"Mom, what are you guys in, why can't my brother and I understand?"

Baozi didn't know why, after hearing the conversation between his mother and his aunt, he was a little uneasy, he always felt that what his mother and aunt had just said seemed to be wrong, but he didn't know why something was wrong.

He didn't like to hear what his mother had just said, and he decided to wait until the next time he went back, and talked to his father about his mother and aunt, and he was a little uneasy.

"Mom and aunt are nothing, you are still, it doesn't matter if you don't understand some things, you will understand when you grow up."

Lin Yahan touched the head of the bun and said, she doesn't want the child to be exposed to too many dark things, but there are some things, the more the child needs to know, like these words today, she didn't think about hiding anything, after all, there are some things, there is no need to be troublesome, I feel that the child does not need to know, so I will not talk to the child.

She is different from her children's education from others, she educates her children that as long as the children want to know and can know, she will be with the children, even if the children, most things, she will also be with the children, even if the children don't understand now.

"Okay mom."

Baozi didn't continue to ask, he could see that his mother didn't seem to want to do it now, and besides, as long as his mother and his aunt didn't talk about it just now, he wouldn't ask, but he would ask his father, and he wanted to know what his mother meant by that.

I just don't know, Dad will explain it clearly to them, Dad and Mom are different, Dad doesn't talk to them about many things, even if they ask, Dad doesn't want to, they can't ask, so he likes to ask Mom when he has something.

"Alright, let's eat."

Lin Yahan touched her son's head again and said with a smile, as for what she said to Chen Hua just now, there is no need for so much, anyway, it should have been, she believes that if Chen Hua is smart, she will know what to do.

"Hmm."

Baozi nodded and obediently went to eat.

"Brother and sister, is it really good for you to let your child hear these words?"

Chen Hua looked at Lin Yahan uneasily and apologetically and asked, when she spoke just now, she seemed to have forgotten about the child, and she knew that she would not have said those words in front of the child.

"The child is still there, but there are some things, if they should be known, they should also be let know, after all, the child will grow up, even now, they don't understand those things, it doesn't matter, as long as they can remember, when they really encounter something, they will know what to do."

Lin Yahan will never fool the children because of their age, for her, the child is also an independent individual, she will never help the child make up her mind because the child was born to her, she will not do that, she feels that she must cultivate the child's independent ability, no matter what, the child always has to grow up, if the child has to listen to her all the time, then when the child grows up, will she always listen to her?

When she is still there, she can help the child get ideas, and when she is gone, what to do with the child, so it is very important to cultivate the child's ability to be independent.

The most important thing is to cultivate children's thinking ability, children need to think no matter when, if they encounter things to know that they are flustered, they don't know how to think, when the time comes, what to do, she can't follow them all her life, it is precisely because of these things that she hopes that children can have the ability to think from the beginning.