Li Ruolan shook her head gently

"I haven't thought about that for the time being, the money in the family is earned by my husband, although I also have a woman, this is to be self-reliant.

But for the time being, I still need to rely on this man to live, not to mention, his health is really poor, and he needs these very much. ”

Yes, even if a person's body is transformed, even if a person encounters something that used to be terrible and frustrating to make him sad.

But in short, a person's nature will not change, that is, a kind person will almost always be kind.

But it's probably because of this. Desperate kindness has become a bit of sharp kindness.

I have to say that Li Ruolan is this kind of person, who could have given her life to save her family.

Then if there is a person who is only a little bit nicer to him, then he is naturally willing to give everything for that person.

Especially Li Ruolan, I feel that although this man said that in the eyes of everyone's design, Li Ruolan is not good enough for her.

But Li Ruolan felt that this man was much better than her parents, brothers, and those family members.

It's the original body that has done a lot of things wrong, and it seems to show that he only cares about this man's money.

This man can be like this, Li Ruolan feels that he is already a big and absolutely extinct good man in the world.

"Oh well! Then I won't say anything else, but then you are really kind!

It is a great blessing for a husband to have such a kind wife as you.

I hope your husband will also understand how much your kindness will benefit him.

I also hope that your husband can understand your heart and be able to treasure your heart well. ”

Nana said this, this expression was very complicated, when she first got married, she was also heartfelt for her mother-in-law's family.

Because his original family was unhappy, he married into that family.

Although he said that he didn't love that man at the time, he even said that he was a little unwilling, the various conditions of that man's family.

But she still got married, and she was devoted to everyone in that family.

Because Nana longs for family-like warmth, Nana also believes that people's hearts can change people's hearts.

Especially if the family is all parents or siblings of her husband.

Especially that man is his husband, the closest person to him.

But then I realized that I was doing it wrong.

It should even be said that it is not wrong to do so, but that not everyone deserves to accept their kindness.

Some people are very good to him, and you treat him with your heart and lungs, and even say that you can be anxious about what he is anxious about and think about what he thinks.

It doesn't matter if you even say that you take the initiative to suffer when you encounter something, everything is for their sake, so that they can live a happy life.

But what, if you really use the wrong object, no matter how kind and good you are, what's the use?

Your warm heart can't warm those who have been calculating you wholeheartedly.

Take your kindness to them as a matter of course, and treat your regression for their sake as your stupidity and cowardice.

And then further bully you, calculate you, whether it's with your back to you, or in front of you, you can slander you and insult you.

Even when you are finally sad, they can hurt you and imprison you in various ways.

His good friend Feixue once said that even if this woman is kind, she has to use the right person.

Sometimes the kindness of this woman, is he a knife, or is this woman taking the initiative to hand this knife into the hands of those who want to hurt you.

Then those people take this good knife in your heart and hurt you wantonly.

But what about myself, still, I can't help but be kind or can't help it, I can't turn myself into a shrew who only benefits herself.

Although I actually envy those shrews, cry when I should cry, laugh when I should laugh, when I should fight back, I can not care about face, and I can make everyone turn their backs.

For example, there was once a daughter-in-law who tore all the mother-in-law's clothes, and even broke the mother-in-law.

Everyone condemned the daughter-in-law, and the son only knew that the daughter-in-law used to be as kind as himself.

I can even envy that daughter-in-law for having such courage, but I just can't do it because I'm too useless.

I really can't scold my mother-in-law, and even say that I hurt her all over her body.

Until now, I have regarded that person as an adult, and my counterattack against that person is just to ignore that person and use an indifferent appearance.

passively told the complaints he had against them in his heart.

But that's it, after being known by his father, he scolded himself fiercely, he shouldn't be like this.

said that he shouldn't hold a grudge, just because his class embarrassed him, he retorted slightly, and was abused and beaten by his father in front of many people.

The scene at that time is still vivid in my mind.

I hope that Li Ruolan's kindness, Li Ruolan's kindness will not become the knife she hands to others.

Oh my God, why? Why are you so harsh on good people?

This kind person only needs to do a little bit wrong, or a little bit of counterattack.

It seems that he has become the kind of person whose sins are unforgivable.

But those who are really guilty of heinous crimes have even done something with a little kindness.

Can people become Buddhas on the ground?

I don't understand, I really don't understand, I don't understand why this is happening.

It's just that I can meet the person who is willing to be good to him, and that person knows that he is good to him, and is willing to give for himself and sincerely?

Forget it, how can I have such an idea?

In fact, her ex-husband was also good to him later, also because he changed a lot later and became selfish.

doesn't bring Granny Li, and even treats him coldly, so he will be better to himself.

But what did you do wrong?

I was almost forced to be depressed by that family, because I was going crazy because of my mother's affairs.

Shouldn't you really fight back? The result of the counterattack is that he is now alone?

If it weren't for the fact that there weren't so many friends who were selflessly helping themselves.

I'm really going to collapse, and I really don't even want my own life, right?

"Nana, we are all the kind of women who have been hurt by our families.

But have you ever heard that saying? What is called black gives me black eyes, but I use them to find light.

In fact, there is light in this world, but there are many times when we can't reach it, especially when we are all lost.

But I think I've already touched a glimmer of light, okay, okay, let's go. ”

Li Ruolan hooked the corners of her lips and smiled so movingly.

If this person can meet that warm person and warm things, then the extremely cold part of your heart will also be slowly melted.

It will also be warmed slowly.

"That's right, Li Ruolan, I hope your husband recovers as soon as possible, and I also hope that you can live so smoothly all the time.

But I still think that girls still have their own careers, at least they can make money in their own hands.

This is the only way to keep yourself alive at any time! ”