." I obviously accepted his kindness, but I was disdainful, disdainful, and even disgusted in my heart.
Although Xiao Wu did not do it all right, he was commendable for knowing how to be grateful. ”
"Mother," Huang Xiaosi was very entangled, "What should I do to Brother Lai Zi in the future?" ”
Hearing Huang Xiaosi's changed title, Jiang Nuan raised his eyebrows.
This little guy is very receptive.
Clearing her throat, she spoke, "Don't be biased, subconsciously assume him as an enemy. Treat him as an ordinary person, and feel what kind of person he is in getting along with each other on weekdays. ”
"Mother," Huang Xiaosi lowered his head and said in a low voice, "Brother Lai Zi is actually very good to me." ”
"It's good for me," Boss Huang followed, "He used to take me with him when he went up the mountain, but later, he slowly became estranged. ”
"Take good care of me," Huang Xiaosan looked annoyed, "The news of the restaurant's recruitment was revealed by him." ”
Even now that he has returned, Huang Xiaosan is still very grateful.
In the more than two years since he left home, he has seen and learned a lot.
Thinking of this, he regretted it extremely in his heart.
Although he didn't look down on Lai Zi like Xiao Si, he was also defensive because of his character problems, and he kept avoiding people, for fear that he would be implicated.
"Perhaps," Jiang Nuan said softly, "you should apologize to him." ”
Looking at his son and nephew who lowered their heads and didn't speak, Jiang Nuan sighed lightly and walked out of the hall.
The division between good guys and bad guys has been a difficult problem since ancient times.
How can things in the world be black and white, and how can a person be good or bad until the coffin is closed.
This little episode did not affect Father Huang, even though Jiang Nuan persuaded him many times, he still stubbornly built a bunk in the cowshed.
Mrs. Jiang on the side was also a little nervous and wanted to sleep in the cowshed together.
"Mother, let's not make trouble, shall we? What's so good about the cowshed," Jiang Nuan looked helpless, "It's cold and hard, your old body can't withstand the cold." ”