When Xu saw Chu Junlan, his eyebrows and eyes bent with a smile, and he raised his delicate and white hand and beckoned: "Sister Lan, come and sit here with your mother." ”

Chu Junlan smiled and nodded, approached Xu's side affectionately, sat sideways on the edge of the warm kang near the window, and held Xu's arm with a smile: "Mother told me something?" ”

Xu nodded, first hesitated, and then said with a smile: "I heard that Master Cao's daughter invited you to participate in the gathering of the Tingquan Poetry Society, but you declined?" ”

Chu Junlan was not surprised that the Xu family was so well-informed, nodded with a smile, and leaned on the Xu family's shoulder a little coquettishly: "Ge Shuyu and his wife are calculating me, I am afraid that I can't help but get angry when I see her, if there is any more contradiction, it will make people see jokes, and it will not be good then." Since we hate each other, it's better not to meet. ”

"You," Xu put his arms around Chu Junlan and patted her on the shoulder, "Mother knows, are you afraid that she will make any more small moves to disgust you, yes or no?" ”

Xu's self-proclaimed voice made Chu Junlan's heart warm: "Nothing is slowly enough." ”

"Silly girl, I also came from your age, what are you thinking in your heart, I can naturally guess one or two, you have a strong temperament and refuse to be wronged, my mother knows that no one in this world likes to be wronged."

The Xu family was kind and seductive, so that Chu Junlan couldn't help but sit up straight and look at the Xu family.

Xu said softly: "It's just that it is better to settle the grievance, sometimes it is a good thing to be tough, but sometimes, it is not a loss to show weakness and accept softness." This marriage of King Gongding is done, I thought of the first month, and it is time to prepare for your relationship with the prince of Gongding, in the future, you will get married, become a princess, and even have the opportunity to be the princess of the county in the future, you have to participate in these socializations, right? ”

Chu Junlan had to nod in agreement: "Yes." ”

She could listen to her analysis obediently, and there was no mistake in cognition, which made Xu's smile a little deeper.

"So, the interaction between these ladies will become an indispensable item in the future, and you can't hide from it. Whether it is the family of the official eunuch, the family of the nobles, or even the family of the clan you want to contact in the future, you can fight with them openly and secretly, and you can also hurt their interests, but you can't hurt people's face openly. ”

Chu Junlan nodded in agreement.

"Girl, you listen to your mother's analysis, you declined the invitation of the daughter of the Cao family this time, and refused to attend the gathering of the Tingquan Poetry Society, and you also know that this time it may be Miss Ge's lead, she is very likely to want to design you, will you invite your good confidants?"

"Yes."

"If you don't go this time, is it possible that Miss Ge will secretly instigate those ladies who were originally good friends with her to chew your tongue in their house?"

"Possibly."

And those ladies also have female dependents at home, including grandmothers, mothers, and sisters-in-law. These ladies also have their own social circles, they may enjoy a flower, eat a tea, have no topic when chatting, maybe they will talk about you, people are terrible, you can't control how they will arrange you behind their backs, what they don't have may be said to be there, do you say this is more than worth the loss? ”

"Mother, my daughter understands." Chu Junlan nodded.

The reason is actually very simple, and it's not that she doesn't understand it, but since she woke up from this body, she has always had a feeling that she has earned a lifetime of reliving. In her previous life, she had performed too many characters, played too many people, and sometimes even been angry, wronged and abused, which was just a part of her daily tasks.

She is used to being cautious, and she is used to being wronged, and in this life, things will not be as bad as she was in her previous life, and she will lose her life if she makes a slight mistake, so she is used to resentment, and she gradually gets used to those direct ways, and she does not have a correct attitude to study and care about people's hearts.

She also realized at this time that she always had a sense of detachment, and most often saw everything from the perspective of an indifferent bystander, so she gradually let go of it.

Xu's words just woke her up! made her realize more clearly that she couldn't go back, she could only be Chu Junlan, and she could only live here!

His mind was only a breath, and when Chu Junlan raised his eyes to look at Xu again, his eyes were already bright.

"Mother, I understand what you mean. In the future, my daughter will not be confused anymore. ”

"Good boy, you don't need a heavy hammer to beat the drum, you are a smart child, isn't this a little bit clear?"

"That's also to ask my mother to have patience to teach me, otherwise, I still hide quietly according to my own little temperament. Only this time it has been refused. ”

"If there is such a thing in the future, you can weigh it carefully. Mother doesn't want to force you to be wronged, Mrs. Ge and that Ge Shuyu have their big dreams of spring and autumn, and they dug such a big pit in the palace for you to jump into, it's good for you to give her some color to see, lest she think we are easy to bully in the future," Xu smiled and touched Chu Junlan's head, "Although our family is lonely, it is not to the point where we have to endure being bullied, we will not provoke others, but we will not lie flat and everyone will step on it." ”

Chu Junlan simply liked Xu's temperament too much, and nodded obediently: "Mother, I know." ”

The mother and daughter talked for a long time before Chu Junlan went back to his bedroom.

Mama Guo smiled and said, "Madame really regards Miss Lan as our family's young lady now." ”

"That kid hurts." Xu Shi smiled and said, "Smart and steady, the most important thing is affection, you are good to her, she remembers, if you are good to her, you don't have to worry about her biting back like a white-eyed wolf." When she speaks, her watery eyes look at you, and her heart softens, and she wants to be kind to her. ”

"Miss Lan is indeed likable."

"Yes, I, I should have no daughter in my life, but now I have it, this is God's reward, I naturally have to cherish it and teach her well. She is very smart, but she didn't have her biological mother to teach her when she was in the Chu family, and she was tortured by the Yin Division of the back house, if she wasn't strong, she wouldn't be able to survive if she wasn't afraid at all, and now she has changed the environment, and it will take a while to adapt to it, I will give her a few words, she will adapt faster, and she will be able to live a smoother life when she goes to the palace in the future. ”

Mama Guo smiled and nodded, praising Xu's motherly heart again and again.

When Chu Junlan meditated this night, she recalled what Xu said again, and only felt that her heart had precipitated, and she thought that if there was such a thing next time, she would no longer shirk it, and she didn't want to have an opportunity in two days.

Lu Ruohan handed over the post early in the morning, and came to visit in person in the afternoon, hiding in Chu Junlan's bedroom and talking to her.

"Junlan, I heard that you rejected the invitation of the Tingquan Poetry Society?"

"Well, has this been reported to your house?" Chu Junlan blinked, "Isn't someone really sending me behind my back?" ”

Lu Ruohan nodded Chu Junlan's forehead helplessly: "You, you know that this will happen, why are you still so strong?" ”